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Calling all alternative adults and other like-minded humans! Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won’t want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with ...
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In this fly on the wall type of recording, join us for breakfast as we have normal, casual conversation. This was recorded during one of our amazing summer weekends as we hang under the gazebo as the sun shines and the birds chirp. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love t…
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I hosted a LIVE Q&A on SDC.com, the largest international swingers community. Listen in as I answer questions and thoughts of the participants. No question is off limits. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is h…
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I love summer shenanigans which happen to be naked shenanigans in the sun! What an incredible weekend full of laughs, sexiness, good friends and a whole lot of memories. I share my thoughts around our two single men, the communication between them both and the sexy play time we had. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.…
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Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie. In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'…
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Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie. In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'…
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Are you having trouble getting noticed in the swingers lifestyle? Are you looking for some tips on how to stand out? Listen to this episode that was built by community discussion. Most of it sounds like a no brainer, but sometimes we need the basic how to guide to get us to where we want to be. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our E…
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Part 2 of our travel disaster with extra bonus footage of Spencer's phone calls while in the tow truck trying to figure out how to get us home. It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things ev…
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It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things even worse! Listen as Spencer and I tell you all about it. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com…
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Part 2: The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out a…
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The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.se…
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Welcome to part two of Jim's journey navigating the lifestyle as a married man. This episode starts out discussing his birthday threesome proposition and how it lead to where they are within the swingers world today. As mentioned, he will be a permanent co-host throughout this season, so If you have any questions, let us know. MizzyBender@outlook.c…
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Part 1 of 2: I am so excited to bring my bestie Jim on as a permanent co host throughout the next season of The Mizzy Bender Show. You may remember him from some of the early episodes of the podcast. At this time, I think it is really important to start sharing the male perspective within the Swingers - Ethical Non Monogamy world and he is just the…
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Trigger Podcast: I wasn't expecting this to be so emotional, but you always receive the true me, so here we are. I discuss the journey of my hysterectomy, my anxiety and where I am today. I hope you find comfort in my words if you are managing through difficult times. Please know, you are not alone. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to …
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Are you trying to figure out how to navigate swinger - adult lifestyle dates? This is the episode for you! Listen is as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community while engaging back with the listeners. There are some great starter tips that we should all keep in our swinging toolbox. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for S…
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Kathy is a bad ass female who interviews alternative lifestyle humans who share their stories anonymously. I had the privilege of being a guest on Strictly Anonymous in 2023 as my true self and it was such an amazing experience. Now its Kathy's turn to share her journey on how her podcast began leading us all the way to current times. She is such a…
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Last year I was thrilled to be a guest on Two Wolves in the Woods Podcast. Joey and Brenda are an amazing example of how to navigate, build and learn through various avenues of the alternative lifestyle. They are captivating, knowledgeable and fun to listen to due to their relationship chemistry. They take us on their journey, sharing who introduce…
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Listen to this ridiculous episode recorded with Spencer as we recap Winterland, our Swingers Lifestyle event from this past weekend. We laugh and get sassy, like we usually do as we wait to board the ferry. I also tried something new with this episode so I hope you like the way it all came together. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for …
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Running a club comes with it's ups and downs, just like anything in life. When we have to say goodbye to something so close to our hearts, it hurts. But, there's always a reason and perspective. In this episode, we are going to talk through some of the thoughts and feelings that lead to the closing of the Paradise Club. This did get emotional at th…
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A previously posted podcast: The tale of two single men coming out of a recent event. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Winterland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the …
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Are you trying to figure out how to introduce a new play partner or partner into the swingers lifestyle but not sure where to start? Listen in as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community through this live educational piece. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t l…
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Listen to Mizzy Bender in the raw as she talks through a community submitted question in regards to body insecurities. We all have them, now lets hear the thoughts and perspectives on how to navigate them. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Womderland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everyth…
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Happy Holiday thoughts from Mizzy Bender. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to…
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Mizzy Bender goes LIVE on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question: "My wife and I are very new to LS. We’ve been discussing it for years. We had a G/G experience about 5/6y ago. This years Halloween party we had a single male experience. Both went amazing. What would you do or say to help my wife not be in her head about doin…
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Coming out of an event weekend, Mizzy Bender has many thoughts that need to be heard. Most of them are directed towards single men, but applies to everyone. Listen in to learn about the tale of the 2 single men and a community submitted question that all ties together. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www…
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Listen to Mizzy Benders LIVE SDC/Facebook session, gaining a new perspective on "the couples we think are out of our league." We zig zag all through the lifestyle sharing so many great points of view. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background…
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Mizzy Bender shares her personal experience in regards to boundaries and really understanding the right time to communicate them. Through this Facebook live show, Mizzy spills all the details! Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doe…
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Happy Thanksgiving thoughts from Mizzy Bender. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life h…
