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Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class mental health professionals who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addiction—we get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married ...
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Creating cringe to confident conversations around Sex, Porn, Emotional Intelligence, Intimacy & Relationships. For proactive parents & caregivers who want to inform & nurture healthy growth of children & young people's sexuality, sexual & intimate relationships.
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NorthPoint Counseling Perspective

John Sternfels, LPC, NCC, CSAT, CMAT, CCPS, C-SASI

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Welcome to a NorthPoint Counseling Perspective, a podcast that addresses the intricate tapestry of individual, relational, marriage, parenting, problematic sexual behavior, partner betrayal trauma, and mental health issues.
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WTF is porn REALLY doing?! Hosted by a certified trauma-informed and women's empowerment coach, this podcast is to raise awareness and educate society about the research behind porn and how porn is scientifically rewiring people's brains and negatively impacting relationships. I speak about my experience healing from Partner Betrayal Trauma and offer a place of education, healing, and empowerment, filled with research and interviews from experts in the field and personal stories from people ...
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Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

Janna Denton-Howes: Marriage Coach | Sex Educator | Low Libido Expert

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Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does. Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, uni ...
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Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub. Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a ...
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Are your friends sick of hearing about your latest hookups and troublesome relationships? We’re not. KCRW is here to ask, How’s Your Sex Life? With non-judgmental, real advice from sexologist and certified dating coach, Myisha Battle. Submit your questions at sexlife@kcrw.org .
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The Butterfly Nation

The Butterfly Nation

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Welcome to The Butterfly Nation, an intense hour examining the real-life experiences of the spouses and partners of po-n addicts and/or sex addicts...the forgotten survivors of the sex industry. Join Alison and Sandy, both ex-wives of sex addicts and both Certified Mindful Habit Coaches, as they weave through the complex world of sex addiction from the partner's perspective. With a focus on education and empowerment, they will use their own experiences combined with science, psychology, stat ...
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The Top Tips For Sexual Purity and Top Verses for Sexual Purity Podcasts share tips for sexual purity and bible verses that will help with your journey. These are the best tips I’ve learned as I have gone through my own sexual addiction recovery. Most of the tips are inspired from talks with counselors, support groups, fellow recoverees, accountability partners, pastors, and my wife. I am not an expert or licensed counselor. Just a guy in the middle of recovery who’s learning a lot and wants ...
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Join Relationships Specialist and Neuropsychotherapist as we proactively approach relationships for they are a quintessential and unavoidable part of life. Join me in gaining researched strategies on enjoying great ones! They’re proven to provide you greater, health, happiness and even longevity! It’s worth it....
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The Doc Farhan Podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing or other professional health care services, including the giving of medical advice, and no doctor/patient relationship is formed. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not ...
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The Mindful Man Project tackles every aspect of life that can help a man (and woman) excel in areas of life. Gain knowledge and grow skill sets from leaders in their field. The Mindful Man Project is arming you the listener with tools and tips to help change patterns and aids to level up your life. Join Tyson Venables and his guests as they embark on topics to further create life on your terms.
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Curious Fox

Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla

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For those challenging the status quo in love, sex, and relationships. Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla explore themes on these subjects through personal stories, interviews, and community discussions (and laugh a lot).
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We are rebroadcasting our very popular episode with betrayal trauma expert Michelle Mays. Partner betrayal is SO complex compared to other forms of trauma. The lying, manipulation, scapegoating and gaslighting create a cycle of shame of wanting to simultaneously connect and disconnect from a cheating partner. Michelle shares her own betrayal story …
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It starts off sad but the end feels more empowering <3 This breakdown is what inspired me to create the free, private women's support group. All women are welcome - click here! Want to empower yourself and transform your life after discovering his porn use? Click here to schedule a call to see if my coaching services & healing modalities from my 38…
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In this episode of Taboo 2 Talked About, I’m diving into a topic that many of us find difficult to address—porn use in relationships. It’s a conversation that can bring up a lot of emotions, and I know from personal experience just how challenging it can be to navigate this sensitive issue. In What If Your Partner Is Watching Porn?, I open up about…
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I’m sick of dating apps but it’s hard to meet people in person! How do I talk to my partner about his porn habits without sounding like a prude? And when do I pose the infamous: ‘what are we?’ Tomás Mier, Rolling Stone journalist and pop culture content creator, talks Only Fans and queer dating with Myisha. Plus, he shares his own dating standards …
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Janna speaks with Ericka about the use of alcohol and how it can become a crutch in intimate situations. Ericka started drinking in high school, initially finding that alcohol eased her anxiety and helped her feel more relaxed before sexual encounters. However, this pattern led to risky situations and a troubling reliance on alcohol to numb out her…
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In Episode 243, Mark & Steve address a very important issue submitted to PBSE by a listener who is the betrayed partner of a porn/sex addict. This question especially resonated with Mark as he himself, along with a number of his children and many of his extended family, have suffered with the challenges of mental illness and related diagnosed issue…
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Do you want a safe, respectful, private place to chat with other women who are hurt by their current or past partner's porn use? You don't have to navigate this alone. This is a shame-free group whether you're in the relationship, or you left it. All ages are welcome! Come join our sisterhood! It's free - why not? :) CLICK HERE TO JOIN Want to empo…
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Subscriber-only episode Hi My dear subscriber! Unlock the secrets of heightened pleasure and self-control by joining Chastity Queen on an exhilarating exploration of chastity and edging. This episode promises to change the way you think about sexual discipline and its impact on your overall well-being. Enjoy the hypnosis, at the end of this episode…
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Discovering your partner has a secret porn and/or sex addiction is destabilizing. At the beginning of my healing journey, I beat myself up so much for not knowing the man I lived with had a porn or sex addiction. I thought it was my fault and I couldn't understand why. In this episode, I interview Psychotherapist Anastacia who specializes in sex an…
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In this episode of Taboo 2 Talked About, I’m diving into the heart of what it means to truly live in alignment with who we are. This episode is all about embracing authenticity—not just in our words, but in every aspect of our lives. I explore the profound impact of being true to ourselves, discussing how authenticity can liberate us from the heavy…
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I’m new to dating other women! Is it ok to look for traits my ex had in future partners? How do I deal with an ex who keeps sending me mixed signals? Amber Whittington, aka AmbersCloset, is a content creator and LGBTQ+ activist. This week, she joins Myisha to talk about being true to yourself as a baby gay. Plus, Amber shares how an ex helped her t…
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In this PBSE episode (#242), Mark & Steve respond to an incredibly vulnerable, painful submission by a PBSE listener. Her submission starts out with— I was happy to have found your podcast after my partner’s reluctant disclosure last month. After experiencing what can only be described as one of the most intensely painful experiences of my life, I …
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We are rebroadcasting one of Janna's favorite episodes: her fascinating conversation with Dr. Tina Schermer Seller, a licensed therapist who specializes in sex and gender issues. Dr. Schermer Seller is the author of one of Janna's favorite and most recommended books, Sex, God, & the Conservative Church – Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy. In this …
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Behind The Smile by John Sternfels and Melissa Roberts is a real-life story of how one of John's clients, Melissa Roberts, overcame the horrors of being abused, traumatized, and sexually betrayed. As a result, Melissa experienced many psychological complexities, often behind a facade of happiness. The book is designed to offer readers a deeper unde…
