Peace Talk is hosted by Grace Bell, facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie. You'll hear folks from all walks of life dedicated to self-inquiry especially using The Work and IBSR (inquiry based stress reduction)...and the life of freedom and joy that can be led by having an open mind, and looking.
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The pain of heartbreak is real and can take your breath away. If you’re hurting or struggling with a break up and you’re feeling shocked, betrayed, devastated, and alone then this podcast is for you. You may feel sad, anxious, angry and worried about your uncertain future. If you’re on an emotional rollercoaster you may feel stuck and unable to let go, and yet desperate to move on at the same time. Now is the best time to minimize your own suffering in this process by listening in on the mos ...
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BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Lisa Limehouse - Christian Betrayal Trauma Specialist, Affair Recovery Coach, Certified Life Coach, Phoenix Rising
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devasta ...
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Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at ...
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Intimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce
Kristina Joy | Affair Recovery Coach, Spiritual Healing, Christian Marriage Counseling
The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* * #9 RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of sh ...
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Ask Your Wife To Do Something For You [Thursday Challenge]
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If you want your wife to prioritize you… Don’t ask her to prioritize you. Figure out one thing that would help you feel like a priority. Maybe that’s making a meal, asking you about your day, or spending some time together. Unless you’re in a good place, I would wait on asking for physical touch, though that can also be a good request if you are. T…
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The Moment I stepped away from Betrayal | E184
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The moment when I found out my husband had gone back to the other woman, once again, was the moment I realized I could no longer live in the constant trauma and devastation of betrayal. I wanted, no, I NEEDED the pain, the triggers, the ruminating thoughts to just STOP. I knew if something didn't change, I would finally crumble under the weight of …
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Love Lost and Friendships Ruined: My Ex and Best Friend's Affair
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In today's episode, we will discuss the topic of affairs and infidelity and how it affects relationships.It's a difficult topic, but it's important to talk about it so we can understand it better and learn how to heal from the pain it causes. We'll explore the different types of infidelity, the emotional and psychological impact it has on both part…
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Your wife spends time with her friends… but not with you. She hugs your kids… but not you. She gets excited for other people… but not you. She seems to prefer to be on her phone more than talking to you. This can be VERY frustrating. But, there are things you need to STOP doing… And START doing… If you want her to prioritize you. Listen on the Stro…
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I Betrayed my Spouse! Now What??? - Part 2 | E183
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You've betrayed your spouse. You want to reconcile. You want to save your broken relationship. But how? What do you do next? Today's episode is part 2 of "I betrayed my spouse, now what?" Make sure to listen to Part 1 below. E182: I betrayed my spouse! What do I do now? I pray this blesses you and helps give insight and direction for your healing j…
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Focus When Your Wife Speaks [Thursday Challenge]
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It’s easy to be distracted these days. But, if we’re easily distracted from our wife… We’re missing the chance to show her she’s important to us… And losing out on the chance to build trust and mental and emotional intimacy. When she talks to you today… Put your phone down Look into her eyes And let me know how it goes by replying to this email! Wa…
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I betrayed my spouse! What do I do now? | E182
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You betrayed your spouse. You broke the marriage. You want to stay and see if you can work things out, but how? What do you do? What are the steps to take as the one who has been unfaithful? Where do you begin? In today's episode, I am giving you, the unfaithful, your first steps to take when you are seeking reconciliation after betrayal. This is p…
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The Top 3 Marriage Communication Mistakes… And How To Fix Them
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High achieving Christian men are used to being right and being listened to. And, this works well in work and church settings. But, it doesn’t work that well at home. Learn the communication mistakes that leave your wife feeling unheard, misunderstood… And therefore NOT attracted to you… In today’s episode. And… Learn how to fix them so you can beco…
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5 Ways to Help You get out of Survival Mode due to Betrayal Trauma | E181
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"I'm so exhausted!" "Why can't I pull myself together?" "My brain just won't shut down so I can sleep." Do you have these same feelings? Do you struggle with brain fog, being "wired" and "tired" at the same time, the smallest thing can set you off and cause major irritation, or maybe you are finding yourself being "short" with everyone, including y…
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Find And Apologize For 1 One-Up Behavior [Thursday Challenge]
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Find And Apologize For 1 One-Up Behavior [Thursday Challenge] As a high achieving Christian man, I’m sure there’s at least ONE way that you’ve behaved in a one up, superior way towards your wife. Some of the most common are: money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and time. Find one of those and apologize to your wife for it. Watch on Y…
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Tips to improve your emotional regulation after betrayal | E180
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Betrayal leaves you in a mountain of despair, drowning in sorrow, and fighting with all you have to get free from the quicksand of trauma. Your nervous system is completely tanked, your immune system is compromised, and your emotions..... Well, they are all over the place. The highs and lows can make you feel like you are going crazy. So, how do yo…
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The Top 5 Reasons High Achieving Christian Men Struggle In Marriage
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The Top 5 Reasons High Achieving Christian Men Struggle In Marriage You’ve succeeded in big areas in your life. Financially, in your career, in your church and in your community. But, your marriage isn’t where you want it to be. You lack intimacy. You’re recovering from infidelity (hers or yours). You’re facing separation or divorce. Why can you su…
