Best Dorothy O Neil Podcasts (2024)

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Ep. 44: Refinancing Mortgages and Loan Assumptions in Divorce 30:23

29d ago30:23

30:23

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Natalie Frazier regarding the post-COVID trends for refinancing your mortgage, loan assumptions, and where to be cautious. Natalie Corsello Frazier is a licensed Pennsylvania Loan Officer and Title Agent working in the real estate industry for more than 30 years. Natalie's expertise lies in mortga…

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Ep. 45: Why You Actually May Want Your Family Law Attorneys to be Amicable in your Case 33:21

1M ago33:21

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In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Attorney Lisa Standish, owner of the Law Offices of Lisa Standish, regarding why it may actually benefit parties to hire attorneys who actually get along. Attorney Lisa Standish works work with a vast array of individuals, young and old, whether they are married or single, as they face a broad arr…

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Ep. 43: Co-Parenting Teenagers in a Separation or Divorce 52:09

3M ago52:09

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In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Erin Troup, LPC, NCC, CT, IMH-E IV®, owner of Sprout Center for Emotional Growth and Development, LLC. Together, they discuss the unique issues with co-parenting teenagers in both healthy co-parenting relationships and volatile co-parenting relationships. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Foun…

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Ep. 42: School Choice: Whose School District Does the Child Attend? 30:59

4M ago30:59

30:59

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss the issue of school choice, including where a child should go to school after separation or divorce. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Div…

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Ep. 41: Travel and Vacation with Minor Children After Separation 34:25

4M ago34:25

34:25

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss traveling and vacationing with minor children after separation from your ex. Can you cross state lines with your children without your ex's permission? Can you take children on vacation without your ex's permission? Can you fly with your children without your ex's permission. …

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Ep. 40: The Custody Crazies: Do's and Don'ts in Custody Cases 46:12

5M ago46:12

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In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko tackle the Do's and the Don'ts in custody cases, including the behaviors to really avoid, and why it is important to set healthy co-parenting practices as soon as you separate. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family…

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Ep. 39: Step-Parent Adoptions in PA 35:12

5M ago35:12

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In this episode, Attorneys Aleksandra Kocelko and Dorothy O'Neil discuss step-parent adoption in Pennsylvania, including the procedure, what is needed, and the law surrounding step-parent adoptions. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practi…

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Ep. 38: Hiring an Attorney? What to Ask at an Initial Consultation 35:42

6M ago35:42

35:42

Happy New Year and Welcome to 2024! In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil discusses hiring an attorney, and what to expect at an Initial Consultation, including what to bring, what to ask, and what to avoid. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Di…

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Ep. 37: The Social Emotional Lens of Infants & Toddlers in Divorce with Erin Troup 39:53

9M ago39:53

39:53

In this Episode, Dorothy interviews Erin Troup, who is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in early childhood social emotional needs, particularly attachment, grief & loss, trauma and anxiety. Erin is also the owner of Sprout Center for Emotional Growth and Development, LLC. Erin and Dorothy discuss the impact of divorce particularly on …

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Introduction to BOK Law & Mediation Services 17:01

1y ago17:01

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We have been busy the last couple of months forming our brand new law firm, BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC! But we are back and ready to tackle the difficult issues surrounding divorce and separation in PA! In this introductory episode, we address who we are, what services we provide, and how we stand out! If you are in need of any family law o…

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Ep. 36: Top Myths about Family Law Cases 18:44

1+ y ago18:44

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In this episode, Dorothy discusses and dispels 14 common myths, misconceptions, and rumors about family law cases. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. If you have any questions, please c…

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Ep. 35: The Online Mediation Movement 18:58

1+ y ago18:58

18:58

Dorothy is back! In this episode, Dorothy explains online mediation, its benefits, and how Dorothy has revamped her online mediation program. Learn about the "Four C's and the E: Communication, Convenience, Comfort, Cost, and Efficiency." Dorothy also explains how many more clients can mediate their entire divorce case, without even leaving the com…

