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Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern da ...
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(Matt Monday): Scared It Won't Work Out? Use These 5 Questions to Know...
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How do you really know if you're dating "The One"? Do you just know when it's right, or are there signs this person is the perfect partner for you? In this episode, you'll learn 5 of the most important questions you must answer before you decide on long-term commitment. > Become a Love Life Member for FREE Claim Your 2 Week Free Trial at www.JoinLo…
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(Rewind): Don’t Mistakes These Behaviours As Signs Of Commitment
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When you fall for someone, it's all-too-easy to misinterpret signs of their affection or presence as signs of them wanting a future commitment. But unfortunately, there are all kinds of reasons someone might keep you close even if they don't want something serious. In this clip, Matt and the JAMS crew discuss how to protect yourself and be aware wh…
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(Matt Monday): The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Him Want MORE With You
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We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our convers…
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(Rewind): Don't Do THIS If You're In A Relationship With A Narcissist...
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It's hard enough dealing with a toxic relationship, but it's even worse if you don't have a strong sense of boundaries to put up when you see behaviour you shouldn't tolerate. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson discuss how to implement self-care to protect yourself when you have the tendency to sacrifice your needs for others. Foll…
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214: Choosing The Relationship You Want, Overcoming Jealousy, and Understanding Men/Women (w/ Candice Horbacz)
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I'm super excited to share this excellent conversation I had with podcaster Candice Horbacz, host of "Chatting With Candice". In this episode, we talk about: - Finding the relationship that works for YOU - The journey of trust and opening up to your partner - Understand the truth about men and their feelings - Overcoming jealousy in a relationship …
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(Matt Monday): They’ve Pulled Away?? AVOID THIS MISTAKE
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Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away? It feels awful. You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special. I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they g…
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(Rewind): Why People Disappear When You Show Interest
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Have you ever felt like the moment you show you really like someone, they start to lose interest? It can make you feel like you ALWAYS have to play games or be "hard-to-get" in order to keep their attention. But is this really true? In this episode, Matthew and Stephen explain the reasons this can happen and what it really means if someone backs of…
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(Matt Monday): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without "Playing It Cool"
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We've all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we'll lose all our "power," but if we show too little, they may not even realize we're interested. In t…
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(Rewind): The Subtle Art Of Effective Flirting
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We all know flirting is an essential part of attraction, but how do you actually do it? In this clip, Matthew and Stephen talk about some of the subtle, practical ways you can go from casual conversation to flirtation on a first date. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happine…
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213: How To Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex's Life After A Breakup
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Have you found yourself checking up on an ex on social media after a break up? Maybe you even found yourself jealous upon finding out they were doing well, or found someone else, or had a success that you don't get to be a part of. In this solo episode, Matt discusses what it means when we overly focus on our ex's life after a break up and how we c…
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(Matt Monday): This Confusing Phrase is Actually a Major RED FLAG
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Have you ever stayed with someone in spite of them saying they weren't interested in something serious? Perhaps you'd hoped that with enough time, they'd see your value, realize what you have together is special, and decide to get into a relationship in spite of their fears . . . We've all heard of situations where someone did just need a bit of ti…
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(Rewind): "What If He Changes For Someone Else?"
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Sometimes you have to let someone go because of the pain they bring to your life. But what if they seem to improve their behaviour with their next partner?! It can be incredibly frustrating to see an ex who appears to be fixing their issues that previously drove you crazy now the relationship is over. You have an envy for their new partner who seem…
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212: Overcoming Loneliness, Beating Failure, And Rediscovering Connection (with Christopher Robbins)
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Ever struggled with a failure you weren’t sure how to recover from? Want to live an adventurous, inspired, and happier life? In this episode, I’m joined for a hugely thought-provoking conversation with Christopher Robbins, founder of Soul Degree. We talk about: Getting over failure and how our identity can trap us How negative self-talk stops us be…
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(Matt Monday): Why You're ADDICTED to Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Break the Habit)
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When it comes to the traits we want in a partner, “emotionally unavailable” is never on the list. So why do so many of us end up dating not just one emotionally unavailable person, but a series of them? When someone feels slightly out of reach, our instinct is often to chase them down and make them ours . . . but this is often an unwinnable bet, wh…
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(Rewind): Why You’re Path To Relationship Will Look Different To Everyone Else’s
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You might see you're friends in relationships and wonder: "why haven't I found someone yet?". It's tempting in these moments to self-criticise or wonder if there's something wrong with us. But in this episode, Matt and Stephen explain why you shouldn't expect your path to love to be the same as everyone else around you... Follow Matt @thematthewhus…
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211: Powerful Healing Habits After Heartbreak - w/ Martha Higareda
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In today's episode, I had the absolute pleasure of interviewing actress, entrepreneur, and screenwriter Martha Higareda. She is a beautiful soul and a wealth of knowledge of life and love. In this conversation we cover: - How To Recover From Heartbreak and Narcissistic Relationships - Spotting Toxic Behaviour In Dating - Healing your wounds and you…
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Today’s interview with Matthew McConaughey is instantly one of my most popular interviews of the last 10 years. Thank you so much if you listened, subscribed, and shared this episode with your friends and family . . . you’re the reason this is reaching so many people right now. One thing that’s surprised people the most is how relatable this entire…
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(Rewind): Is Having A "Backup Person" Cheating?
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A recent dating study showed that many people have what is known as a "backburner relationship". And many people date today while also still being in touch with exes or former sexual partners. Is this trend dangerous for building a relationship? And what does it cost us in the long-run if we have a "backup person" who we keep contact with? --- Foll…
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(Matt Monday): Why Do They Always Come Back?
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Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out. When you’re in this vulnerable position, the h…
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(Rewind): How To Talk About Your Insecurities In A Relationship
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Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn’t know the right way to bring it up? Of course you have. We all have. Maybe you’re feeling that right now. It can be terrifying, can’t it? We are told vulnerability is good, but we know it can hurt the relationship if we repeatedly expr…
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210: How A Lack Of Confidence Is Holding Back Your Love Life
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We asked YOU this week how not having confidence affects your love life, and you answered! It's only when we really ask ourselves this question that we can see all the small ways that lack of self-esteem or negative self-talk can be causing us play it safe, self-sabotage, or just live with unnecessary anxiety. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Aud…
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(Matt Monday): The Truth Behind WHY They Won’t Commit to You
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Have you fallen for a guy who says he’s “confused”? He really likes you and spends time with you, but isn’t sure if he’s ready for a real commitment yet? If you’ve experienced this, you will know that this type of hedging can leave you INCREDIBLY confused. You feel you have something special with him, yet he’s still holding back. You know you can’t…
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(Rewind): What People Really Fall in Love With…
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It's easy to find yourself comparing your attractiveness to others in dating. We compare our looks, our job, our body, our wealth...and we can easily feel like we don't match up. But people don't fall in love with characteristics. And comparison will always leave us with more anxiety and self-sabotage than learning to love what we have. In this epi…
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209: The Science Of The Biological Clock (And What YOU Can Do About It)
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When you’re looking for a partner to have a family with, the pressure of the timeline imposed on you by your biological clock can make the whole process overwhelming. (Not to mention, when you’re fearful that time is running out, you can end up making bad dating choices.) In this episode, Matthew talks to two experts on fertility: Dr. Serena H. Che…
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(Matt Monday): LET GO, MOVE ON, and HEAL After a Toxic Relationship
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In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to re…
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