Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights. I do servant leadership, boundless optimism, & Oneness/Wholeness. I'm good naked & unashamed! I love positive personhood, love your neighbor as yourself, and do no harm! I'm also appropriately inappropriate! My self-rati ...
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My types of advocacy and my styles of activism that I am called to do.
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Below is the lifestyles that I am meant to live: “For instance, they:Question the way policy is administeredParticipate in the agenda-setting as they raise significant issuesTarget political systems "because those systems are not responding to people's needs"Are inclusive and engagingPropose policy solutionsOpen up space for public argumentationOth…
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My grandma’s transition was the number one cause of my past unethical (not illegal) sexual conduct.
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“Because of gender expectations, being a male child victim of sexual abuse can lead to:[52]Pressure to prove his manhood physically and sexually (becoming stronger and engaging in dangerous or violent behavior; having multiple female sexual partners).Confusion over gender and sexual identity.Sense of being an inadequate man.Sense of lost power, con…
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The types of slavery & trafficking I endured in my boyhood & my constructive criticism of religion.
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“Slavery is the ownership of a person as property, especially in regards to their labour.[1] Slavery typically involves compulsory work, with the slave's location of work and residence dictated by the party that holds them in bondage. Enslavement is the placement of a person into slavery, and the person is called a slave or an enslaved person (see …
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Child abusers, child abuser apologists, adult abusers, & adult abuser apologists in the crime world.
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“21 Characteristics of Pharisees: Loves to hang out in high places with VIP status (Matthew 23:5-6)Only accepts positive confession & self-praise from people (Matthew 23:7-12)Loves money, is covetous & a show-off (Matthew 23:16, Luke 16:14)Exploits the simple for their money.Despises the poor, sick & needy (Matthew 23:14, Luke 7:36-50, 21:1-6)Exalt…
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I fully know what is right and wrong for me.
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“ In my personal and my professional lives, I no longer feel that I am being held captive by: uncertaintylack of certaintyunsurenessindecisionhesitationhesitancyskepticismdoubtignorancedubietyincertitude.” -Antonio Myers. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support…
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My special guest Rita Bliven and I discuss Early Traumas and Attachment Issues, The Impact of Traumas and Attachment Issues in Identity and Relationships, & The Attachment Styles Tales in the Bible.
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"I have written Canyons & Fireworks which details my lifelong journey of healing from an extreme avoidant attachment style.Through encounters with God, faith, family, Christian community, reading books, and years of counseling I have learned to truly open up and enjoy loving relationships. From this place of healing and love I have been able to enj…
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I’m done talking about my sexual past, the crime boyhood, my marital status, & theatrical religion.
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“Hypersexuality is a term used for a presumed mental disorder that causes unwanted or excessive sexual arousal, causing people to engage in or think about sexual activity to a point of distress or impairment.[1] It is controversial whether it should be included as a clinical diagnosis[1][2] used by mental healthcare professionals. Nymphomania and s…
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The religious narcissists of the crime world and my being a live-in lover for women part of my past.
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“The women that I was fraternizing with endure the male gaze. According to Wikipedia: “In feminist theory, the male gaze is the act of depicting women and the world in the visual arts[2] and in literature[3] from a masculine, heterosexual perspective that presents and represents women as sexual objects for the pleasure of the heterosexual male view…
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What was it like being Christian with my Grandma Clara and the types of infidelity part of my past.
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“My past in terms of trauma was filled with unfaithfulnessadulteryunchastitycuckoldryextramarital relationsextramarital sexfaithlessnessdisloyaltyfalsenessbreach of trusttreacherydouble-dealingduplicitydeceitperfidyperfidiousnessaffairliaisonintrigueamourfooling aroundplaying aroundplaying the fieldcheatingtwo-timinghanky-pankya bit on the side for…
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I had to be Christian all by myself as a 5 year old in street crime, and my young man sex work past.
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“As a five year old, I had to do: ProphecyServing, Teaching, Exhortation, Giving, Leadership, Mercy, Word of wisdomWord of knowledge, Faith, Gifts of healings, Miracles, Distinguishing between spirits, Tongues, Interpretation of tongues, Whoever speaks, and Whoever renders service all on my own within the organized crime.” -Antonio Myers. --- Suppo…
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Sexual thinking styles, sexual attachment styles, sexual learning styles, sexual love languages, and sexual lust languages.
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“Sex requires people to be: intelligentsensiblereasonablerationalreasoninglogicalanalyticalthoughtfulreflectivemeditativecontemplativepensivephilosophicalratiocinative.” -Antonio Myers. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support
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The dehumanizing objectification competitions between men and women.
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“I grew up witnessing men and women treating themselves and each other as disposable, useless, worthless, rubbish, unimportant, stained, tainted, dirty, soiled, filthy, rotten, cracked, and cursed.” -Antonio Myers. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support…
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Overcoming adults failing me as a child and as an adult.
