I am Dr. Connie Borden, a Christian psychologist and author, and the founder of Totally Transformed Ministries. Our ministry offers healing and deliverance to Christians who are saved, but not experiencing the soul freedom Jesus came to give. The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy, and does not constitute a consent to treat nor does it constitute privileged communication with a pastor or psychologist, but rather they are podcasts dedicated to ed ...
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Dutch Sheets is an author and preacher that wrote the international best seller, Intercessory Prayer. He records a daily video devotional at his website and on his app, Give Him 15, and recently he recorded an episode on the Soul and our triune being. This is a topic near and dear to our hearts at Totally Transformed Ministries, so we wanted to sha…
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Why can’t everything go the way we want? What is God doing when things go “wrong” in our lives? Join Dr. Connie and Lance as they discuss what God is up to in the hard and disappointing times.----------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy, and doe…
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What is God Doing That You’re Not Seeing?
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God is always working, even when we don’t see it and don’t know it. We can be confident that He is moving on our behalf and to draw us to Himself. Join Dr. Connie and Lance as they discuss how they know God is working and how you can know too.----------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes in…
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Public education has been declining in America since the Bible was taken out of schools in the 1960s. With that in mind, should we continue to send our children into our local school system or pivot to Christian education? Join Dr. Connie and Lance as they discuss this critical topic.----------------------------------------------------------------T…
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Public education has been declining in America since the Bible was taken out of schools in the 1960s. With that in mind, should we continue to send our children into our local school system or pivot to Christian education? Join Dr. Connie and Lance as they discuss this critical topic.----------------------------------------------------------------T…
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As followers of Jesus, we are called to follow in his footsteps and obey His call to ministry to others. But as we do that, are we making our primary family’s needs a priority? God has given us the charge of our family members in the various roles we hold in their lives for a reason. Join Dr. Connie and Lance as they discuss this vital topic.------…
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On this episode join Dr. Connie and Lance for the topic of not giving up in prayer. Praying and believing for healing - specifically in our physical bodies - doesn’t always happen the way we want. Why is that? And how do we know we're doing our part in fervent, affective prayer?----------------------------------------------------------------The Tot…
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Do you have character? That is - the moral firmness in your life to do the right thing when nobody’s looking? Join us for part 4 of a study of character qualities we should emulate from the lives of the patriarchs and saints in the Bible.----------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes informa…
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Do you have character? That is - the moral firmness in your life to do the right thing when nobody’s looking? Join us for part 3 of a study of character qualities we should emulate from the lives of the patriarchs and saints in the Bible.----------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes informa…
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Do you have character? That is - the moral firmness in your life to do the right thing when nobody’s looking? Join us for part 2 of a study of character qualities we should emulate from the lives of the patriarchs and saints in the Bible.-------------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes info…
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Do you have character? That is - the moral firmness in your life to do the right thing when nobody’s looking? Join us as we begin a study of character qualities we should emulate from the lives of the patriarchs and saints in the Bible.-------------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes inform…
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Once you are healed and set free, you enjoy new freedom in Christ, and whom the Son has set free is free indeed. Even so, staying free isn’t automatic, because the enemy would like nothing more than to wound and bind you again. Join us as we discuss 10 ways to stay free in this new year, building on the first 5 steps from part 1.-------------------…
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Once you are healed and set free, you enjoy new freedom in Christ, and whom the Son has set free is free indeed. Even so, staying free isn’t automatic, because the enemy would like nothing more than to wound and bind you again. Join us as we discuss 10 ways to stay free in this new year.--------------------------------------------------------------…
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Myths About the Soul - Part 4 - Do You Have a Part to Play in Your Soul Healing?
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The soul is invisible. As a result it’s out of sight, out of mind for many. But the Bible is very clear about the existence of the soul in every human, in addition to its separateness from the spirit and body. Left unaddressed, the soul’s health and therefore our overall health will suffer, even if we are saved. Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Bor…
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Childhood Christmas Memories - Happy and Sad
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Not all Christmas memories are created equally, unfortunately. The reality is that some are happy and some are sad. The great news is that God can heal each and every negative memory, while we relish and enjoy the positive ones. Join Dr. Connie Borden, Bill Borden and Lance Borden as they share some of their childhood Christmas memories, good and b…
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Myths About the Soul - Part 3 - Can the Soul Be Damaged?
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The soul is invisible. As a result it’s out of sight, out of mind for many. But the Bible is very clear about the existence of the soul in every human, in addition to its separateness from the spirit and body. Left unaddressed, the soul’s health and therefore our overall health will suffer, even if we are saved. Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Bor…
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Myths About the Soul - Part 2 - What is the Soul?
