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Professional dating coaches Scot and Emily McKay from X & Y Communications have experienced wildly successful dating lives, eventually meeting each other and forming the "Dynamic Duo of Dating Dilemmas". Now, they bring you hard-hitting yet lightning-fast dating tips that you can start using RIGHT NOW to supercharge your own dating success. Fast downloads and rapid-fire content...every time. Be sure to get in on the weekly newsletter at "www.dating-advice.us". Your reviews on iTunes and vote ...
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Show notes, free downloads and more at: https://scotandemily.com/podcast | No AI-generated content, ever. | I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating coaches you know and love over at X & Y Communications. Join us for the most heartfelt and action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating and relationship tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getti ...
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Wing-It Worldwide | Travel + Adventure = Freedom | Digital Nomads, Worldschoolers
Scot and Emily McKay | Location Independent Travelling Family
Discover all the show notes, funny stories, pretty pictures and shiny toys at: www.wingitworldwide.com/podcast | Scot and Emily McKay are well-known dating coaches who've been helping men and women all over the world find love for over a decade. Get their unique, location-independent view into the wild, unpredictable, nutrageous, often hilarious but always adventurous side of traveling the world...usually with their four kids. | Please subscribe to the show to get updates automatically, and ...
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Scot and Emily here, at your service. You might know us already from the X & Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast or The Chick Whisperer Podcast. But even if you don't, we're glad you're here. We're the dating coaches at X & Y Communications and spend a good bit of our time helping people just like you sort out their online profiles so that they can meet someone great. We met on Match.com ourselves (go figure) so what more fun could two human beings have than to do a show where we select a REAL onli ...
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In this episode Emily and I address the sticky topic of dealbreakers in a relationship. Is having too many dealbreakers--or focusing on them--a dealbreaker in and of itself? You know, the 'don't bother' chick, for example? Is being 'high maintenance' a dealbreaker? And if so, what does that even mean? On the other hand, should not having any dealbr…
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First and foremost, if you think even for a second that this episode is going to be about two dinosaurs reminiscing about the past, you're in for a surprise. Given that we've been totally immersed in dating and relationship stuff for nearly 20 years, we've had our fingers on the pulse of how men and women relate for a LONG time. On top of that, wit…
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Lots of dating and relationship advice talks about how to know when you've finally met the right partner to build a long-term relationship with. And yes, by now we know the basics about attraction, 'chemistry', sexual compatibility, shared values, shared life goals, avoiding 'red flags' and every other success factor we've heard a thousand times. N…
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Finally, here's the full episode on a topic that everyone wonders about. It's no secret that men often want to date younger women. But what is it about those guys who are actually successful at doing so? And is it really true that many amazing young women actually prefer older men? First off, what actually counts as an 'older man' to a younger woma…
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If you've been out there dating for any time at all, you've likely compiled your fair share of weird dating stories. It's easy to think that those situations could only happen to you, and you've GOT to be the only one. But guess what? PLENTY of apparent weirdness on first dates is tons more common than you probably guess. This time around Emily and…
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We've all found ourselves out on a date with someone who creeped us out. And no...it's not gender-specific. But what does 'creepy' even mean? Why is it often so hard to define? Well, in this episode we break down exactly what constitutes such infamous creepy behavior...and how it tends to impact men and women differently. Is it possible some people…
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Every couple thinks and behaves differently. You've probably thought and behaved differently depending on who your significant other was at a particular time in history. But for sure there are, well...'standards' that tend to rule any polite, public conversation about how men and women typically are when they're a couple, and what's 'normal'. So th…
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You hear the term 'power couple' quite a bit, but what exactly does it mean? We know one when we see one, for sure. But is it necessarily a good thing? Would we want to team up with our significant other to BE one? If so, how do we BECOME one? Well, let's first get this out in the open: I'm not sure whether we are indeed a 'power couple' or not, es…
