This episode, I'm joined by Shubi who is a phenomenal mum of 3 and soon to divorcee. She details her journey from meeting hur husband, marriage, cheating, emotional abuse, mental health, forgiveness and not marrying again. Follow Shubi: IG - @shubi_tksdaughter_ariibike HELPING HAND: Women can call - The Freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline, r…

This episode, I'm joined by Elsa Christie who is a survivor of sex trafficking. She details her journey of child abuse from the age of 8yrs old by her father, who subsequently trafficked her to America a number of times. She talk being in foster care, broken marriage and about forgiveness being a process. Follow Elsa Christie: IG - @iamelsachristie…

This episode, I'm joined by Victor Edward who shares his story from being gay to heterosexual. Listen to find out his earliest exposure to porn, losing his virginity & his first gay sexual encounter. We also discuss church views, people's perceptions & whether there is a temptation to go back to that life. Follow Victor: IG - @loveandsword Email: v…

This weeks episode is about losing a child and dealing with grief as a black man. Nothing can ever prepare any parent with the thought of losing their child before they are born. We often hear women talk about their experience but rarely from men. My guest this episode is Donald Mbeutcha who tells his story about losing his 4th child and where the …

This weeks episode is all about being friend zoned. After a post I made about the subject and the responses received, I decided to talk about it with my friend Prince Made. He talks about escaping the friend zone that eventually led to marriage. There's tips on how to avoid being friend zoned and things to look out for before it happens. *FOLLOW KA…

My guest on todays episode is Dr Eddie Connor Jr. He is a best selling author of 12 books, stage 4 cancer survivor, college professor, international speaker, Recipient of the President Barack Obama Volunteer Service Award & Life time achievement award. We discuss surviving stage 4 cancer, pressures to get married and how to succeed in romantic, pro…

This episodes guest is Brittany Broaddus-Smith. She is a sex educator, christian sexologist & intimacy coach. She is the founder of The Intimacy Firm. It’s an intimacy coaching and sexuality education agency for christians and non-christians. We talk about how the subject of sex is often diluted in the church, shame surrounding sexuality in the chu…

LadyT is joined by some good friends of hers Emmanuel, Ruth, Junior & Yolanda. They discuss why some men take on a woman's surname and the consequences if their partner don't take their surname. Find out who cancelled their wedding a week before the big day. Would you give the ring back after a break up? Is it ok for the guy to ask for the ring bac…

LadyT is joined by some good friends of hers Emmanuel, Ruth, Junior & Yolanda. They discuss Online dating vs Being introduced to someone. Which one would you prefer? They also explore whether men and women can just be friends with no strings attached. What do you think?Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts and perspectives.Follow and …

Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In this episode, she is joined by two witty and intelligent men, Emmanuel & Afaron This is the single mens edition where they talk about different aspects of single life and being a single dad. Discussions on shooting your shot - are they ok with th…

Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In this episode, she is joined by two beautiful ladies, Tamara who is a make-up artist and Che Kirah who is a singer/songwriter and a member of the world famous The Kingdom Choir! This is the single ladies edition where they talk about different asp…

Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In this episode, she speaks to Eteyen & Josephine who planned their wedding & got married within 24hrs in LOCKDOWN! They talk about their journey of meeting, struggles of long distance relationships and the crazy activities that happened before the …

Episode 1, Part 1 Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In the first of a two part episode, she speaks to Brendell & Sam Lambe. Who got married after 25years during lockdown 2020. They talk about their journey of meeting, getting married, having children, infidelity & more. Wisdom is sh…

Part 2 Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In the second of a two part episode, she speaks to Brendell & Sam Lambe. Who got married after 25years during lockdown 2020. They talk about their journey of meeting, getting married, having children, infidelity & more. Wisdom is shared on re…

In this episode LadyT discusses going on holiday with your spouse but the GUYS EDITION! She's joined by Junior & Emmanuel who give their male perspective on going on holiday before marriage. Should you or shouldn't you. Your location won't change your antics, right? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast…

So should you go on holiday before marriage? Can you resist the temptation? Your location won't change your antics, right? Let us know whether you have been away, did anything happen, regrets and what would you advise? GIRLS EDITION! Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast…

Back with a new episode and we are talking about praying for your future spouse. Following a challenge set by Natasha & Jamal Miller about praying for your spouse, it was an intense week of prayer and teachings. We discuss why you should and the things we learnt that you should be praying for whether you are a man seeking a wife and a woman waiting…

- Is it ok?- What if your partner physically or psychologically can’t perform sexually(i.e. chronic ED, paralysed or disabled, trauma from previous experience, etc.)? - Would a subtitle partner be ok, JUST for sex? They would be like a human sex aid.- Polyamory – ‘extra-marital affair involve emotional love’- Swinging – ‘extra-marital affair involv…

- Can you marry a non-Christian?- How about living with a non-Christian in a committed relationship, but not marrying them?- What about Christians who are happily married to non-Christians?- If you got pregnant (or made a non-Christian pregnant), would you pursue the relationship? Or would you ask them to convert? Would you denounce your faith so y…

This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. It was so heated it had to be split. Check out the discussion & let me know your thoughts.- Is Chivalry dead or on life support?- Do Americans do it better than others?- Should women expect men to be chivalrous?- Has the definition of Chivalry become tainted?Share your thoughts.TW / IG - @kandidonlineFB - @kandid…

This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. It was so heated it had to be split. Check out the discussion & let me know your thoughts.- What do we actually mean by traditional roles?- Does being an independent woman deny a man, a role in your life?- Is it a problem when the woman earns more?- Is chivalry dead or on life support?Share your thoughts.TW / IG …

What does it mean to be celibate, to have purity?What are the struggles & challenges?Is it harder for men or women to be celibate?Share your thoughts.TW / IG - @kandidonlineFB - @kandidwithladyt

Would you be able to tell your friend or sibling if their partner is unfaithful?How long do you wait until you confront the person involved?Share your thoughts.TW / IG - @kandidonlineFB - @kandidwithladyt

How far should your man go to protect you?What would you do if he uses you as a shield in an altercation?Share your thoughts.TW / IG - @kandidonlineFB - @kandidwithladyt

Once a cheat, always a cheat. Can one be forgiven for cheating?The girls discuss the impact of cheating and forgiveness and whether one can ever stop cheating.Share your thoughts.TW / IG - @kandidonlineFB - @kandidwithladyt

Setting: Sunny day in London, sat outside a restaurant in Canary Wharf. In this impromptu/test episode, I talk about, being single, culture, relationships, marriage, divorce & different seasons of life. I'm joined by Ruth & Yaa VV who give honest thoughts & real life experience on this discussion. Hit me up on Facebook - kandid with ladyt Instagram…