Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.
Intimate Interviews with Innovators and Educators of Sexual Wellness & Pleasure.
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DEEP DIVE: Wholesomeness Is Perverted with Dia Dynasty and @tiemetightly
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It's official! Once we receive 2K subscribers on Patreon the Ask A Sub podcast is coming back full force! In the meantime I want to share a teaser of a series I'm doing for Patreon members called DEEP DIVE. Deep Dive is a monthy series where I'll bring you deep conversations with luminaries in the kink and alternative sexuality communities, always …
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Capturing Sexy Uncensored Entertainment That You’ll Absolutely Crave with Habit Magazine’s CEO Vanessa Campbell
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Vanessa Campbell was born and raised in Caracas, Venezuela. She graduated from college in 2011 and in 2014 decided to move to the U.S. to start a new life by herself in Florida. In 2020 she began modeling for HABIT magazine and immediately fell in love with them. In 2021 she purchased the magazine company, became their CEO, and has been part of a t…
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Virility, Fertility and Hormone Regulation: Where Nature Meets Nanoscience with Dr. Richard Presser
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Dr. Presser is an Aussie on a deeply spiritual journey, who's also into the joy and fun of life. He has a PhD in Materials Engineering and was involved in the IT industry for many years before beginning his spiritual journey in the early 90’s. He distributes two product ranges globally that have a key role in this time of change. "I have come to un…
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DEEP DIVE: Venus Cuffs on Kink Parties & Being A Bossy B*tch
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While I work on bringing you a second season of Ask A Sub, in the meantime I want to share a teaser of a patreon-exclusive series I'm doing called DEEP DIVE. Deep Dive is a monthy series wherein I'll bring you deep conversations with luminaries in the kink community, always with the focus of asking them educated, insider questions about their work.…
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Optimizing Sexual Health and Function with the Lipid of Youth Dr. Raghavan
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Dr. Raghaven is the Chairman and CEO at Nanorx Inc. He’s an experienced CEO with a demonstrated history of working in the pharmaceuticals industry. Dr. Raghaven is skilled in Nano technology, Patent Law, Biotechnology, Drug Development, Drug Discovery, and Licensing and International marketing. He’s a thriving entrepreneur that has graduated with a…
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Live Authentically While Pursuing Your Dreams and Pleasures with Coralyn Jewel
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Coralyn Jewel is a world renowned sex coach and the #1 International Best-Selling Author of When the Ice Melts: The Story of Coralyn Jewel. Coralyn portrays courage, determination and is a perfect example that reiterates to her readers, fans, and listeners, “Don’t Judge a Book by Its Cover”. Coralyn’s history as an adult performer, competitive athl…
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Creating Entertaining Science Fiction Erotic Audio Experiences & Fantasy Short Stories with Nobilis Reed
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Nobilis Reed is the creator of Nobilis Erotica, the best speculative fiction erotica anthology podcast in the known universe; the host and narrator of This Kaiju Life, the podcast audio diary of an ordinary IT guy at a company that studies giant monsters; and author of the Monster Whisperer series of consentacle novels. Follow Nobilis Reed: PleazeM…
In our season finale, we wade into the waters of respect, romance, and all things mushy gushy. First, hear Lina’s thoughts on training collars and creating contracts – how to set up expectations, needs, and all the rice-kneeling moments in between, including a little peek into Lina’s accidental protocol misinterpretation at the start of her own dyn…
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Empowering Women to Tap Into Their Sexual Energy & Manifest Their Desires with Domina Doll
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Domina Doll is a Passion, Pleasure, and Empowerment Expert, a Sex Witch, Magic Manifesting Alchemist & Metaphysical Muse. Domina has dabbled as a fetish photographer, filmmaker, creative make-up artist, sex toy peddler, palm, tarot & tea leaf reader, exotic dancer, erotic writer, sensual lifestyle Dominatrix, and a Jill of many trades. Her passion …
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Uncovering the Naked Truth on Authentic Leadership & Business Transparency with Paulina Tenner
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Paulina is an entrepreneur, an angel investor, a TEDx speaker and a founder of GrantTree who started with a purpose to help tech startups navigate the complex world of government funding. Since 2010 the team grew organically from 2 to over 50, and raised over £200m for more than 600 technology startups and scaleups using solely government funding s…
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9. Dating Apps, Meeting IRL, and Seeking Compatibility
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This week, we cover all the basics of dating and finding kinky people to play with. First, Lina covers the FAQs of dating app profiles – what to do if you’re looking for your ideal Dom(me), how to signal to people that you’re kinky without screaming “I’M A SUB” (but also totally cool to do this too), and how to connect from there. Next, Lina offers…
