Everyday (Ray) Living...talking about real things in day to day life. Inspiring, motivating & having fun!
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Im about to enter another milestone B~Day 8/14…50✨🎊🎈 and I wanna talk about how life & experiences prepare you/us for moments like this! Also sharing so much of fun & exciting things leading up to my B~day. What are your takeaways from ppl, places, things, experiences, etc….
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Don’t allow ppl to play in your face…wanting to “keep it real”
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Im sharing my collab w/….https://www.melery.co/?ref=RayNicole. Use code RayNicole to get 90%off😊 ppl use “keeping it real” as a Segway to be disrespectful. Know the difference between respectful truth & RUDENESS…lets go for a drive & talk about it✨
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Don’t allow miscommunication or no communication drive wedges in your family. The #1 thing that will fracture family relationships/relationships In general, is lack of communication. Find out how I refused to allow the enemy to fracture my relationships…
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Sometimes your kids can see you in a specific way & that’s the only way they know to see you, But; that’s not who you really are, you’re more!
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Are you missing your Assignment, trying to complete other ppl’s Assignments?
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Sometimes GOD will assign us to do 1 thing but, our Egos will convince us to do more than we’re suppose to do & doing that, we miss the mark!
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Stop trying to fit in those 8s & get in those 9s….
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Allowing yourself to fit in your right size ( metaphorically speaking) ppl try to fit in something they’ve outgrown. We know those shoes are to little, to tight, to uncomfortable yet, we will sacrifice our comfort, to make others cozy. Stop it🤚🏼 here’s why….
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This particular medication assisted in throwing me into Hypertension. I go into detail on why it’s important to be your #1 health advocate. Being in tune with/your body can save your life! Let’s talk about…
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Sometimes ppl can make it hard to love them by their actions or lack their of. Most often it’s w/in families. They need & want love, too! Listen until the end so you can when a, “let me love on you basket” w/so many nice things in it!
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Did GOD place you in a “Fall back Season”
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Are you in a season in your life, it looks & feels different?! You feel lightweight by yourself, you don’t react to ppl, places or things like you use too. Here’s why…
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Not being plugged in can keep us “outside” of knowing what’s going on & will make us question our belonging. Staying plugged into God , will always keep up inside…let me tell you how I felt alone & literally Outside today.
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Enjoying the holiday when you’re already working at a deficit yet, still finding a way to get further in debt to participate in the festivities of the holidays. You Can! W/ setting boundaries….
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I’m underneath those smiling faces, costumes, flashing lights, sentimental words of LOVE…resides a Joker. This isn’t just Diddy,however; this is about him today.
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Thinking you’re seeing the real…
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What “Season” are you in, Do you feel stuck there?…if so, there’s a reason.
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Staying in a particular “Season” longer than expected…what God had to reveal to me in my “Season”
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Sometimes being comfortable doing the same things, being around the same ppl, taking the route, can cause you/I, to miss what God wants us to see & know…find out what I’m talking about✨…
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What goes in our mouths, isn’t nearly as important, than what comes out. Let’s talk about it.
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Metaphorically speaking…learning how to take certain things out of your diet…what’s fueling you, draining you, leaving you lethargic?! Let’s talk about😊
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R they really happy for you? Do they really want to see you have fun?
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Ppl who only want to see you happy or want to have fun, when they’re on the scene. I’m sharing something that opened my eyes to this sad fact…It’s closer than you think.
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When life happens someone we wear our emotions, we wear the pain, the uneasiness, fear etc. it’s normal to feel & sometimes look a little off on certain days. Just don’t make it a part of your daily attire.
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The Wrap Up…( conclusion of Daddy Issues)
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Using hurts of the past, to allow You/Me, to be the better versions of ourselves. Stop buying other ppl’s problems….
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Daddy Issues Pt 2 ( not making their issues, your issues)
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Being excluded, can show the value in YOURSELF & can actually devalue what others thought was so Valuable.
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This isn’t just specific to “Daddy issues”, it can be whatever issues that may have affected you. Growing from them is the key!
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Oxygen-plays a critical role in respiration. Metaphorically speaking, make sure you’re around ppl that are helping your levels go up… I’ll tell you why…
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Resetting my mind on people, places & things!
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2023 is about iron sharpening iron & getting the dullness out!
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THANKFUL for YOU GUYS! But, let me ask you a question…
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Showing my gratitude & asking if you’ve shown yours? Have you extended your gratitude to someone other than yourself?!
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Why are Men? Join Me & My Girls to find out!
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Various questions about: Why are Men?…join us to find out some of the questions & concerns. There is another side to the coin!
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How much do you share on a first date?!…what’s to much?
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How do you know if you’re over-sharing? Is being real, bad? Is being fake…real? Ppl want the real you…but do they like what they’re getting?
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Are you ok with people telling you~what they don’t want to do?….Be honest😊
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Sometimes it’s easy for us to hear what ppl love to do & are ok w/doing. On the other side of that coin…we’re not comfortable to hear what they don’t want to do.
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Comfort vs Uncomfortable…what’s the reason we’re doing it, why are we there, why are we eating it???
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I’m asking questions about why we do things? Most often it’s out of being Comfortable, we don’t want to be…UNCOMFORTABLE! Listen to see why you should mark your Calendar!
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Maya Angelou said “ when a person shows you who they are..Believe them” sometimes ppl don’t see themselves in that famous quote.
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Don’t think your nasty attitude is a flex!
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This young lady had D-level customer service & I def asked her what her problem was….
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Chit chatting about Neyo giving a D-effort. The Renaissance ( Beyoncé)
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My thoughts & opinions….
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Taking you guys with me & talking about the Beauty of Aging & taking care of yourself!
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Are you talking & walking…or just talking?
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Sometimes our words & actions don’t match. A test will prove if your words are many & the walks are few.
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Ppl who try to be funny…and they are being “funny”
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Be cautious of ppl who are always trying to be funny😂because they are being…”funny”😐🫣…is this 🫵🏽
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Inviting you to the Coffee table…to warm your heart
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We all want the love & the acceptance of ppl. We secretly want ppl to say, “ I see you & “I accept you” (author Holley Gerth)
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Sharing how things can come from the N,S,E& W to disrupt your peace. Doing Peace maintenance can eliminate Peace disturbers.... I had 2 in 1wk.
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Is your “Check Engine” is your “low fuel” light on?!
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Metaphorically speaking, we go through life putting other ppl’s problems in our mental navigation system & we stay focused on their destination, but; we don’t pull over & check our vehicle (our body) to make sure we can accompany the trip...
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Following your Moral Compass...what got in the way of Will Smith’s?
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Did Will & Jada give themselves a chance to do damage control, before the damage was done?
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Make sure you are paying attention to your “sos”
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Sharing how 911 was the biggest help to me; in a non emergent situation.
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Don’t be a “bag lady” on your vacation.
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When you allow yourself to start seeing things & ppl for who and what they are. That’s when you learn more about yourself.
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Some things you can’t even appreciate until you put some time & effort in it. Once you do that, you’ll see; you have more appreciation for it❤️
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Giving out some firm smacks on the hand (figuratively speaking)
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When people want you inconvenience you, to make things convenient for them...it’s a no, for me.
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2022 = A Better You & Me
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We know it’s better to give than to receive, however; there comes a time you have to position yourself to Receive what God wants to Give you & me!
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After Thanksgiving, Thankfulness
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In the Chaos, the Blessing was discovered!
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Calm down for a minute, so you can see the Blessing...I did! & I’m gonna tell you😁
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When their words & actions are on mute yet, you hear it so loudly.
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