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Ep. 34: Divorce Recovery - What Happens After You are Divorced? 36:43

2y ago36:43

36:43

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Michell Butcher, MA, LPC, regarding how to recover after a divorce or separation is finalized. Often attorneys can get clients over the finish line, but there is still work to be done. Michelle Butcher, MA, LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Divorce Mediator with Cognitive Behavior Institute. Michelle'…

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Ep. 33: Relocation: Can my Ex Just Up and Move with the Kids? 30:23

2y ago30:23

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In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss relocation in PA: what it is, whether parents can easily move out of state with children, and what the legal requirements are for relocation. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborativ…

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Ep. 31: From the Outside Looking In - How Family & Friends Can Be a Support System for Divorcing Parties 47:58

2y ago47:58

47:58

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil is joined by Michelle Butcher, LPC, to discuss how family and friends can be a support system for those going through a separation or divorce. More importantly, they discuss what family and friends SHOULD NOT do or say to loved ones going through a divorce. Michelle Butcher, MA, LPC, is a Licensed Profession…

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Ep. 30: Our Family Wizard, a Co-Parenting Resource 39:46

2y ago39:46

39:46

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Attorney Michelle (Elle) Barr regarding the benefits of using the well-known resource and app, OurFamilyWizard. This resource has been used in and out of courts to assist families transitioning to a co-parenting relationship post-separation. Attorney Michelle (Elle) Barr is an experienced Court Attorney with a de…

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Ep. 29: Parental Alienation with Dr. Eric Bernstein 41:05

2y ago41:05

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In this episode, Dorothy interviews Dr. Eric Bernstein to discuss Parental Alienation, and the impact on custody case. Dr. Eric Bernstein was previously interviewed in our Custody Evaluations episode. Dr. Bernstein is a Licensed Psychologist and he is most widely recognized for his work as an evaluator in child custody, child dependency, and juveni…

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Ep. 28: Cheater Cheater Marriage Defeater: Infidelity in Divorces 23:30

2y ago23:30

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In this episode, Dorothy discussed cheating/infidelity/adultery, and its impact on divorces and separation. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. If you have any questions, please contact …

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Ep. 27: Cohabitation Nation: The Era of Living Together without Being Married 26:04

2y ago26:04

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In this episode Dorothy is joined by Co-Founding Partner, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss cohabitation and living with someone with whom you are in a relationship, but not married. There are legal ramifications that people often don't consider in entering into this relationship, especially when they choose to purchase a house together, witho…

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Ep. 26: Narcissism: It is as Common as We Think with Tanya Bashor 37:33

2+ y ago37:33

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In this episode, Dorothy interviews Tanya Bashor to discuss narcissism, and the impact of narcissism on divorce cases. Tanya Bashor is a Certified Narcissistic Trauma Informed Coach, Hypnotherapist & Brainspotting Practitioner, and the owner of Impart Clarity, LLC. Tanya offers information, education, strategies for those who have been emotionally …

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Ep. 25: Marital Purgatory: Do I Stay or Do I Go? 37:22

2+ y ago37:22

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In this episode, Dorothy interviews Dr. Jonathan Impellizzeri, or "Dr. J" to discuss "marital purgatory" and what options or resources are available to married persons whose marriages are at the brink of "Do I Stay or Do I Go?" Dr. Jonathan Impellizzeri, PhD, LPC, LMFT, ACS, BC-TMH, also knows as "Dr. J" is the first Certified Gottman Couple Therap…

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Ep. 24: Dating After Separation & When to Introduce Your Significant Other to the Children 34:25

2+ y ago34:25

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In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by Co-Founder of BOK Law & Mediation Services, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko, to discuss dating after your separation, when it is appropriate to notify your ex, and when it is appropriate to introduce your significant other to your children. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediatio…

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Ep. 23: The Do's & Don'ts of Your Initial Separation 51:00

