Hosted by Nate Newman from Western Sydney and Judge Gonzo from New Jersey, (not so) Secret Dads Business is a show for dads talking about all aspects of life, society and parenthood. Nate and Judge are just a couple of dads, trying to navigate life, family issues, and make sense of the world; talking about life, societal issues, and helping others try to make sense of it as well. While not always politically correct, the ugly truth will always be laid out on the table. With 70 guest intervie ...
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This episode, Nate and Judge consider the Mandela Effect and discuss why this phenomenon exists.They discuss whether we're in a simulation or whether parallel timelines have crossed over and bled into one. The third possibility is scarier and Nate ponders if it's a deep state conspiracy to lie to the world population and confuse the masses.…
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This week, the guys open up the doors to "The Clubhouse" and shoot the shit with the audience before the show.Then, its onto Tangent City. There was no specific topic, the guys just went off on the tangent train and spoke about a bunch of unrelated topics.The guys talk about going on a haunted house adventure, experiencing an exorcism, how Disney i…
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Scenarios like surviving a natural or geopolitical disaster, a zombie apocalypse, surviving a stint in prison, along with who’s the most approachable among others, this episodes delves into the question, posed by Judge and our audience, of “who’s most likely”, comparing between Nate, Judge and Rob.
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This episode, Rob and Nate are hanging out without Judge!Rob has been down the Reddit rabbit hole and found some interesting questions to ponder over, like:What's your favourite finger?What's your favourite dinosaur?Can a surrogate baby claim the citizenship of the egg or sperm donor?AITAH for telling my wife my honest opinion?Feel free to reach ou…
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This episode Nate, Judge and Rob talk about a topic that may be considered taboo or macabre. Everyone ends up having one and no-one likes planning them. That's right, they're talking about funerals. Judge brings us a list of funeral traditions from across the globe to discuss. The guys also play around with wild and absurd ideas for their own funer…
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This episode, Judge is out but Jai is in! Nate and Rob hang out with a good friend of the podcast. Jai is a fire cracker and she always has something to say!
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BIG NEWS!!!! Rob has joined Nate and Judge as a permanent host! With that, we'll be rebranding the podcast soon and the show name will change! This episode, Judge brought a game to the podcast and he called it "What The Fuck Are They Selling?" Judge presented a series of photos with obscure context to Nate and Rob and asked the guys what the person…
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A quick show update! Much love to our listeners and we appreciate your patience!!
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Do Men Grieve A Destroyed Relationship?
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This week, Nate Judge and Rob are back with some deeper conversation for Men's Mental Health Month.Do men grieve after a long term relationship has ended?Are there double standards between men and women when it comes to dating?Will a screaming toddler get you out of a speeding ticket?The boys throw their hat in the ring and make their opinions know…
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Fathers Day Gifts: The Good, The Bad and The Quirky
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This episode is the 3rd annual US Fathers Day episode! For Nate and Judge, this is the pinnacle of their year!Nate had a couple of suggestions from the audience, Rob went down a reddit rabbit hole for bad Fathers Day gifts and Judge found the 2024 Fathers Day gifts list according to The Strategist from New York Magazine.This episode had all 3 guys …
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This episode, Nate and Judge are back after a week off.Nate prefaces the show with the reason the show had an off week (excuses, excuses), then the guys get into it full swing.The guys start off talking about the relief of the Tyson/Paul fight being called off.Judge then goes on to tell Nate about the latest graphic novel that has comic book fans d…
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Nate, Judge and Rob are back for another banger!!The guys discuss a whole string of tangents, as usual. They kick off with the annoying things that their spouses do that drive them nuts and for the life of them, the guys don't understand why they do it!Judge has a good bitch about the upcoming Tyson fight with splits boys brother and then the guys …
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Nate, Judge and Rob get into the weeds in this one!The guys discuss Mothers Day brunch and Nate mentions his morning out with his family and in-laws. Rob and Judge are perplexed about why anyone would want beans on toast.The guys then go on to talk about the hot topic doing the rounds online that everyone is talking about lately.Would you rather en…
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This week, Nate and Judge were run off their feet and didnt have a chance to catch up so they're bringing you another Best Bits episode. Join Nate down memory lane listening to some clips of older episodes, including the first appearance of Judge on NSSDB.
