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It's time to tell the story of the word "noetisexual" and all that means about what I've experienced. This is for putting in order the events the humans who don't care cast asunder. Our memories are not the issue nor the lie. We know what we experienced. I'll share mine, if you listen. Feel free to share if you feel inclined, via Anchor interview. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/integratednonmonogamy/support
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INM Ep 9: Abuse Culture Tips: Questions and Steps to Take
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I go over the basics of abuse culture and restorative justice, highlighting questions to ask yourself and your peers in order to plot a victim-affirming path forward, and finally providing some steps to take in the event of abuse. I tackle the nefarious myth that "hurt people hurt people" and draw a line between marginalized identity and inherent a…
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INM Ep 8: So, Where Have I Been? Preparing!
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I know I've been gone a while, but I've not been idle. I've been gearing up for projects like Michón Con, which you can sign up for at https://drove.com/.BLh. I've also been running an Aro Eros Arrows podcast (anchor.fm/AroErosArrows) and a book drive (https://drove.com/.EVk)!I've also been writing again in a cuilverse book, but I'll sneak you deta…
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INM Ep 7: Does Being Polya Mean You're Queer?
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More people are learning about things like compersion, intimate friendships, and open and honest communication. Many of the tools and skills that people learn to hone while engaging in polyamory carry over into other aspects of life not remotely related to romance and sex.However, people still tend to ignore the full implications of the ethical par…
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INM Ep 6: What's Love Really Got to Do With It, Though?
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Here, I break down the triangular theory of love, as well as shed light on aromantic, autistic, asexual, and BlaQueer perspectives of nonmonogamy, polyamory, romance, and more. Hat tip to Salem Goosby for their term "autilove"; check out their work at https://holdingpatternsandhightea.wordpress.com/I mean, weren't you told there were just endless p…
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INM Ep 5: But What About Compersion and the Limit On Social Circles?
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Ethics doesn't end when you have the love you want. Being a game changer is a continuous process.What if American Ninja Warrior was the standard for how wetreated one another?We rarely care about people we don’t know because we fail to even conceptualize them as human beings. Humans are thought to have a literal limit on how many people they can ac…
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INM Ep 4: Myths and Non-Monogamous Community
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Polyamory and other non-monogamies are ALL about the community and not just the sex, aren't they? So why is it that lack of desirability can be a death sentence? Why aren't more survivors centered over their abusers? Why haven't we seen more Black nonmen in leadership positions? Where the fuck are the guide books and sexy movies by and about disabl…
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INM Ep 3: What Exactly is Integrated Non- Monogamy?
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Intersectional/Integrated Non-Monogamy did not exist as a phrase until I coined it quite a few years ago. It involves discussing the actual history of non-monogamy and polyamory before the white mainstream stumbled onto it. It goes beyond simply discussing jealousy and compersion. It rejects slut-shaming or otherwise being ableist about STIs. It de…
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Introductory episode of Integrated Non-Monogamy. You may be familiar with the book The Game Changer, but have you ever wanted to know what it's like to be in our shoes? INM is all about highlighting the hidden, expanding the light to uncover abusive patterns, and developing actual ethical behavior towards every person you encounter, not just those …
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INM Ep 2: Marginalization and Non-Monogamy
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Get to know your host and also find out why elevating liminal stories is so vital, especially for communities that are claiming love is so revolutionary. "For whom?" several of us dare say. Indeed...Like what you hear? Buy this Dragon a feather at https://ko-fi.com/TeslaCurious about The Metanoiac Portal and other future podcasts on other aspects o…
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