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“I see myself being in child care in for of being in their homes, in center-based child care, in my home as the credentialed provider, in non-profit daycares, in the family child care homes, the informal care, and helping children who are caring for adults.” -Antonio Myers. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-m…
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“A model is a person with a role either to display commercial products (notably fashion clothing in fashion shows) or to serve as an artist's model or to pose for photography. Modelling ("modeling" in American English) is considered to be different from other types of public performance, such as acting or dancing; thus, appearing in a film or a pla…
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I am thriving in healing the religion experience of my life.
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“Understanding Religious Trauma SyndromeWhat is Religious Trauma Syndrome? Religious Trauma Syndrome (RTS) is a term used to describe the negative mental health effects of unhealthy or harmful religious experiences. It is a form of psychological trauma that can result from the harmful effects of religious indoctrination, abuse, or manipulation. RTS…
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I am a secular values voter who embraces religious pluralism.
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“But religious diversity on its own is not religious pluralism; that requires a bit more:Individuals have the legal rights and de facto freedoms to worship, believe, practice, and join in community with others according to their conscience. Individuals are also able to abstain from these activities. In the U.S., these rights and freedoms are guaran…
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Some women told me I should be a sex Coach for autism moms, secular sexuality, and faith-based folks
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“In this episode, I discussed being a sexuality educator for autism moms, Christian women, Muslim women, and a Jewish (Judaism) women and how they were sexually suppressed and sexually repressed. Because of the unhealed traumas, we ended having relations with each other.” -Antonio Myers. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/…
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Professional cuddling, & being paid to give sex tips to adults while they have sex in my presence.
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“Conduct with ClientsAs a Professional Cuddler, I:Before sessions I will make clear to the client any fees that I will charge for my service. I will ensure that all interpersonal transactions between the client and myself are non-exploitative and directly relevant to their care.I will refrain from selling any product or other service to the client …
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No to body-shaming, slut-shaming, sex-shaming, kink-shaming, consent-shaming, queer-shaming, and sex-work shaming as a future adult content creator that I'll be. My fans will be mostly the "misfits."
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“When I chat with my future fans via keyboard (virtually) and in-person, I will make sure that we speak to each other as each other’s equals, not as beneath one-another. How they treat me and how I treat them will be scrupulous, meticulous, on the right track, along with the right lines, exact, precise, correct, unerring, veracious, true, right, an…
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My special guest Gilly Kahn and I discussed the representation and normalization of neurodiversity and embracing the fluidity of humanity.
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This is her bio: "Gilly Kahn, Ph.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist, working in a private group practice in the Atlanta area. She specializes in individual and group therapy focusing on neurodiversity, anxiety, and depression. Over the years, Gilly developed a niche in the treatment of ADHD and autistic youth, because, in her opinion, there is…
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Mature true Christians are building the Church back better, I appreciate mature true Christians 💯.
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“When my grandma was on earth, she saw me as having the spiritual gifts of being an apostle, prophet, evangelist, pastor, teacher, service, exhortation, giving, leading, mercy, word of wisdom, word of knowledge, faith, gifts of healings, working of miracles, visions, discerning of spirits, tongues, interpretations of tongues, helps, administration,…
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I will be an adult content creator for those with reproductive disorders/gynecological disorders, sexual disorders, sexual affairs, pregnancy complications, the abused, disabilities, and sex crimes.
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“I define my future erotica adult content creator (neurodiversity/neurodivergent-friendly and abuse-survivor-friendly) as: erotica visual arts (including erotica architecture, erotica ceramics, erotica drawings, erotica filmmaking, erotica paintings, erotica photography, and erotica sculpting) erotica literary arts (including erotica fiction, eroti…
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My lengthy history of protecting women and protecting sex workers
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“Sex Worker Rights are Human Rights“We have chosen to advocate for the decriminalization of all aspects of consensual adult sex - sex work that does not involve coercion, exploitation or abuse. This is based on evidence and the real-life experience of sex workers themselves that criminalization makes them less safe.” – Amnesty InternationalSex Work…
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My last episode talking about sexuality and disability of my past.
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“Trauma can cause one to feel inadequate, lacking, insufficient, failing, depleted, miserly, too little, sparse, not enough, sparing, stinted, stunted, feeble, deficient, ineffective, inefficient, impotent, weak, low, unproductive. and defective.” -Antonio Myers. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/suppo…
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I plan on doing social justice work with churches, mosques, temples, synagogues, monasteries, centers, and tabernacles.
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“I am not a tormentor foe of houses of worship, I am a true friend of houses of worship. I recognize that I must be prophetic in the four walls and more than four walls. Prophetic means orderliness instituted for those who face institutional discrimination such as I.” -Antonio Myers. "Social justice is justice in relation to a fair balance in the d…
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My last episode on my spirituality, my adult secular spirituality & my child Christian spirituality.
