In this episode, “Not All Men...Yet,” we dive deep into a powerful movement to reclaim the phrase Not All Men with a renewed purpose of accountability, healing, and change. We explore She Is Not Your Rehab's Not All Men campaign, which challenges men to take ownership of their role in ending cycles of harm and creating a safer world for everyone. H…

In this episode of "Cross the Streams," host Kip Ioane dives into the complex situation surrounding Cleveland Browns quarterback Deshaun Watson. Following his recent Achilles injury and the booing he received from fans, Kip examines the implications of fan behavior and the reactions from fellow athletes, including Myles Garrett and Jameis Winston.T…

In this episode of CTS, we explore three powerful themes: unexpected life shifts, the accountability of men in today's society, and how achievement in sports does not give anyone a free pass from morality. Kip kicks things off by reflecting on a tweet about the Dallas Cowboys that sparked a deep dive into how we measure character in athletes and wh…

In this episode, we explore the evolving landscape of coaching, relationships, and personal growth. We dive into the contrasting philosophies of "hard coaching" versus creating trust and safety for players, using two impactful quotes as our guideposts. I challenge the notion that effective coaching requires emotional detachment or harshness, arguin…

In this episode of the Cross the Streams Podcast, we challenge the old-school mindset of "As a man, I have to..." and explore the power of shifting to "As a human" or even "As ME." Inspired by a recent quote from Coach Ivan C Thomas about "beating feelings into submission," we dive deep into how this language traps men in the restrictive "manbox" a…

In this episode of the Cross The Streams Podcast, we tackle the controversy surrounding LSU's Kyren Lacy and his unsportsmanlike celebration that led to a 15-yard penalty. But we go beyond the penalty flags and fan outrage to dig deeper into what this incident reveals about sports culture, coaching, and how we guide young men toward healthier visio…

In this episode of Cross The Streams, Kip Ioane reacts to a powerful moment from the Democratic National Convention that goes beyond politics and dives deep into the concepts of healthy manhood, emotional fluency, and breaking free from the restrictive "man box." Kip shares a personal connection to the struggles of infertility, fatherhood, and the …

In this episode of Cross The Streams, Kip Ioane delves into three critical topics that every coach, parent, and athlete should consider. First, we explore the often invisible mental load that disproportionately falls on women in relationships and caregiving. Kip shares a personal story from his own life and draws from insights by authors Kate Washi…

In this episode, host Kip Ioane tackles three compelling topics that challenge our perceptions of masculinity and respect for women:Man vs. Bear Debate: Kip explores the viral TikTok debate where many women prefer being stuck with a bear over a man, discussing the real fears and statistics on violence against women.Harrison Butker's Graduation Spee…

Kip returns with a story and deep dive on male objectification of women, including a social media video share from his daughter and two articles exploring how men view women and why "what she was wearing" is NEVER an excuse for harm causedBy Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes back Open Door Abuse Awareness Prevention Founder and CEO, Coach Valencia Peterson for her second appearance on the pod, and the two deep dive her continued work in Maryland, Delaware and Philadelphia to "to prevent violence in all its facets including sexual assault and intimate partner violence."…

Kip shares two articles (one titled "Can Parents Prevent Their Sons From Sliding to the Right?" by Kathryn Jezer-Morton and the other titled "5 ways to shore up boys’ social skills" by Phyllis L. Fagell for CNN) and talks why parents of boys should both read them and his own takeaways from their work.…

Kip returns with content around the ultimate goal of any parent/coach/mentor (3:15), why men defining violence contributes to not believing survivors (9:00) a study imploring adults to take on conversations around healthy relationship skills and consent with their kids (15:31) and examining traits of actual leadership (25:10)…

We're back! Kip welcomes our loyal audience to the first episode of Season 8 of Cross The Streams by laying out a shift in format and focus for the pod. He then answers the mailbag question "What exactly is it you do now?" and then deep dives two current events that tie directly into his work to dismantle #themanbox and its limitations on manhood.…

Kip introduces a brand new segment to the pod, #MaxedOutOnMaxims, where we challenge the relevancy and accuracy of common sayings. This round we take down "High tides raise all ships"By Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes the team from #GetPsychedSports to the pod and they deep dive their #EndAbusiveCoaching initiative and belief in the need for the coaching profession as a whole to evolveBy Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes speaker/writer/prevention educator Carolyn Curtis back to the pod and she details her time at the 2023 NOVA conference, her #PostTraumaWellnessProject, and the rationale behind her belief in Character, Prevention & Purpose.By Kip Ioane

Kip takes on the proposed removal of the BLOCK button on TwitterX and shares a personal interaction online with someone skeptical about the existence of waist cultureBy Kip Ioane

Kip reflects on both his personal lived experience at sports camps (as an athlete and as a 20+ year director/coach of them) and talks things he wants coaches to change in their approach to camps.By Kip Ioane

Kip takes a journey of hope and happiness with Executive Director of the National Council of Dementia Minds Brenda Roberts as the two discuss the radical, inspiring approach her non profit takes in their mission of "People living with dementia transforming the worldview of Neurocognitive Disorders."By Kip Ioane

Kip and Kane are back together, talking potential soundtracks to their mornings, why and why not their degrees from higher education were helpful in their careers, and recalling obstacles from their youth that have turned to strengths in adulthoodBy Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes friend, coach and DEI trainer Aseem Rastogi back to the pod and the two share space in rage and examination of the death of Affirmative Action yesterdayBy Kip Ioane