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It seems to everyone paying attention that beautiful women enjoy a massive 'halo effect'. It's like they're treated like celebrities--or even royalty--everywhere they go. But what else is going on there? What's it REALLY like to be a sexy, attractive woman out there in the dating world? Well, in my decidedly un-biased opinion, Emily is exactly the …
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Who knows why this topic hadn't been covered yet around here? My edumckayted guess is it probably had something to do with repressed memories. Yes, Emily and I both are survivors of first marriages affected by profound illness. And yes...we both strongly agree you would be better off avoiding psychotic people in general, especially as romantic part…
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Let's face it, when single moms and single dads get together, it's pure naive idealism that would cause us to expect we're creating our own Brady Bunch. The reality of blended families is much different. Emily and I have been there ourselves, and have first-hand experience. We know full well it can seem more like being put through a Vita-Mix than a…
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What is the difference between someone who is confident and someone who is arrogant? And how does cockiness fit into all this? Emily and Scot talk about how this all affects your attractiveness to the opposite sex...and they seem quite confident in their opinions.By Scot and Emily McKay
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As the lyrics of one of Tyler Childers' songs say, 'There is hurt you can cause that time alone cannot heal'. When it comes to our interactions with women, a breathtaking amount of that pain is caused by what we say...or what SHE says. And when we get into a relationship, the stakes get even higher. We get straight to the point in this episode, fir…
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No matter how well a couple gets along and navigates their relationship, there always seems to be a challenge to your relationship coming from somewhere. It can start with the best man's TMI speech during the wedding reception. But what about unsolicited advice from miserable people who can't even manage their own relationships? Jealous BFFs and sn…
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In the second installment of our two-part episode, Emily and I break down the little things couples do (often to each other) that make a relationship suck. To kick things off, we talk about the scene in the movie The Good, The Bad And The Ugly itself that's the best metaphor for how men and women ruin their relationships together. Next, we talk abo…
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This is the first of a two-part episode on the little things that either make a relationship great, or make it suck. Sure, you hear about the major pillars like trust, communication, attraction, etc., but this is a deeper dive into the subtle effects certain mindsets and/or actions have. The first order of business is to describe how big mountains …
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It's the foundation of every good solid relationship. With it, you and your significant other are set for years of blissful happiness together. Without it, you're likely doomed to failure. We're talking about trust, of course. Emily and I have enjoyed a trusting relationship with each other for nearly sixteen years now, and she finally sat down wit…
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Who knew a funny video featuring two cockatoos would lead to a full-on discussion of one of the most devastating--and common--ways we do mess up our chances in dating and relationships? I'm talking, of course, about trying too hard. Do men, especially so-called 'nice guys', do this more than women? If so, why is that? Can it really be as simple as …
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In 1968, Tammy Wynette released probably her most famous single, which caused immediate outrage from the Women's Movement. But Wynette countered by saying 'stand by your man' simply meant accepting one's husband despite his faults. But still, by today's standards the song might evoke even more vitriolic outrage. Yet, a recent Facebook post brought …
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2020 has finally drawn to a close and it's time to address 2021. What will the 'new normal' look like insofar as dating and relationships go? How soon until we can actually get there? What unexpected surprises might be in store for all of us, whether we're currently in a relationship or looking forward to getting into one? What can be observed from…
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Last week on The Mountain Top podcast I said out loud that I had never met anyone in a happy relationship who was miserable. That concept is worth a deeper discussion, and who better to have it with than the very woman I'm in a happy relationship with? Now obviously, one can be perfectly happy without being in any relationship at all, for sure. But…
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Everyone has heard about how men have a feminine side and women a masculine one. How true is that? And if it's the case, how does the concept typically manifest itself? Is it a good thing, or is it something we would be better off minimizing the effects of? And wait a minute...are the traits and behaviors that we somewhat automatically consider mas…