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Learning To Heal in the Shame Free Zone With Veronica Monet
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Veronica Monet is an author and activist for sex worker rights. Her early activism focused on debunking stereotypes about sex workers and advocating for the decriminalization of all sex work. From 1989 to 2004, she was a high-end escort and courtesan. Monet’s later work focuses on anger management, healing shame, and helping couples integrate their…
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8. Survivors, Loneliness, and a Cucking Treat
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CW for the Episode: Assault–please skip to 16:14 to go straight to question 2. Lina starts this week’s episode by talking about how trauma informs Kink and BDSM, and the healing aspect that can come along with it. But big spoiler alert, there is no magical cure for trauma. And that’s okay! In fact, your trauma doesn’t need to even be involved with …
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Discussing a Healthy Sex Life, Sex Taboos, Sexuality Coaching and Everything In-Between with Dr. Martha Tara Lee
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Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee decided to take it upon herself to be an advocate for positive sexuality in 2007. She set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality, then launching Er…
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7. CNC, Empowered Collaring, and Protocol For Open Relationships
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CW for the Episode: CNC–please skip to 13:50 to go straight to question 2. This week, Lina breaks down Consensual Non-Consent – what it is, where the fantasy comes from, and how to safely proceed in play while still feeling seen and taken care of. Her secret?Starting slow. Lina then pivots to BDSM collaring, how it has changed over time, what it me…
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Helping Kinksters Find Their Authentic Selves with Saffer Master & Lady Petra
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Saffer Master and Lady Petra are a 24/7 TPE D/s couple out of the Seattle area who among other things offer kink relationship dynamics coaching for single and partnered kinksters. They also publish the popular Kinky Cocktail Hour podcast, where they demystify kink and sexuality through conversations with a range of Kinksters. As a sommelier, Lady P…
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6. Opening Up, People Pleasing and Kink Shame
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This week on the table of sub wisdom is something a lot of subs historically have a past with – people pleasing. There is no magic solution, but Lina does her best to unpack it like the classic algebra problems that we definitely don’t miss from highschool (but can we all agree that sexy problem-solving would have made the class a whole lot more fu…
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Investigating Big Tech’s Censorship Policies with Dr Carolina Are/Hades
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Dr Carolina is an online moderation researcher, writer, blogger, certified pole + twerk instructor, award-winning activist, and visiting lecturer currently based at City, University of London. She has been observing online subcultures since 2016, first during her MA in Criminology and then through her PhD, which focused on online abuse and conspira…
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Consent, Boundaries, and Sexual Intelligence in Business with Bobbi Bidochka
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Bobbi is an entrepreneur, business professional, mother of two, and accidental author of Sexual Intelligence in Business, a book that she felt compelled to write in response to the new obstacles we all face in a #metoo era and what appears to be a new form of sexual repression brewing. Eternally outspoken, she was inspired by Women and Gender Studi…
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5. Social Stigmas, Sub Drop, and D/s with Roommates
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This week, Lina takes on Society at Large! Hear her thoughts on how to navigate the social stigma around BDSM culture – especially turning those “oh, that’s not normal” comments into something more expansive and inclusive. Lina then digs into those shamey sub drop feels that society and culture have reinforced in our spongy brains and how to retrai…
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Helping You Explore Your Sexuality and Pleasure Without Shame with Vanessa Smith
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Vanessa Smith is the founder of Pleasure Exploration. Her practice focuses on helping people understand and explore their personal intimate desires. She works with clients from all backgrounds, including men, women, gender-neutral individuals, and the LGBTQ+ community. Through virtual one-on-one coaching sessions, Vanessa helps her clients eradicat…
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4. Sub Frenzy, Safe Words, And The Myth Of The Top Shortage
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This week, Lina goes straight into what it feels like to find a new Dom(me)–what it means to navigate the feels of frenzy and swooning, and is it possible to balance leaning in and not overextending yourself? (Spoiler alert: it is!) She also covers the basics of subspace, the power and security of Safe Words, what nonverbal Safe Words can look like…
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3. Fake Doms, Real Doms, And How Can Submission Be Feminist?
