Michelle Kenney M Ed public
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Have you tried Gentle Parenting? Are you a fan of Attachment but just can’t put it all together? Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits? Welcome to the Peace and Parenting Podcast with Michelle Kenney, M. Ed. Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishmen ...
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Ever felt caught in the crossfire of sibling battles, unsure how to step in without taking sides? As parents, we yearn for peaceful homes where our children thrive together. But when it comes to resolving conflicts between siblings, finding the balance between intervention and neutrality can feel like navigating a minefield. Today, I delve into the…
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How do you navigate traditional parenting methods when they don't align with your child's temperament? Today, I sit with some of my longtime clients, Danielle and Neal, who discuss their parenting journey with their highly sensitive and strong-willed son, Jack. They tried traditional discipline methods such as timeouts and taking toys away, but the…
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Are you spending your time parenting, or is parenting spending your time? Today on Peace and Parenting, I delve into Pam Leo's profound wisdom, exploring the intricate balance between meeting our children's emotional needs and managing their behaviors. Drawing from my own personal experiences, I share the transformative power of filling our childre…
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Are you ever mortified in public when your child’s voice rockets through the mall? Today, we unpack the nuances of communication, tantrums, and the genuine distress many parents face. It's a scene familiar to many—a peaceful outing shattered by a sudden outburst from a toddler. Cherry, a mom from my Instagram followers, joins me in sharing her dile…
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When we punish and discipline our children, are we truly teaching them respect, or are we inadvertently instilling fear? We have been conditioned to believe that respect is synonymous with obedience. But is that really what respect is all about? Today, I want to challenge this conventional thinking and urge you to reconsider your parenting approach…
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Could your pursuit of a "perfectly" behaved child be disrupting the peace in your home? This episode will unravel the intricate dance between setting boundaries and forging bonds of connection. As parents, we tend to focus on controlling our children's behavior and enforcing consequences when they make mistakes. However, what really matters is crea…
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Are we unwittingly damaging our children by repeating the mistakes of our own upbringing? Today, I'm diving into a question that plagues many of us: Are we ruining our kids? This thought can grip us in moments of frustration and self-doubt. But let me tell you something: You're not alone, and you're definitely not ruining your kids. As parents, we'…
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Parenting can be challenging, especially in a world that often values achievement and busyness over connection. Have you ever found yourself caught up in the trap of prioritizing tasks over building stronger bonds with your children? It's a common struggle. Today, I have a heartfelt conversation with Erica, a mother who shared her deeply personal e…
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Imagine cutting your kids' chaotic bedtime routine in half and witnessing your relationship thrive in the process. That's exactly what unfolded for Karla and her husband. Struggling to manage the nightly wind-down of their three lively children, they discovered that the secret wasn't in a more rigid schedule but in fostering a deeper bond. Today, I…
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Imagine cutting your kids' chaotic bedtime routine in half and witnessing your relationship thrive in the process. That's exactly what unfolded for Karla and her husband. Struggling to manage the nightly wind-down of their three lively children, they discovered that the secret wasn't in a more rigid schedule but in fostering a deeper bond. Today, I…
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Today I'm diving into a recent eye-opening experience with my teenage daughter, Pia. Picture this: it's a typical evening until I receive a text that sends my heart racing. Pia and her friend have taken an Uber to the ice cream shop, leaving me puzzled and anxious. What unfolds next reveals a deeper layer of trust, peer pressure, and the delicate b…
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Navigating the emotional ebbs and flows of neurodivergent children can feel like sailing uncharted seas. But what if I told you there's a way to foster connection and understanding even in the midst of these turbulences? Today we delve deep into the unique world of parenting neurodivergent children and how prioritizing connection can make all the d…
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As parents, we often struggle to balance enforcing rules and maintaining a deep, meaningful connection with our children. It's natural to believe that strict guidelines are necessary for shaping our kids' behavior. However, we may unintentionally undermine the very trust and bond we seek to build with them. I understand how challenging it can be to…
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Are you caught in the cycle of correction and control in your parenting journey? Today, I am joined by Nadia, a parent who bravely shares her journey from a place of control to discovering the impact of connective parenting. Nadia candidly shares her experiences of shedding the instinct to correct and control and embracing empathy and connection in…
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As parents, we put a lot of effort and care into raising our children. However, have you ever felt like you crave recognition for your hard work? As I look back on my own journey as a parent, I've realized that the validation we seek doesn't necessarily have to come from our children. Instead, it should come from within ourselves. Today, I encourag…
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Is your relentless focus on productivity sending the message to your child that self-care is secondary to achievement? Today, we delve deep into the subtle dynamics of threats, bribes, and the elusive quest for productivity. In a society that glorifies busyness and achievement, it's easy to fall into the trap of believing that success lies in cross…
