Tilip and Blaire are here! We anticipate the complaints they'll be making: about the heat, about the cold, about God knows what, ahead of their arrival in Fort Wayne. If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a five-star review! We love those (and tho…

The rules by which all wedding guests should adhere. (Inspired by…) If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a five-star review! We love those (and those who post them). The best time to join our Patreon was yesterday. BUT THE SECOND BEST TIME IS TOD…

…featuring George and Amal, a number of Irish influencers, and Beatrice's run-in with an angry boyfriend at an otherwise lovely party. Read all about Georgie at The Cut: https://www.thecut.com/article/did-george-clooney-really-call-biden-to-defend-his-wife.html And watch Sabrina Carpenter's video! If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques…

…or is it? Buy the Fair Play deck here. If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a five-star review! We love those (and those who post them). The best time to join our Patreon was yesterday. BUT THE SECOND BEST TIME IS TODAY! patreon.com/notwithoutmy…

A little context. Pls feel free to share any and all name suggestions for Rosemary's baby – remember, the emphasis is on imbuing said baby with a strong internal locus of control. Just bear that in mind. If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a fiv…

From Stephen Merchant to Harrison Butker, Ireland's poverty problems, American's opioid crisis and why our grandads loved their tiny chairs… this episode truly has it all. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This title sounds deep and meaningful but mostly Rosemary's lamenting the hair she had before she got her shag and Beatrice is talking about how she can't navigate without her phone (and apparently can't even take down directions). If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while …

…and other things that may not be true. Plus: what are you going for when you dress yourself? What do you say to your child when they point out your droopy boobs? Can you lick your own nipple?! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Beatrice is back in the working world and we're talking about productivity: how to improve it, prioritising and creating the perfect to-do list. If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a five-star review! We love those (and those who post them). The…

That clip you know you want to investigate more? That's thanks to Girls Gone Bible, listen on Spotify here. And learn more about travel sports here! If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a five-star review! We love those (and those who post them).…

Beatrice takes a perfectionism quiz, Rosemary is SICK, OKAY?! and standby for the definition of edging, coming (if you'll excuse the pun) soon to our Patreon: patreon.com/notwithoutmysister If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a five-star review!…

There's some Apple Maps drama, an actual almost altercation in a bar (!!!!) and Rosemary gives a top tip on how to handle the whole, "Is this chair free?" problem. If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a five-star review! We love those (and those …

Honestly, there's nothing to say about this one. Just… never trust a sister when she says "I have a surprise topic for you!" If you have questions, queries, comments, critiques, email them to us! Get us at notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. And while you're at it, leave us a five-star review! We love those (and those who post them). The best time to join o…

Trigger warning for honestly nothing very traumatic at all. We discuss the moments and through-lines in our childhood that simply have to have caused lasting damage; we discuss the elephant's foot piano stool Rosemary sat on while she learned to play James Blunt's entire first album; and Beatrice attempts to tally up the number of times she's moved…

We're talking about online shopping subterfuge, disappointments and mismeasurements, while Beatrice reveals the major criticism her child has about her and Rosemary goes down a long, meandering seed-related sidebar. FYI: This is the swimsuit Bea ordered for her family fun vaycay at a Nashville water park. Rosemary's main love-hate relationship is w…

We're talking about the Hermès Birkin lawsuit, Kim K's $40k bag on the ground at a Lakers game, the Alexander Wang boots Beatrice just had to have (and then Rosemary had to copy and, er, also have), and H&M and the stranglehold its sequined goods seem to have on Beatrice every. Single. Season. Plus! Who, exactly, is allowed to buy a Rolex? Is takin…

In which we discuss our makeup staples, Bea clearly thinks of herself as the Kim of the family (entrepreneurial and stylish, with a rake of kids) and Rosemary refuses to accept "makles" as a portmanteau. (Your thoughts are always welcome.) a face cream by Estée Lauder that's actually by Lancome Bourjois Healthy Mix Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Pen …

We're in agony aunt mode again – and this time topics are a bit more serious than previously. We're discussing emotionally abusive relationships, stay-at-home parenting, and what to do if your sex drive disappears, post-baby?! If you have any questions you'd like us to answer we would love for you to send them to us – email notwithoutmysis@gmail.co…