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The soul is invisible. As a result it’s out of sight, out of mind for many. But the Bible is very clear about the existence of the soul in every human, in addition to its separateness from the spirit and body. Left unaddressed, the soul’s health and therefore our overall health will suffer, even if we are saved. Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Bor…
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Myths About the Soul - Part 1 - Do We Even Have a Soul?
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The soul is invisible. As a result it’s out of sight, out of mind for many. But the Bible is very clear about the existence of the soul in every human, in addition to its separateness from the spirit and body. Left unaddressed, the soul’s health and therefore our overall health will suffer, even if we are saved. Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Bor…
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What should be our posture towards the present day war in Israel? Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they discuss these ongoing historical events.-------------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy, and does not constitute a consent to treat…
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Common Issues Christians Face - Performance Anxiety Part 2
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We all face similar challenges as we navigate our Christian walk. Join us as we discuss some of the more common issues Christians face and how we can walk in righteousness as we encounter each one. In this episode we continue to talk about dealing with anxiety in our lives, and how we can walk in peace instead of being anxious.---------------------…
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Common Issues Christians Face - “Performance” Anxiety
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We all face similar challenges as we navigate our Christian walk. Join us as we discuss some of the more common issues Christians face and how we can walk in righteousness as we encounter each one. This week we discuss how we are prone to “perform“ in order to feel accepted by God and to earn the approval of others, producing anxiety, when in fact …
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Common Issues Christians Face - Doing Things “With” and Not Just “For"
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We all face similar challenges as we navigate our Christian walk. Join us as we discuss some of the more common issues Christians face and how we can walk in righteousness as we encounter each one.--------------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy…
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Common Issues Christians Face - Discernment vs. Judgement
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We all face similar challenges as we navigate our Christian walk. Join us as we discuss some of the more common issues Christians face and how we can walk in righteousness as we encounter each one.--------------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy…
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Common Issues Christians Face - Contentment
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We all face similar challenges as we navigate our Christian walk. Join us as we discuss some of the more common issues Christians face and how we can walk in righteousness as we encounter each one.--------------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy…
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There are more children in sex slavery today than there was when slavery was legal. That’s reality. So what are we going to do about it? Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they discuss the reality of what’s happening in our world, and what we can do to fight back.--------------------------------------------------------------------The Totall…
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There are more children in sex slavery today than there was when slavery was legal. That’s reality. So what are we going to do about it? Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they discuss the reality of what’s happening in our world, and what we can do to fight back.--------------------------------------------------------------------The Totall…
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Responding to Trauma: How to Process & Understand Reasons for Mass Shootings in America - Part 2
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The frequency of mass shootings is only increasing in our nation, and each time it happens it can traumatize our soul. In part 1 we talked about how to keep these items from traumatizing and paralyzing us. This time we identify the root cause of why they happen. Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they address this poignant topic.-----------…
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Responding to Trauma: How to Process & Understand Reasons for Mass Shootings in America - Part 1
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The frequency of mass shootings is only increasing in our nation, and each time it happens it can traumatize our soul. Can these horrific events be decreased and how do we keep them from paralyzing our lives when they occur? Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they discuss this topic.----------------------------------------------------------…
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What are the benefits of wisdom, where does it begin, and how do we get it? The treasure of the book of Proverbs tells us. Join Dr. Connie and Lance as they discuss this simple but powerful topic.--------------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy,…
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Foundational Principles of Marriage - Part 5
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In this last episode of our series on the foundational principles of marriage, Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden discuss how to deal with strongholds in your spouse that are affecting the marriage relationship. If you haven’t listened to part 4, it is important to listen to it first before listening to this episode.--------------------------------…
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Foundational Principles of Marriage - Part 4
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In part 4 of this series on the foundational principles of marriage, Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden discuss identifying strongholds in marriage, specifically those that we may have that could be contributing to conflict in our marriage. While it’s easy to look at our partner and blame them for the problems in our marriage, we make progress when…
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The Foundational Principles of Marriage - Part 3
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Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden for part 3 of a discussion on the foundational principles of a wonderful, lasting, Godly marriage.--------------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy, and does not constitute a consent to treat nor does it co…
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The Foundational Principles of Marriage - Part 2
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Marriage is wonderful, but a wonderful marriage is not automatic. This is true no matter how blissful the honeymoon. Marriage is supposed to last for a lifetime, but roughly 50% of marriages end in divorce. So how do we have a wonderful marriage, and how do we have a marriage that will last? Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they discuss t…
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The Foundational Principles of Marriage - Part 1
