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F the Nice Guy

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Welcome to the F the ”Nice Guy” Podcast where we unload all our stories about the ”nice guy”. You know... the guys who tricked us into believing they were nice... until they didn’t get what they wanted and proved how not nice they really were. There will be sharing sessions, interviews, and viewer submitted stories! If you have a ”nice guy” story to share that is trauma lite (no crimes or violence) send it to ftheniceguypodcast@gmail.com.
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Kate is back and ready to talk about a topic that gets both hosts thoroughly heated.... THE IMAGINARY FRIEND ZONE. If you're on the internet then you've undoubtedly heard men complain at some point about being "friend zoned" because apparently the worst thing in the world is to be... a woman's friend. But what doesn't get talked about enough is the…
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Chesko (The Speech Prof) is back and we're talking about the Ashley Madison (the cheater's only dating website) documentary but more specifically - the Viral "Christian Family Vlogger" with an Ashley Madison account. Because if "Nice Guy"s love anything, it's being absolute hypocrites. Buckle up my friends because this episode is an absolute DOOZY …
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Buckle up friends because today we are spilling some very personal, piping hot tea. Recently we had to speak out against a predator in our community and let's just say.... it didn't go as planned. We were askedan organization to share our experiences with a predator, they did the right thing and chose not to use him, but their other choices.... you…
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When you're a woman making content on the internet, one thing is certain. Men are going to say some CRAZY shit to you. And we're not talking your average mean troll comments, we're talking absolutely unhinged. On this week's episode, we're breaking down some of our craziest comments and as always my friends... BUCKLE UP! This episode has. everythin…
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You all are in for a special treat this week. We're brought Payton back on to tell one of our family's favorite "nice guy" stories. It is truly a classic and something that could only ever happen to Payton - the queen of the 90's rom-com shenanigans. This episode has everything... brocollini, bunk beds, break up marathons, and so much more! F THE N…
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In a world where so many horrible men have podcasts, it's refreshing to hear a self proclaimed "neutral" podcaster who kindly and calmly discusses "important" issues. But often these "nice guys" are just wolves in sheep's clothing pushing the same misogynistic BS in prettier packaging. This week we've brought on one of my favorite creators Therese …
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When a "feminist" brand made for women by women puts up billboards with taglines like "Thou Shalt Not Give Up On Dating and Become A Nun"... you know you've got a problem. But this advertising choice is not as off brand for Bumble as you may think. Follow us down the rabbit hole.. or rather take this hike down the hive as we breakdown the Bumble fu…
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Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one. On this w…
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We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy l…
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This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us. TW: Grooming and mentions…
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So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: …
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This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle…
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There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls…
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If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep di…
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When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"! Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder. Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcs…
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Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER. We're breaking down what led up to th…
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Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up. We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our…
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The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater! On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day. We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely di…
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If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode. But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more! MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications Mel's Tiktok Mel's Youtube F …
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Today's title sounds like the start of a bad joke... but this experience was anything but funny for our guest Katie aka @im.that.lesbian. This story blew up when a straight women complained about a bad experience she had when bringing a straight man to a lesbian bar. She tells us an unprovoked and seemingly angry lesbian asked "what are you doing h…
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You all asked for it.... and it's finally here. This week's episode we are joined by Mel Hamlett. As a self-proclaimed recovering "cool girl" Mel has some unbelievable stories about what the "cool girl" goes through, what made her say f*** that, and how she began the journey of decentering men. Believe me when I say... buckle up. HUNGRYROOT LINKS G…