It's time for us to reveal just how much we know about movies, from Boppenheimer to Flowers of the Killer Moon and more, more, more! The best time to join our Patreon was yesterday. BUT THE SECOND BEST TIME IS TODAY! patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – patrons get bonus content, ad-free listening and more. Email us notwithoutmysis@gmail.com or DM us o…

Elon Musk's Neuralink has come out with a chip, ready to be implanted in all of our brains. But are WE ready?! Read all about it: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/elon-musks-neuralink-has-implanted-its-first-chip-in-a-human-brain-whats-next/ Bryan Johnson, who is dedicating his life to staying young: https://www.businessinsider.com/bryan-…

You have no idea how long it took Bea to whittle her life's soundtrack down to these few songs – so in case you're curious what songs she (grudgingly) omitted, she's only gone and made a very helpful Spotify playlist! Listen to it here and enjoy! There's never been a better time to JOIN THE PATREON! patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – patrons get bonu…

What's MORE than vulgar?! We find out, in this thoroughly investigative episode. P.S. Do you allow elbows on the table in your house?! Please advise. There's never been a better time to JOIN THE PATREON! patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – patrons get bonus content, ad-free listening and more. Email us notwithoutmysis@gmail.com or DM us on Instagram @…

We decided to do our very own Desert Island Discs, detailing the songs that have soundtracked our lives thus far – at least, the ones we can remember… Enjoy! There's never been a better time to JOIN THE PATREON! patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – patrons get bonus content, ad-free listening and more. Email us notwithoutmysis@gmail.com or DM us on Ins…

Somehow a conversation about gratitude journalling has devolved into a reading of Rosemary's teenage diary, a deep dive into why, exactly, Nicky Byrne blocked her on Twitter and a trip down memory lane to the night Beatrice got egged on her way to Whelan's. C'est la vie! There's never been a better time to JOIN THE PATREON! patreon.com/notwithoutmy…

This story is insane – so naturally we just had to talk about it. There's never been a better time to JOIN THE PATREON! patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – patrons get bonus content, ad-free listening and more. Email us notwithoutmysis@gmail.com or DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.…

That's Beatrice's verdict on everything she watches and reads – it's the culture episode! Tessa Bailey's Romancing the Clarksons books Hugh Howey's Wool The 100 If you, like our Dad, like sexy dragon books, this series is great Philip Pullman on the Penguin Podcast Rupi Kaur Amanda Gorman Roald Dahl's Revolting Rhymes Manifest on Netflix Invasion o…

We're talking kitchens, appliances and what, exactly, should go in the press – trust us, it's more interesting than you'd think! Drew Barrymore's Beautiful range at Walmart Surprisingly, the paint colour is NOT called "articulated beige" and is, instead, called "accessible beige" – by Sherwin Williams Rosemary's Pinterest board of kitchen and home …

We found it! (You're welcome.) The love hearts Rosemary talks about up top? Those would be by @atcharlotteshouse on Instagram. Want more NWMS?! There's never been a better time to JOIN THE PATREON! patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – patrons get bonus content, ad-free listening and mooooooore. The Canadian TV shows Bea loved? Due South and Degrassi Ju…

We're talking about the new study that shows that kids learn better on paper than they do on screens – is it really that surprising? Rosemary's still carrying around her Filofax like a 21st century Maggie Thatcher, while Beatrice is never giving up her good old paperback habit. Let us know how you feel YOUR kids get on with on-screen learning – and…

We're talking about the 2024 Grammys: the outfits, the awards, the diversity, and the fact that Taylor Swift once more had a man get up on stage to tell the world she didn't deserve her award. Let us know what you thought of all of the goings on at the Grammys – and check out our Instagram for pics of the outfits we discuss! Let us know your though…

Are any boots truly – truly – made for running, though?! We're talking business dress codes on today's episode, inspired by Beatrice's interview, for which she has to dress in "business professional" attire. And we are… confused. Any and all job interview advice welcome by the way – ESPECIALLY if you're someone who works in recruitment or conducts …

Rosemary's birthday is coming up and she's not sure whether she wants to do anything – while Beatrice always wants to do something for her birthday, but only if the soundtrack is right. Plus: does Rosemary really want these Ugg boots? And Beatrice reads an excerpt from her teenage diary wherein she shows her true colours. ** DM us on Instagram @not…

You can now support the pod from as little as $2/month by joining the Tip Jar tier on patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – help keep the lights on at podcast HQ and show your love for NWMS with less than the price of a black coffee… we love and appreciate every single one of you, but especially appreciate when you choose to support the podcast :) We to…