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Subscriber-only episode Hi My dear SUBscriber! Unlock the secrets to a more fulfilling and controlled sexual experience! Join me, Chastity Queen, as we confront the grim realities of excessive porn consumption and habitual masturbation. Discover how the visual allure of porn traps men in a cycle of addiction, leading to diminishing returns and a pe…
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This is a meditation - not a podcast episode. This Inner Child visualization fosters self-compassion and self-love by nurturing the inner child, helping women rebuild their self-esteem and recognize their inherent value. Please find a safe place to sit or lie down comfortably. Want to empower yourself and transform your life after discovering his p…
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This is a visualization meditation technique - not a podcast episode. This is perfect to listen to when you're having a hard time making a decision or feel "stuck" in life. Find a place where you can sit or lie down. All the answers are already within you <3 Want to empower yourself and transform your life after discovering his porn use? Click here…
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In this episode of Taboo 2 Talked About, I’m getting personal and sharing some of my recent experiences with illness. It’s been a challenging time, and it’s really made me rethink what it means to prioritize my health. I’ve had to confront my own limitations, and it’s been a humbling reminder of how crucial it is to put self-care at the top of my l…
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Is my sex vanilla just because I don’t want a threesome? My ‘no strings attached’ sex life is not as fulfilling as I thought. I don’t want to be a sex doll! How do I navigate external validation and what I really want? Tracy Clark-Flory explores desire in her book Want Me and weekly newsletter. This week, she joins Myisha in tackling personal versu…
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In Episode 241, Mark & Steve respond to a porn/sex addict in recovery who is facing an extremely difficult situation with his betrayed partner. Here's what he submitted through the PBSE contact form— Hey, my wife is one of the .01% of wives who expects me to be absolutely perfect. I don’t know what to do? I’ve been focusing on being serene. Learnin…
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Subscriber-only episode Hello Subs! In this episode of Diaries of a Domme, I kick things off with heartfelt shout-outs to My fans in Saudi Arabia and Grand Prairie, Texas. I dive into the world of chastity, offering guidance to couples eager to venture into this unique lifestyle. From selecting the right device for comfort and long-term use to enga…
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Curious about what it's like to overcome a porn addiction, and how porn can negatively impact lives and relationships? Check out this episode with Porn Addiction Recovery Coach, Jeremy Lipkowitz who has personally overcome his own porn addiction and now helps others recover. Connect with Jeremy Lipkowitz here: Unhooked Academy JeremyLipkowitz.com W…
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In this intro podcast, I talk about my journey from being a sexual mute to a sex talk enthusiast. I explore how my background as an adopted child, catholic teacher and unknowingly becoming a partner of a sex & porn addict* led to both breakdown and liberation. I explore bridging a communication gap by talking openly about TABOO subjects, particular…
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I don’t see my friends unless I organize the hangout and I’m over it! How can I rebuild my connection to my long-distance bestie? My friend thinks I betrayed them, help! This week we’re answering your friendship dilemmas with Ann Friedman, co-author of Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close. Plus, Ann shares ways to support your friends who a…
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In Episode 240, Mark and Steve address an important issue submitted by a male betrayed partner. Here's his submission— How do male betrayed partners process betrayal trauma differently than women? What are the difficulties male partners have when trying to heal the relationship with their betrayer? Are there any differences in recovery and repair b…
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We're re-airing one of our most popular episodes (Ep. 27) with Mandy Röscher, a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist based in Brisbane, Australia who specializes in chronic pelvic pain conditions. Painful experiences in the bedroom are unfortunately extremely common for women. Mandy share her extensive knowledge and training with us to shed some light on …
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Today Carol the Coach will be interviewing Taylor Chambers who has devoted his life to helping men become -resilient and to find freedom and liberation from his addiction and live a healthy life with intimacy, integrity and intention. He explains, "My life journey and career changes led me to develop unique approaches for those who struggle to esta…
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Today CSAT therapist Jonah Anderson and Carol the Coach will be discussing ADHD so that people can have a better understanding of what it is like to live with this condition. He wants to educate people about the challenges, difficulties, and pain that comes with this condition. Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria is probably one of the worst aspects of A…
