Best P Pesqueda Podcasts (2024)

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Narcissists Don't Speak Your Language 36:13

43m ago36:13

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Regardless of how you say it, how many times you say it, the different ways you say it , no matter what you do, the narcissist does not speak your langaue. They may look at you and nod in agreement or parrot your words, but they can't understand what you are saying. And they never will. So preserve your dignity and just walk away. It's the only thi…

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Just Say No to the Narcissist, Psychopath, & Anti-Social Disordered 43:05

27d ago43:05

43:05

Understanding these dangerous and disordered people is critical to recognizing them and keeping your distance. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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The Hobosexual Narcissist 29:16

1M ago29:16

29:16

A hobosexual does not necessarily have to be a narcissist, but many times they are. The somatic narcissist is an alpha predator and opportunist, so the idea of leveraging their bodies to receive "fuel" is quite understandable. Welcome to the first episode of season 10! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/me…

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PLAUSIBLE DENIABILITY-THE NARCISSIST;S SECRET WEAPON 40:11

2M ago40:11

40:11

Understanding this concept helps to understand how the narcissist operates and what to watch for. As people with Cluster B disorders increase in number, it is good to now who you're dealing with and what to watch for. * Last episode of season 9 Est. 20 podcasts per season --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda…

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The 10 Things That Get in Your Way in Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse 42:54

2M ago42:54

42:54

The things to avoid in the journey to wellness after a relationship with a narcissist. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Is a Narcissist Made or Born? How Much is Genetics? 20:48

2M ago20:48

20:48

Research shows that narcissism is heritable. Let's see how much is in our genes. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Adjusting to reality after the narcissist 18:36

2M ago18:36

18:36

When you are cast out of the shared fantasy, and you hit the ground with a thud, it is tough to stand up, dust off, and keep going. But that is exactly what you have to do. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Spatial and Language Deficits in Narcissists-NARC Troopers 24:16

3M ago24:16

24:16

The person with NPD has spatial and language deficits that shape their disorder. Let's unpack the fundamental beggings of these impaired individuals. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Public Enemy #1 Our Growing Mental Health Crisis 41:48

3M ago41:48

41:48

Not only do we need to work on healing ourselves, we need to work on healing the world around us. . . and by doing so, we will get better. Ending suffering is important as a fundamental human right for all peoples, and that is a great thing to work towards. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message…

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Letter to Potential New Partners After Narcissistic Abuse 19:01

3M ago19:01

19:01

I think this what we all want to say to all the people out there who may be potential new partners in our lives. Feel free to share it with them, then use it as a springboard for conversation. Their response might be quite telling! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message…

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THE EPIC HERO QUEST: THE NARCISSIST AS DON QUIXOTE 11:54

4M ago11:54

11:54

The narcissist is Don Quixote from Man of La Mancha To dream ... the impossible dream ...To fight ... the unbeatable foe ...To bear ... with unbearable sorrow ...To run ... where the brave dare not go ...To right ... the unrightable wrong ...To love ... pure and chaste from afar ...To try ... when your arms are too weary ...To reach ... the unreach…

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Enmeshment, Entrainment, and How the Narcissist Stole My Mind 25:05

4M ago25:05

25:05

These two concepts are instrumental in understanding what happens in a relationship with a narcissist. I share how it happened to me. Please learn more. Dr. Vaknin has many great lectures on entrainment. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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New Year New You After the Narcissist 17:48

4M ago17:48

17:48

Six steps to get you going down the right road following narcissistic abuse. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Dream Clues: 5 Things That Hold You Back After Narcissistic Abuse 28:49

4M ago28:49

28:49

We begin with a dream that illustrates the layers of unresolved torment that lurk in our subconscious and the deepest parts of our brains. Then we discuss the 5 major things that hold us back from a full recovery following abusive relationships with those who have NPD> --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/me…

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INTERVIEW: Amy Punt-Systems Failing-The Spiritual Narcissist 56:21

5M ago56:21

56:21

Amy Punt is my guest and the topic is about the infiltration of narcissists into every major system including the church. She discusses her experience with spiritual narcissism. We explore the cult-like conditioning, the support of the masses, and the consequences of a culture that glorifies narcissistic traits. Winning is everything, regardless of…

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Loneliness After Narcissistic Abuse 17:19

5M ago17:19

17:19

Why do victims of narcissistic abuse feel so lonely and have trouble connecting with others after their experience with them? It is quite typical, so how to we end the loneliness during what can be a lengthy recovery. Bonus: What is PNSD? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message…

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The Solopsistic Narcissist 13:30

5M ago13:30

13:30

Solipsism and narcissism have quite a bit in common. Let's take a look at what that means with a brief philosophical examination. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Interview: Co-parenting with Kshama Singhi 55:19

5M ago55:19

55:19

Interview with Kshama on co-parenting with a narcissist. Kshama is an Empowerment Coach. She coaches professional women to transform their lives by shifting from feeling rejected and fearful to empowered and happy. Her mission is to empower women to deepen their self-awareness, find their purpose and direction, and move from inaction to powerful ac…

