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Schuyler Bailar was the first transgender athlete to compete on an NCAA Division 1 men's team. As a renowned speaker, author, and thought leader, Schuyler's work includes answering questions from all sorts of people relating to gender, current events, mental health, civil-rights issues, and so much more. But there are always questions left unanswered -- until now. On "Dear Schuyler", the award-winning activist answers questions he receives from followers, allies, and anyone who wants to lear ...
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A podcast to create bold and inspiring relationships at work and at home, the Merging path Podcast is hosted by professionally trained and certified Executive Coach Brooks E. Scott from Merging Path Coaching. It explores a range of leadership, management and interpersonal communications concepts to help us all have conversations we continue to avoid.
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Awkward Turtle At Work invites amazing humans who embody the values of DEI, to share their unconventional career stories. Using these stories to prove DEI is already within us! Powered by Awkward Conversations - a Hong Kong-based Diversity, Equity & Inclusion (DEI) Consultancy firm using powerful lived experiences. https://www.emeryfung.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/emeryfung/
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In this bonus episode, Schuyler speaks with Dr. Karen Tang, gynecologist, viral TikToker, and author of the new book, It's Not Hysteria: Everything You Need to Know About Your Reproductive Health (But Were Never Told) out May 7th. Schuyler and Dr. Tang discuss the ins-and-outs of reproductive healthcare, with particular focus on gender affirmation …
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Isolation often allows hate to endure, making it crucial to break through such barriers. However, for trans people, recounting one's journey can be a complex experience. That is why Schuyler invited Ryan Cassata on to the show. Together, they explore Ryan's discussions about his gender journey on shows like Larry King Live and The Tyra Banks Show, …
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The gender binary, or the idea that there are only two genders, is at the core of so many issues facing transgender people today. However, Schuyler speaks with the host of PBS' Brave Spaces and trans advocate Devin-Norelle about how this false assumption impacts those who may not believe gender plays a significant role in their life, and how radica…
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In many ways, the existence of police and prisons may feel natural to many people. However, Schuyler sits down with Professor and Scholar Jaden Janak to discuss how the Prison Industrial Complex we know today is actually a recent invention, and how this system serves those in power. Together they gather insight before Schuyler answers today's main …
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Navigating the journey of caring for and supporting a transgender child can be overwhelming, especially for parents unfamiliar with the transgender experience. In this episode, Schuyler invites Nai and Leo, the first parent and child who reached out to him after his 60 Minutes feature aired. They delve into the discussion on how Nai affirmed Leo's …
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Today, there are over 500 anti-trans bills that have either been passed or introduced throughout the United States. Though transphobia is not new, it is natural to wonder: why now? To address this question, Schuyler speaks with ACLU lawyer and activist Chase Strangio. He discusses why so many states are pushing for these laws, what their real inten…
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On this special Trans Remembrance Day, we are thrilled to bring you our final episode for now, featuring the remarkable Schuyler Bailar. In this conversation, we dive deep into Schuyler's newly released book, 'he/she/they,' a powerful exploration of their personal journey and experiences as a transgender individual. 'he/she/they' serves as a cataly…
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It can be tricky for all of us to maintain a healthy relationship with our parents. But for trans people, this relationship can be even more complicated. To help navigate this complicated connection, Schuyler sits down with author and activist Raquel Willis. She discusses how the dynamic between her and her religious parents morphed over time. Raqu…
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Thrilled to have Brian on the show, Founder of Whole Business Wellness! Brian shares his wealth of knowledge on creating thriving cultures in the workplace through applied mindfulness, resilience building, and experiential learning. As the co-founding Chair of the Male Allies initiative and a board member of The Women's Foundation, Brian emphasizes…
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Think about it... when was the last time you yelled at the top of your lungs? What if you needed to do that now to help fight for your safety? The first time you've yelled at the top of your lungs to protect yourself shouldn't be the first time you've yelled at the top of your lungs. There is so much power that comes from embodiment through mental …
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ADHD Awareness week is here. So I have Dr. Kristie Craigen on the show today, explaining how her work helps with the neurodivergent community. Dr. Kristie Craigen is the founder of CRAIGEN EVALUATIONS. She is a psychometric testing specialist and expert witness with almost two decades of assessment experience in clinical, educational, and organisat…
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This week I had the pleasure of having Amanda Fok - founder of Let’s talk ADHD. Amanda is organising the ADHD Awareness Week in HK from October 22 - 28th! Undiagnosed ADHD can be the root cause of poor mental health such as anxiety and depression. Just like other so call ‘underrepresented’ groups, ADHD holds a strong stigma and misconception. Amand…
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Schuyler sits down with friend, nonbinary advocate, educator, and influencer, Addison Rose Vincent. In this conversation Schuyler and Addison discuss surviving as a trans person in this world, how many feel that gender nonconformity or trans-expression is a joke and the ongoing narrative of how people are supposed to respond to gender nonconformity…
