Best Couple Haters Podcast Podcasts (2024)

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Breaking Free from Your Comfort Zone with Margie Haber 32:22

27m ago32:22

32:22

Daniel and Garet are joined by the legendary acting coach Margie Haber, who has helped shaped the careers of Hollywood stars like Halle Berry and Brad Pitt. Inspired by Margie’s book F*ck Your Comfort Zone, the trio dives deep into the paralyzing grip of fear and how to break free from it. Margie shares her journey of self-discovery and the importa…

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85. Not For Giving Up on People + Why You Should Cry More 1:20:44

3h ago1:20:44

1:20:44

Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/notforeveryone. __ Good morning, kooks! Jess and Caroline start this week’s episode off with a nightmare date story featuring the Spy Museum in DC, a forgotten triple-date memory, a very fortunate run-in with a listener, and the most unexpected (or perfectly on brand?) pump-up music you’ll ever…

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Guess What?? I Have a Couple Haters! 8:27

11h ago8:27

8:27

Today's episode is a funny one -- I actually have a few social media 'haters.' Very mild haters. I'm a bit fascinated by the phenomenon of attacking (even in the most mild way) folks you don't know. So, let's chat about it! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY…

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Oh It's so Good to be Home! 7:39

8h ago7:39

7:39

What is it about being home?? Why does it feel so good to sleep in your own bed? We had a great trip to Costa Rica but it does feel just amazing to be home. Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the guides, emails, and information that may help you on y…

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Celebrity Love Lessons: Representation and the Power of Visibility 25:09

2h ago25:09

25:09

From the timeless romance of Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor to the unique dynamic between RuPaul and George LeBar, these couples teach us that love is not one-size-fits-all. The discussion spans across monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships, highlighting the importance of mutual respect, admiration, and staying true to your authentic sel…

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84. Not for Flirty Husbands + The Best Part About Asking for Help 1:18:31

5d ago1:18:31

1:18:31

This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/ to try it today. __ Your fav duo is back and more upset about things than ever. A WHATADO about a husband being too flirty with friends leads Jess and Caroline to discussions about gray areas in asking people out, partners hanging out with people of the opposite sex, …

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Practice, practice, practice! 11:34

7d ago11:34

11:34

My grandfather used to like that old joke where a man on the street asks someone 'how do you get to Carnegie Hall?' And the reply is 'practice.' Practice is the only way I know of to change how you think. In today's episode, I had to really practice the question: what if it all worked out for me? Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people …

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Is Slowmance and LPDs for You? 28:36

10d ago28:36

28:36

In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet delve into the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, exploring new trends that are shaping how we connect and build relationships in 2024. They discuss the phenomenon of “beard fishing,” where profile pictures with misleading beard lengths cause confusion and disappointment in real-life encounter…

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Oh, I Could Get Used to This! 7:19

7d ago7:19

7:19

Today's episode reflects on my first few days in Costa Rica -- the quiet, my friends, is just amazing. Between the quiet, the slow pace, and the humidity forcing me into sloth-mode, I could definitely get used to this! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All…

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Meet My Mum! Q&A - what was I like as a kid? 1:43:54

11d ago1:43:54

1:43:54

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83. Love Letter: Mindset Shifts for Friends and Flings + “If He Wanted to, He Would” 1:04:38

12d ago1:04:38

1:04:38

Dear listener,Enclosed is a letter from the heart. It contains: • Advice on that friend who won't refund you for a trip you could no longer make • A reminder that almost every relationship let-down is more gradual than it feels in real time • A mindset shift that will help you build and maintain more fulfilling friend groups • The worst TikTok advi…

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Letting the Emotion Pass Through You! 8:13

13d ago8:13

8:13

Despite 'vacation,' today, I am just mad. As my favorite children's book character, Fancy Nancy, would say: 'Furious. This is a more sophisticated word than angry or mad.' And I'm going to accept it and just let it flow through me. Because sometimes we are just plain mad! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) the…

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What’s Really Behind Close Friends: Kinky Fun or Too Much? 22:17

14d ago22:17

22:17

Who's in your "close friends"? Daniel and Garet dive deep into the intriguing world of Instagram’s Close Friends feature, discussing how it reshapes online intimacy and the dynamics within the gay community. From personal anecdotes about provocative posts to the broader implications of creating micro-communities, they explore the various ways peopl…

