Dads face unique issues during and after divorce. We identify and address the issues relevant to divorced/divorcing dads and create an action plan to survive and thrive! *Become a community member and access full episodes and additional MEMBERS ONLY content: https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/* DISCLAIMER: The purpose of this podcast is to inform not influence. It is not a substitute for professional care or advice by a qualified professional. The host as well as guests who sp ...
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219 - Dads’ Guide To Divorce Step 5: Master Your Psychology
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When working with fathers entering into a divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads’ Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing this specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilize it in order to achie…
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218 - The Mad Men of Masculinity Are Back!
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Jason Kendrick and Kirk Samuels, The Mad Men of Masculinity, join the show to preview their respective M.E.N. Summit talks Who Do You Thnk You Are, and How is That Working for You? and Sexual Sovereignty. Learn more about the M.E.N. Summit at menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE …
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217 - MENtoring: Creating a Legacy of H.O.P.E. for Future Generations
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Chris Natzke, 8th Degree Black Belt and 1999 United States National Tae Kwon Do Champion, leadership coach and professional speaker joins Jude to discuss his upcoming talk at the M.E.N. Summit called MENtoring: Creating a Legacy of H.O.P.E. for Future Generations. For more info about the summit go to menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate M…
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Brett "Zach" Zachman, founder of BeMen a non-profit organization focused on male wellness, joins Jude to share parts of his 5 Pillars of Male Wellness talk coming up at the M.E.N. Summit on August 24th in Parker, CO. For more info on the summit go to menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings…
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215 - REPLAY - Dads' Guide To Divorce Step 4: Optimize Your Environment
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When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve…
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214 - Fatherhood In The Age of Mediocrity
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In this compelling episode of "Fatherhood In The Age of Mediocrity," we dive into the challenges of modern-day fatherhood. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and founder of Solidman.com, Ken Curry, joins Jude and explores how societal changes and evolving cultural norms impact the role of fathers today. The discussion begins by addressing the c…
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213 - Dads’ Guide to Divorce: Step 3 - Upgrade Your Skills
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Now that you have a clear vision and direction and you’ve done the work to strategize your actions, you should be in full swing of implementing the behaviors necessary to achieve your goal(s). However, what do you do if you don’t quite have the skills necessary to get to where you want to go? It’s time for Step 3: Upgrade Your Skills! Join The Divo…
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212 - Dads’ Guide to Divorce: Step 2 - Strategize Your Actions
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Welcome back to the Dads’ Guide to Divorce series. If you missed the first installment, “Dads’ Guide to Divorce: Step 1 — Clarify Your Vision,” make sure to check it out. In that article, I discussed how crucial it is to clarify your vision and direction when entering a divorce or navigating life post-divorce. Today, we're diving into Step 2: Strat…
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211 - Dads’ Guide To Divorce: Step 1 - Clarify Your Vision & Direction
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Welcome to the Dads’ Guide to Divorce series, where I aim to support fathers navigating the often tumultuous waters of divorce or life after it. Over the next few podcasts, I'll share a 5-step process that I’ve developed to help you identify and implement a plan for your life, ensuring that you and your children can move forward toward a brighter f…
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Divorce is one of life's most challenging experiences, and for fathers, it can come with unique obstacles. Ensuring your attorney effectively advocates for your interests requires clear communication, strategic planning, and a keen understanding of the complex issues at play. Here’s how you can "train" your attorney to work diligently on your behal…
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209 - REPLAY: Avoidance Behaviors: What Are You Avoiding?
