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As young people, we’re constantly experimenting with love. Sometimes we get hurt, other times, we get it right. This podcast is a platform where young people get to share their opinions and experiences on a variety of topics; heartbreak, sex, marriage, dating preferences, etc. all of which centre around love, lust OR NOT! Have fun listening! 💚💚
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Ever felt like you're the catch and your partner should be lucky to have you? It's time to check your ego at the door. Love blossoms when the two individuals recognise the unique qualities they each bring to the table. Listen to find out why thinking you’re the prize can hinder the progress of your search for love. More-so, in a world that often pr…
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Is your heart's desire also a genetic match? On this episode, two medical doctors discuss the latest medical advancements and the importance of pre-relationship health screenings for genetic compatibility and infectious disease testing. Medical compatibility goes beyond just genotype. Listen to find out what else you might be missing. Crafted with …
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When you meet a potential partner, conversations become the primary method to knowing and understanding each other. If you do not hold your end of the conversation, the potential partner may eventually lose interest and take a walk. Good conversations take two people.How do you contribute to making a conversation'good' and 'interesting'? How long s…
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This episode explores why taking the initiative, making the bold move & breaking the ice is important to find love. You’ll learn about overcoming shyness, effective icebreakers and putting yourself out there with confidence. By the end of this episode, you should be able to spark interesting conversations & peak genuine interest. Crafted with Love …
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You want a slim thick woman when you have a sugar daddy bod? Do you have the money to match? You want a man living in his OWN home and driving his own car. Did your daddy have a house when he married your mother? Do you have your own home? Or are your standards applicable only when it is on another person's pocket?This episode drives home the impor…
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Don't settle for less than you deserve – it's time to define what truly matters to you in love and relationships. By crafting clear non-negotiables that filter out incompatible matches, you stop wasting time on people that lead nowhere which frees up your schedule for the good stuff!Tune in on the next episode for step 3 of Finding Love: becoming w…
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The importance of defining what you truly desire in a partner is that you automatically start to recognise what you don't want, guiding you closer to your ideal match and saving you precious time and emotional energy.Finding love has become painfully challenging given limited quality options, despite an abundance of people. But what if the very fir…
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Holding onto grudges can transform your partner into a villain, when in reality, it's your own inability to forgive that's consuming you. Grievances create a distorted view of your partner, making them seem worse than they are. But the real monster? Unforgiveness itself. Learn how to break free from the cycle for a happier, healthier relationship.C…
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From the undeniable betrayal of physical infidelity to the subtle transgressions of emotional entanglements, I discuss the nuances of each form.Whether you're grappling with the aftermath of cheating yourself or seeking to understand its complexities, this episode will challenge your perspective and make you question the boundaries of trust. Tune i…
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I discuss the privilege of genuine love - how exciting things usually are at the beginning of love, relationships and marriage - and the eventual, sometimes unintended descent into the abuse of access.One of the fastest ways to ruin the beauty of love is to take the access you have to your partner for granted. Genuine love demands that you never tr…
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Do you have what it takes to hold the attention of the man you love? Good conversations do not happen by chance; they are the result of a willing heart and a curious mind. Listen to 4 basic tips to get you off to a good start in that conversation with your crush. He is supposed to chase after you, NOT after a conversation with you. I hope you know …
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How ‘cheap’ is your man? It sounds like all men lack control and discipline- but I would like to believe that God still has sons. Unsuspecting men falling prey to the seductive whims of women who aren’t their partners is the new order of the day. Is he safe with your wig vendor for even a day? Or will he be ‘snatched’ from you just like that? Where…
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The absence of my father has influenced the way I interact with my romantic partners. The fatherless daughter syndrome is real and it manifests in more ways than we know. Constantly seeking validation, feelings of insecurity, clinginess, hyper vulnerability and a host of many others, could be signs that you are yet to heal from the psychological da…
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Are you in a committed relationship but find yourself attracted to another person? On this episode, Kezia discusses third-party attractions, why they occur, how to guard your heart jealously and what to do if you already find yourself in this tricky situation. Support the Podcast on Patreonhttps://www.patreon.com/younginloveFollow YIL Podcast on In…
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Today, I put our African parents on the cross and nail them for the wickedness they display during the wedding preparations of their children. I say a short prayer for these parents, uncles and aunties as well as ‘village people’. To start this conversation with your parents, share this episode with them and leave your comments on the corresponding…