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Some Time to Recharge! 6:18

16d ago6:18

6:18

We are on the precipice of a big trip and I'm ready! There's this moment -- when you've done all the work and everything is packed and ready -- but right before the trip truly begins. Oh, it's a good moment! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the gui…

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A Sea of Beliefs! 9:16

21d ago9:16

9:16

Today, I share some musings about beliefs and how to shift the nature of your thoughts: what if we can't fully eradicate old, negative beliefs but we can make them a small percentage of the overall 'sea' of beliefs?? Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All o…

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It's a Sure Thing! 6:20

23d ago6:20

6:20

Today’s episode is about a feeling -- a sure feeling. Like you know something is eventually going to happen. I have to say, it’s a pretty great feeling! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the guides, emails, and information that may help you on your …

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Haters Gonna Hate: Block the Shade and Sashay Away 27:45

21d ago27:45

27:45

In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet dive deep into the realities of facing hate and criticism as members of the LGBTQ+ community. Inspired by a recent episode of RuPaul's Drag Race Canada vs. the World, they discuss the pervasive issue of haters, both online and offline, and the unique challenges queer individuals face in today's polit…

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82. For You: The Body Image Talk You Needed a Long Time Ago 1:20:45

28d ago1:20:45

1:20:45

This episode is sponsored by Shopify. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at ⁠shopify.com/notforeveryone/⁠.___This week, Jess and Caroline add to a conversation that seems to affect just about everyone: body image. They go through some listener DMs and cover topics like acknowledging the variability of body image, accepting your body when you’r…

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Happy Birthday, Paul Bloom!! 9:12

1M ago9:12

9:12

I was recently celebrating my uncle's 75th birthday (it would have been my dad's 75th too:) So, today, I share some stories about 'the twins' (my uncle and my dad). And reflect on the curious nature of grief -- it's never really what you might expect. I know this episode sounds a bit depressing but I promise it's not. I loved writing these stories …

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Cruising and Hookup Etiquette: Socks On or Off? 25:50

28d ago25:50

25:50

From recounting personal stories of sweaty encounters to debating whether socks should stay on or come off during sex, Daniel and Garet provide a humorous yet insightful look at what constitutes good manners in intimate situations. They also explore the rules and excitement of cruising, the rise of Sniffies as a mainstream hookup app, and the essen…

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Leaning Into Summer! 8:07

1M ago8:07

8:07

Summer, at least for me, is filled with lots of travel and fun -- but also a complete lack of structure and routine. This summer, rather than fight the 'free for all,' I am working on leaning into it! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the guides, em…

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Should YOUR man follow hot girls? ADHD and Body Image? Molly Mae BBL? BootyByJacks Podcast Ep.4 1:07:20

1M ago1:07:20

1:07:20

things got weird but good weird. sorry mum haha! Ellesha learns what Edging is, life update and new collab with keepthatpump. Should your man follow/like attractive girls on IG, does Molly Mae have a BBL and much more! lets get into it :) IG- bootybyjacks Booty Build and Bikini body programs - bootybyjacks.com…

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81. Not for Meet Cutes + How "Sex and the City" Lied to Us 1:13:33

1M ago1:13:33

1:13:33

Welcome back to Not For Everyone, where this week, Jess and Caroline think people need to cool it. They discuss how people don’t know how to be properly annoyed anymore, how people can’t stop demeaning Americans on the internet, and how people go insane in the comment sections. This leads to some deeper conversations about how we get lost in what a…

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Driving Around in my Minivan! 8:29

1M ago8:29

8:29

Don't worry -- today's episode isn't really about my minivan -- I just had Chuck Berry's 'Driving Around in my Automobile' stuck in my head! This episode is really about some college touring I did recently (not for me, although I'd love to go back) and how magnetic the energy of 'the world is at my fingertips' truly is! Thanks so much for listening…

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The 'Stream' of Consciousness! 10:18

1M ago10:18

10:18

This is the second episode inspired by the new movie ’Inside Out 2!’ I was so tickled by the brilliant concept of an actual ’stream’ of consciousness that I decided to embark on my own stream of consciousness experiment. So this is it friends! Today, I share with you one hour of my own random, ping-pong-ball-like thoughts! Thanks so much for listen…