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Summer Holidays Begin! Tips on Taking Your Children on Holiday as a Single Parent
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Summer is here, and for single parents, planning a holiday with children can seem like a daunting task. But it doesn't have to be! In this episode, we'll share practical tips and advice on how to make the most of your summer vacation with your kids, even if you're doing it solo. Find more information and resources here: http://saradavison.com/ Foll…
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Unraveling Soul Ties: 3 Signs You May Have a Soul Tie After Infidelity | E179
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In today's episode, we delve into the complex emotional and spiritual aftermath of infidelity. Have you ever felt inexplicably connected to someone, even after betrayal? You might be experiencing a soul tie. Join us as we uncover three key signs that indicate you may have a soul tie following infidelity. We'll explore the deep emotional bonds, recu…
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Will You Invest 90 Hours To Get 90 Years Of Happy Relationships? [Thursday Challenge]
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Strong Men Strong Marriages is 90 hours of focused work. You could spend YEARS trying to learn the skills to have great relationships with God, yourself, your wife and your kids. And you might never even find the skills that you need! Plus, in all your searching, you won’t be practicing the few skills you need to create great relationships. If you’…
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If you’re reading this email, you’re ALREADY spending time trying to improve your marriage. And that’s great. AND, if you want to improve your marriage in the most efficient and effective way for high achieving Christian men… You may want to consider marriage coaching, and Strong Men Strong Marriages in particular. You’re a smart, successful guy an…
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What's the difference between Confession and True Repentance after Betrayal? | E178
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In this compelling episode, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of confession and true repentance within the context of healing after betrayal in marriage. Betrayal can shatter the foundation of trust and love that a marriage is built upon, leaving deep emotional scars. But is confession enough to rebuild what has been broken? Join me as we ex…
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Peace Talk Episode 256: questioning thoughts about death, decline, things falling apart
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It's very common in being human to be against situations in life that look threatening. What happens when we question our thoughts that something happening, like death, decline, disease, hardship....is absolutely true? That is really is TERRIBLE? (And it doesn't mean that it is not). Who are we without our stories? In person retreat in Seattle is c…
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Decide If You’ll Invest In Marriage Coaching [Thursday Challenge]
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On Tuesday we talked about how to decide if marriage coaching was a good investment for you. Today, decide if you’re going to invest time and money into learning how to have a better marriage and better relationships for the rest of your life. It’s a skill, and you’ll learn it a lot faster with coaching. And, if you’re ready to invest… Apply here a…
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As a high achieving man, you like to invest. What’s the point of investing? To get a good return. Certainly return of money is important. But what are you going to use that money for? At the end of the day, what matters most to you? If you can get a return of a more intimate marriage and a better example for generations to follow… And learn how to …
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5 Lessons I Learned from Experiencing Betrayal | E177
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The circumstances we experience in life can offer many lessons to be learned. Betrayal is no different. We can learn many lessons when we experience betrayal. And while it is devastating, challenging, painful, and often times debilitating, if we choose to tap into the lessons it offers, we can come out on the other side so much stronger, brighter, …
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How Dreaming Assists in Healing from Traumatic Experiences with Charlie Morley
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Find more information and resources here: http://saradavison.com/ Follow me on social media► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saradavisondivorcecoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SaraDavisonDivorceCoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/SDDivorceCoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-davison-742b453/…
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Want more fun in your marriage? Do something fun today! The easiest thing is to send your wife a funny video or meme. If you’re struggling, search “funniest memes,” find one that you would both laugh at, and send it to your wife. See? You’re having more fun already! Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this email with the results of your c…
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How To Bring The Fun Back To Your Marriage
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Many of the men I talk to say that they want to bring the fun back to their marriage. But, they spend most of their time trying to talk about “the hard things” and solve problems in their marriage. The truth is, you don’t have to wait to bring the fun back. You can take the lead and start having more fun TODAY. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch o…
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How do I heal in the midst of the nightmare of betrayal? | E176
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It's another Q & A day with Lisa! Another Beautiful Woman wrote in seeking guidance of how to heal from betrayal when you are still living in the lies, deceit, secrets, etc. In today's episode, I give some action steps to take when you are faced with a spouse who is throwing up red flags and choosing to live in a toxic way. I pray this blesses you!…
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Acknowledge One Way You Have Hurt Your Wife (Thursday Challenge)
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Tuesday we talked about how to help your wife feel safe. Acknowledge that you’ve hurt her… And make the appropriate changes. Today you’ll acknowledge 1 way you’ve hurt your wife, which will help start the healing process. (If you want help on knowing what to do after that to make your changes last, book a call to see if our program is the right fit…
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3 Ways Unhealed Betrayal Trauma Affects Your Career and Business | E175
