Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with MJ Fox, co-founder of Joyride (@joyride.rave) a sex-positive rave redefining inclusive nightlife in London. In this episode, MJ shares their journey into the sex-positive space and how Joyride was born, a rave known for its vibrant, safe atmosphere and all-queer staff and DJs. We dive into what …

Sistah Girls, I'm happy to have New York Times and USA Today Bestselling author Shawntelle Madison on the podcast. Madison has penned books that span the romance and speculative fiction genres. She is charting a new path with her latest book The Fallen Fruit a historical fiction that includes time travel, love, family secrets, and plot twists you w…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Karl, the founder of Klub Verboten, one of the most inclusive and progressive kink spaces in Europe. They delve into how the club was born, who can attend, and the rules that ensure everyone’s safety and comfort. Karl shares his hot takes on why straight cis men tend to stay away and how he learne…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Leanne Yau (@polyphiliablog), who shares her journey from growing up in Hong Kong to leaving a law career behind to become a full-time content creator focusing on non-monogamy. They discuss what it's like getting recognized at sex parties, balancing a large online platform, and how being neurodive…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by sex educator and non-monogamy content creator Poppy Scarlett (@polyampoppy). In this candid episode, we dive into what we got up to in Barcelona, Poppy's journey through sex chat rooms, and her experiences as an emo kid. Poppy opens up about her sexual awakening, being slut-shamed for the first ti…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Lily, co-founder of @quench_london, a unique queer party that centers people who are queer, kinky, of colour, trans, neurodivergent, disabled, and of all sizes. In this episode, we talk about who can attend Quench, what to expect when you walk through the doors, where you're allowed to play, and h…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (⁠@sexwithalexa⁠) is joined by Cydney (⁠@cydneythelight⁠) in this episode where they dive deep into postpartum body insecurities, bisexuality, and dating. Cydney opens up about her journey from being confident in her body before giving birth to hiding her body for 8 years after having her son at 19. They also discuss how her …

Most people know Beverly Mahone on social media as Auntie Bev, it's that familiar moniker that has made over 1 million people fall in love with her radiant personality and well-developed lexicon. Auntie Bev splashed onto social media by giving us her word for the day. Inspired by her then 14-year-old grandson to get on TikTok she listened, since th…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Emma Richardson-Gerrard, CEO and founder of Knude Society, for a deep dive into her upbringing in the UK, where sex education was lacking, and how she’s changing that with her own daughter. Emma shares her story about her first boyfriend gifting her a vibrator, but never achieving an orgasm with h…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by content creator Taiwo (King TM) for a candid conversation about sex education in the UK and his first masturbation experience. We explore how growing up with a single mom gave him the freedom to explore, and why he made a pact not to have sex until he was 16. Taiwo shares how he learned to be a go…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Hani Dresner, founder of @gashtrays, a unique ceramics line focused on sex education. We dive into Hani’s upbringing in a naked household, how it shaped her body image journey, and what it was like growing up as the "weird kid" in school. Our conversation explores why sex education is so important…

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by a very special guest—her sister! In this episode, they dive into everything from their easy orgasms and first boyfriends to their Catholic upbringing and how it impacted their body image and relationship with femininity. They share stories of sexual exploration as teens, their journeys with mastur…

Kicking off Season 3! Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Jessica Stahl (@vanillacooldance), a sex-positive cartoonist and creative director. We dive into Jessica's mfm fantasy, her experience growing up in an open household, and how her mom gifting her her first vibrator shaped her advocacy for pleasure. Jessica shares her journey …

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Tara Michaela, a sex educator and founder of the Youth Sexpert Program. We dive deep into body image, sharing our personal experiences and discussing the importance of sensate focus and overcoming spectatoring. Tara offers insights on changing up your masturbation technique, the benefits of doing …

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Rachel Wright, a therapist, sex therapist, educator, and non-monogamy expert. We dive into the most common issues she sees in her sex therapy practice and her 4-step process for better communication with your partner. Rachel shares her unique journey as a pregnant woman with another pregnant wife,…

Sistah Girls, I'm so happy to have mental wellness advocate, self-healing educator, and author of The Sugar Jar, Yasmine Cheyenne with us on the podcast! Yasmine is here to discuss her new book Wisdom of the Path: The Beautiful and Bumpy Ride to Healing and Trusting Our Inner Guide. While reading Wisdom of the Path, I had so many aha moments and hi…

Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Goddess Bats, a versatile and empowering sex worker. We dive into their journey, starting with camming at 18 and transitioning to various facets of sex work, including findom. We uncover the realities behind porn productions, like where the lube bot…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Sarah Casper from @comprehensiveconsent, author of The Kids and Consent Curriculum, and consent educator. We dive deep into the concept of consent, exploring its different types and how to ask for it. Sarah explains why consent doesn't necessarily have to be sexy but should always…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Violet, an extremely lesbian-leaning bisexual and founder of Mesh, a queer event app in NYC. We dive into the world of queer dating, discussing how to pick up women (or non-cis men), how to approach, what to say, and where to go. Violet shares her insights on figuring out if someo…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Maybe Burke, a trans woman, artist and educator for an open and heartfelt conversation. We discuss her sexuality, orientation, identity, and expression journeys, and delve into her dating stories. Maybe shares how she stays safe as a trans woman and the unique challenges she faces…

Sistah Girls, I’m so excited to have living legend Alice Randall on the podcast! Alice Randall is the author of My Black Country: A Journey Through Country Music’s Black Past, Present, and Future. https://amzn.to/4eKEWIz Randall is the first Black woman to write a number-one country hit. The single “XXX’s and OOO’s (An American Girl)” was released …

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) hosts her first threesome on the podcast with Vee and Elle, hosts of the Girls Gone Deep podcast, besties and lovers. We dive into their ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journeys, recounting our experiences at Hedonism and the play party where Vee and I first met. Vee and Elle share how they met and…

Sistah Girls, I'm so excited to bring y'all celebrity ghostwriter Ardre Orie! Ardre Orie attended Florida State University, earning her undergraduate and Master’s Degrees in Special Education. After teaching for 4 years, she earned an Ed.S in Educational Leadership. Orie served as an Assistant Principal before rediscovering her first love of compos…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Yair Lenchner, a private chef and husband to two pregnant wives (11 weeks apart), one of whom is sex therapist Rachel Wright. Yair shares his incredible journey from being a serial monogamist and cheater to embracing life as an open, polyamorous partner. We discuss how they’re nav…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Cassie Black (@safe.slut), a sex educator, herpes advocate, and adult entertainer. We dive deep into the world of herpes, discussing whether your sex life is over after a diagnosis or if you can still be a safe and empowered slut. Cassie shares her personal story of discovering sh…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Cory Bush, a non-binary full spectrum doula and sex educator. In this episode, we explore the profound role of a full spectrum doula and the magical aspects of birth, challenging the notion that childbirth must be traumatic. Cory shares insights on why opt-out consent can be benef…

Sistah Girls, I’m so excited to have Shenequa Golding on the podcast! Golding is a writer and an editor whose work focuses on race, gender, popular culture, and entertainment. After earning a degree in print journalism from Hampton University, Golding began her career as general-assignment reporter for a small newspaper owned by the Chicago Sun-Tim…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Portia Brown, a renowned sex coach and educator, for a candid discussion on the importance of vocalizing pleasure in the bedroom. Together, we explore techniques for performing during sex, advocating for your pleasure, and giving and receiving feedback to enhance intimacy and sati…

Sistah Girls, I'm so excited that we have author, activist, and entrepreneur Rachel E. Cargle on the podcast! Rachel Cargle is an Akron, Ohio born writer, entrepreneur and philanthropic innovation. Her work and upcoming book with Penguin Random House, centers the reimagining of womanhood, solidarity and self and how we are in relationship with ours…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by the incredible Megan, known as @msgigggles, a fierce fat activist and self-proclaimed hottest whale in the ocean. Together, we embark on a journey of empowerment, discussing the nuances of reclaiming the word "fat" and challenging societal beauty standards.Megan fearlessly dives i…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Billy Procida, the host of The Manwhore Podcast and a seasoned comedian. In this revealing conversation, Billy opens up about his journey from growing up without sexual shame to becoming a figure in the world of sex positivity and comedy.We delve into other chapters of Billy's pas…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Maxwell Fierce, a non-binary rope rigger, educator, performer, and tattoo artist, for a deep dive into the world of Shibari.Maxwell brings their wealth of experience to the table as we explore Shibari from every angle. We delve into the nitty-gritty of rope play, discussing how it…

Sistah Girls, I'm so excited to have Deesha Dyer on the podcast! Without credentials, connections, or a college degree, a hip-hop journalist and community leader conquered her imposter syndrome while landing one of the most exclusive, sought-after, and fun positions in the White House. From, 2015 to 2017 Dyer served as the White House Social Secret…