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We all do it...we avoid that which we do not want to face or deal with. In this episode Jude describes some of the most common avoidance behaviors and shares solutions for dealing with them.. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedi…
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208 - The 5 Biggest Takeaways from the Past Year for Divorced Dads
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Navigating the challenges of divorce is never easy, especially for fathers who find themselves balancing new roles, responsibilities, and emotions. The past year has offered some noteworthy examples from public figures who have faced similar struggles. These high-profile stories provide valuable lessons that can help divorced dads as they go throug…
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207 - A Divorced Dad's Guide to Handling Bad-Mouthing and Lies
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Parental alienation is a distressing experience for any parent, especially when you’re a divorced dad looking forward to your parenting time. Discovering that your child has been exposed to negative comments, lies, or alienating behavior from your ex can be heartbreaking. However, it’s crucial to handle these situations with care and a strategic ap…
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206 - REPLAY: Preparing For A Custody Battle
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Attorney, writer, entrepreneur, and host of the Law of Fojo podcast, Robert Fojo, joins Jude to speak from the perspective of an attorney on how to prepare for a custody battle. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocat…
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205 - Practical Advice: Navigating the Dating Scene After Divorce
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Dating after divorce can be a daunting prospect, especially for dads. With responsibilities towards your children and the emotional aftermath of a divorce, re-entering the dating world requires careful consideration and preparation. Drawing insights from Dr. Shawn T. Smith's book, "The Practical Guide to Women", here are the most important aspects …
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204 - Finding Strength in Faith: A Father's Guide to God's Transformative Power During and After Divorce
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Embracing God's transformative power is not just a matter of religious devotion; it is a lifeline for fathers in the midst of divorce's tumult. It is an invitation to surrender our burdens, our fears, and our uncertainties to the One who holds the universe in His hands. And in embracing this invitation, fathers find not just survival, but true and …
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203 - REPLAY: "Toxic" Masculinity And How To Learn From Divorce
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Clinical psychologist and author of The Tactical Guide To Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage, Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show. We discuss the false narrative of "toxic" masculinity and how divorced fathers can learn from the end of their marriage and not make the same mistakes in the future. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membershi…
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202 - The Weaponization of Therapy Against Divorcing Fathers: Navigating Biases and Seeking Support
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Divorce is often described as one of life's most stressful events, and for fathers navigating separation, the journey can be particularly challenging. Amidst legal battles, emotional upheaval, and the complexities of co-parenting, there's an additional hurdle: therapy. In recent times, therapy has increasingly become a battleground against divorcin…
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201 - Understanding Your Role in Relationship Dynamics for Success Post Divorce
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As a divorced dad, navigating the aftermath of a failed marriage can feel like traversing uncharted waters. Yet, amidst the challenges and heartaches lies an invaluable opportunity for growth and self-reflection. One of the most crucial aspects of this journey is understanding your role in the relational dynamics that led to the breakdown of your m…
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200 - A Guide for Divorced Dads on Shedding the "Nice Guy" Persona
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Divorce can be a tumultuous journey, especially for fathers who were once co-dependent in their marriages. The aftermath often leaves them grappling with a sense of identity, particularly if they were accustomed to being the "nice guy" who prioritized their partner's needs over their own. However, post-divorce life offers an opportunity for growth …
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199 - The Top 10 Ways Mothers Alienate Children from Their Fathers During Divorce
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Divorce is often a tumultuous time for families, especially when children are involved. While both parents may strive to prioritize the well-being of their children, sometimes dynamics can become strained, leading to one parent feeling alienated from their child. Unfortunately, it's not uncommon for mothers to inadvertently or intentionally alienat…
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198 - Rising from the Ashes: A Father’s Journey Through Divorce and Redemption
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Divorce, with its seismic impact, fractures the bedrock of familial unity, leaving behind a landscape strewn with the debris of dashed dreams and shattered aspirations. For fathers, tasked with navigating these tempestuous waters, the journey through divorce can resemble a Herculean odyssey, fraught with the weight of grief, guilt, and relentless u…
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Clinical neuroscientist, inspirational speaker, best-selling author, and international coach, Dr. Ali Lankerani, affectionately known as Dr. L, The Parent Whisperer, joins Jude to talk about his mission to support, inspire, and empower as many people as possible to step into their thrive and leave a legacy. Tune in and learn his 4 steps for accompl…