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I love having products that exists to break taboos and brings social change, introducing Luüna - a natural period care! This week we discussed: - Why talking about menstruation is key in the gender equity conversation. - Repositioning the product as a healthcare product rather than consumer product, and rightly so! - Reframing how we percieve menst…
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Schuyler sits down with American swimmer, Erica Sullivan. Sullivan, who won a silver medalist in the 1500-meter freestyle at the 2020 Summer Olympics, opens up about being gay, the loss of her father and how she was able to bring her authentic self to the sport she loves. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pi…
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Schuyler sits down with Angel Joy Flores, the deadlift Queen, for an in depth conversation about trans athletes and whether or not trans athletes must choose between their sport and their identities. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantarayBy Diversion
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Schuyler is joined by musician, actor, model and barber, Ezra Michel. In this conversation the two discuss what growing up was like and what their feelings are now when they look back on their early life. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantarayBy Diversion
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Back with the wonderful Joanna Hotung, in Part 2, we talked about: Everyone is talking about safe spaces, but how do we actually create them? The schools need them, the workplace needs them, and frankly in society. As always we chat about these topics from the Asian perspective: The holistic approach to work Developing better listeners The Hong Kon…
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Schuyler sits down with author, poet and essayist, KB Brookins. In this conversation Brookins reflects on the choices that were made for us before we came into this world, how a forced resilience was created from that and how trying to normalize things that are not normal is a problem. You can check out KB Brookins books and website here. ✶ If you …
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One of the best conversations I’ve had so far on the show & I will be splitting this up into 2 episodes! Everyone is talking about safe spaces, but how do we actually create them? The schools need them, the workplace need them, and frankly in society. As always we chat about these topics with the Asian perspective: Failure and the power of ‘I don’t…
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Schuyler is joined by 2018 Olympic silver medalist, bobsledder Lauren Gibbs. In this conversation Gibbs talks about the scrutiny women's sports receives, how everyone should have their "Olympic" moment, and much more. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray…
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Schuyler sits down with former Harvard swimming teammate, Jack Manchester. In this conversation the two touch on Schuyler's introduction to the team. how he was received by teammates as a freshman swimmer and what it takes to be an ally. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray…
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In this episode with we discussed: -What is the landscape for Disability in HK & around the world -Why is understanding Disability diversity so important -& Walter’s love for Wing Chun! Walter Tsui is the Co-Founder and CEO of CareER. CareER supports highly educated people with disabilities or special education needs in Hong Kong. CareER was recogn…
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Schuyler is joined by author, historian, and activist, Blair Imani. In this episode the two discuss a variety of topics including what "tone tags" are and how can we get people to take action instead of just being an ally. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray…
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Schuyler sits down with his swimming coaches from Harvard, Steph Morawski and Kevin Tyrrell. In this discussion you will hear how Schuyler was recruited to the swim team, how he was embraced by his coaches and teammates and we answer the question, what can coaches do to support trans athletes. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice…
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Here is part 2 of the episode with Steph from Body Banter. Continuing the theme of Mental Health x Summer in HK, we talked about how this may also play out with other identities we hold, more importantly how this affects EVERYONE. We also discussed how the traditional binary mindset can be harmful in these conversations, and how it can further rein…
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Schuyler is joined by retired Austrian swimmer, who won two silver medals at the 2004 Summer Olympics in Athens, Dr. Markus Rogan. Dr. Rogan, who is now a psychologist working with athletes, gives an in depth discussion about how we can help people who hurt themselves and others, what he thought be a man was all about and 4 tasks that men have to a…
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WE DID IT! With your help, this podcast is now in the Top 80 Hong Kong Podcasts! Truly thank you to every single human that has been listening, supporting and sharing with their circles. See more: https://blog.feedspot.com/hong_kong_podcasts/ ☀️Summer is here, which can be stress-free for some, but high anxiety for others. So I want to introduce St…
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✶ To purchase Alicia's book "Inverse Cowgirl: A Memoir" click ⁠here⁠: https://www.amazon.com/Inverse-Cowgirl-Alicia-Roth-Weigel/dp/0063295288 Schuyler is joined by activist, author and the Human Rights Commissioner for the City of Austin, Alicia Roth Weigel. In this deep discussion, Roth Weigel, explains why people aren't familiar with the word int…
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Dating is something Schuyler is asked about frequently. For trans people, it can be tricky -- and dangerous -- to be open about one's identity. It can also be hard for well-meaning cisgender people to know what to do if their date happens to be transgender. To dive into the dating discussion, Schuyler speaks with singer, songwriter, dancer, actress…
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Continuing on the theme of Allyship, but this time, Allyship within the LGBT+ Community! Allyship is not a role exclusive to non-LGBT+ folks, anyone can be an ally. Allyship within the community is what really started the ‘LGBT+’ history. The LGBT+ Community is full of diverse identities and it’s about time that we do a better job of advocating for…