Welcome to Season 2 of "In Bed With Alexa"! In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Dr. Varuna, a distinguished sexual health expert and Allure Magazine's sex columnist, as we delve deep into the realms of sexual discovery and self-acceptance. Dr. Varuna shares invaluable insights garnered from years of experience, cove…

Welcome to a bonus solo episode of "In Bed With Alexa"! Today, I'm spilling all the juicy details from my recent swingers cruise adventure.I'm dishing on everyone I played with, from the 25 year old gorgeous bi woman to the oldest person I have played with. I'll give you the lowdown on the vibe of the ship, the activities that kept me entertained, …

In 2006 Miasha released her debut novel Secret Society, that story had publishing companies in a bidding war. In 2021, Coleman turned her book series into a film, she did it independently and it was a hit. In this interview, Miasha takes us on her journey from an aspiring author to getting her first six-figure deal and then bringing that project to…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Mistress Shayla Lange, the owner of New York's largest female-owned dungeon, to delve into the intriguing world of BDSM and professional domination.In this episode, we explore the inner workings of these mysterious spaces. Shayla provides fascinating insights into what her dungeon…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Neil Mehta, CEO and Founder of Royal Intimacy, to delve into the intricacies of personal care and cultural influences.In this episode, we kick things off by discussing the paramount importance of high-quality ingredients in the products we use for intimacy and grooming. Neil sheds…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Tawny Lara, author of "Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze," for a candid conversation that challenges societal norms around alcohol and intimacy.In this episode, we explore the implications of alcohol on our sex lives and relationships, shed…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Lola Jean, holder of the volume squirt world record, as we explore the fascinating world of squirting and beyond.In this episode, we leave no squirt unturned. Lola Jean shares her expertise on who can do it, how it happens, and how to react when someone else experiences it. We als…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Kenneth Play, author of "Beyond Satisfied," as we delve into the intricacies of sexual confidence and resilience. Once insecure about his penis size, he now helps other discover the secrets to becoming a better lover, including the often-overrated art of squirting (and yes, we eve…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by the enchanting Sophie Saint Thomas, author of "Reproductive Rites: The Real-Life Witches and Witch-Hunts in the Centuries-Long Fight for Abortion Access." In this captivating episode, we delve into the mystical world of witchcraft and its empowering influence on self-confidence. S…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Gabrielle Alexa, non monogamy educator and author of "How to Live With the Internet and Not Let it Run Your Life," joins us for a candid exploration of modern love and relationships. We delve into the intricacies of getting along with your partner's partners (metamours), shedding …

Malcolm MJ Harris is an entrepreneur, social influencer, a self-help coach, a reality checker, and now a published author. His debut self-help book, Get the F*uck out of your own way: A Guide to letting go of the shit that’s holding you back is a must-read. I got the chance to talk to MJ about his new book and discuss some topics he covered. Purcha…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by the renowned urologist, Dr. Jed Kaminetsky. We kick things off with an in-depth look at vasectomies, uncovering the facts and dispelling myths around this common procedure. Dive into the nitty-gritty of hormone health as we explore natural methods to naturally optimize testosteron…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by the badass Michelle Hy (@polyamorouswhileasian). We're flipping the script and tearing down the walls on polyamory, giving the middle finger to veto power, and diving into the gritty details of navigating relationships in our own damn way. Get ready for a wild ride as we slam the …

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined once more by the fabulous Zachary Zane, we're diving deep into these taboo topics with humor, honesty, and a whole lot of sass. From breaking down bisexual stereotypes to exploring the dynamics of throat-fucing, expert anal tips and navigating the complexities of unprotected sex, thi…

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Zachary Zane, sex columnist and author of Boyslut: a Memoir and Manifesto. Zach and I spill the tea and take you behind the scenes of our wild adventure at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica —expect all the fun, frolics, and a few surprises! Join the laughter as we dish on everything …

Welcome to the inaugural episode of "In Bed With Alexa," where I, your host Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), open up about my personal journey with sexuality. From the realization of being bisexual to coming out and navigating the uncharted waters of non-monogamy, I share the intimate details of my exploration. Join me as I candidly discuss my path of …

Jemele Hill is celebrating the paperback release of her memoir Uphill. Released on October 25, 2022, Hill pulled back the curtain and allowed fans to get a glimpse of what her journey has been like through her own lens. She dived deep into her childhood and shared what her experience was like growing up in an environment where both her parents were…