In this episode Christy and Tanesia wax dreamy while discussing the Star Card, reflecting on the ancient watery quiet emanating off of it, and the experiences they had on much needed dates with themselves. Get cozy, light some incense, and listen to these lilting and wandering musings! #starcardtarot #datewithyourself #artistdate #JuliaCameron #dat…

An 8 ft long, 1 foot wide episode about all things ding-a-ling. In our longest episode yet (1 hour 56 minutes–not that we’re measuring it or anything), Christy and Tanesia discuss slang words, biological phenomena, pegging, strap-ons, actual penis festivals, and the messages of the tower card as they relate to creative energy, receptivity and the b…

Welcome baaack to the Dates of Our Lives. Join Tanesia and Christy as they introduce the third season of the pod, and chat about the third line of the Tarot, the Devil Card, and how person power intersects relationships in magical ways. #deviltarotcard #datesofourlivespodcast #personalpower #tarot #magic #relationships Please send your dating/magic…

In the final episode of the season, Tanesia and Christy talk to returning guest, Pete, about the etiquette of threesomes, the alchemy of the Temperance card, and the magic and possibility of the unknown. Paying homage to endings and new beginnings, the three cast a sexy spell full of unknowns and alchemical possibilities! Special thanks to Dr Jagua…

In this episode Christy and Tanesia drink beer again and discuss the etymology of La Petite Mort, types of orgasms, and how these things might connect to the death card in the tarot. Join us while we cum to some pretty remarkable realizations and revelations! Thanks to Dr. Jaguar for composing our theme music and check out these other folks who we …

In this episode we talk about the Hanged One tarot archetype, and BDSM! Content warning: we discuss themes around sex, restraint, porn, power dynamics, pain, vulnerability, humiliation play, breath play, shame, domination, and more. If you feel triggered by these topics, take care of yourself, and opt out of this episode. Know we are basing our con…

Join Christy and Tanesia in a new Chariot year! We talk about the messy middle—both in tarot terms (transitioning from the Lovers to the Chariot through the lens of Justice) and in CRUSH ENERGY terms! You know that vibe-y fun energy that makes you feel alive and vibrant? Does it have to be dependent on someone else? Maybe not!? #crushenergy #tarotm…

In this episode Christy and Tanesia think about dating whilst playing board games with their dates, Jordan and Pete. First impressions! Curiosity! Play! Patience! Explore these themes with us as we play Heart Throb and Dream Crush at Empire Board Games in Albuqerque. Thank you to guests Pete Bourland and Jordan Hines! Thank you Empire Board Games f…

In this episode, Tanesia and Christy share ghost(ing) stories with special guest, Rudy Montoya. Join them by the fire as they explore the surprisingly tender side of ghosting! Thanks to Dr Jaguar for the theme music and to Rudy Montoya for making us cackle back so much! If you have an episode idea, a hilarious dating story or just want to shower us…

In this episode, Christy and Tanesia are back and rowdier than ever! They introduce the new season talking about flirting while flirting with each other. Catch up on how they are conceiving of their dating projects and consider how the energy of flirting works for you! Don't forget to DM your dating topic for "You've Got Mail!" @datesofourlivespod …

We’re coming back for season 2 in September! In the meantime send us your 1-3 minute stories about pandemic dating or ghosting! Audio files can be sent to datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com While your waiting stream all of season 1! music by Dr JaguarBy datesofourlivespodcast

Christy and Tanesia discuss the Chariot card, internalized capitalism and their approach to a hot, lazy summer! The subject of dating takes a backseat in our chariot as we take a pod break for summer! We will return to regular podding in September. In the meantime, catch up on old episodes! Also, please send us your thoughts and reach out about dat…

In this episode Tanesia and Christy ask each other and others "what do you want?" regarding relationships, love, and dating. We talk about the Lovers card and choice! Thank you to Dr. Jaguar for composing our music. Thank you to all our friends, or "callers" (double entendre?) who answered our question this week! Originally published May 2, 2022 #a…

In this episode Tanesia and Christy talk to folks about the lessons they've learned from the "higher authority" (or Hierophant) of Rom Coms! We discuss grand gestures, conflict and self growth montages, frivolity and the iconic 'meet cute.' Thank you to guests: Dani Belvin, Ian Colburn, Emily Schuyler, Brennan, and George and Lorraine Cook! Thank y…

In this episode Tanesia, Christy and Jordan discuss Patriarchy and dating through the lens of the Emperor card. They dish about daddies, structures that are imposed, and dream into structures they want to create. For next week we are seeking your responses! What have you learned from the "authority" of Rom Coms (or contemporary romance lit) about r…

In this episode Christy and Tanesia share updates about their dating projects--including highlights from their date with each other #willyoubemytatdaddy? They discuss how themes, symbols and energies of the Empress card relate to romancing oneself. Thank to Chaney Howe @chanaya_twain and Shadow of Comfort Tattoo for facilitating our date with eacho…

Christy and Tanesia discuss First Dates, and in particular the first dates they went on on Valentines Day! We hear some audio moments from their dates, and more! What makes a first date great? Thank you to Kate V. and Ezra. Theme music composed by Dr. Jaguar. #firstdates #valentines #tarot #highpriestess #magic #comedy #dating Originally published …

In the first official episode Christy and Tanesia talk about Valentines Day, cards of love, and it's origin in the festival of Lupercalia. Special guest Kate V. gives us some more information about the witchy holiday and we here some hot takes from our listeners! #valentinesday #comedy #tarot #magic #hottakes #lupercalia #puzzlepurse Originally pub…

In this introductory, "fool" episode Christy and Tanesia talk about their impetus for starting the podcast and what to expect! #magic #laughs #comedy #tarot #dating #datingprojects Originally published February 2022By datesofourlivespodcast