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Author and activist Virgie Tovar is back with her own questions about sex dreams, perimenopause, and masturbating in the sun. Plus, Virgie shares how she got over her sexual hang ups. Visit the podcast feed for part one of our conversation with Virgie about dating cis men, fatphobia, and unrequited crushes. Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myi…
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Subscriber-only episode My dear subs, What happens when you send submissives on thrilling "sexcursions"? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I reveal the captivating dynamics of giving subs adventurous tasks that fulfill my desires and deepen our Domme/sub relationship. In this episode of Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, I share an intimate story a…
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For 24 years, Jennie Delreeve has been a beacon of hope for women overcoming trauma and reversing pelvic organ prolapse naturally, helping them reclaim their active lifestyles. Jennie’s journey began with her own experience of prolapse, which plunged her into a cycle of shame and fear. She soon discovered that the mental tension she carried was sig…
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This episode, # 239, is in response to a very common and very painful, frustrating and limiting situation submitted by the betrayed partner of a porn/sex addict— My husband is currently in recovery, and I am unfortunately still in the depths of betrayal trauma. Unfortunately in the early discovery days (there have been 3 major ones over 20 years) I…
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One of the hardest self-limiting beliefs I had to overcome on my healing journey was thinking his addiction was because I wasn't good enough, wasn't attractive enough, wasn't sexy enough, etc. I HATED my body after discovering the betrayal and my self-confidence was gooonnneeeee. I thought if I was "better" or more attractive I could have prevented…
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How do I get over someone I never dated? I date cis men and fatphobia is our unwelcome third wheel. Virgie Tovar (author, activist, and weight-based discrimination expert) gives advice in the first of this two part episode! We talk about the pain of unrequited crushes and setting boundaries as a plus-size dater. Need sex or relationship advice? Dro…
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Stacey, a 42-year-old physical therapist, described her sex life as feeling like she was on autopilot. Her experiences were neither particularly good nor bad but rather monotonous and formulaic. She sensed there was something more to discover. To her shock and surprise, she had no idea how much she had to learn until she met Janna. Stacey shares wh…
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Episode 238 comes in response to a request from a long-time PBSE listener. Here's her submission— Can you talk about the "3 second rule" and why it’s not an ok rule?! Many people talk about it and/or say they’ve read, heard, or had addicts, partners, therapists, suggest this rule. I love the way you’ve described what crap that is because an addict'…
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Today CaroltheCoach will be interviewing Blaze Cosko, who uses a Mindfulness Based Addiction & Trauma Therapy approach to assist clients in working throught sex addiction and partner betrayal. MBATT is an evidence-based modality that helps empower individuals to become more aware of the subliminal patterns that lead their lives. By building mindful…
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THIS IS A MEDITATION, not a podcast episode. Please listen to this when you're able to sit down (or lie down) and chill the f*** out :) Let this meditation be a sanctuary where you're reminded of your strength, worthiness, and gratitude for yourself. Affirmations: I am deserving of love, respect, and happiness My worth is not determined by the acti…
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Fun fact: I was training to become a meditation teacher for three months before discovering my partner's secret porn and sex addiction. The emotional regulation and nervous system regulation tools I learned during that training ended up saving my life (literally) while navigating betrayal. So in this episode, we dive into how it can help the healin…
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I want to be more than friends with benefits! How do I keep things romantic with my spouse? Is pegging in my future? KCRW DJ Rocio ‘Wyldeflower’ Contreras dishes advice. We talk about when to walk away from being friends with benefits, the importance of setting aside one-on-one time with your spouse, and one listener’s pegging guilt. Plus, Ro share…
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Today, Carol the Coach is interviewing Emellina Belle MA, LMFT, ASECT, who is going to be discussing the needs for partners to have a supportive space fto actively navigate the tumultuous journey of discovery or disclosure, dealing with complex trauma, and experiencing PTSD symptoms. She will be discussing the profound impact of partner sexual betr…
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In this special episode, Janna reunites with Justin and Sandra, a couple who have each appeared on the podcast separately before (Justin in Episode 82 and Sandra in Episode 74). Together, they tackle some of the most frequently asked questions from Janna’s community, such as: How do you cultivate emotional safety and connection in your relationship…
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In this Episode 237, Mark and Steve get passionate in responding to the heart-felt submission by a PBSE listener. Here's what she shared— In My partners and I are now 12 months into our journey and I have been doing really well for the most part. I had been feeling like I was really getting on top of my betrayal and processing everything that happe…
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