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Mizzy Bender goes live on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question: "I am interested in finding out how one navigates themselves in the lifestyle, when the dynamic of their relationships changes but they still want to be in the lifestyle. I am a "single bi cis gender female." When going to LS parties/events, there are times wh…
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Kandace and Gregory's extraordinary journey began when they crossed paths as children in Sunday school. Little did they know that their innocent encounter would blossom into a lifelong partnership filled with love, creativity, and exploration. Their unique bond would stand the test of time, enduring for over four and a half decades. Listen in as Mi…
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Welcome to Octobers recap with Mr. Mindbender. Its always a fun episode full of giggles when talking with him! I love hearing his thoughts on life and our adventures overall. This episode is all of that and more. Listen in as we travel back from Boo, A Mindbender Production, recording in the car. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w…
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Mizzy Bender interviews Ash, an amazing female entrepreneur in the swingers world. The first part of this episode is learning all about Ash and her journey. The second half is discussing what kind of information you should include within your swingers profiles. Its a fun and sassy listen! To learn more about Ash:Instagram: Ash_lovespineapplesTIKTOK…
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Today's episode was recorded live in The Paradise Club's Facebook group. You'll hear Mizzy Bender discussing the things you should know and be aware of when entering the swingers/alternative lifestyle. These are general rules that may seem obvious, but unfortunately they are not. The discussion is based off community submitted entries, so that mean…
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On this weeks episode, Mizzy Bender interviews Melissa who is married and poly. The big discussion point is that Melissa's husband is not a participant in her alternative lifestyle. Listen in to understand the composition of the relationship and how Melissa and her husband navigate their lifestyle. We discuss the challenges and mindsets of potentia…
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Listen in with Mizzy Bender as her swingers journey continues. In this solo episode Mizzy shares the latest and greatest in her swinging world. There's been the ups and downs of traveling, weekend adventures, a new playmate and so much more. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for …
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Today Mizzy Bender provides her swingers point of view on a community submitted question on approaching couples. "My question is how do you talk to couples when the other couple is maybe consider better looking then the other couple but you all share a similar interests?" This was a live Facebook show broadcasted in The Paradise Club group for one …
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Its been almost a whole year since Mizzy and Jack, from Triple X Playground, chatted. Listen in as he shares what's been going on lately. Between Exxxotica, ASN Awards, Podcasting, Branding and so much more. The journey is always a bumpy one, so as always, you get the raw insight to our lives and thoughts. Jack Polo, Owner of Triple X Playground, T…
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Listen in as Mizzy Bender and the SDC.com community chat all things swingers lifestyle. This is a behind the scenes listen, to give you an idea of the flow of the live shows. Even though today's topic is on "Questions to Ask New Play Partners" there's a lot of engaging conversation incorporating so much information for new swingers. Be part of the …
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Swingers, protect your unicorn! Listen in as Mizzy chats with Luna, who has first hand knowledge as a unicorn in the swingers lifestyle. We share a unique perspective from the things we've experienced over the last month through various swingers parties, adding in general life stories to back up our thoughts. As a fun addition, Spencer chimes in al…
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It's been a swingers overload! We've had a swinger party every single weekend in August. Between personally partying, setting up Mizzy’s Boutique as a vendor and of course our own, Mindbender Parties, Wild'N Out in White party, theres so much goodness to share. This episode does just that! I tried a new format, and of course it didn't go exactly as…
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Join my journey as I talk about the recent swingers lifestyle events we've attended, my thoughts on my current lifestyle as I turn 40 and so much more. New episodes the first Thursday of every month. Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun momen…
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This weeks topic is community submitted: We seem to have run into certain couples recently who at first, seem to be experienced swingers (or at least say they are) but then turn out to be less than they say or not on the same page. Are there good questions to ask new swinging couples to get a good gauge at to their experience in the lifestyle and m…
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Today, Spencer and I recap our our latest swingers party adventure, Candyland, which was an amazing success. Through the conversation we share what's been going on the last few weeks, including our silly banter that you can't get enough of. Catch me LIVE May 17th, 5pm EST on Instagram @sdclifestylersclub as we chat all things swingers lifestyle. Vo…
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Were you raised with a specific mindset or culture, making you feel like exploring your sexuality was forbidden? Listen in as Elba explains her thoughts through life living in Puerto Rico at a young age, to now being able to be her free swinger self in the United States. To Learn more about Elba: www.gynisarts.com https://open.spotify.com/episode/2…
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Stephanie was a unicorn who turned married swinger. Listen in as she tells her journey, sharing the ups and downs of exploring such an open lifestyle. We were lucky enough to also have Jim jump on, her husband, to share his perspective of joining a lifestyle he was adamant against. Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in bet…
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Are you curious on what kind of etiquette you should follow when becoming a swinger? Elliott and I talk through so many thoughts from a married mans perspective to his early days as a single gentleman. Listen in as we lay down the law. lol. But seriously, its all up for discussion. About Elliott: https://linktr.ee/elliottpness elliottpness.com / @e…
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Through all the laughing and giggling, listen to Spencer and I banter on everyday life things as we talk through what's been happening lately. Spencer shares his thoughts on Winters Kiss, our first swinger event of the year and so much more. Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk throug…
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This weeks guest is Jon a/k/a HiThereCatsuit the host of What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want podcast. After being a guest on his show last year, I absolutely had to invite him on to mine His perspective on kindness as it relates to the kink world is something I really wanted to highlight. It's simple yet so powerful! Social Links - Linkt…
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Yahoooooooooooo! Its time for season 4. The Mizzy Bender show is back with all sorts of swingers education, stories, interviews and so much more. Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that is…
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As we wait at the ferry dock after our last travel of the season, I record the season finally with Spencer. A little tired, a little silly, but a whole lot thankful. Happy Holidays and spectacular New Year. I'll be back February 2, 2023. Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through al…
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Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the …
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