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“In modern times, the term both spread to other religious traditions[9] and broadened to refer to a wider range of experiences, including a range of esoteric and religious traditions. Modern usages tend to refer to a subjective experience of a sacred dimension,[10] and the "deepest values and meanings by which people live",[11][12] often in a conte…
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I plan to do social equality/social equity work with secular entities, unbelievers, and non-believers. I mostly don't attend houses of worship because I truly am the most needed by the secular world.
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“Social equality is a state of affairs in which all individuals within society have equal rights, liberties, and status, possibly including civil rights, freedom of expression, autonomy, and equal access to certain public goods and social services. Social equality requires the absence of legally enforced social class or caste boundaries and the abs…
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I am open to the family man life because I am called to relationships, families, and romance.
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“ I don’t know if life will grant me a wife, offspring, and a pet. I am only speaking hypothetically. I mention the qualities of a family man that I indeed do possess." -Antonio Myers.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support
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I can’t do the 24/7 family man life and the 24/7 assisting the needy life simultaneously. I am a confirmed bachelor, I do self-parenting, I am my own roommate, and I am my own janitor (without a pet.)
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“I choose the twenty-four hours, seven days a week, round-the clock assistance of the needy, which means I do solo living (forgoing marriage, forgoing children, forgoing pet-owning, and forgoing the roommate lifestyle of the daily basis nature.) Forgoing simply means no. Confirmed bachelor means never marrying, Self-parenting means I don't reproduc…
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My fondness for bipartisanship, nonpartisanship, and multi-partisanship.
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“Bipartisanship, sometimes referred to as nonpartisanship, is a political situation, usually in the context of a two-party system (especially those of the United States and some other western countries), in which opposing political parties find common ground through compromise. In multi-partisan electoral systems or in situations where multiple par…
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Faith is a gray area for me as the gray area thinker that I am.
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“Existentialism is a form of philosophical inquiry that explores the issue of human existence.[1][2] Existentialist philosophers explore questions related to the meaning, purpose, and value of human existence. Common concepts in existentialist thought include existential crisis, dread, and anxiety in the face of an absurd world and free will, as we…
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My guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham and I discussed The Tragedy of Clergy Abuse, The Contamination of the Church, The Understanding of the Difficulty of Speaking Out, and The Journey of Healing.
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This is her bio: "A church is where an insecure sixteen-year-old girl should feel welcome, happy, and most importantly, safe. Tragically for some, the church can become a place of great harm.Sandy Phillips Kirkham details her account of how a charismatic youth minister preyed upon her, a betrayal which left her broken, with a shattered faith, and t…
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My guests Marlene Sharp, Judi Uttal, and I discussed Softening Hearts and Minds Through Autism Awareness.
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This is Marlene's bio: "Marlene Sharp is a creative and business-savvy entertainment multi-hyphenate who originally hails from New Orleans but is now a (San Fernando) Valley girl. Firmly ensconced in LA life, Marlene is top dawg at Pink Poodle Productions and emeritus Head of IP Strategy and Acquisitions for Rainshine Entertainment.Noteworthy clien…
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My guest Desiree Goldey and I discussed the journey of self-discovery, championing DEIB initiatives, Overcoming Fear and Embracing Adventure, and Embracing Human Complexity.
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This is her bio: "Desiree Goldey is the Director, Talent Operations & Culture for Hub Recruiting, a division of the global talent advisory firm ZRG Partners, LLC. Since joining Hub, Desiree has worked on the firm's recruiter and leadership side. She attended Georgetown University, where she studied International Business/Marketing before starting h…
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My guest Joia Jefferson Nuri and I discussed embracing worthiness, transforming insecurities into strengths, the power of self-conversation, the power of positive affirmations, and so much more!
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This is her biography on her website. "Joia Jefferson Nuri has a keen intuition for helping women of color executives achieve their goals. Her training as a coach in executive Leadership and public speaking has sharpened her ability to understand and support clients in clarifying their objectives. Joia helps her clients build a toolkit to battle th…
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“Our talks on sex were honest, truthful, sincere, candid, frank, direct, open, forthright, straight, straightforward, genuine, blunt, plain-spoken, plain-speaking, matter-of-fact, outspoken, as straight as a die, straight from the shoulder, upfront, free-spoken, objective, impartial, unbiased, balanced, unprejudiced, disinterested, even-handed, fai…
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“Because lying to your kids about sex helps nobody. Telling them that sex is "only between mommies and daddies" is a lie that leads to confused, hormone-charged teenagers. Telling them that sex is "only something that happens when two people love each other very much" is a lie that causes hormone-charged teenagers to confuse "love" with "lust," or …
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My sex-positive feminism independent of the childhood traumas and recklessness of my past.