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When a "Nice Guy" 'feminist" Tiktoker is told his take on a topic needs some adjustment... what is he to do? Be accountable like he demands of other men? Of course not! He does the one thing he can to strike back without looking "mean", he weaponizes the women who love him. Abby Rosmarin is back to share a recent run in with a "nice guy" "feminist"…
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We're back with Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls Podcast to bring you perhaps the most terrifying tale of all... A "Nice Guy" origin story. We're swapping stories about the "Nice Guys" of Improv, Comedy, and yes... we do mention Matt Rife. DUH! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube P…
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We're tired of being civilized.... it's time to get feral and release our inner rat. And we've found just the ladies to help us out. This week we're joined by Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls podcast and we're swapping stories about some seriously... sneaky.... snakey "Nice Guys". Sss...ee what I did there? F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon P…
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It's time to tackle a "Nice Guy" topic that's long overdue - the "Nice Guy" in the arts. And you know that means we had to bring on Tiktok's very own Seema! We're pulling no punches this week as we do a deep dive on these "sensitive souls". F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page Se…
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Happy New Year and welcome back to the new season of the F the Nice Guy Podcast! We've got a new theme song and a shocking couple of stories for you. The lovely ladies behind our new song are sharing they're Nice Guy tales of men in the music industry. When I tell you jaws were on the floor multiple times while recording.... I mean it. So buckle up…
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It's time for the F the Nice Guy Holiday Episode! Because this Christmas, Santa brought Kate an unexpected gift... the word of God and the urge to call the police. But we're just getting started, because after we chat about a certain Naughty St. Nick, we're diving into Love Actually. We've found out information that makes this movie WORSE ACTUALLY …
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We're back and we've saved the best... or maybe worst... for last. Regan and the Speech Prof have clips from some of the worst men to have microphones -- Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, and of course... Matt Rife. You literally will not believe your ears. This episode is BLEEP free... so buckle up. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: F…
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If you're looking for a toxic man to tell on himself... get him in a room for a couple hours with other toxic men, a few microphones, and give them the topic of dating advice. And since we're talking about podcasting men... who better to bring back then The Speech Prof himself. And yes... this is a multi parter... DUH! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon:…
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Part 2 is here with a vengeance becaue we're not done with Matty yet. And we think we've cracked the code as to why this man came so hard for women. We're also taking red flags to look out for from men in your every day life. And surprisingly -- we end on a little hope? F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the N…
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Come on... you know we had to do it. We're bringing you this episode early because we NEED to talk about Matt Rife's fall from grace. And we're giving you the deets so you don't have to waste any time watching the man who made his special... mediocre. And since this man loves to punch down on women, victims of DV, people with disabilities, the elde…
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If you've dealt with a "nice guy", you've probably found yourself asking the question... why me? Well, on this week's episode we've brought back Abby Rosmarin give you some answers. While we are NEVER here for "victim blaming", we have noticed that "nice guys" are attracted to certain traits. So we're breaking down what traits they love, how they m…
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We're back to end the Whedon "Nice Guy" Fantasy Filmmaker Saga. Make sure to check out Part 1 because we're starting right where we left off. And if you thought last episode was bad... buckle up. This episode has everything - Whedon Vs. WONDER WOMAN, punishing actresses via their characters, zero accountability, ALL THE AUDACITY, and so much more! …
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We're keeping this episode in the family - but this time we've got Payton! And she is bringing ALL the receipts about the Fantasy Filmmakers who force us to watch their violent, sexual fantasies under the guise of content. We're touching on Tarentino, the Gonads behind Game of Thrones, and landing on the King Baby "Nice Guy" Joss Whedon. This episo…
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Buckle up my friends, it's about to get spooky, scary, and downright antagonist. On this week's Halloween episode, we've brought on Kitti from Tiktok. She's uncovered a tactic that is as repulsive to the "Nice Guy" as garlic is to a vampire. And that is - TO DISTURB THE LIVING HELL OUT OF THEM! Haunt their dreams. Make them wish they never asked fo…
