Love Capacity is the measure of your ability to receive, provide and be accountable for an unconditional, forgiving, profoundly tender, passionate affection to another person. Go to LoveCapacity.com and take your Love Capacity Quiz . . . the quiz only takes 5 minutes. You take the quiz and you get your Love Capacity Quiz Score, Score Title and you get your Score Description.
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Afraid: You are adamantly against taking any emotional risk. You are not only afraid to love, you are also afraid of being loved because of your fear of letting your guard down. In each of your past relationships you purposely hold back or you believe that your partner is purposely holding back. To expand your Love Capacity you will have to learn f…
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So today we are talking about the Love Capacity Score = 3, which means Confused. The Definition of Confused is: You have been loved but not the way that you wanted to be loved. You have loved others but not the way that they wanted to be loved. Because of your past painful experiences, you hesitate to exhibit love for your partner until they have s…
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Digging Deeper Into the Love Capacity Score: "2 = Damaged"
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Love Capacity Quiz Podcast - "I Am Confused About What To Do"
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Episode 29 - "5 Reasons to Fight For Your Marriage"
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Today’s show is about “5 Reasons to Fight For Your Marriage”. Too many couples blame the institution of marriage instead of taking responsibility themselves. Which is why I don't believe in marriage counseling anymore. I believe in husband coaching and wife coaching. If we can get husbands to be better husbands and wives to be better wives then our…
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This week we are talking about "10 Steps To Better Sex". We approach this topic from initially from a healthy and fitness standpoint before we get down to the nitty gritty. We talk about how what you eat affects your health and how your heath affects your sex life. The goal is to get married couples to have better and more sex! Enjoy!…
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With Valentine's Day right around the corner it is time for us to revisit Love Capacity. On today's show we talk with Sean from Houston, Shanice from Denver, Toya from Michigan, James from Jacksonville, Stacy Lee from Chicago and we have a mystery guest who is a Chameleon. Take your quiz on LoveCapacity.com today.…
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Episode 26 - “5 Reasons Why My Relationship Works With My Drug Addicted Boyfriend”
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Today we are talking about an article on StevenJamesDixon.com called “5 Reasons Why My Relationship Works With My Drug Addicted Boyfriend.” I will give you the 5 Reasons she stayed but you still have to listen . . . Deal? Okay, cool:1.) He loves me2.) He is romantic3.) He is supportive4.) He is caring 5.) He loves his daughter.…
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Episode 25 -" The One Thing That You Can Do To Save Your Marriage"
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In this week's podcast we talk about an article on Ebony.com (@EbonyMag) by SHANTELL E. JAMISON (@ShanTell_em) called "This Couple Saved Their Marriage By Asking One Important Question."By Steven James Dixon
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Episode 24 - "The Difference Between Money Now and Money Yesterday"
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"The Money Episode" - Today we are talking about student loans, car loans, mortgages, cash, credit, investments. A little bit of everything. Enjoy! Tell a friend. Subscribe to our podcast. Thanks!By Steven James Dixon
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Episode 23 - "3 Reasons Why Problem Solving Is So Difficult In Marriage"
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In today's episode we talk about why problem solving is so difficult for married folks. What do people mean when they say compromise, negotiate, sacrifice? Do marriages really have peaks and valley's and good times and bad? Good conversation today. Everything that we bring to the podcast is immediately life applicable so listen, enjoy, respond, rep…
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Episode 22 - "3 of the Most Common Financial Mistakes We Make"
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In today's podcast we talk about a lot of financial mistakes that people make every day that are not considered mistakes. Mistakes like the 30 year loan versus the 15 year loan. Not maxing out the $18,000 per year that you can put in your 401K. Car purchases and more! We took a break from relationship talk today but we think it is a worth while bas…
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Episode 21 - "Be A Freak For Your Spouse" - #SexyMarriages
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This week we are talking about husbands and wives having mo' and mo' better sex in marriage. We are focusing on three things this week:1.)Step #8 - Resetting Sexual Expectations 2.)Step #9 – Scheduling A Sexual Experience3.)Step #10 - Being a Freak for your spouse. Follow! Repost! Tweet! Tell-A-Friend! Enjoy!…
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Episode 20 "10 Pounds For Love" - #10Pounds4Love
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Recently I was asked a very interesting question. "What topic is the most difficult to discuss with couples that come to you for relationship coaching?" I took a moment to consider topics such as finances, cheating, communication, and sex but I quickly decided it was none of those. The topic is weight gain in marriage. Listen as we discuss how weig…
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Episode 19 "10 Ways To Go From Girlfriend to Wife"
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Here are the "10 Ways To Go From Girlfriend to Wife" - 1.) Be a Woman All Day, Everywhere 2.) Be Independent 3.) Stay On Your Tippy Toes 4.) Turn His House Into a Home 5.) Be a Godly Woman 6.) Watch His Momma, Do What She Do 7.) Challenge Him 8.) Be His Biggest Fan 9.) Nurture Him 10.) Be the Freakiest Person He Knows. On this week's podcast we tal…
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Episode 18 "Submission vs. Independence" – What Do Men Really Want?
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Today we discuss an article on StevenJamesDixon.com called Episode 18 "Submission vs. Independence" – What Do Men Really Want? During the podcast we will talk about two examples of submission and two examples of independence. Thanks for listening! Tell a friend! Please be sure subscribe and follow our podcast.…
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Episode 17 "Stupid Questions That Men Ask Women"
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"Stupid Questions That Men Ask Women" - 1.) Do you want to a divorce? 2.) What do you want from me? 3.) How can we work things out and meet halfway? "Stupid Questions That Women Ask Men." 1.) Where is this relationship going? 2.) At what point do you think you will be ready for a commitment? 3.) What made you chose her? Why her? Who is she? Follow …
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Episode 16 "You Don't Know Nothing About Love So You Should Listen To This Podcast."
