Best Marit D Podcasts (2024)

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How People Mess Up Their Lives and How to Not Make the Same Mistakes: Part Three • Marital Neglect cont’d (Episode 66) 26:32

19d ago26:32

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View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/how-people-mess-up-their-lives-and-how-to-not-make-the-same-mistakes-part-three. Help us reach more couples! Donate at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/donate. Your gift is tax-deductible. The Life & Love Nuggets podcast will help you learn valuable insights into relationships, life, and l…

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Cultural Norms and the Paralysis of Inaction 49:05

2d ago49:05

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Send us a Text Message. What would you do if you witnessed someone in distress in public? This episode of the Toxic Cooking Show challenges you to rethink everything you know about the bystander effect and personal responsibility. This week Lindsay McClane with my co-host, Christopher Patchet, LCSW, we unravel the misconceptions surrounding the inf…

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Sabbath Rest (Episode 67) 39:53

5d ago39:53

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We join Brent speaking at their local church in Tulsa about the amazing reality that the more we understand how our brains work, the more it makes sense why God would have encouraged certain rhythms in our life to keep us healthy. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/sabbath-rest. Help us reach more couples! Donate at https://w…

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Witnesses in Silence: The Dark Reality of the Bystander Effect 36:35

9d ago36:35

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Send us a Text Message. Why do people often stand by and do nothing during emergencies? Discover the unsettling truth behind the bystander effect, starting with the tragic and infamous Kitty Genovese case. We'll recount the chilling details of her 1964 murder and the media portrayal that claimed 38 witnesses did nothing to help. While later investi…

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Beyond the Jackpot: Gender, Money, and Marital Fates 56:18

15d ago56:18

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Send us a Text Message. Why do women double their chances of divorce after winning the lottery, while men are 30% more likely to tie the knot?" Join us as we dig into the surprising and often overlooked effects of financial windfalls on relationships. We explore the statistics and discuss the emotional disconnect that can arise when men focus on ma…

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Unpacking the Financial Strain on Women in the Workforce 28:16

23d ago28:16

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Send us a Text Message. Why do female-dominated fields often require advanced degrees yet offer starting salaries comparable to jobs needing less formal education? In this episode, we promise to uncover the deep-rooted gender disparities in career salaries by examining the educational requirements and initial pay scales of male-dominated and female…

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Unveiling the "Bang Maids": Gender Roles and Toxic Relationships 45:40

1M ago45:40

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Send us a Text Message. Can traditional gender roles be the hidden root of toxic relationships?" On this thought-provoking episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, Lindsay McLean and Christopher Patchett, LCSW, wrap up their deep dive into toxic archetypes by shedding light on the often-overlooked concept of "bang maids." These women juggle domestic chor…

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How People Mess Up Their Lives and How to Not Make the Same Mistakes: Part Two – Marital Neglect 28:32

1M ago28:32

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Brent and Janis continue their series on the mistakes people make in their lives and how to not make the same mistakes. They cover mistakes or mistaken beliefs people have: · Don’t think marriage takes work. · Talk to each other in ways and with words they would never use with anyone else. · Don’t give enough time to the relationship -other things …

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Homemaking or Hatemaking: Unmasking the Trad Wife Agendas 57:18

1M ago57:18

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Send us a Text Message. Can the allure of a perfectly baked sourdough starter lead you into the clutches of far-right ideologies? On this episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, we navigate the seemingly wholesome world of the "trad wife" movement, a growing online trend that romanticizes a return to 1950s domesticity and traditional gender roles. Linds…

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Dissecting the Cult of Controversial Influencers 59:00

2M ago59:00

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Send us a Text Message. This week we take a look at giving the spotlight to the "influencers" of social media that, despite having a message of toxic outlooks, continue to have a platform that only grows. We dive deep into Gypsy Rose, (no longer a doctor) Jordan Peterson, and Andrew (tater tot) Tate. We look at the messages they prove and talk abou…

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How People Mess Up Their Lives and How to Not Make the Same Mistakes (Part One - Episode 64) 33:31

2M ago33:31

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LLN #64 This week Brent and Janis are starting a new series entitled: How People Mess Up Their Lives and How to Not Make the Same Mistakes. This episode (part one) is on comparison: the natural tendency to compare ourselves that can cause us to not be content with our own lives. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/how-people-m…

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Who, what is a pick me girl, and why is it so toxic? 41:34

2M ago41:34

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Send us a Text Message. Have you ever caught yourself vying for attention in a way that makes you cringe in hindsight? Well, we've all been there, and this episode, Lindsay McLean, along with Christopher Patchet, are pulling back the curtain on the social labyrinth of the "pick me girl", right from its roots in the playground dynamics of early girl…

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Procrastination (Episode 63) 31:04

2M ago31:04

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Brent and Janis look at why do we procrastinate about important things in our life sometimes and what are strategies to minimize the negative effects in our life and relationships. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/procrastination Help us reach more couples! Donate at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/donate. Your gift is t…