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Top Porn Searches Across America and Australia Part 2
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This week, Nate and Judge have our professional asshole, Heavy Drop aka Rob joining us on the show.First, the guys discuss entitle people thinking they can't be arrested, teaching our boys how to stand up for themselves and how violence isn't always the answer, but if you need to fight, make sure you win.After that, the guys pick up from last week …
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Top Porn Searches Across America and Australia
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This week, Nate kicks off the show by telling Judge about the disgraced "momfluencer", Ruby Fanke. Nate details the child abuse and neglect she committed while also posting videos about her "tough love" parenting.After that, Judge lightens the mood a bit by covering the top porn searches in America, state by state. We found that some states are int…
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This week, Nate and Judge were off air so the boys are bringing you the 4th instalment in our Best Bits series.We'd love to hear your feedback from these clips. These are some of the crowd favourites from some of our more recent episodes.Join us on YouTube every week Saturday 9pm EST in the USA and Sunday 11am AEST in Australia!!…
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This week, Nate and Judge jump on the tangent train for one of their wildest rides yet.The boys cover a slew of topics and for the first time on the show, we touch on the 2 most hated topics in society; politics and religion.They discuss the latest buzzword of the day and why its being used in the wrong context and how its being used to gaslight pe…
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We were lucky to get this episode happening this week.Judge shares his health scare over Easter. He was rushed to hospital thinking he was having a heart attack. Luckily everything was all clear and he's as healthy as a horse.Judge then shares a blood boiling story of an example of shitty parenting. PSA, Don't leave your toddler home alone for 10 d…
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This episode, Judge invited his good friend, Shannon to have a chat with us on the show.As Nate and Judge have made clear on the show, they both have shitty experiences with their dads. Having Shannon come onto the podcast to talk about her father was something totally new for the guys.Both Nate and Judge got emotional listening to Shannon's storie…
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This episode was recorded in January 2024.Bringing you an episode from the archives, Nate and Judge talk about the first family game of Monopoly in the Newman household and how badly it went.Judge tells how his wedding to his new wife, Sarah, went down and all the fun that was had by all.Judge then goes on one of his signature rants and we wonder, …
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This episode, Nate and Judge are back at it again, taking the train to tangent town!!We kick off the show, talking about Mike Tyson's latest scheduled fight. Out of principle, mainly because he doesn't need the recognition boost, we wouldn't mention his opponents name.We consider how the fight might turn. out, how we'd like to see it play out and b…
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This week, Nate and Judge have the Professional Asshole, Rob aka Heavy Drop joining us to do our first live safety debrief at the end of the show.Judge kicks off the episode with an important PSA regarding the wellbeing of amateur and professional porn stars.Nate moves then shifts the conversation towards movies. He leaves Rob and Judge speechless …
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This episode, Nate opens the episode talking about his viewing experience of Black Summer on Netflix and talks about the storyline and cinematography of the show and how it has set the show apart from other zombie related shows.Judge then brings us some infuriating news about the tooth fairy. Apparently, she's getting richer and richer as she hands…
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This episode, Nate and Judge talk about LARPing, fitness and general dad shit that we focus on but we're still unsure if its just old people shit.Join the guys for another awesome episode!!
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Its the podcasts 100th episode! Its also our first live episode!Our good mate Geoff joins us for this episode and Judge asks us some deep questions. Would you rather 1000 ant sized bulls or 1 bull sized ant?Would you rather live in The Walking Dead or Jurassic Park?Tune in to hear the rest or watch on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/live/Yphj2De…
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Part 3 of our Best Bits series is here! This episode, Nate had Judge choose some of his favourite clips from our episodes together! Have a listen and join us as we go down memory lane for a 3rd time.Don't forget to tune in next week for our 1st episode of Season 4 and our 100th episode for NSSDB!