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196 - Practical Advice: Budget-Friendly Vacations for Divorced Dads
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Divorce can be tough, especially when it comes to managing finances and maintaining a sense of normalcy for your children. But just because money might be tight doesn't mean you can't create unforgettable memories with your kids. With a little creativity and planning, divorced dads can still enjoy quality time with their children through budget-fri…
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195 - Tips for Dads to Prepare Their Attorney for Trial
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Divorce proceedings can be emotionally and legally complex, especially when children are involved. For dads navigating the divorce process, effective communication and preparation with your attorney are crucial for achieving the best outcome. Listen in to learn some essential tips to help you prepare your attorney for trial. Join The Divorce Dadvoc…
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194 - How Dads Can Cope With Being Served Divorce Papers
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Divorce can be a devastating and emotionally challenging experience for anyone involved, and for fathers, the shock of being served divorce papers can feel particularly overwhelming. Suddenly, your world may seem to be turned upside down, leaving you feeling lost and uncertain about the future. While there's no denying that this is a difficult time…
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193 - 10 Reminders That You, as a Father, Are Important
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In the journey of parenthood, fathers often play a pivotal but sometimes overlooked role. While the spotlight often shines on maternal care, the influence of fathers on their children's lives is equally significant. Research over the years has underscored the unique contributions fathers make to their children's well-being and development. Here are…
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192 - How Dads Can Safeguard Their Rights And Well-being During Divorce
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Divorce is a challenging journey, especially when it comes to navigating the complex issues of asset separation, parenting arrangements, and household responsibilities. For dads going through this process, it's crucial to protect themselves and their interests while also prioritizing their well-being and maintaining a healthy environment, particula…
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What is Post Betrayal Syndrome? Listen in as Dr. Debi Silber the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute, holistic psychologist, author, and health, mindset and personal development expert joins the show to explain. She shares the 5 stages we'll go through in order to fully heal from betrayal. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Com…
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190 - Rebuilding Amidst Divorce: 10 Ways To Combat Loneliness And Rediscover Yourself
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Divorce is undoubtedly one of life's most challenging experiences, often leaving individuals grappling with feelings of loneliness and uncertainty about the future. However, amidst the pain and emotional turmoil, there lies an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. In this episode, we'll explore ten practical ways to combat loneliness …
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Hear an inspiring message from Shawn Reinsel who shares his divorce experience and how through it he was able to find a new way of relating to God that's rooted and grounded in His abundant, life-giving grace. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MOR…
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188 - The Mad Men Of Masculinity Show: Fathering Through Divorce
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Jude joins Kirk and Jason on The Mad Men of Masculinity Show and discusses fathering through divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in t…
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Are you a nice guy? If so, you are probably codependent. In this episode Jude defines codependency, gives examples, and shares tips for how to stop being codependent. Alicia Munoz's Article - How Do You Overcome Codependency? A Therapist's Guide - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3104353333#success No More Mr. Nice Guy - Dr. Robert Glover - https://tinyur…
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186 - The Power of Community: 10 Reasons Divorced Dads Shouldn’t Go Through It Alone
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Going through a divorce is undoubtedly one of life's toughest challenges, and for dads navigating this difficult terrain, the importance of community cannot be overstated. Instead of self-isolating during divorce, it's crucial for divorced or divorcing dads to surround themselves with a supportive community. In this episode, we'll explore 10 reason…
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185 - A Fresh Start: 10 New Year's Resolutions for Divorced Dads
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As the clock strikes midnight and we bid farewell to the old year, it's time for divorced dads to embrace a new chapter in their lives. The journey post-divorce can be challenging, but the start of a new year offers a perfect opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. Here are 10 empowering New Year's resolutions tailored for divorced dad…
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184 - REPLAY: Setting Boundaries With Friends And Family During The Holidays
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The holidays can be a beautiful time of the year, but they can also be challenging when boundaries are being overstepped by friends and family members. Listen in and learn some tips for setting healthy boundaries with friends and family during the holidays. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Works…
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183 - Navigating Discipline with Love and Logic