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Cracking the Code of Male Emotion 51:50

2M ago51:50

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Send us a Text Message. Have you ever witnessed the struggle many men face when it comes to sharing their deepest emotions, even with those they hold dear? This week we have a revelatory discussion that peels back the layers of why men often bottle up their feelings of sadness or depression. We take a look at factors that set up the stage to repres…

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Marital Sex Isn’t Boring ft. William and Ayo Lawal 1:19:48

2M ago1:19:48

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Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast! Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal. Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more. Themes: Lon…

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Alpha Widows and the Quest for High-Status Love 38:13

2M ago38:13

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Send us a Text Message. Ever found yourself chuckling at the wisdom buried within Urban Dictionary? That's where we kick things off, unraveling the fabric of 'alpha widows' and 'hypergamy' with humor yet a keen eye on their serious repercussions on modern dating and self-worth. Our latest episode peels back the layers of these potent social dynamic…

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Safe and Wise People: Safe People Part 2 (Episode 62) 26:06

3M ago26:06

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Brent and Janis continue their discussion of Safe people and look at the characteristics of people who are both safe and wise. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/safe-and-wise-people Help us reach more couples! Donate at ⁠https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/donate⁠. Your gift is tax-deductible. The Life & Love Nuggets podcast …

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Are You D!ckmatized or Lost In The Sauce? Ft. Ed Gothboy 1:06:01

3M ago1:06:01

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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "…

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Forgotten Fuglies 1:02:29

3M ago1:02:29

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Send us a Text Message. Last week we talked about pretty privilege. This week we look at the total other end of the spectrum, the forgotten fuglies. Why are we, your lovely hosts, coining the term "the forgotten fuglies"? Well, apparently, unlike the pretty people that have all the research on their mental health, social ranks, and acceptabilities …

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I Identify As A Form ft. Gozie 1:00:50

3M ago1:00:50

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Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the so…

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Pretty Privilege 41:42

3M ago41:42

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Send us a Text Message. Pretty privilege brings nothing but advantages to someone who has conventional attractiveness, right? There are the advantages of free drinks, easier to find a partner. But, with pretty privilege comes the unprivileges of unwanted attention, and over-looked mental health problems. This week we dive into the good, the bad, an…

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Safe People (Episode 61) 33:16

3M ago33:16

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Brent and Janis discuss why we need safe people, how to identify safe people and how to become safe people. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/safe-people Help us reach more couples! Donate at ⁠https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/donate⁠. Your gift is tax-deductible. The Life & Love Nuggets podcast will help you learn valuable…

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Trigger Warning ft. Aanu 42:03

3M ago42:03

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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth,…

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Purity Balls 47:02

3M ago47:02

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Send us a Text Message. A wonderful night at a father daughter dance. Dad gets dressed up to take his daughter out for dinner. Daughter puts on a nice dress to spend time with her father. How could we possibly add this as an ingredient to our toxic soup? Well, how about making the theme of the entire night on the daughter's virginity? That's right!…

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Love And High Fenced Streets ft Amiola 50:18

3M ago50:18

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What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between d…

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Gaslighting 39:01

3M ago39:01

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Send us a Text Message. Gaslighting, it has become one of those terms that is starting to lose meaning due to everyone calling out gaslighting one everything. If someone lies. People calls out that it is gaslighting. If someone is being manipulative. People calls out that it is gaslighting. However, actual gaslighting is much much more serious and …

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Accepting Your Parents - Parents and Their Adult Children (And Adult Children and their Adult Parents) - Part 4 (Episode 60) 32:58

4M ago32:58

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Most of us idolize our parents when we are small and grow up to find out that they are humans too. Accepting them as humans helps us accept ourselves and our own weaknesses. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/accepting-your-parents. Help us reach more couples! Donate at ⁠https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/donate⁠. Your gift i…

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Navigating Different Identities In A Heterosexual Marriage ft. Tolu 54:01

3M ago54:01

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On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person vi…

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Friend Zoned 32:51

4M ago32:51

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Send us a Text Message. Looking at the friend zone. What is it? Where did the name come from? We look at this, and more importantly, can the friend zone be harmful? and if yes to whom can this be harmful for? The one who is zoned? The one who is zoning? both? Let's dive into the toxic meanings that is the friend zone.…

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Sex Education (The Lack Thereof) In Nigeria ft. Olori Coitus 1:06:53

4M ago1:06:53

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In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienc…

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Simp Male 45:48

4M ago45:48

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Send us a Text Message. Moving away from the toxic Alpha male to the opposite end of the spectrum. We talk about "the simp". Are they just the nice guys? Where did the name come from? How do these Simps affect the people around them and how do they affect themselves?By Christopher D Patchet, LCSW Lindsay McClane

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How to have a Good Relationship with your Adult Children - Parents and Their Adult Children (And Adult Children and their Adult Parents) - Part 3 (Episode 59) 32:44