Kip shares his rage at the Supreme Court's 6-3 decision to end #affirmativeaction at colleges/universities around the countryBy Kip Ioane

Kip interviews Justin Lunt, head coach of the Pacific University Boxers Men's Basketball Program. Coach Lunt details his career arc, the core foundational beliefs of his program and how he tries to define success for his guys on and off the floor.By Kip Ioane

Our segment focusing on the efforts of west coast D3 programs continues as Kip welcomes Head Coach #TimMcCrory of the Lewis and Clark Men's Basketball ProgramBy Kip Ioane

Kip is joined by long time friend and Head Coach of The University of La Verne's Men's Basketball team #CoachRichReed. The two deep dive Rich's career arc, philosophy on and off the floor and define success in his program.By Kip Ioane

Kip sits down with #EverettHS Boys Head Coach Bobby Thompson to talk the why behind his adoption of the #TeamsOfMen coaching framework, the impact it has had on his program, and why other coaches should join the founding group!By Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes friend (and former coaching colleague) #MacoHamilton from George Fox University Men's Basketball to the latest episode of our #LeftCoastStory series. Coach Hamilton discusses his career arc in coaching, D3 stigma's coaches must battle, and how to connect players to achieve success.By Kip Ioane

Kip and Kane are back together, talking proactive vs reactive, how they might coach themselves if their player presented with a trait each of them knows they carry that is counterproductive to success as husbands, fathers and career coaches.By Kip Ioane

We launch a brand new segment entitle #LeftCoastStory, meant to feature the great work of D3 West Coast Athletic programs. We start with HC Chad Murray and the Pacific Lutheran University Men's Basketball team. We deep dive coach's origin story, his philosophy and what he defines as success for players in his program!…

Kip welcomes #DavidGunn back to the pod and the two discuss a women's track team suspended for wearing sports bras to practice outdoors, #JaMorant, and deep dive their shortcomings as #handymen (Kane even joins the last segment).By Kip Ioane

#Kip welcomes #RaceForMinds founder #LaceyAbell to the latests episode of our #RepeatReassureRedirect segments. Lacey details her mother's journey with dementia, talks how she decided to start the #RaceForTheMinds fundraising run in Billings and lets everyone know how to sign up for this year's event!…

Chief Innovation Officer and Co Founder Dr. Reza Hosseini Ghomi of Frontier Psychiatry joins the pod to discuss his unique approach to dementia treatment, optimism around early detection advancements, and details surrounding new medicines.By Kip Ioane

Kip is joined by the team from the Montana Chapter of the Alzheimer's Association and they share the vital work they do, the upcoming #LongestDay fundraiser happening across the country, and areas where the community can become advocates for the cause!By Kip Ioane

Kip and Kane are back, this week deep diving Kane's #NFLDraft experience, Giannis' post game presser on failure and the two of them's thoughts on pushing through low points in life.By Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes back his #CallingMENIn co hosts-Carli Rohner. Campus Coordinator. Oregon Attorney General's Sexual Assault Task Force -Jeff Matsushita. Engaging Men Program Director. Boise State Univand the group discusses wins during SAAM month, teenage sharing of nude pictures, and the need for interruption in violence prevention…

Kip and Kane are back to discuss Kip joining the long line of coaches to be let go, next steps for him AND deep dive why #men need to show up in some spaces smaller and less visibleBy Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes the President of the #eugeneor #ymca #JoeCarmichael to the pod to discuss all things fundraising, family legacy, and capital campaignsBy Kip Ioane

Kip and Kane return to thank everyone for the outpouring of support from everyone after the announcement of the creation of (and reason behind)the #KasIoaneFoundation and share the website for registering golfers for the July 22nd Golf TournamentBy Kip Ioane

Kip deep dives #youth sports participation levels, parents spendings, and how we as adults are RUINING what should be a bastion of growth and development for our kidsBy Kip Ioane

Kip and Kane reunite for the launch of Season 7 of Cross The Streams and make an announcement regarding their father, Kas, and a new family projectBy Kip Ioane

In the season 6 finale, Kip shares a personal story highlighting the constant questioning and angst parents can have while trying to create better for their childrenBy Kip Ioane

Kip tries to find cathartic release and community with fellow grieving #DallasCowboys #CowboysFans after another season appears lost before it barely beganBy Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes back #DavidGunn and #KellyIoane to get their opinions on whether common #lifeadvice sayings are #cliche #mantras or #mehBy Kip Ioane

Kip deep dives the now debunked pseudo science the "alpha male" theory is supposedly based inBy Kip Ioane

Kip recounts his awkward convo with a service provider and then deep dives the history of, science behind, and expectations for tipping in today's societyBy Kip Ioane

Kip wraps up our 3-part mini series #wordsmatter with a sharing of his research on "ineffable" and what it means when something cannot be expressed with wordsBy Kip Ioane

Kip continues his series on #WordsMatter, this week discussing the practices of "sanitization" and "passive voice" and the harm each can cause in our discourseBy Kip Ioane

Kip deep dives ways the deployment of words can help or hinder your ability to cause change in behavior as both a #coach, #parent, #educator, or #employerBy Kip Ioane

Kip welcomes Speaker/Writer/Advocate #CarolynGCurtis to the pod and she details the why/what/how of her work to end #oppression #sexualassault in all formsBy Kip Ioane