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Is it really sexual harassment or an opportunity to show your sexual prowess? Where do we draw the line between sexual harassment and compliments? Is sexual harassment gender specific? Gideon and Kezia unravel the grey areas in sexual harassment of males and share real life experiences of sexual harassment and how they were managed. Leave your comm…
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It is true that the world has become so connected via the internet that you do not necessarily need to go out to meet new people. However, in-person interactions have an advantage that digital connections will never offer. On this episode, Miša and his fiancé, Irina, share the fateful story of how they met at the beach, Irina’s adventurous trip to …
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This is not your regular love story. Theirs is one of fate; giving love a chance against the odds stacked against them. Chika and Taiwo join me to share the challenges they have had to deal with as a couple, the boundaries they established for ex-lovers, the intriguing story of how they met and so much more. Enjoy!Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram ht…
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For people of faith, ever wondered if sex and prayer were compatible? Is there a safe way to 'fornicate'? Is there a guiltless way to 'fornicate'? On this episode, I am joined by Obinna to discuss the guilt from so-called fornication, and the liberty that eventually comes from having sex and being able to pray immediately after. Obinna speaks from …
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I look like a Crocodile but that’s gist for when you listen. He speaks German. I speak English. Is there the slightest chance that there’s a future between us? Personally, I think not and for a good number of reasons. On this episode, I share my personal experiences with being approached by men who do not speak English and how I have navigated thes…
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You've got a wicked man? Say no more! You may very well be already punishing him and I share how. For those with kind men, let me tell you what you need to stop doing to enjoy those snugly cuddly nights in the arms of the man you love.To donate to Baby Chima's #gofundme, please use this link. https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-save-chinedum-onyemaechi…
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I present to you, famous polygamists in the Bible and how they found favour with God. Something special about polygamy. Actually, if you’ve been fighting polygamy, this episode is for you. If you’ve always known that there’s nothing wrong with polygamy but you just never found justification for it in the Bible, WORRY NOT! I got you covered. This ep…
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This episode is a collection of real life experiences of real people and all the things that went wrong during their one night stands, the thrill and excitement, the risks, the fears and the lessons learned. You want to listen to the very end because, better is the end of a thing thereof than the beginning. I'm joined by King Precious, the host of …
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Yes! It is just as scary as it is true. Your penis can actually break and at really odd moments. I share a little basic knowledge on penile fracture and sex positions that predispose you to penile fracture as well as the symptoms, diagnosis, treatment and precautionary measures that may help prevent your penis from breaking. Enjoy!Health content go…
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Don't you just get confused sometimes in your search for love? We are often advised to look for a long list of things in our partners. On this episode, I present four bedrock criteria that you may want to adopt in your quest for love. I shared same at the Podcasters' Hangout and if you weren't there, listening to this is a good way to play catch-up…
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Here's what I think about humping. Y'all need to stop! Or at least pity our pubic tissues. I present a better option that may leave both parties happy at the end of a hump session. What better day to publish an episode on humping than on the hump day? Happy Hump Day; Happy Wednesday! Donate to and share my #gofundmekezia link for my birthdayhttps:/…
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Is food really the fastest way to a man's heart? While many men have said NO to this question, their actions have shown otherwise. Join me and Alaoma on this exciting episode as we discuss. Wanna leave a comment on this episode? I'll be waiting to read from you on Podroom. Link below.https://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=podcast/5304/invite…
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We have probably all been guilty of this at some point. In the wake of recent happenings in Nigeria, particularly rape, it is important that we learn that we could innocently justify rape by our words. In less than 8minutes, I share pointers to our guilt and a way forward.Comment on this episode via https://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=pod…
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Celebrity couple, Banky and Adesua Wellington decided to share their journey through fertility and faith and how their love for God and each other managed to carry them through. The hour-long testimony has evoked a plethora of emotions and sentiments across Nigeria. On this episode, I share the highlights of their testimony, lessons learned and ess…
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Love affairs at the Office will not always end delightfully. Winifred shares her unbelievably short but horrific experiences during her numerous office romance escapades. To leave a comment, visit Podroom via the link belowhttps://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=podcast/5304/invite Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-k…