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Welcome back for our second episode in our Best Bits series!Boy! Do we have a show for you! Make sure you go back and listen to the back catalogue of Nate and Judge. You wont regret it!
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This week we're bringing you a new type of episode. These are some of the best bits recorded in June and July 2022.Join us as we walk down memory lane and listen to some snippets from some of our favourite episodes.We'll have another "Best Bits" episode next week to keep your ear pussies moist for our return on the first week of February!!…
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This episode is a short one. Here's an update for what's to come in 2024 for (not so) Secret Dads Business.Join us next week for our first "Best Of" episode!!We'll be bringing new episodes to your ear pussies in February 2024!!
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It's A Christmas Miracle, Charlie Brown
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In this episode, we wrap up the podcast for 2023, and Judge gets a Christmas miracle and has a chance to catch up with an old friend.Rob is an old friend of Judge, going back to the days of 1990s New Jersey.Rob regails Nate and Judge with some of his war stories and fatherhood experiences. The guys all discuss the moment all children have at some p…
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This episode, Judge opens with 3 men he thought would be better nominees for GQ Magazine Man of the Year.Judge hits us with another "Can We Stop?!" and he talks about how cold LARPing in winter is.Nate and Judge also talk about supporting friends, how kids appreciate our time over what we can buy them and we answer another audience question.Come jo…
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*BONUS* NSSDB and Young Dad Podcast Crossover Episode
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This episode is a first for both NSSDB and the Young Dad Podcast! We have created a special crossover for your listening pleasure!Tune in for some awesome conversation on a plethora of different topics.Nate and Jey kick off talking about the differences between the USA and Australia, especially the wildlife.They then go on to talk about why they bo…
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This episode, Judge kicks us off with a good rant and tells Nate about the GQ Magazine "Man" of the Year for 2023.Nate and Judge then go on to answer some listener questions. They talk about the infamous talk of the birds and the bees and they talk about who they would like their kids to have met whom may have moved out of their lives or passed awa…
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With Respect, Shut the Fuck Up. Parenting is Hard
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Join Nate and Judge as they dive headfirst into the chaos of modern society.In this episode, the hosts candidly discuss the precarious state of the world, emphasizing the challenges faced by those caught in the crossfire of extreme views.They also discuss how hard being a single parent is, especially while going through a divorce, paying child supp…
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The Search for Sanity: Parenting Through Laughter and Chaos with Tom Kreffer
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In this engaging episode, join Nate as he sits down with author and humorist Tom Kreffer to delve into the joys, challenges, and humorous moments of parenthood. Tom's latest book, "The Search for Sanity," takes us on a hilarious and heartfelt journey through the world of raising a toddler, where everyday situations become laugh-out-loud anecdotes. …
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Nate and Judge are back with another episode and were bringing back our friend Geoff!This episode is to be expected with the three of us. We talk about hobbies. Hobbies we have, hobbies we are interested in and hobbies we can't afford. We also asked each other what our least used impulse buy was.All three guys go on many different side quests, but …
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Raising Tomorrow's Heroes: Nurturing Resilience, Freedom, and Character
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In this episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business, join Nate as he engages in a transatlantic conversation with his dear friend, R.L. Shawver, who is a passionate advocate for freedom, resilience, and character-building. Together, they embark on a profound exploration of the intricate world of modern parenting and the values we instill in our childr…
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This episode, Judge is back for the second time in a row. Infact, he's back EVERY WEEK!!This episode, we're all aboard the tangent train yet again. Nate and Judge discuss Nates visit to the Zoo, the ridiculous things people do for TikTok, and Nate goes on a rant about fuel prices.Later on in the episode, Judge brings the attention to the strength a…
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In this unfiltered episode, Judge has returned to the show! We dive deep into the joys, challenges, and raw emotions of fatherhood. With candid humor, expletive laced rants, genuine insights and plenty of tangents, we share personal experiences and explore the importance of checking in on your physical and emotional well-being as a dad. From heartf…