Rosemary details her history of misbehaving while Beatrice reveals a night when she stayed out way past her curfew and we come to a shocking conclusion: Rosemary was always insufferable! ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are so…

Oh, and other things. Awards season is upon us and you know what that means: open season on discussing the outfits we loved, hated, didn't understand and simply wish would go away. From frills to fascinators, sleek tailoring to embroidered vulvas, we've got the low down on the style at the Golden Globes. ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, o…

When it comes to rules to live by, it turns out that not a single Guardian journalist is right about, well, anything! Rosemary reveals her one true talent, Beatrice once again brings up blow jobs (so vulgar) and we decide what Dr Dad is truly good at. Happy New Year!! ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.c…

And, more importantly, what the blazes are we talking about?! ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here. http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum…

This is not the episode to listen to with your Santa-fan kids – it's the episode where we discuss our families' Christmas traditions, detail what, exactly, we expect in our stockings and whether or not we felt betrayed when we found out the cold, hard, truth about jolly St Nick. ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmy…

We're talking about the wild wild west of the American credit system – and Rosemary is talking about the wild wild west of her credit card collection. It's not her fault! America sucks you right in and spits you right out! P.S. After some belated research, we have discovered that you must be 18 to get a credit card (with someone co-signing for you)…

Beatrice has been unemployed since January – and it's not for lack of interviewing! She's applied for 200+ jobs, which means rewriting her cover letter and redoing her CV 200+ times, a trauma no human should have to endure. We talk about job applications, interviews, interviewing red flags, the day Rosemary walked out of the induction portion of a …

Rosemary once had a very strong opinion on this but, as with all other things, she's mellowed with age. Beatrice wonders what's the point in blanking out your kids' faces if your social media is set to private, and, above all else, we wonder what kind of social media stage mom Blaire Mac Cabe would have been. ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysist…

Rosemary wrote a piece about tradwives on her Substack, 'I Can See the Appeal of the Tradwife Life', which you can read here. The Most Flattering Tradwife Dresses: https://hannaathome.com/tradwife-dress/ Some notable #tradwife accounts include Lex Delarosa, Ballerina Farm and Estee Williams. One in five US households is not online. (Not 50% but any…

It turns out, Beatrice may not have. Things we mention include the Balenciaga towel skirt, Crocs x McDonald's and Katie Holmes' nose ring. Because of course we do. ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, che…

If you'd like to read the incredibly long article about Kanye and Adidas from the New York Times, here's where it's at: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/10/27/business/kanye-west-adidas-yeezy.html The New Yorker's culture podcast, Critics at Large: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/critics-at-large-the-new-yorker/id1704902371 ** DM us on Instagram …

"If she drowned, she was innocent of witchcraft. If she didn't drown, she was considered to be a witch and put to death." Either way, the woman died. We're talking about Britney's book, witches in New England, Trolls 2 (and 3… etc), Beatrice's papier maché skills, Michelle Williams' feminist credentials AND MORE! ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmy…

Beatrice took a trip back to the Emerald Isle and had a great time! But also got very wet! And lost her wallet! Kind of! It was a whole thing. Anyway, she's back now to her REAL home and never allowed to go anywhere without Rosemary ever again. It's called NOT Without my Sister, after all… ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on n…

Y'all, we're sorry but this was a MESSY one! We were talking about self-care and then we were talking about nail polish and then we were talking about the ripeness of a banana and then we were talking about Beatrice single white sister-ing Rosemary and then who the f knows, honestly?! LIFE! BRAINS! WORD SALAD! ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysis…

Auto or over accommodating, for the uninitiated: https://mindkindmom.com/the-toxic-childhood-habit-of-over-accommodating/ (and yes we may have been using the term wrong…) Heather Headley, by the way, is a Grammy- and Tony Award-winning actor and Broadway star! And also plays Helen in Sweet Magnolias, an excellent and possibly underrated Netflix sho…

The answer is: us. Obviously. We will never steer you wrong! Read all about Rolling Stone's Jann Wenner if you're feeling angry and wish to shake your fist at the sky and shout "MEN! FUCKING MEN!" Not that, ahem, that's what I ever do. – Rosemary ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. Rosemary's book, T…

Beatrice is getting crafty, Rosemary has lost her voice and, as usual, Tilip and Blaire are entirely oblivious, eating crisps. ** DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com. Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here. http://www.p…