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Parenthood is hot, and we can prove it! Curiously enough, however, the first direction we went in was debating the 'dad bod' and 'mom bod' factor. Do men really desire that rail-thin supermodel body, or do many prefer a woman shaped more like she's had a baby or two? In addition to what they look like, how do hot moms really turn guys on? Is how me…
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This episode may come off as a bit weird up front, as it's the first show we've ever published to BOTH The Mountain Top and X & Y On The Fly feeds. But hey...we figured this is a timely conversation everyone can and should have, and also (more obviously) we're co-hosting this one together. So on with it... In this fast-paced show we talk candidly--…
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This episode may come off as a bit weird up front, as it's the first show we've ever published to BOTH The Mountain Top and X & Y On The Fly feeds. But hey...we figured this is a timely conversation everyone can and should have, and also (more obviously) we're co-hosting this one together. So on with it... In this fast-paced show we talk candidly--…
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There are certain so-called experts out there who would say two people sharing 'chemistry' between them is a BAD thing. What's up with that? Does it have anything to do with the fact there can be chemistry between two people who don't even LIKE each other? Or is it mostly people who don't have chemistry in their own relationships who say it doesn't…
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(Season Three) New York City may be the most overwhelming city on Earth, but it's also quite arguably a much friendlier place since the tragic event of 9/11 over eighteen years ago. Walking around Manhattan, you're almost certain to see 'that guy from that thing' along with endless other sights AND sounds. And what's a trip to the 'Big Apple' witho…
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First and foremost, you can find the OPPOSITE conversation on how women talk about men when they're not around over on episode 134 of The Mountain Top Podcast. It's a barnburner just like this one. In THIS episode, however, we talk about drunk confessions, what goes on during men-only excursions, how men treat their 'henpecked' or 'p-whipped' frien…
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(Season Three) Hong Kong is a true feast for the senses. Uniquely blending centuries of Asian culture with more recent British influence, the adventure starts as soon as you land at the airport. Brave drunk taxi rides, soaring cable car rides and challenging street food for one of the most exciting urban experiences imaginable. Be sure not to miss …
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(Season Three) Emily's mom is originally from Northern Mexico, so it was only a matter of time before we went to visit la familia. The problems all started when our vehicle of choice for this road trip was a bright yellow Hummer with Texas tags. They continued when Mexico threw just about every challenge we could think of at us, and then a few more…
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(Season Three) It's no secret that Kenya is one of our favorite countries. Every moment spent there is high adventure, from the laughing ibises in the morning to the afternoon game drives on the Maasai Mara and the almost surreal experience of camping at night to the wild sounds of the savannah. Discover how to see Kenya on the cheap, all while mak…
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(Season Three) Exotic and exciting in the minds of most adventure travelers, Sri Lanka's civil war is becoming more of a distant memory. That means all of the amazing, sights, sounds and tastes of this Indian Ocean island-nation are safer than ever to discover...be it by air, bus or tuk-tuk. From the peacock-printed flight attendants to the Temple …
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Given how complicated men and women make it to meet and attract each other, it's a miracle there are seven-and-a-half billion of us on this planet, right? With us to explore what makes it all so difficult is none other than fellow dating coach Mike Goldstein from New York City. What has happened in our post-modern world that keeps men and women apa…
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After millennia of assumptive coexistence, the idea of masculine/feminine polarity is under fire. Is it all really a societal construct designed to oppress women, or are the very building blocks of sexual attraction at stake here? Relationship coaches Brody and Antia Boyd sit in with us to hit this issue with a big, heavy hammer once and for all. I…
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(Season Two) The Republic of Georgia is one of the most underrated destinations on Earth. This former Soviet Socialist Republic has most recently made headlines for political strife, but has been famous for its wine for 8000 years. Indeed, it's the wine...and the food, people and majestic scenery of the Causasus Mountains that make Georgia so surpr…
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Just because you and your significant other are now a couple doesn't mean you stop being two individual humans. Joining us this time are Stephen and Theresa from Ownstream, who do a lot of thinking about this important subject. What's the difference between supporting someone to grow vs. trying to get them to change? If you know something's good fo…
