in this episode, sarah and jalynn reflect on the wild ups and downs of 2020. they share about navigating job changes and mental wellness in a pandemic and social/racial unrest. they also talk about new restful practices in their lives, cats, music, and the freedom and joy in letting go. stick around afterwards to hear about their favorite things fr…

in this episode, sarah and jalynn reflect on the wild ups and downs of 2020. they share about navigating job changes and mental wellness in a pandemic and social/racial unrest. they also talk about new restful practices in their lives, cats, music, and the freedom and joy in letting go. SHOW NOTES: Sarah's Art: Starlight Studio Maverick City Music …

episode 10 is here! we chat with ryan about his tinder experiences, when dating becomes a game, cultivating healthy masculinity as a high school coach, and finding L O V E on tinder (he’s getting married y’all!). ryan also shares how he’s challenging the toxic rhetoric of his past and shifting to a healthier mindset.…

in this episode we tackle some biggg topics, including queerness as a political identity, dating while non-binary, creating freedom in relationships, and the connection between white supremacy and heteronormativity. our guest, maia, shares about their experiences and insight from their life as a non-binary, queer person. we hope you enjoy listening…

welcome to season 2 of thank you, next! we begin this season with an interview with our friend sam. join us for a conversation about what dating is like for sam as a cisgendered man. we talk about expressing emotions and needs, toxic masculinity, friendships between men, and more. SHOW NOTES for the love of men by liz plank…

He fled from war at 18, leaving home, family, and dreams behind... found love and family in Costa Rica, discovered his calling, and now lives for the good of others. This is Benito's story.

We’ve come to the close of our first season! In this last episode, we reflect on the results of our social experiment and mutually agree that dating is exhausting. Sarah deletes her Bumble account (so done) and Jalynn makes hers inactive (guess she’s not as done...). We comment on the validity of discussing our lived experiences, and identify what …

For the fifth and final Bumble date of the project, we give you a plot twist–we each go on a date with the same (clueless) guy. Our conversation centers around the lack of diversity in higher education and the vital need for all-black spaces. We also talk about the dangers of judging by appearances. Show notes Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora N…

In our fourth Bumble date debrief, we confront the complexities of discussing our experience with men raised outside the United States. We talk about the perils of trauma comparison, beauty standards, objectification, and the male gaze. Jalynn shares her struggles in the fashion photography industry and Sarah recounts her journey to say “f it” to b…

In this episode, we discuss the dynamics of race in dating relationships, and yes, more white privilege. We call out sexism and the normalization of rape in media. Digging deep into our childhood experiences, we explore gender roles in the home, women’s compensation, the patriarchal Disney culture in the church, and how personality types affect rel…

We’ve gone on our second Bumble dates and we’re ready to talk! Our conversation centers around the awareness of white privilege with Guys #2. We also discuss valuing the humanity of all people and question the boundaries of political debates in life and work. A plan is put in place to avoid the tendency to self-edit.…

Listen to our first Bumble date debrief! Jalynn admits her false assumptions about Guy #1 prior to the date, and we discuss her deep-seated issues with trusting men. Sarah goes on a pizza date with a man she knows very little about and concludes that she won’t do that again. Conflict ensues when she tries to split the bill. Show notes I'm Still Her…

In this episode, we start with the basics. What are our reasons for creating the thank you, next project? Listen and you’ll find out! As we set up our first social experiment by creating Bumble Date profiles, we explore just a few ways that racism and sexism have affected who we are as 20-somethings in the current political and social climate. Trig…