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Marriage is wonderful, but a wonderful marriage is not automatic. This is true no matter how blissful the honeymoon. Marriage is supposed to last for a lifetime, but roughly 50% of marriages end in divorce. So how do we have a wonderful marriage, and how do we have a marriage that will last? Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they discuss t…
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There’s so much more to the story of Samson than just his long hair and his super-human strength. It’s a story of someone who was used by God in spite of being distracted. While his story is often tragic, it highlights how distraction from the things of God can derail our lives, but not always disqualify us from being used. What we can we learn fro…
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Life is filled with twists and turns, crossroads and curve balls. And with the chaos and confusion in the world today, we all need direction and stability. So wouldn’t it be great to have a word from the Lord to direct us in times like these? What about at the beginning of a new year? Wouldn’t it be great to know what God is saying about what the y…
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Have you ever considered how powerful your words are when used to encourage and inspire others? What we say and even write is free of charge to those around us, and yet our words can communicate priceless treasure to another’s heart. On this episode of the Totally Transformed podcast, join Dr. Connie and Lance as they discuss their experiences givi…
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Merry Christmas! We say that to you and we mean it - we hope you will put your focus on Jesus this Holiday season, because in focusing on Him and His coming to earth to save us is where we truly find hope and joy this Christmas. In this annual Christmas episode of the Totally Transformed podcast we discuss overcoming depression and sadness that so …
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The Reverential Fear of the Lord - Part 2
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We will have to give an account to God one day for the things we say. In this part 2 of The Reverential Fear of the Lord, we discuss the power of our words and how if we have the fear of the Lord in our lives, we will be careful to think about the words we say before we say them.-----------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes inform…
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The Reverential Fear of the Lord - Part 1
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What is the fear of the Lord, and why is it important? In this episode of the Totally Transformed podcast recorded on Dr. Connie’s back patio, Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden unpack the fear of the Lord and how it should be at work it in our lives.-----------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psyc…
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Cultural Impact: Reaching The Church with the Gospel
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We might assume that if people are sitting next to us at church, they are born again believers. That may be true, but it may not be true. They may be searching and are giving church a try. Or maybe they once served the Lord but got hurt and left, and now they are returning to see if the people in this church might be different. Or maybe they are at…
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Cultural Impact: Sharing the Gospel in the Workplace
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With the surrounding culture in a free-fall decline, what can we do to impact it? Jesus called us to go into all the world and preach the Gospel, and the Gospel is society’s only hope. Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they discuss reaching the people we interact with everyday at our places of work.-----------------------The Totally Transf…
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Cultural Impact: Reaching Our Neighbors with the Gospel
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With the surrounding culture in a free-fall decline, what can we do to impact it? Jesus called us to go into all the world and preach the Gospel, and the Gospel is society’s only hope. Join Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden as they discuss reaching our neighbors with the Gospel.-----------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes inform…
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What we read in the children’s story book about Esther is quite different from the biblical account. Esther was called upon to defend her people as queen, but her fight required multiple acts of courage as she risked her life to fulfill her destiny. In the same way, the battles we face usually require endurance and perseverance and the strength to …
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Put on Your Armor, Part 7: The Helmet of Salvation
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A helmet is usually the last piece of armor a soldier puts on before they go into battle. As a protector of the head, it preserves the mind, which is the command center of the soldier. When we come to Christ, salvation is the first step we take to enter the Kingdom of God. In many ways it’s what enters us into the battle. As a protection of the hea…
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Put on Your Armor, Part 6: The Breastplate of Righteousness
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Ephesians 6:14 says to stand firm with the breastplate of righteousness “in place”, denoting that we must take action to ensure righteousness guards our chest. So how do we put righteousness in place in our daily lives? Join Dr. Connie and Lance as they discuss this piece of the armor.------------------------------------------------------------The …
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Put on Your Armor, Part 5: The Sword of the Spirit
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The Sword of the Spirit is the only offensive weapon in the Armor of God. But what is it exactly and why is it important? Dr. Connie and Lance discuss these topics in this episode of the Totally Transformed Podcast.------------------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psy…
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Put on Your Armor, Part 4: The Shield of Faith
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We continue our series on The Armor of God with a focus on the one piece that we are told to utilize “above all else”: the Shield of Faith. Why is it highlighted like that? And how do we put up the Shield of Faith? Listen in as Dr. Connie and Lance discuss these topics in this episode of the Totally Transformed Podcast.-----------------------------…
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Put On Your Armor, Part 3: The Belt of Truth
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In this episode of the Totally Transformed Podcast, Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden speak on the Belt of Truth found in Ephesians 6:10-18, discussing how they put it on in their daily lives.------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy, and does not constitut…
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Put On Your Armor, Part 2: The Gospel Of Peace
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In this episode of the Totally Transformed Podcast, Dr. Connie Borden and Lance Borden speak on the Gospel of Peace found in Ephesians 6:10-18, discussing how they put it on in their daily lives.------------------------------------------------The Totally Transformed Podcast includes information that is not formal psychotherapy, and does not constit…
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