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Today, I have a special treat for you as I welcome Dr. Emily Heisey (PT, DPT) and Dr. Matt Otteman (DC), experts in pediatric development. They are the co-owners of KinActive Kids and are well-known for their innovative tips related to child development. In this episode, we explore the world of physical development in children and discuss the signi…
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Have you ever stopped to wonder how your parenting choices today might shape your relationship with your children as they venture into adulthood? I've been contemplating this a lot lately, especially as I anticipate my daughters' transition to independence. Today I open up about my reflections on traditional parenting methods and the profound impac…
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Does your child come home from school and seem like a completely different person? From the moment they step into the classroom to the final bell, our children navigate a complex world of expectations, relationships, and emotions. But what happens when the pressure becomes too much to bear? How do they cope when their systems are stretched to the l…
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Have you ever felt that no matter how much you try to connect with your child, it seems to get more challenging? As a parent, I understand how frustrating it can be to invest time and effort into connective parenting only to face unexpected hurdles. But don't worry, I'm here to tell you you're not alone. Based on my extensive experience coaching pa…
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Do you ever feel like you're on an emotional rollercoaster as a parent? It's normal to feel this way, but finding ways to keep your emotional balance is important. Today on Peace and Parenting, I discuss the importance of a listening partner. This means having someone you can talk to and share your feelings with when you're feeling overwhelmed. But…
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Have you ever considered how your words might affect your child's emotional well-being during moments of distress? Today, we delve into eight phrases that might unintentionally escalate rather than alleviate their upset. From the seemingly innocent "use your words" to the dreaded "calm down," we'll uncover why these phrases can hinder rather than h…
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Many parents often ask me for advice on how to help their children become more resilient and self-reliant. However, today, I am going to share a few things that parents should avoid doing to help their children thrive in the face of adversity. These include not rushing to their children's rescue when facing frustration and not dismissing their chil…
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Have you ever wondered if our loving and nurturing parenting style prepares our kids for the harsh realities of the real world? Well, let's dive into this important discussion today as I explore a fascinating question from a concerned dad: How does our parenting method equip our children to face a world that might not be as gentle as our homes? Fro…
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Hello, parents! Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of rewards and consequences, searching for a way out? Let's talk about it. Today, I'll answer a question from my Instagram community: How can we break free from the constraints of rewards and consequences in parenting? But before we dive into specific strategies, let's take a moment to c…
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What if the key to raising resilient children lies in our ability to navigate the delicate balance between mistakes and growth? Today we explore the profound impact of internal shame and guilt, which can guide us toward moral integrity. However, what about the external shame that is often unknowingly incorporated into traditional parenting practice…
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Hey there, amazing parents! Ever wondered if you could truly trust your child's moral compass, especially when they seem to make those tiny, questionable decisions? Today we're diving into a profound exploration of why trusting our little ones is the key to unlocking a beautiful parent-child relationship. Many believe that children are too young to…
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Ever felt the pressure to have kids who always toe the line, never stepping out of bounds? Let's challenge that notion today as we unravel the beauty of raising children who make mistakes, who try on different behaviors, and who are authentically themselves. But here's the catch: creating a secure connection with your child doesn't always mean smoo…
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Are you a parent who struggles with how to respond when your child says hurtful things? Do you feel caught between wanting to discipline them and wanting to maintain a strong bond? What if I told you there's another approach to help you build a closer connection with your child while teaching them important life lessons? In a world where punishment…
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Imagine that you have just asked your child to clean their room, but instead of cooperating, you are met with resistance. Frustration builds up, and you think, "How can I make them listen?" Today, we will explore the essence of discipline and understand the significant difference between limits and consequences. In a world where traditional approac…
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Have you ever experienced your child's unkind comments that made you feel like their emotional punching bag? In today's episode, we will delve into this common belief that we, as parents, often feel victimized by our children's behavior. Let's explore why we tend to assume this role and challenge this perception. We will examine the power dynamics …
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Let me share a secret with you about connection, it's not about more time; it's about making every moment count. Today on the Peace and Parenting podcast I delve into the magic of connection. What is it, really? It's not about sacrificing every second or dodging boundaries. It's about building a holistic relationship with room for mess-ups and repa…
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Do you feel society’s pressure pushing our kids to go to college? Well, today on the Peace and Parenting Podcast I want to break free from the college-or-bust narrative! In this episode, I dive deep into the pressures our children face to go to college, not just in the U.S., but across the globe. My daughter, Esme, recently faced the daunting decis…