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The Narcissist is a Parasite That Lives Inside of You! 39:20

6M ago39:20

39:20

The narcissist may be gone, but they live on inside of you. Because of the enmeshment, brainwashing, entrainment, intermittent reinforcement, parentification, and more manipulative and predatory techniques, you are poisoned. You are filled with introjects (the narcissist's voice), ruminations, peptide addiction dopamine cravings, trauma bonding and…

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Can We Be Healthy in Such a Sick World? 55:11

6M ago55:11

55:11

Welcome to Season 9! Each season has about 20 episodes and we are now approaching 250 podcast episodes. "Holy trauma, Bayman!" Today, we take an expanded 45-minute deep dive into the failing systems and warnings that should compel us to do better. The time is ripe for narcissists to rise to power and we are rapidly producing a new crop of them cont…

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1,527 Days After the Discard: What I Have Learned 25:12

6M ago25:12

25:12

A reflection on the valuable lessons I learned in the months and years following the discard. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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The Narcissist is an Lethal Alpha Predator who is Smarter Than You 13:52

7M ago13:52

13:52

"You're in the jungle, baby. I'm gonna watch you bleed." It's hard to believe that your dream come true could shapeshift in the most heartless cold-blooded predator you could ever imagine. It's nothing personal. It's just what they are. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message…

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Fear and Loathing in Narcopath Land 21:29

7M ago21:29

21:29

The person with NPD with a splash of psychopathy may have no fear, but they sure know how to loathe you. It's a wild trip to Fantasy Island, then a mysterious death. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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SADISM Is a Component of Narcissistic Personality Disorder 26:18

7M ago26:18

26:18

Sadism and Narcissism are "close cousins" in every sense and often overlap in pathological ways. Let's explore the sadistic narcissist. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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How Could Such a Sweet and Charming Person be So Deadly? 23:06

7M ago23:06

23:06

The shy vulnerable covert narcissist is often adorable, polite, charismatic, and helpful. Beware, they even convince themselves they are the good guy, but make no mistake. They are missing key components of humanity and are actually empty hollow actors only playing a part in a play. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh…

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If You Love a Monster. . . 42:08

7M ago42:08

42:08

How does the world perceive someone who stays with a mentally ill predatory beast and chooses them over their friends and family? You know the answer. It is not kind. But they will never really understand, so who can blame them? What you can focus on instead. . . --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message…

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Self Trashing After Narcissistic Abuse 20:24

8M ago20:24

20:24

After the narcissist, it is not uncommon to experience a period of self-trashing, and this self-trashing often involves unsavory sexual liaisons. Forgive yourself, find your boundaries, and create a safe space to recover fully before rushing out into the world. It is dangerous out there. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/p…

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How to Keep Going After the Music Ends with a Narcissist 21:01

8M ago21:01

21:01

How do you summon the will to live after a brutal discard? Many of us find it hard enough to get through the daily anxieties and injustices of every day life. When the narcissist abandons you, there is usually a scorched earth policy where they burn your whole life to the ground with you in it, then erase you like it never happened. How do you rise…

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While I Was Sleeping. . . Lost Time When Away with the Narcissist 19:59

8M ago19:59

19:59

When you are in the shared fantasy with the narcissist, time keeps moving on without you. It is as if you were in a coma and when you awaken, everything is different and the people who were most important to you have gone on with their lives without you. It is a confusing and heartbreaking loss. The sooner we get back to reality, the better! --- Se…

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When You've Lost More Than You Can Bear 28:09

9M ago28:09

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8/episode 11 looks at what happens after narcissistic abuse. You lose everything and have a really hard time getting up and getting on. What can we do about it? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Are You Alive? 31:31

9M ago31:31

31:31

What does it mean to be alive? The person with NPD is not truly alive by most definitions. Let's take a look at what it means to be alive and what separates the narcissist from a neurotypical healthy human. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Anxiety - The Beast that Must Be Tamed 30:11

9M ago30:11

30:11

After a relationship with a disordered narcissist, it is common to have anxiety and even panic. We discuss 5 maladaptive bad ways to respond to anxiety that can lead to the bad place. Then we discuss better alternatives to get a positive outcome. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message…

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Ding Dong, the Witch is Dead. Now What? 29:18

10M ago29:18

29:18

A relationship with a narcissist is all about death. Their death (they killed themselves a long time ago), your death (the narcissist must "kill you" to separate and individuate), the "dead mother (that caused all this in the first place), the death of your identity and agency, and the death of everything around them. So when they are gone, why is …

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Are You a Narcoholic? 17:09

10M ago17:09

17:09

There are soooo many effects that a covert malignant narcissist has aon their significant other. And the worst part is that all of this abuse can cause an addiction to them which in turn causes emotional, psychological, physiological, neuro-chemical, energetic, and just about every other type of disruption, sickness, and injury in the victim. --- S…