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The Gaymer's Playersexual Debate 27:47

1M ago27:47

27:47

Hosts Daniel and Garet delve into the concept of playersexuality in video games. They share nostalgic gaming experiences and discuss how modern games like The Sims have evolved to include diverse sexual identities. The conversation highlights the importance of inclusive representation in gaming, particularly for the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts anal…

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80. Not for Eye Contact + Stop Chasing the First Date Spark 1:06:22

1M ago1:06:22

1:06:22

In today’s episode, we’ve got just about every Segment™ in the book for you. Jess and Caroline’s scientific minds put together a theory on attractiveness, a reason we say “you know?” so much, and a realistic take on disappointing people. Also, there’s a NEW segment, folks: Lady Snapple Facts, the first of which brings an often forgotten revelation …

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Do You Need to Acclimate to Peace and Calm?? 6:42

2M ago6:42

6:42

I know we often say we just want things to be calmer but, for so many of us (myself included!), when things are calm, we get a bit antsy. It can feel uncomfortable. Let's talk about why it's so tough for us to enjoy 'peace and calm' and ways we can practice acclimating to it. Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!)…

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Other Ways to Mark Time! 7:41

2M ago7:41

7:41

I've probably traveled this small stretch of real estate in my bedroom tens of thousands of times. So, I thought I'd share some 'bedside' stories (literally bedside) in another way of appreciating and marking the passage of time. Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find mo…

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Ditching Digital Drama: Matchmaking is Making a Comeback 28:06

1M ago28:06

28:06

Join Daniel and Garet as they explore the concept of "sadfishing," where individuals post overly emotional content online to seek validation. They delve into the reasons behind this behavior and its impact on relationships and social media interactions. Moving away from the digital realm, they highlight the growing trend of matchmaking, sharing per…

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Get to know Ellesha 200k Q&A 1:11:17

2M ago1:11:17

1:11:17

We hope you enjoy this episode. This week Ellesha answers all your questions you sent in. Let us know what you want to see next :)

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79. Hater Hour: Deep Friendship Betrayal, Manipulative People, and Getting Closure 1:16:52

2M ago1:16:52

1:16:52

This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/⁠⁠⁠⁠ to try it today. This episode is sponsored by Shopify. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/notforeveryone/. __ It’s Hater Hour, kooks—and Caroline is ready to bear it all. She jumps into a WHATADO about a deep friend betrayal: can they make it right? Or…

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Creating Your Dot-to-Dot! 8:50

2M ago8:50

8:50

Today's episode is about those dot-to-dot books where you can create a koala, a sloth, a kangaroo, etc. Well, not really. What if you could name all of your 'dots' and then not force the connections: if you could get out of the 'how.' There are so many ways to connect all of your 'dots' -- never one path. The fun is watching the connections happen …

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Oh, That Pesky Stray Cat! 8:28

2M ago8:28

8:28

Today's episode is about cats -- sort of. I've been focusing on a 'stray cat' lately and I have to stop! You may have some strays too. Let's talk about these cats and how to move our gaze away from the strays. Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the g…

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Express Yourself: How to Be Confident with TheeAlexanderJ 26:51

2M ago26:51

26:51

In this episode of Modern Gays, we sit down with TheeAlexanderJ, a dynamic influencer known for his vibrant fashion and confident demeanor. We delve into his background, discussing the origins of his confidence and the motivation behind his viral content. Alexander shares experiences growing up, highlighting the challenges and triumphs that shaped …

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78. Not for Empaths + The Bizarre Stigma Around Couples Therapy 1:14:29

2M ago1:14:29

1:14:29

It’s a miracle: Caroline is healed. But the source of her healing is so unexpected that it leads Jess and Caroline down dangerous conversation roads, like discussing dreams and someone identifying as an ~empath~. They talk about how to handle dark mental health days and discuss the difference between self love and self worth, and what to do when th…

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An 'Anteroom' for Words! 6:33

2M ago6:33

6:33

Today’s episode is about how our words and intentions get garbled in translation. A good reminder that we may not always translate someone’s meaning correctly and vice versa. Sometimes words need to sit for a moment in an ’anteroom’ before we should allow them in! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perce…

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My Reaction to a Cafeteria Filled With People!! 7:33