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“Sex-positive feminism, also known as pro-sex feminism, sex-radical feminism, or sexually liberal feminism, is a feminist movement centering on the idea that sexual freedom is an essential component of women's freedom.[1] They oppose legal or social efforts to control sexual activities between consenting adults, whether they are initiated by the go…
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Mononormativity (my last episode about my marital status.)
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“In 2011, Elizabeth Brake first coined the term amatonormativity, to describe the overarching, culturally embedded belief that romantic relationships are essential to well-being.1 Heteronormativity refers to the assumption that all people are heterosexual and does not allow for individuals who hold diverse sexual orientations, including lesbian, ga…
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Using think tanks as crime prevention comrades (I ended the crime episodes peacefully speaking.)
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“A think tank, or policy institute, is a research institute that performs research and advocacy concerning topics such as social policy, political strategy, economics, military, technology, and culture. Most think tanks are non-governmental organizations, but some are semi-autonomous agencies within government, and some are associated with particul…
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My college traumatic experiences with The Religious Right in the Bible Belt (The U.S.A. Deep South within GOP Florida.) This is my very last church episode.
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“The Christian right, otherwise referred to as the religious right, are Christian political factions characterized by their strong support of socially conservative and traditionalist policies.[3] Christian conservatives seek to influence politics and public policy with their interpretation of the teachings of Christianity.[7] In the United States, …
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If Jesus were alive today…..(my very last Jesus episode.)
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“Historically, Jesus has been distorted, warped, corrupted, subverted, twisted, bender, abused, diverted, deflected, misapplied, misused, misrepresented, misinterpreted, misconstrued, falsified, and garbled. The faith-based community fights over interfaith relationships, secular and faith-based relationships, religious text versions, religious text…
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All of the reasons for the decline of both Christianity and Church attendance in the Western World. (My very last Christianity episode.)
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“This is my scratching rebuke of The Churchianity Pharisees, not the True Christians in the Church. They violate The Ten Commandments, but pretend that they don’t. They tell people not to drink coffee nor soft drinks, but they consume both behind the scenes. They tell people to not use gigolos, but they do so anyway and anyhow. They live secret liv…
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My omnism and my spiritual humanism (my last episode about believers and theists.)
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“Omnism is the respect of or belief in all religion.[1][2] Those who hold this belief are called omnists. In recent years, the term has been resurfacing due to the interest of modern-day self-described omnists who have rediscovered and begun to redefine the term. Omnism is similar to syncretism, the belief in a fusion of faiths in harmony.[3] Howev…
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Irreligion (my last episode about unbelievers and nonbelievers.)
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Links: Irreligion - WikipediaCriticism of religion - WikipediaReligious skepticism - WikipediaSo many houses of worship fight over: •The designs and architecture of houses of worship. •The music, praise and worship, preaching, preaching styles, preaching content, wardrobe, and the usage of beauty products •Knowing vs. believing•racial justice •tele…
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Inner beauty is my religion and my religion is inner beauty. (My last views on religion episode.)
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Here is a list of all of the words ending in the suffix -ology that are in religious texts that many in the faith-based community fight over: “https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_words_with_the_suffix_-ology.” -Wikipedia. The global faith-based community fights over: The Universal Declaration of Human rights Sex workers' rights The Declaration …
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Talking to my child me about theology (my last child me in faith episode.)
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“Child me, I am called to do : •Welfare State •Welfare •Soup Kitchen •Social insurance •Labor laws•Taxation•Air Force•Paramedics•Equal Opportunity•Courts•Social Equality•Social justice•ensure distribution of wealth•regulation of markets•public health•public schools•public services•the breaking of barriers for social mobility, the creation of safety…
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Every woman I slept with in the past was a survivor/victim of physical abuse and sexual abuse. (My last episode about my sexual past.)
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“I forgive all of the women, and others that I was intimately with and I know that they all forgive me. We love each other, we don’t judge each other. We grant each other the same respect and same right that we individually desire for ourselves. We envision each other generously, graciously, and compassionately. Every partner I had in my sensitive …
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My public life integrity and my private life integrity compliment, not insult each other. (My last public figure episode.)
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“My public life values are consistent with my private life values, therefore, my public life and my private life do not annihilate each other. They are one and the same because they do affect each other.” -Antonio Myers. I am called to help resolve and solve issues, problems, and conflicts in each industry (Outline of industry - Wikipedia.) --- Sup…
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My final episode on intimacy professionalism and sex surrogacy
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“The concepts of sex surrogates and surrogate partner therapy were originally introduced by pioneering gynecologist Dr. William Masters and sexologist Virginia Johnson to help men overcome sexual dysfunction. Currently, sex surrogates work with both men and women. In surrogate partner therapy, the sex surrogate takes a client through a multi-step p…
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