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Megan's back to finish her episode and if you think it can't get weirder, you're wrong. This episode as it all - the ole drunk dial from a dude from highschool, husbands hitting on you with horse sounds, snakes getting called out, lesbians cosplaying as heteros, calling out snakes, and so much more! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok…
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For these weeks episode, we're bringing on one of my Tiktok favorites - Megan Rose. Little did I know, Megan and I share more than just 85% of our names. We've have a lot of shared experiences. This episode has it all - partners being nothing but problems in the delivery room, horrific ex husbands, retaliation reputations in high school, "pick me" …
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Make sure to check out last week's episode because we're starting right where we left off... with Kate's story. Buckle up because this is a cautionary tale about what spiritual men can get away with under the guise of "helping you heal". TW: Sexual Contact Without Constent/Groping F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtu…
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Inspired by a ton of viral stories about "spiritual" men, Kate and Regan are bringing out some true tales from their personal vaults. This episode has it all - repeated requests for Regan to go into the woods, men talking to trees, video voice note evidence, criss cross applesauce confessions, and so much more! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon…
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This week we're bring you an extra long episode about what happens when a "Nice Guy" comes to Booktok. And of course, if we're talking Booktok, there's not better lady to bring on then Amber aka Sensible_amber from Tiktok. This episode has it all - incel authors, elaborate fake book reviews, performative wokeness, joker references, and so much more…
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Abby Rosmarin is back to finish her "Nice Guy" Tiktoker story, and you better buckle up. Just when you think it can't get ANY worse, it does. This man isn't just a "nice guy", he is truly a monster... a monster with a huge following. And Abby's story is a perfect reminder to be skeptical, be cautious, and be-ware of the "Nice Guy" Tiktoker. F THE N…
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If we've said it once, we'll say it a million times... Don't trust "Nice Guy" Tiktokers. You know, the men who build a platform as defenders of women but use said platform for fame, validation, and to slip into vulnerable women's DMs. Well this week, we have Abby Rosmarin telling their cautionary tale of dating a very popular "nice guy" tiktoker. L…
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We're back with Allison to finish up this "Nice Guy" tale. And it's about to get ROUGH. This episode has everything ... trying to boost your EP stats at a funeral, boyfriends wanting a treat for doing far below the bare minimum, weaponizing therapy talk, and the true shocker -- a surprising amount of optimism. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon …
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This week we have Allison who has an epic "Nice Guy" story - and yes it does include an acoustic guitar. It also includes a whole lot of tangents to buckle up! This episode has everything forced serenades, American Eagle make outs, Mommy Issues, weaponizing fights in the form of song lyrics, and so much more! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon P…
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This week we've brought back Kate to talk about a truly disturbing incident that happened on Below Deck Down Under. It's been all over social media, but we've decided to do a dive deep. We're talking not only about the details of what happened but also the aftermath and the red flags that were missed/blatantly ignored. TW: This episode contains bou…
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We're back to finish our conversation with Kristín from Tiktok (@Thriving_Imperfectly). We're giving our final thoughts and some wise words to keep women away from "Nice Guys" or empower them to leave. This episode has it all - the dark center of the "Nice guy" Tootsie Pop, "sharking", grown man tantrums, long distance relationships with reality, a…
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On today's episode... we're going rogue! We've got Kristín from Tiktok (@Thriving_Imperfectly) and she's telling us her "Nice Guy" story... of course she has a different name from them. It rhymes with... sasstole. This episode has all the "Nice Guy" classics, grown men acting like toddlers, the dreaded age gap, men cosplaying as Dr. Jekyl and Mr. H…
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We're back with The Speech Prof to bring this "Nice Guy" Voice Note Nightmare saga to an end. And if you thought the last half was bad, buckle up and prepare your puke bucket. This episode has too much -- dad jokes to hint at being well-endowed, weaponized therapy talk, the definitely imaginary Plumfette swan couple, sexualizing with saltines, and …
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What's worse than a "nice guy" (that is a stranger) sending you unsolicited facebook messages trying to date you? Answer: The 10 Minutes of voice notes that follow. And buckle up friends, it only gets worse. The Speech Prof is back to comment on this absolute Nice Guy Nightmare. This story has everything - a delusion man believing he invented being…
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On this truly spooky episode, Kate and Regan are in the woods, ACTUALLY in person, and in for a nightmarish experience - listening to Toxic Dating Coaches. Because if you want to know what women want, you don't turn to women. You turn to random men on the internet who dish out misinformation with a heavy dose of misogyny. This episode has it all - …
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