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In this episode, we'll explore practical ways divorced or divorcing dads can discipline their children authoritatively using the principles of Love and Logic. This approach emphasizes setting clear boundaries with empathy and love, allowing children to learn from their mistakes, in stark contrast to the harsh and rigid authoritarian style. Let's de…
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182 - Navigating the Ebb and Flow of Friendships Amidst Divorce
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The end of a marriage is a profound life event that ripples through various aspects of one's existence, not sparing even the social fabric woven through friendships. Unfortunately, these connections are not impervious to the seismic shifts brought about by divorce. In the wake of this transformative experience, friendships may encounter strain, and…
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181 - Dad Power: The Scientific Blueprint For Raising Healthy Adults
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Fathers, often unsung heroes in the narrative of child development, play a pivotal role in shaping the health and well-being of their offspring. Scientific studies provide robust evidence that highlights the profound impact fathers have on the journey to healthy adulthood. Let's explore 10 reasons, each rooted in concrete statistics from reputable …
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180 - Navigating The Roller Coaster Of Splitville With A Smile
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Divorce is a roller coaster ride that nobody really wants a ticket for, but life happens, and here you are, a dad on the wild journey of splitting assets and emotions. While it might seem like a never-ending tunnel of paperwork and negotiations, there's room for humor along the way. So, buckle up, fellow dads, as we explore the hilarious milestones…
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Preparing for divorce mediation is important. Listen in to hear the ultimate list of steps you need to take to prepare for divorce mediation. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You …
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178 - Replay: Self-Worth: “Maybe I’m Not So Bad After All”
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As you successfully adjust to the crisis of divorce you will feel better about yourself. Jude discusses that you were born with 50% of your self-worth and the other 50% you learned growing up. Tune in to learn 11 steps to an improved self-worth. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Cours…
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177 - Narcissistic Smear Campaign: What It Is, Tactics & How To Deal With It
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A narcissistic smear campaign is a narcissistic manipulation tactic used to harm a person’s reputation and isolate them from their support network. This is a common behavior for those with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) when they realize they have lost control over a person and often happens at the conclusion of a relationship. Listen in a…
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Love and Logic is a process by which children grow through their mistakes and learn from the consequences of their choices. Listen in and learn the 2 basic rules and 8 skills of Love and Logic parenting. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - h…
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175 - 8 Stupid Questions To Ask A Divorced Dad
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While I understand discussing the end of a marriage is awkward for some people, there’s a right and wrong way to address the situation. In my experience, here are some questions that should never come out of your mouth when talking to a newly separated or divorced dad. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings …
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174 - Benefits Of Setting Healthy Co-Parenting Boundaries
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The success of a co-parenting arrangement hinges on the ability of parents to exhibit mutual respect with one another. Children “learn what they live,” and if they witness both parents collaborating in healthy ways, even while living apart, this can have a lasting influence on their ability to manage their own relationships. Listen in to learn the …
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173 - Practical Advice: Pros And Cons Of A Parenting Coordinator
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When parents cannot agree on the terms of child custody or how decisions will be made regarding the parties’ children, hiring a parenting coordinator may be a good idea. However, there are pros and cons to a parenting coordinator. Listen in as Jude shares the benefits and potential drawbacks of hiring or appointing a parenting coordinator. Join The…
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172 - 5 Ways To Become A Real Man Through Your Divorce
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Boys and men today are facing a crisis of masculinity. To solve this crisis, positive examples are needed. Listen in as Jude shares how you can be this positive example even while you are experiencing the challenge of divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discus…
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171 - 7 Ways To Manage Sadness & Anxiety During Your Divorce
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Divorce is stressful. Stress can lead to anxiety and sadness or depression. It is critical that you are able to manage this during your divorce so that you are capable of making smart decisions that will impact you and your children's lives for years to come. Listen in to learn 7 ways to manage sadness & anxiety during your divorce. Join The Divorc…
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170 - Identifying Verbal Turbulence In Your Divorce
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Listen in as Jude is joined by spiritual therapist and author Wendy Watson who shares details about her book Verbal Turbulence: The 70/20/10 Rule and how to identify the messages we are supposed to be in tune with and what to do with them. Wendy's website - http://TBRSpiritualHealth.com Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episode…
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