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We all identify ourselves as part of a community, but what exactly does it mean to "find your community"? And how can being part of a community help individuals uncover more about themselves? To dive into the purpose and importance of community, Schuyler speaks with actor Rafael De La Fuente (Dynasty). In their discussion, Rafael, reveals how findi…
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PRIDE month is here! 🌈🏳️‍⚧️ This month is all about celebration - but not just the community. We also need to celebrate the allies that have supported us and helped us to change perception, really our very best cheerleaders! Fern Ngai is an incredible ally, one of the best we can ever ask for. Her work at Community Business still has a huge legacy …
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To kick off Pride month, Schuyler highlights an emotion that is often felt but rarely acknowledged: grief. It means more than just feeling bad after someone passes away. But why is it so important to experience it fully, particularly for queer and minority groups? And how does one even begin the grieving process? To answer these questions and more,…
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To kick off Pride month, Schuyler highlights an emotion that is often felt but rarely acknowledged: grief. It means more than just feeling bad after someone passes away. But why is it so important to experience it fully, particularly for queer and minority groups? And how does one even begin the grieving process? To answer these questions and more,…
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✶ If you or a loved one is struggling with an eating disorder, visit https://www.pinkmantaray.com/resources/ed for resources and research. A big part of Schuyler's journey was grappling with his eating disorder. And he is not alone; LGBTQ+ youth are affected by eating disorders more than any other demographic. But why do people develop eating disor…
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Last of the mini-series from our sponsor, Ernst & Young (EY). This week, we have Claudia & Henry sharing sharing their lived experiences as Trans Activists, and how it differs in the East and West. On top of that, we also hear about how the sentiment has changed over the years. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 Please remember to give us a rating on the pod, it will help othe…
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Most everyone can relate to not liking some aspect of their bodies. But for many transgender people, they often experience something that is more nuanced and devastating than that: gender dysphoria. It can be hard for cisgender people to understand what gender dysphoria is like. That's why Schuyler invited someone who could speak to the topic with …
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Super Bowl champion Brendon Ayanbadejo began publicly advocating for gay rights before any other NFL football player. In 2009 he wrote an op-ed about his support for marriage equality (five years before Michael Sam came out as the first openly gay NFL player). Schuyler finds out how Brendon's background compelled him to become a vocal advocate for …
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Coming back with a BANG 💥 Ernst & Young (EY) has sponsored a mini-series on a topic I am personally very passionate about - Transgender Inclusion 🏳️‍⚧️ This week, Terri McDowell from the trans community and Mia who is a parent of a transgender child - a perspective you don't hear often. This sparked conversations about: How intergenerational, inter…
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After a year of hiatus, AWKWARD TURTLE AT WORK IS BACK!! The Trailer explains where I've been, and what I've been doing this past year, including on where this podcast will be headed! Sooo tune in from next Monday, to hear more amazing human stories! 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 Please remember to give us a rating on the pod, it will help other humans to find this show! …
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Schuyler sits down with actress/comedian Dylan Mulvaney in her home to hear what it's like to be in the public eye at the same time as learning how to be her whole self. Dylan Mulvaney got her start on Broadway as part of the cast of the musical Book of Mormon, but her public profile rose in 2022 when she began documenting her transition on TikTok …
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On the previous episode, swimmer Lia Thomas shared her experience and opinions on being a transgender woman in women's sports. The interview made national news from Fox News to TMZ, and everyone from former tennis star Martina Navratilova to average folks all over our YouTube comments had something to say about Lia's stance on the topic of trans in…
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The inclusion of transgender women in women's sports is one of the most contentious topics of our time. Many of us want to be inclusive but can't wrap our heads around the perceived "advantage" trans women may have in sports. Meanwhile, trans folks want to have access to sports in the same way cis men and women do, without having to jump through ho…
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Many parents are caught off-guard when their child reveals they are trans. That's why Schuyler is kicking off the series by answering a question that is near and dear to his heart: "My kid told me they're trans. Now what?" To gain some insight, Schuyler invites someone on to the show who did a pretty great job handling the news: his father, Gregor …
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Have you ever told someone, “Don’t cry, be a man!” Have you ever said that to yourself? (I sure as hell have) When did you first notice that you shouldn’t hold your father’s hand any longer? What age were you? What about it made you stop? Society and external systems reinforce gender stereotypes, but sometimes these boxes are formed within our fami…
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Have you ever seen an HR policy that states employees aren't allowed to talk to their coworkers about how much they make? I haven't. Who does this protect? And more importantly... who does this hurt? In this episode, I sit down with Nadia De Ala - the founder of Real You Leadership. Nadia is a facilitator, negotiation, and leadership coach on a mis…
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In this episode, I'm joined by Koye Adeboye, who Leads Communications and Outreach for the United Nations Spotlight Initiative which is the world's largest investment to end all forms of violence against women and girls. Now, you might be asking yourself, why are two guys talking about an issue that affects women and girls? First, it affects all of…
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