2+ y ago51:00

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In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko outline what you should do, and what you should avoiding doing during your initial separation from your ex. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divo…

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Ep. 22: New Year's Resolution: Get a Divorce? 15:50

2+ y ago15:50

15:50

It's 2022 and a New Year! If your New Year's resolution involves finalizing that separation, or initiating that divorce, Dorothy suggested pursuing this as you would a New Year's resolution, and breaks down how to do that! Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Coll…

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Ep. 21: From the Child's Eyes. The Impact of Divorce and Separation on Children with Lynn MacBeth 57:52

2+ y ago57:52

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In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Lynn MacBeth to discuss the impact divorce or separation can have on children, including how children can interpret the divorce or separation. Lynn MacBeth is recognized both locally and nationally as a leading conflict mediator. Her practice focuses on workplace, family, business, and liability cases. She hold…

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Ep. 20: The Financial Impact of Divorce 36:16

2+ y ago36:16

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In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by Donna Cheswick, owner of Cheswick Divorce Solutions, to discuss the financial impact of divorce on parties. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. If y…

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Ep. 19: Navigating the Holidays During a Divorce or Separation 29:36

2+ y ago29:36

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In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by co-founder Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss how to navigate the holidays during a divorce or separation. Whether it is your first time navigating the holidays after separation, or you've been doing it for years, we offer some tips and tricks on how to get through the holidays with some optimism! Dorothy O'Neil, Es…

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Ep. 18: Social Security in Divorce 30:43

2+ y ago30:43

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In this episode, Attorney O'Neil is joined by Theresa Hutchinson to navigate the complex world of social security. Over the last several years, there has been a significant increase in divorces of couples aged 55 years and older, which can have an impact on retirement and social security. Theresa Hutchinson is the Vice President of Medallion Wealth…

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Ep. 17: All Right STOP, Collaborate, and LISTEN - The Collaborative Divorce Process 29:23

2+ y ago29:23

29:23

In this episode, Dorothy explains what the Collaborative Process is, and why it could be a better out-of-court option for your family. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. If you have any…

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Ep. 16: Intersection of Divorces & Estate Planning 29:16

3y ago29:16

29:16

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss the intersection of divorces with estate planning, including wills, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner,…

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Ep. 15: Domestic Violence & Protection from Abuse Cases 1:03:01

3y ago1:03:01

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In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Attorney Margaret "Maggie" Prescott from the Women's Center and Shelter of Greater Pittsburgh to discuss intimate partner violence and Protection from Abuse actions. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce P…

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Ep. 14: To Mediate or Not to Mediate, THAT is the Question 30:16

3y ago30:16

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In this Episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil reviews the growing trend of parties using Mediation to settle their divorce. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. If you have any questions, plea…

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Ep. 13: Spousal Support in Divorce Cases 39:40

3y ago39:40

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In this episode, Dorothy is joined by fellow Founding Partner Attorney Rachael Bowe to discuss spousal support in divorce cases. Dorothy and Rachael explain the three forms of spousal support in PA (spousal support, APL, and alimony) and the differences between them. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Servi…

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Ep. 12: Child Support - What is it really for? 41:48

3y ago41:48

41:48

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by her Partner and fellow Founding Member Attorney Rachael Bowe to discuss the basics of child support. This is Part 1 of a two-part episode series featuring Rachael Bowe. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorc…

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Ep.11: Drug & Alcohol Addiction and Evaluations in Family Law Cases with Dr. Paul Herman 45:44

3y ago45:44

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In this episode, Dorothy interviews Dr. Paul Herman regarding the impact of drug and alcohol addiction in divorce cases, and how drug and alcohol evaluations can be used. Dr. Paul Herman is a Psychotherapist and Clinical Evaluator at Allegheny Psychological and Counseling Services in Pittsburgh, PA. He specializes in treating anxiety and depression…

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Ep. 10: Premarital Agreements 30:44