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Imagine this: you're at the grocery store, your child throws an unexpected tantrum, and suddenly, you feel the judgmental eyes of society on you. I get it; I've been there. In this episode I unravel the myth of the "good mom" and the relentless pressure we put on ourselves. Together, we'll explore the historical roots of this pressure, the need for…
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Are you currently in a toxic relationship, but you're staying in it for the sake of your children? Today, I am joined by Kate Anthony, the author of "The D-Word," as we explore the topic of divorce, co-parenting, and the difficult decision-making process that many women have to go through when considering divorce. Kate shares her insights on toxic …
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Many parents often come to me and say "I don't have enough time to be more connected with my kids." They feel that connecting with their children requires a lot of time and effort. However, my answer to that is that the more connected you are to your children, the more time you will eventually have. You can find small moments in your everyday routi…
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Are you struggling to bridge the gap with your older kids through play? Today I am joined by parenting coach Mary Van Geffen in a beautiful conversation that explores the magic of play, especially with the often misunderstood tweens and teens. Mary unveils the secrets of connecting with "spicy" children through play, emphasizing its role as their l…
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Are you using star charts or food rewards to motivate your kids? Do you think it's making a difference in how they respond? Today I want to take you on a reflective journey into the world of parenting strategies. Drawing from my teaching experience, I question the effectiveness of these methods and explore the individual responses our children have…
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Today, I talk with a parent who is going through a common issue that most of us have faced at some point in our parenting journey - a child who refuses to communicate during tough moments. Kimberly, a follower of my podcast, is experiencing the highs and lows of raising her 3.5-year-old. Despite practicing connective parenting for over a year, she …
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When your children are playing, sometimes aggression can surface, and one of your kids might start hitting, causing screaming and crying. Your first instinct might be to console the hurt child, but what if I told you that this approach may not be the best way to resolve the situation? Instead, intervening with connection, empathy, and love can crea…
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Do your kids often fight with each other and you're looking for a better way to handle such situations? Today, I have Shannon, one of my podcast listeners, on the show to help her tackle the sibling rivalry between her two daughters. Join us as I provide a unique perspective on why addressing the aggressor before the child who was hurt can help res…
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What if just 20 minutes a day could revolutionize your connection with your child? In this insightful episode, we explore the transformative power of "special time" in connective parenting. Join me as we unravel the magic of setting aside dedicated moments, navigating distractions, and witnessing the incredible impact on cooperation and family dyna…
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In relationships, especially with your kids, it can be difficult to balance control and free will. Today, we'll explore the complex dynamics of autonomy and connection, and how they apply to parenting. We'll question the different standards we set for children, and consider the parallels between adult relationships and conventional parenting. Have …
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Have you ever found yourself struggling to manage the needs of your children, especially when they are of different ages and require different levels of attention? Parenting can sometimes feel like a never-ending challenge, and it's not always easy to stay calm and connected with your kids, especially when you're feeling overwhelmed. Recently, I ha…
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As we kick off the holiday season, I've got a special episode for all of you who are navigating family gatherings with kids. From questionable hugs to forced thank-yous, we explore why children shouldn't be burdened with these expectations. Today I discuss cultivating genuine connections, respecting a child's boundaries, and the power of play in di…
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Picture this scenario: you have spent several hours at Chuck E. Cheese with your child, surrounded by flashing lights, loud noises, and annoying animatronics. It's time to leave but your three-year-old is throwing a tantrum because they want to stay. Today, my guest Shanon and I tackle the challenge of maintaining a strong connection with your chil…
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Ever tried distracting your kids when they’re in the middle of a meltdown, you know like “Hey, look at that cute puppy over there” or “Wow, a fire engine”. Today we delve into the world of parenting strategies, specifically the age-old methods of distraction and redirection. We'll explore the potential long-term impacts of steering our little ones …
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Are you a parent struggling to connect with a child who seems quiet, self-deprecating, and introverted in the face of challenges? You're not alone! I have been struggling with the unique dynamics of parenting children like this with my daughter, Pia. Today I’ll share my personal journey through the ups and downs of supporting Pia, who is transition…
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We've all been there – that cringe-worthy moment when your child drops the F-Bomb and you wonder where they picked it up. It can be frustrating and embarrassing, right? Well, today we're diving into the world of kids and profanity. I'll share my own experiences and some powerful insights to help you navigate this challenging phase with empathy and …
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Are you having a hard time dealing with your child's tantrums or meltdowns? Do you feel like you're all alone and helpless, especially when these emotional outbursts occur in public? I understand how difficult it can be because I've been there too. But I want to tell you something important: tantrums are not an indication of a "bad" child, and you …
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