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Betrayal Trauma, left unhealed, can have a devastating affect upon every area of your life. It affects you physically, mentally, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and financially. But did you know that it can also affect you in your career and if you are a business owner, it can have negative affects upon your business. Today, I'm sharing 3…
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How To Help Your Wife Feel Safe In Your Christian Marriage
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How To Help Your Wife Feel Safe In Your Christian Marriage If your wife is saying she doesn’t feel safe… Either with her words… Or by distancing herself from you emotionally or physically… It’s time to increase the safety in your marriage. How do you do that? Not by telling her you are safe… But by SHOWING her. By getting into her pain and making t…
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Connect With Your Child Today [Thursday Challenge]
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Today’s challenge is to find a way to connect with your child. If you have more than one child, choose the child that it’s most difficult to connect with. And, find a way to “meet them where they are.” A great way is to join them in something that they already enjoy. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the results of your c…
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Surviving Children’s Camps in USA - The SHOCKING Truth
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Sara Davison interviews Leanne Roberts about her harrowing experiences in three different children's camps in the United States as a child. Leanne shares the horrific abuse and neglect she endured, including being stripped searched, living in tents without proper shelter or hygiene, and brutal manipulation tactics used to control the children. This…
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First 3 Steps to take after you discover your husband's betrayal | E174
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What do you do when you discover your husband has been unfaithful? He has betrayed you with another or a hidden sexual addiction. You probably feel hopeless, confused, overwhelmed, abandoned, alone, scared, angry, or maybe you can't even put into words how you really feel. You've just suffered major trauma and it impacts your ability to express you…
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What To Do When Your Child Rejects You (Especially In A Divorce)
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Today I have a special interview with Cathy Himlin, LMFT from Himlin Consulting. Cathy specializes in helping parents, primarily fathers, navigate their relationships with their children during and after a divorce. Whether you are concerned about losing your children in a divorce and want to make the transition as smooth as possible… Or just want t…
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What the Unfaithful Spouse wants their Betrayed Spouse to know after D-Day | E173
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Do you wish your spouse was able to know some of your internal battles since they found out about your betrayal? Are you having a hard time explaining to them how you feel, how you want to help them heal but don't know how and the battle of feeling like people will ALWAYS see you as a cheater, betrayer, and addict? In today's episode, I am sharing …
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Peace Talk Episode 255: I can't get what I want
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In person retreat in Seattle is coming! August 20-24, 2024. Learn more here: https://www.workwithgrace.com/summer-retreat/ Grace Bell, facilitator of The Work, assists people to identify and question their stressful ways of looking at life. She offers Year of Inquiry, a vibrant membership community of inquirers Sept-June each year. Grace also has a…
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Choose A Healthy Emotional Release [Thursday Challenge]
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Tuesday we talked about releasing emotions in a healthy way. Today, choose 1 emotion… And choose 1 healthy way to release it. Then, let me know what you choose. And, if you try the release, let me know how it went. Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena new link here for YouTube) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY13pnVVwwo (Lorena new links here for YouTub…
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What the Betrayed spouse wants the Unfaithful to know after D-Day | E172
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Do you wish you had a resource you could share with your unfaithful spouse to let them know a few things you are feeling after D-Day? I've heard you loud and clear! After much research and polls, I created a list of things you, as the betrayed spouse, want you unfaithful spouse to know since the discovery of his betrayal. It can be hard to articula…
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How To Control Your Emotions In Your Christian Marriage Relationship
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Do you find yourself… Avoiding your emotions… Pretending like you’re OK when you’re not… Or wanting to avoid seeming anxious, sad or angry in front of your wife? A lot of us as men think that emotional strength is about not “letting emotions get to us.” But, emotions are like farts. They need to be RELEASED. And ideally, in healthy ways that don’t …
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How to Avoid the Financial Pitfalls of Divorce Including Being Financially Invisible and Staying in the Family Home vs. Pension, with Danni Hewson
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Danni is a seasoned financial journalist with over 19 years of experience at the BBC, where she presented and reported business news for various programs. She most recently hosted Radio 5 Live's "Wake Up to Money." Now at AJ Bell, she provides expert analysis and commentary on financial markets, economics, and personal finance. Find more informatio…
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3 reasons the betrayed struggle with trusting the unfaithful | E171
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You've decided to reconcile after betrayal. You feel like things should be going better, but your spouse is still having a difficult time trusting you. Why? How do you get your spouse to start trusting you again? Is it always going to be this way? In today's episode, I am giving you 3 reasons why your spouse struggles to trust you after betrayal an…
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Think of 3 reasons why your wife is RIGHT to create distance from you. How have you been a poor choice for her? Then, work on those 3 reasons. Make yourself a better choice. And, for a complete system to make yourself a great choice, join Strong Men Strong Marriages. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally …
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How to Save Your Christian Marriage Alone
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When you’re trying to save your Christian marriage… But your wife doesn’t seem to be trying… It can be very frustrating and defeating. You can feel lost and unsure of what to do. And, men often make significant mistakes when they try to save their marriage alone. Learn what those mistakes are… And what to do instead… In today’s episode. Watch on Yo…
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