3y ago30:44

30:44

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil discusses Premarital Agreements and how they can be an important tool in managing your marriage. Learn what they are, what terms can be included, what stigmas are attached to them, and how premarital mediation can be a great option for implementing a Premarital Agreement. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner an…

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Ep. 9: Your Divorce Story 19:04

3y ago19:04

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Taking control of your divorce narrative is perhaps the most important part of your divorce or separation. In this episode, Dorothy explains the importance of developing your divorce story, including what a divorce story is, and what you will tell family/friends versus what you will tell your children. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding…

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Ep. 8: Budgets & Divorce Settlement Proceeds with Kiersten McCort 43:32

3y ago43:32

43:32

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Private Wealth Advisor, Kiersten McCort, to talk about how budgets are used in divorces, and what you can do with the settlement proceeds in a divorce or separation. Kiersten McCort has more than 22 years of experience as a Private Wealth Advisor and Chartered Retirement Planning Counselor with The McCort Baker…

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Ep. 7: Croissants & Custody 1:14:39

3y ago1:14:39

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In this episode, Dorothy interviews fellow Founding Partner of BOK Law & Mediation Services, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko regarding the general aspects of custody law in Pennsylvania. Learn about the types of custody in PA, the custody procedure, what is included in custody agreements and orders, and how children may be involved in custody. Dorothy …

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Ep. 6: The F Word in Divorce: Forgiveness with Psychologist Lori Gephart 40:43

3y ago40:43

40:43

Dorothy is joined by Licensed Psychologist, Lori Gephart, to address the "F Word" in divorce and separation cases: Forgiveness! Listen to hear more about whether forgiveness is really possible after a divorce. Lori Gephart is President of North Hills Psychological Associates, Inc.. She is a Licensed Psychologist, Collaborative Divorce Coach, Family…

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Ep. 5: How to Handle the House in a Divorce with Natalie Frazier 41:41

3+ y ago41:41

41:41

What happens to the marital residence in a divorce or separation? In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Natalie Frazier about the options available to divorcing and separating couples. Natalie Corsello Frazier is a licensed Pennsylvania Loan Officer and Title Agent working in the real estate industry for more than 30 years. Natalie's …

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Ep. 4: Money, Money, Money, MON-AY: Financial Psychology with Julia Kramer 49:20

3+ y ago49:20

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In this episode, Dorothy interviews Julia Kramer to dive into Financial Psychology, and the impact it can have on the divorce process. Julia Kramer is a CPA, Certified Financial Therapist Level I, and Financial Behavior Specialist. She presently serves as the Financial Behavior and Leadership Consultant for Signature Financial, supporting both Sign…

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Ep. 3: Custody Evaluations with Dr. Eric Bernstein 36:18

3+ y ago36:18

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In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Dr. Eric Bernstein to address custody evaluations used in custody proceedings. Dr. Bernstein is a Licensed Psychologist, and he is most widely recognized for his work as an evaluator in child custody cases, child dependency, and juvenile delinquency cases. He has been performing evaluations since 2004, and is r…

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Ep. 2: All is Fair in Love & War 13:13

3+ y ago13:13

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We have all heard the phrase, "All is Fair in Love and War," but how does fairness come into play with a divorce? How is it defined, and how does the Court apply it? Listen to this episode to find more about fairness and accountability in family law. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. She is…

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Ep. 1: What is a Divorce & How Do You Get One? 22:31

3+ y ago22:31

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What is a Divorce, and how do you get one in Pennsylvania? In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil discusses the general aspects of obtaining a divorce, including how the court views divorce cases, Pennsylvania law surrounding divorce cases, and the various methods to settle divorces. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK La…

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Introduction to Donuts & Divorce: A Family Law Podcast 5:25

3+ y ago5:25

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Welcome to Donuts & Divorce, where in the early morning hours, fueled with strong coffee and donuts, we tackle the hard topics surrounding families going through a separation or divorce. Subscribe to learn about family law in Pennsylvania, including divorce, custody and support matters, as well as estate issues. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner an…

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