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This week on the podcast we talked about the concept of Love Capacity in detail so this will be a very interesting show. Even more interesting if you have your score in hand! Some people will be mad. So what! It is not my fault. IT IS YOUR SCORE! (Maybe it is someone else's fault!) Don't just focus on your score, focus on how you can improve your s…
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Episode 15 "War! The Black Man vs The Black Woman"
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BlackDemographics.com - There are about 364,000 more Black men who are married than Black women. An overwhelming percentage of Black women are married to Black men (94%), about 86% of Black men are married to Black women."We ask the question "Should Black women move past the preference of marrying a black man?"…
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 14 - "The Break Up Show"
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This week we are talking about Awkward Relationship Coaching Sessions. We talk about reasons to break off a relationship like "Your dude being a drug dealer" or "Your girl wanting a thug instead of a nice guy." We talk about dating married men. We review relationship questions from Lisa in Washington D.C., Curtis in Dallas and Janine from New York.…
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 13 - "Your Husband Deserves A Porn Star"
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Congrats to Tamara and her new husband! They were married over the weekend and are on their honeymoon this week so I had to pull up Chapters 9 & 10 from the audio book "Men Don't Heal, We Ho" for your listening pleasure. Take your #LoveCapacity Quiz on LoveCapacity.com.By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 12 - "Is Steve Harvey an Uncle Tom?"
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If you are listening to this . . . Donald Trump is President. We talk about the Obama years. Did Obama do enough for black people? How about poor people? Is Steve Harvey an Uncle Tom? Have you been paying attention to Trump's Cabinet picks? All this and more on Episode 12 of the "Divorce Is Not An Option Podcast."…
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 11 - Negotiating With The Spouse
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This week Steven and Tamara talk about 6 tips for "Negotiating With The Spouse". Article from HuffPost.1. Talk your issues out. 2. Choose the right time and situation. 3. Address one or two specific behaviors at a time. 4. Use “I” statements. 5. Make it a give-and-take. 6. Keep things light.By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode-10 "Stay Married or Die Trying"
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In this episode Tamara and Steven discuss a number of marriages, their problems, the proposed solutions and developing an attitude of "Stay Married or Die Trying!"By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 9 - "HOs, Girlfriends and Wives"
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In this week's podcast we talk a little bit about submission, a lotta bit about leadership. We mix in some talk about the differences between Relationships and Marriage. Finished up with some controversial political talk. We had fun! You will too! Enjoy!By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 8 "If The Woman Cheats . . . IT IS OVER!"
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Tamara's getting married! We got the story of how her future husband proposed. I also tell the story of how I asked my wife to marry me. We also discuss the HBO hit series "Insecure" and we round out the show with some political talk. Enjoy!By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 7 "You Too Emotional To Be A Spouse"
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During this episode I tell a story about a husband and wife who actually know how to do this marriage thang. Also for your listening pleasure Chapter 7 "Back in the dating game" and Chapter 8 "All women are the same" from the audio book "Men Don't Heal, We Ho."By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 6 "Why I Married A Black Woman" (made with Spreaker)
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This podcast will serve three purposes. Purpose #1 is to say to the Black Man, “You Take For Granted From Whence You Came.” Purpose #2 is to say to the Black Woman, “Your Imperfection Is What Has Made You Perfect.” Purpose #3 . . . Love who loves you.By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 5 "Imma Do Me, You Do You."
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Due to a family emergency we were not able to record a new show this week. However, we still wanted to provide our listeners with some audio entertainment. This week you get to listen to Chapters 4, 5 and 6 of the audio book "Men Don't Heal, We Ho." Enjoy! Don't forget to subscribe and follow our podcast!…
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 4 "Don't Try To Tell Me How To Get IT!" (made with Spreaker)
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Tamara and I were not able to record a new podcast this week so I am releasing the first three chapters of my audiobook "Men Don't Heal, We Ho" for your listening pleasure. Don't forget to subscribe/follow our podcast!By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 3 - "How To Save Your Marriage In One Year." (made with Spreaker)
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Please subscribe / follow the "Divorce Is Not An Option" Podcast on Spreaker, iTunes, Podcast, SoundCloud, Google Play or wherever you listen to podcasts. How To Save A Marriage In One Year.Step #1: For the first three months, it is self evaluation time. Are you a part of the problem?Step #2: For the next three more months purge your anger. Get rid…
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Episode 2 - "Why You Will Marry The Wrong Person"
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"Why You Will Marry The Wrong Person" is an article by Alain de Botton that was published on the NewYorkTimes.com on May 28, 2016. During this podcast we discuss the article and introduce a new co-host: Tamara Glaspie. Be sure to subscribe / follow our podcast!By Steven James Dixon
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Divorce is Not An Option - Episode 2 - "Why You Will Marry The Wrong Person" (made with Spreaker)
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Why You Will Marry The Wrong Person is an article by Alain de Botton that was published on the NewYorkTimes.com on May 28, 2016. During this podcast we discuss the article and introduce a new co-host: Tamara Glaspie. Be sure to subscribe / follow our podcast!By Steven James Dixon
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Episode 1 - "No Sex For Single Women Day"
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The first Monday in September is Labor Day. Labor = Work. No Sex For Single Women Day is the first Tuesday in September because that Monday, Labor Day, should serve as a reminder to single women that their sex should be worked for.In 2011 hundreds of women vowed to stop giving up their sex for free. In 2012 we picked up some momentum and even more …
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