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The Sound of Silence 25:45

10M ago25:45

25:45

The silent treatment is one of the narcissist's favorite weapons to use against you at different stages in the relationship. At some point, we need to accept what they are and let them go- knowing they are very sick people. In the meantime, getting to know our own silence spaces can bring us peace. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.sp…

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Interview with Teahna N. Edralin: Disempowerment and Powering Up 53:22

11M ago53:22

53:22

Teahna Nicole Edralin is our guest today. A powerful healer and personal friend, I am pleased to discuss the concept of disempowerment with her and how we can claim our power following relationships with narcissists.Message from Teahna: Take a stand for your recovery. I want and would be honored to help you. For Complimentary Discovery Calls with F…

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Attachment Styles Impact Trauma Recovery 29:32

11M ago29:32

29:32

THE TYPE OF ATTACHMENT STYLE we have influences how we RECOVER from relationships with MALIGNANT NARCISSISTS. Neurotypical people can modify or change their attachment styles, but the narcissist has flat attachment and can never change. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message…

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Object Constancy & Object Relations: The Root of Most Narcissistic Disorders 38:11

11M ago38:11

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What is at the heart of narcissistic personality disorder? Understanding Object inconstancy, discontinuous memory, and object relations will make everything come into focus. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Stop Re-Traumatizing the Victim of Narcissistic Abuse 29:34

12M ago29:34

29:34

Well meaning people may do more harm then good when they try to support the narcissistic abuse victim. It's important to understand the unique journey to recovery. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Interview Phoenix Gould: They Change Us- How They Do It & How We Heal 1:05:16

12M ago1:05:16

1:05:16

After the narcissist, we are different. How does their brain work, and how does it change us? For more with guest, Phoenix Gould, visit these links. Free Radical Self-Love MeditationFacebook Group For WomenFacebook Group for Men E-mail Phoenix Book Free 20min Coffee chat with Phoenix --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/s…

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Collateral Damage 47:43

12M ago47:43

47:43

There are casualties in a relationship with a person with NPD. Everyone goes down, and the narcissist rides into the sunset to live hollowly ever after. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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The Dark Passenger that Inhabits the Narcissist 49:30

1y ago49:30

49:30

My assertion is that all narcissists and psychopaths are walking invitations for dark forces to inhabit them. I believe they carry a "Vacancy" sign that draws entities to them who crawl into the empty space within them and proceed to influence their decisions, perceptions, behavior, etc. . . I have witnessed this phenomenon face to face. This is my…

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INTERVIEW Betty Jo Greenlee Discusses Shame, Blame, & Advocacy 1:00:13

1y ago1:00:13

1:00:13

This is the last episode of season 7. After a brief hiatus, season 8 will bring more episodes to enlighten and educate, inspire and support. Keep listening and keep healing!Betty Jo Greenlee discusses shame, blame, and finding your voice on today's interview/Betty Jo is the founder of Discover Life Coaching and a former victim of emotional abuse wh…

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INTERVIEW Dr. Praveena Rajendra on PARENTAL NARCISSIM 1:00:07

1y ago1:00:07

1:00:07

Today's guest speaks about parental narcissism, the shame and blame , and ways to move beyond the abuse. Dr. Praveena is a Certified Mental Health & Awareness practitioner and works with parental narcissistic abuse victims. She uses various techniques and coping mechanisms, including her personal life experience, to help victims recognize abusive b…

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The Power of Imagery to Heal Trauma 28:03

1y ago28:03

28:03

Imagery is another tool for your toolbox that works wonders for many who are suffering from the aftermath of narcissistic abuse. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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How to Prepare for What's to Come While Recovering from Trauma 13:32

1y ago13:32

13:32

Tough times are here and you may be recovering from a relationship with a narcissist. Double whammy!x! So how do you navigate these perilous waters? I have some tips for you. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Tit's Up 35:23

1y ago35:23

35:23

When the going gets tough, the tough put their tits up. It's all about being resilient and plucky. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

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Mental illness is contagious 50:01

1y ago50:01

50:01

Narcissist, another Cluster Beach, Disordered Center, visuals in fact, their partners, in a way that makes them sick. Even after they’re gone, the infection lives in the body like a chronic, inflammatory disease. Understanding this may give you an edge to heal effectively.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda…

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Time is Marked by Memories, but Not for the Disordered 40:50

1y ago40:50

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Continuous memory is an essential to emotional empathy, compassion, and reflection. Cluster B disordered people who do not have it are lacking a core quality that makes them human. When they leave, and they all leave sooner or later, they hit the delete button and you disappear as if you never existed. No memories, no regrets, not accountability, n…

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The Narcissist's Role in the Great Awakening 39:49

1y ago39:49

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I begin with 3 perspectives about what the narcissist is ranging back into the past 1902-1907. There was an awareness of "their kind" even 100+ years ago. But where do they fit into the picture of current change. Is that where we are headed? Into a collective consciousness of hollow remorseless callousness? Are they simply an adaptation that was ne…

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