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On this week’s episode, Lina tackles the foundational questions of who are Dom(me)s? What do they get out of D/s, and how does trauma play into everything? What about Fake Doms? What are they and how does one *not* be a Fake Dom–especially on dating apps? And finally, Lina addresses the age old question: can you be a feminist *and* a submissive? 💖 …
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2. Aftercare, Mindful Bratting, & The Vanilla Misery Fetish
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In today’s episode Lina goes in deep on what aftercare is and how to incorporate it with all kinds of people and all kinds of sex. She also covers some ways to build and structure a dynamic from scratch – in particular punishment, funishment, and the glory of being a Brat. Finally, Lina discusses the spectrum between vanilla and kink relationships …
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1. My Submission Journey, Orgasm Control, And Advice For Single Thirds
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Ready to demystify kink and head out into the world? In this episode, Lina talks about her own history with submission and how she decided 24/7 lifestyle D/s was for her. What do you do if you know you're kinky but not sure what comes next? What about that important thing called aftercare? Lina goes over the basics, the nuances of orgasm control,…
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Is Monogamy right for you? A science based approach with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova
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Dr. Zhana Vrangalova is a NYC-based sex researcher, speaker, writer, and consultant. She has a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University, where she studied how different aspects of sexuality are linked to health and well-being. She is currently an adjunct professor at New York University where she teaches several Human Sexuality cours…
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Finding Freedom in Pleasure with Passion by Kait Founder Kait Scalisi
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Kait Scalisi, MPH (she/her) is an advocate for the revolutionary power of pleasure—in the bedroom and out. Through Passion By Kait, she blends her science education, social justice insight, and radical empathy to empower folx to get in tune with their bodies, discover what brings them pleasure, and integrate that knowledge into their lives and rela…
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How to Have the Best Experience With Erotic Films as a Consumer or as a Docuporn Star Paulita Pappel
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Paulita Pappel is a Spanish filmmaker and feminist pornographer. She is the co-founder of Lustery, a platform dedicated to the sex lives of real-life couples from around the world. She also co-organizes and curates the Pornfilmfestival Berlin and recently launched HardWerk, a hardcore studio. Paulita works as a producer, performer, director, podcas…
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Beginners Guide Into the Healing and Pleasure of Tantra With Alaya Moon
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Alaya is a radiant, spiritual, mystical and extremely sensual Sacred Priestess of the ancient Tantric Arts. Her gift is in her soft, nurturing, loving presence, deep inner wisdom, knowledge of the sacred teachings and innate skills of Temple Arts healing modalities. She is a Heyoka Empath, Lightworker, Energy Healer, Spiritual Teacher, Life Coach, …
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How to up Your Sex Appeal With the Proper Use of Consent With Teela Hudak
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Teela has been involved in sex education since the fall of 2011. She holds a Bachelors in Psychology from the University of Fraser Valley and since graduating has continued to study independently. She has been publishing articles on sex education online since 2011 and also facilitates sex ed classes. Teela is passionate about helping people find an…
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Upclose and Personal With #Tranpa Trans Male Sexual Wellness Pioneer Buck Angel
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Buck Angel’s message of empowerment through self-acceptance and encouragement of everyone to be comfortable in their own skin has struck a passionate chord with people around the world. As he demonstrated in recent appearances at Yale, Cornell and many other universities and events, Buck inspires people to think outside the box and is educating an …
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Sex Over 60: It Only Gets Better With World Renowned Author & Facilitator Laurie Handlers
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Laurie Handlers is a Sex and Happiness Coach and author of #1 Amazon International Bestselling book Sex & Happiness. She offers sexual health and awareness courses for individuals, couples and groups all over the world. For over 10 years, she has hosted a weekly radio show "Sex and Happiness." She has also produced and starred in three independent …
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Listen and Learn How to Take Your Sex Life to the Next Level With Your Partner Featuring Celine Remy & Kevin Anthony
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Celine Remy & Kevin Anthony are Co-Hosts of The Love Lab Podcast: Sex | Love | Relationship; an international husband and wife team who decided to join forces to create a worldwide movement of true sexual empowerment for high powered couples. Kevin, “The Truth Warrior,” is a Men’s Coach & Tantra Counselor. Céline, “The Intimacy Angel,” is a Certifi…