4M ago32:44

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Brent and Janis share the do’s and don’ts of interacting with your adult children. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/how-to-have-a-good-relationship-with-your-adult-children The Life & Love Nuggets podcast will help you learn valuable insights into relationships, life, and love. Brent and Janis have been empowering couples t…

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Can I Take My Clothes Off? ft. Sugar Ken 48:41

4M ago48:41

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Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the…

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Toxic Female Trends and Body Image 39:02

4M ago39:02

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Send us a Text Message. This week we discuss women trends that have been featured on tiktok including A4 challenge, and goldfish in the collarbone (yuck) challenge. We dive into body images over the years from the tube like body of the flapper girls in the 1920's to the present "thigh gap" and "hip dips".…

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Divine Desire: Unveiling Eros With An Erotic Goddess ft. Joy 57:27

4M ago57:27

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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spiri…

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Personal Responsibility 44:25

4M ago44:25

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Send us a Text Message. Last week we talked about three different cases that lead to murder. But where is the blame placed? Does it go to the me engaging in the toxic behaviors, or does the blame go to the women that are thriving off the toxic behaviors.By Christopher D Patchet, LCSW Lindsay McClane

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How Cultural Events Impact Us as Individuals and Our Parenting Style | Parents and Their Adult Children and Adult Children and Their Adult Parents (Part 2 • Episode 58) 36:54

5M ago36:54

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Brent and Janis continue their series exploring the complexities of parents adapting to their role change with their adult children from parent to friend. In each episode they will explore a different angle of this relationship from the side of the parent and the side of the adult child. And they will help encourage both sides to communicate, estab…

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Silver Sex ft. Cheron K. Griffin & Mr. Hunni Bunni 1:24:48

4M ago1:24:48

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On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love wit…

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Toxic Lies, Deceit, and Murders 1:00:15

5M ago1:00:15

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Send us a Text Message. Taking a look at three cases that ended in murders. A young woman who grew up poor finds a self-made millionaire. Started a sexual relationship, in order to give a crush from the past the illusion that she turned her life around.A struggling B-Instagram model meets a psychiatrist willing to give her the A celebrity lifestyle…

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True Romance Is Dead! ft. Luciano & Torera 1:09:55

5M ago1:09:55

1:09:55

Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means t…

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The Alpha Female 29:35

5M ago29:35

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Send us a Text Message. We all know the toxic male, but what about the toxic female? Who is she? While not as flamboyant or ever-present on social media as the toxic male, you've probably met her out in the wild. Our topic for this week breaks down the different ways in which woman can be labeled toxic and why.…

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The Alpha Male 39:47

5M ago39:47

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Send us a Text Message. "Alpha male" - just uttering this gets people on every side of the issue up in arms, shouting their viewpoint. But where did this term come from, and what or who is it actually referring to? This week we take a quick dive into the history of the term as well as discuss what we really think these men should be called. For Mor…

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Who We Are 32:59

5M ago32:59

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Send us a Text Message. Hi and welcome to our podcast, the... uh... what are we called again? We're Chris and Lindsay a.k.a. Dad and the Best Daughter Ever, and while we've known each other for over a decade we're still new to podcasting. Get to know us as we stumble through our first ever show and talk about what we hope to achieve with this show.…

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Parents and Their Adult Children (and Adult Children and Their Adult Parents) (Part One - Episode 57) 32:51

5M ago32:51

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Brent and Janis begin their series exploring the complexities of parents adapting to their role change with their adult children from parent to friend. In each episode they will explore a different angle of this relationship from the side of the parent and the side of the adult child. And, they will help encourage both sides to communicate, establi…

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Sexual Revolution ft. Teso The Star Seed 1:15:49

5M ago1:15:49

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On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyD…

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Mind-Body-Spirit Wellness ft. Oyin Talabi 1:03:11

5M ago1:03:11

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On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate …

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Where is God when things don’t make sense? (Part 2 • Episode 56) 29:26

5M ago29:26

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Brent and his son Preston, pastor of Sacrament Church in Nashville, Tennessee, continue their discussion on the questions people have in the middle of difficult circumstances and the struggles we have in understanding where God is in the midst of suffering. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/where-is-god-when-things-dont-make…

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We Are In An Open Marriage ft. The Play Smith & Venolia 52:32

5M ago52:32

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On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamo…

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Logical Lovers, Intimacy and Size Queens ft. Dr. SID 1:04:40

6M ago1:04:40

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Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication…

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Where Is God When Things Don’t Make Sense? (Part 1 • Episode 55) 28:12

6M ago28:12

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Brent and his son Preston, pastor of Sacrament Church in Nashville, Tennessee, discuss the questions people have in the middle of difficult circumstances and the struggles we have in understanding where God is in the midst of suffering. View the transcript at https://www.lifeandlovenuggets.com/where-is-god-when-things-dont-make-sense-part-1-episode…

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