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How Dads Can Create Quality Family Time: Fun and Learning with KidBox.fun
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In this episode, Nate dives into a candid conversation with Matt, a devoted dad and the creator of an innovative project called Kidbox.fun.In this engaging conversation, Matt shares his journey from citylife in Denver, Colorado, to rural South Dakota, where he's embraced the role of a dedicated dad to three teenage daughters. He opens up about his …
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Unlocking Your Full Potential: A Mindset Makeover
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In this inspiring episode, our host, Nate engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Chris Phillips, a passionate entrepreneur and mindset enthusiast. Chris shares his remarkable journey from a traditional 9-to-5 job to becoming a successful business owner and mindset coach.Join us as Chris reveals the pivotal moments in his life that led him…
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The Journey to Redemption: From Addiction to Super Dad
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In this emotionally charged and inspiring episode, we dive deep into the life of Josh, a single father who battled addiction and emerged as a remarkable example of resilience and transformation. Join us as we hear Josh's incredible journey from the clutches of addiction to becoming a devoted and loving super dad. Josh opens up about the all-encompa…
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The Resilience Revolution: Building Mental and Emotional Strength
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In this empowering episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business, Nate dives deep into the world of resilience and self-improvement with the ever insightful Kristian Moore, founder of the Resilience Revolution Facebookgroup. They unravel the essential aspects of mental and emotional resilience that every man needs to cultivate in order to navigate life'…
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Empowering Education Through 3D Printing: Revolutionizing Learning and Skill Development
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In this thought-provoking episode, join Nate as he engages in a compelling conversation with James, a visionary entrepreneur and educator on a mission to transform education through the power of 3D printing. Drawing from his unique experiences and insights, James shares how he and his wife are reshaping the way students learn by integrating hands-o…
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Rising from the Depths: A Tale of Sobriety and Artistry
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Step into a world of resilience and creativity in this episodeof (not so) Secret Dads Business]. Nate engages in a profound dialogue with Nemiah VanGuilder, a gifted author and artist, as he shares his courageous journey from the clutches of addiction to the realm of artistic inspiration.Nemiah's unfiltered narrative unveils the arduous battle with…
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The Children in the Pictures: Fighting Child Exploitation and Protecting Our Children in the Digital Playground
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Join Nate on a gripping episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business as he tackles the disturbing topic of child exploitation. Special guest, Akhim Dev, a renowned documentary filmmaker and investigative journalist, shares his experiences and insights from his global adventures covering stories on this crucial issue. Akhim's work extends to his podcast…
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Navigating Parenthood: Reflections on Love, Challenges, and Letting Go
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This episode, Joseph Pereira is on the show! Join us as we have an honest and heartfelt conversation about the beautiful, chaotic, and ever-changing journey of parenting. From the importance of being present and learning from the everyday moments to the bittersweet feeling of watching our children grow and leave the nest. Discover the raw emotions …
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Unleashing Your Power: Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs and Taking Control
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In this episode, my guest, Steve Smith and I, delve into the topic of control and the importance of breaking free from limiting beliefs. Through a captivating conversation, we uncover the desire for control in our lives and how it often goes beyond material wealth. From the longing for a stress-free life to pursuing passions and hobbies, we discuss…
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*ENCORE EPISODE* We Got Out: Leaving a Cult, Reclaiming Our Lives and Family Connections
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*This episode was first published February 5th 2022.* Sarah and Nippy were in the NXIVM (said Nexium) cult for 12 and 16 years respectively. In early 2017, Sarah was invited into a secret women's sect of the cult called DOS. She was asked to strip naked, was blindfolded and led into a room with several other women. She was then instructed to repeat…
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