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How do we go this many episodes without covering this insanely important factor in a healthy relationship? Derek and Heidi from Uncharted Family sit in with us for a fast-paced (and hilarious, as usual) rant on 36-hour anniversaries, non-awkward silences, and seeing each other at our worst. Is being 'cordial' with each other a sign of trouble? Does…
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After over two years of radio silence, it's time to fire up the XYOTF engine again. What better way than to invite our friends Justin Stenstrom and Sarah Rudin from The Elite Man to join us for an epic breakdown of the infamous Honeymoon Phase? What is it anyway? And does it have to end? Is there really a stage BEFORE the Honeymoon Phase, and anoth…
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(Season Two) If you've never been to any of the countries in the Arab world, Jordan is a great place to start. The people are friendly, the food is fantastic, the scenery is unforgettable and--of course--you have access to one of the world's great historic sites, Petra. Plus, Jordan is a safe, tranquil nation in the midst of an often tumultuous par…
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(Season Two) On a plane from Colombia full of over 170 travelers, only three of us were from the United States. Even nowadays most tourists can't shake the image of the fierce Medellin Cartel, and continue to stay away in droves. But hey, that didn't stop us from going...and ultimately having coffee at Pablo Escobar's home. But all of that came aft…
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(Season Two) A state of emergency has been declared in Ethiopia shortly before this episode was published, so our thoughts and prayers are with the warm, wonderful people of this beautiful country. Indeed, much of Ethiopia is nothing like the images burned into our psyche, dating from as far back as the tragic and devastating drought of the '80s. T…
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(Season Two) It may look like the surface of another planet, but it's really part of central Turkey. It's Cappadocia, of course...the weird but wonderful land of 'fairy chimneys', cave hotels and a mid-air traffic jam of hot air balloons almost every morning. Listen in as we recount worldschooling adventures with our two youngest in what has to be …
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(Season Two) We kick off the brand new second season with a weird and wild visit to North Korea. Going there is like being transported to a different planet, starting with airport check-in. It's like a fully unique version of 'urban adventure travel'. Garden trowels, planting grass by the runway, wood-burning trucks, lint blowers, being sequestered…
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(Season One) They should sell t-shirts in Tirane that say 'Keep Albania Weird'. But then again, it's weird that they don't. Maybe they don't want to stay weird? But for now, they can't help it...what with the 'ancient pyramid ruins' from 1987, concrete river, human ATM machine, UFO University and crowing dogs. Intrigued yet? I don't blame you eithe…
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(Season One) Canyonlands is the Rodney Dangerfield of the National Park system, isn't it? I mean, this place would be incredibly famous if not for the Grand Canyon. And yet, unique and hair-raising adventures abound...from the precarious walk across the Mesa Arch to the white-knuckle drive down the Shafer Trail all the way into nearby Moab Utah. No…
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(Season One) Small time rebels such that we are, we ignored the crappy (but hilarious) advice from the rental car guy, stuffed gas cans into the back of his Jeep Liberty and drove the infamous Dalton Highway to the Arctic Circle. In addition to finding out how that went, in this episode you'll plug into the Wal-Mart parking lot, marvel at the #fake…
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(Season One) Until about ten years ago people used to say, 'Angkor what?' But nowadays Siem Reap, Cambodia is near the top of every adventure traveler's 'must see' list. That's for good reason. People go for the renowned jungle temples, floating villages and exotic surroundings...but they come back to visit the amazing Cambodian people, who after s…
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(Season One) Belarus is best known for being in the Opening Ceremonies parade at the Olympics. Actually, that's probably not true. Nevertheless, it's the most Soviet country left in Eastern Europe and that alone makes it incredibly interesting to visit. It's also HARD to get a visa for, which is part of the reason why only 300 U.S. citizens go ther…
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(Season One) Switch on the heated floors and reach for new Hites, because it's this episode that truly exposes what travel dorks we really are. First, we have no idea how to pronounce anything in Korea. Then, we have no idea how to eat anything there either. To make matters worse, we had to bring up that cartoon trumpet at Gyeongbokgung. Well, at l…
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(Season One) Punjab state in India is home to Sikhs and theatrical border showdowns, yet it's visited by relatively few Westerners...especially with infants. While others hurry off to Rajasthan, Mumbai or Agra, we were sure to head northwest to experience the wonder that is The Golden Temple. After that, it's on to the nearby border town of Wagah t…
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