Michelle and Shyleen are bringing the heat to an already hot summer, diving into dating, body positivity, expectations, pleasure, orgasm, uterine issues, parenting , unsolicited sweaty touches and more in this heart centered and fun episode. Shyleen is unwilling to give up the good sex in want of more and Michelle has figured out that though fantas…

After a short health break Shyleen and Michelle are back to explore friendship and dating and dissect the abandonment wound and the underlying shit that keeps us from embracing joy and living in the moment. Shyleen is increasingly disgruntled with dating apps and dick pics and Michelle discusses the physical and emotional craving for another person…

Shyleen and Michelle invite you to an Impromptu episode of Big D After Dark, recorded at an amazing downtown Air BnB on a girls night, they discuss saying no and not holding unto uneasiness and anxiety to spare another discomfort, unsolicited dick pics, what Michelle would do with a penis for a day and the Big Dick Energy of Ukrainian President Vol…

It is time to get to know us, the S & M in Shyleen and Michelle in our introductory episode. We discuss choosing life after trauma, parenthood, mental health, the deep dive into the shallow pool of online dating, how to not give f$!k like a boss, what it means to have BIG D ENERGY and how to have deep, meaningful and fulfilling friendships and rela…