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Have the Yorubas really done something to deserve all the demonization they get? I eavesdropped on a spicy but thought-provoking gossip at a hair salon in Lagos and I could not wait to share the gossip with you. I heard abominable things. Please just tell me none of these things are true!To leave a comment on this episode, visit 👇🏽 https://www.podr…
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They found love at the Office! The guilty pleasures of office romance! My guests, Tele & Edidem and I, discuss falling in love, romance and everything in-between at the Office and I dare say, marrying that love. Advisable or not? To leave a comment on this episode, visit 👇🏽https://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=podcast/5304/invite OR https:/…
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When a person tells you “Goodnight” or “Bye”, that is the end of your own conversation with the person. On this episode of ‘Through Kezia’s Lens’, I discuss the common error of mistaking online presence for availability. Make sure you share this episode with your enemies and all those who bug you when you’re online. Young in Love Podcast is ranked …
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Have you ever felt disrespected by the choice of date location by your partner? Darlington and I explore what influences date locations and how some locations can be disrespectful not just because of the location itself, but also the activities carried out in the location eg. smoking, orgies, etc. Young in Love Podcast is ranked #17 in Top 50 Niger…
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Single or dating? You do not want to miss this episode as this sexy Yoruba dem*n drops mind-blowing tips on what you should consider before outdoing yourself on ANY kind of date appointment. Young in Love Podcast is ranked #17 in Top 50 Nigerian Podcasts 2020 by NaijaPod Hub. ✌🏽🎉🎉 Having stuck with Podcasting and content creation for a year, I deci…
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In a time with increasingly high expectations from men, it’s easy to despair as a man when you fall short of the set standards. Here’s a gender-special for all the men out there; YOU’RE STILL A MAN and YOU’RE ENOUGH! Young in Love Podcast is ranked #17 in Top 50 Nigerian Podcasts 2020 by NaijaPod Hub. ✌🏽🎉🎉Having stuck with Podcasting and content cr…
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I moved to a bigger city and found that the climate for love appeared to be hostile here in Lagos. My finding inspired this episode. Here, Fecko of the Surviving Eko Podcast (a born & bred Lagos boy) and I compare what it’s like to find love, date, marry and raise a family in the big cities of Lagos & Port-Harcourt. Enjoy!Young in Love Podcast is r…
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Oo la la..!!! Don’t mind the French caption☺️☺️.I provide answers about my Podcast, my love life, sexual life and my career. One year of non-stop Podcasting is definitely worth it. YIL Podcast turns 1 and I thought it was a good opportunity to let you lovely Listeners gain a little insight into my quiet world by asking burning questions you’d like …
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Let’s face it.! We have been attracted to someone from the past; maybe from even our HighSchool. This episode brings back fond memories by assembling the real highschool sweethearts from ASTEC, Owerrinta. We discussed the innocence, awesomeness, awkwardness and future of highschool relationships. Plus, some old flames might have been rekindled😉😉 If…
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My guest, Mr. Kenny and I discuss the sexual expectations or not of people when being visited. In a time when sexual violations are at an all-time high, it has become important to discuss, however lightly, the concept of CONSENT; whether it can be implied and whether previous consent means perpetual consent. From a remote Contributor, Amara, we als…
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Should being an independent woman mean always splitting bills with your man? With modern trend of events, it’s hard to know where a man’s head is at when it comes to bills. This episode explores the hilarious, yet very embarrassing experiences of 3 Ladies with 21st Century men. Follow on Instagram @younginlove_podcast…
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A social experiment carried out to test the age-long saying that ‘Love is Blind’ quickly swept across the world as Netflix released this exciting Show. It couldn’t have come at a better time as we’re all having to stay home and practice social distancing. In this episode, Shulamite from Ukraine joins me to discuss 4 couples of interest, their actio…
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Having best friends other than your Lover may sometimes seem like a tripartite relationship. While some Millennials are okay with the idea, so many others are not. On this episode, Mazi Enoch shares his personal experience with his ex-girlfriend having a male best friend other than himself as well as the risks involved. Check us out on Instagram @y…
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Listen to the true confessions of a married man. This episode is a discussion between the Host and a married man on who bears the blame between the wooing husband and his obliging side chick, the side-chick blame culture in Nigeria and lots more. You will find this episode entertaining and thought-provoking. Follow on Instagram @younginlove_podcast…
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Relationships are spiced or wrecked by mannerisms. While some are natural like farts, how we go about them can create fun or annoy our partners. Here, married guests tell us their stories, especially with farts. Turns out that there is good news from the New York Post for all those with smelly farts. Follow & Drop your comments on our Instagram pag…
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There is the trend where a man sponsors a lady through university with the hope that upon her graduation, she’d marry him. On this episode, we discuss the motivation for the men who do this and the risks involved. Would you marry a man because he sponsored your education? Would you sponsor a lady’s education because you hoped she’d marry you afterw…
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