2M ago7:33

7:33

Today’s episode is about how we process nerves, accomplishment, and the like. Processing is hard and sometimes you may just end of crying in the car! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the guides, emails, and information that may help you on your joy…

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100% Delulu: Using Delusion to Get What You Want 26:52

2M ago26:52

26:52

Let's talk about "Delulu," a term that started as a playful social media jab but has evolved into a powerful mindset for achieving your wildest dreams. Daniel and Garet discuss how embracing a bit of delusion can lead to setting and achieving audacious goals. Through personal anecdotes, celebrity examples, and practical tips, they explore the trans…

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Ellesha's Surgery Reveal + Fitness & Life Q&A 1:13:21

2M ago1:13:21

1:13:21

We hope you enjoy this episode, we reveal Ellesha's surgery results and whats going on in our lives this week. we also answer all your questions from last weeks video comments on Spotify/Youtube/IG Add your questions in the comments and we will answer in the next episode!

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77. WHATADO: Flaky Friends + The Lie We Tell About Work/Life Balance 1:12:28

2M ago1:12:28

1:12:28

We know you’ve been wondering what to do lately, and we’re here to deliver. Get ready to dive into some friendship-related WHATADOS: how to handle that flaky bff, what it means to cling to the idea of someone, tips for hosting old friends, and strategies for helping a friend stop talking about their ex. But first, let’s talk work troubles. What doe…

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Metamorphosis (and Some Crazy Butterfly Facts!). 7:59

2M ago7:59

7:59

Today’s episode is about butterflies. Well, kind of. It’s really about using the process of metamorphosis as an allegory to understand our own life transitions. But, I’d listen just for the butterfly facts!! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the gui…

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Burning Down the House! 6:46

2M ago6:46

6:46

Today’s episode is about anger. Anger isn’t always bad -- it can fuel you and provide a sense of purpose and clarity. But, its flames can get so big, it can burn your house down. So let’s talk about anger! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the guide…

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Dating, Friends and Competition (with Love Daddy Trev) 24:20

2M ago24:20

24:20

Daniel and Garet are joined by love and relationship expert Trevor Kuhn from Love Daddy Trev. Together, they address common questions facing single gay men, such as why they might still be single, how to find the right partner, and navigating the complexities of dating in close-knit gay communities. The discussion also touches on the impact of Prid…

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100k Q&A + life update with Ellesha & Jacks (bootybyjacks) 1:33:34

2M ago1:33:34

1:33:34

Add your questions in the comments for us to answer in next weeks video :)

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76. Not for Chafing + Perfectionism is Making Your Relationship Harder 1:10:16

3M ago1:10:16

1:10:16

It’s summer, ya kooks! Except…is it? Caroline and Jess debate when summer actually begins before launching into a WHATADO: how to dress for summer when you’re a curvy honey. Personal style is the conundrum that will never die. They cover wearing color, anti-chafing tips, and their mother’s thoughts on their changing bodies. Plus, Jess has a relatio…

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Maybe It's Time to Go Back to Bed! 6:48

3M ago6:48

6:48

Sometimes you just need to call it. It’s OK to have as Alexander described it: ’a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.’ Or even a not-so-terrible day where you just need to go back to bed. We all can use a reset! Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All…

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Do We All Feel Lost?? 7:14

3M ago7:14

7:14

Today’s episode reflects on one of my favorite questions of late: do we all feel lost?? My magic eight-ball says, ’Yes!’ Thanks so much for listening! I love helping people change (and improve!) their perception of their lives -- aka find more JOY. All of the guides, emails, and information that may help you on your joy journey, can be found on my …

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Power in Gay Pride: Demanding the Love & Respect You Deserve 22:22

2M ago22:22

22:22

In this Pride edition of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet delve into the deeper meaning of pride beyond the celebrations. They discuss how truly owning and expressing your gay pride every day can lead to incredible personal and societal transformations. From the importance of visibility and acceptance to the ongoing fight for equality and the resilien…

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75. Not for Cocktail Parties + How to Stop Micromanaging Everyone in Your Life 1:08:42

3M ago1:08:42

1:08:42

Jess and Caroline start out silly this week with some thoughts on oral talents (not what you think) and boobs as birthstones. In classic Not For Everyone style, this leads into deep conversations about knowing when difficult periods of life will end, how to achieve mindfulness, and the mania of babysitting your partner at social events. Plus, work …

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