Best Selema Podcasts (2024)

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PCOS AND ME: ROOT CAUSES AND SYMPTOMS 25:33

3M ago25:33

25:33

In this episode, I introduce the new podcast, announce the direction of the new content and discuss PCOS in women. How to manage PCOS correctly for lasting results and change.

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30 26:55

7M ago26:55

26:55

In this episode, i talk about where i've been, dealing with darkness and hoping it resonates with some of you.

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ASK SELEMA: GETTING APPROACHED 27:41

1y ago27:41

27:41

In this episode, I talk about getting approached as a woman who is ready to date but isn’t getting the attention you want or desire.

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ASK SELEMA: Dating, vetting and Questions 1:31:15

1y ago1:31:15

1:31:15

In this episode, I answer questions asked on Instagram and drop some dating game you didn’t know happens during vetting.

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13: Chad Caruso 1:22:23

1y ago1:22:23

1:22:23

On this episode of the What Shapes Us podcast Chad Caruso shares his electrifying journey through the streets, parks, and ramps that have shaped his remarkable career. As a professional skateboarder with over a decade of experience under his belt, Chad brings a unique perspective to the mic. This episode isn't just about tricks and flips – it's a d…

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12: Nora Vasconcellos 1:34:33

1+ y ago1:34:33

1:34:33

Join us for an inspiring episode of the What Shapes Us podcast as we sit down with Nora Vasconcellos, the trailblazing American professional skateboarder hailing from Pembroke, Massachusetts. In this in-depth interview, we peel back the layers of Nora's incredible journey, exploring the highs, the challenges, and the sheer determination that has pr…

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11: Brick Howze 2:12:43

1+ y ago2:12:43

2:12:43

On this episode of What Shapes Us Selema welcomes Brick Howze. Brick is a 26-year-old musician, producer, and founder of Black Sand, a surf and arts collective in LA. In this deep dive interview Brick tells his story about what shaped him into creative power Howze he has become.

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WHY I CHOSE HIM (PART 4) 1:19:07

1+ y ago1:19:07

1:19:07

Join me as I have a conversation with Lydia (my first ever client) about her marriage with her wonderful husband and why she chose him. Lydia is Christian and she’s married to a Muslim. I wanted to know how they navigate and what they did differently that got them to “I do.” Enjoy!

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WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 3) 1:17:17

1+ y ago1:17:17

1:17:17

Come with me on the Journey of why Dr.Vivian chose her husband. As usual this series is to expose why different people make the choice to forever and their thought process behind it. Romantic partnerships aren’t one side fits all and I believe that every situation has one or two things to teach you. ENJOY!…

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WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 2) 36:45

1+ y ago36:45

36:45

Come with me on the journey of Mrs Ruth Joseph who is a Christian married to an atheist as she tells her story of how they met, why she chose him and what it feels like to have a spouse who doesn’t share her faith. Enjoy!

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DATING ADVICE: MODERN DATING 1 14:52

2y ago14:52

14:52

In this episode I talk about modern dating and my new speed dating spaces on twitter.

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ABANDONMENT ISSUES & LIFE UPDATE 35:03

2+ y ago35:03

35:03

In this episode, I talk about abandonment issues and what it births. Then I give a brief update about where I’m at in life. Enjoy!

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PROVISION 1:22:23

2+ y ago1:22:23

1:22:23

In this episode we talk about the full meaning of provision in partnerships and what women need to look out for more. We discuss vetting men based on other things other than financial provision and we ask women to raise their standards when it comes to what they accept as bare minimum. It’s my first live recorded episode too. Enjoy!…

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I LOVE YOU 28:02

2+ y ago28:02

28:02

I love you is one of the most used three letter sentences in the world. In this episode, I talk a little about how I’ve come to understand it.

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10: Redbull 1:07:20

2+ y ago1:07:20

1:07:20

Selema brings a conversation he had at the Redbull At Work Tent-pole event. He talked to three athletes - Dassy Lee, Kate Cortney, Justin William- about their breaking norms in their surrounding and culture, finding their passion and discovering they can do it as a career, and how to build routine for your mental state.…

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9: Louis the Child and PineappleCITI 1:08:19

2+ y ago1:08:19

1:08:19

Motivation was stifled during the pandemic and artists where ether going into a creative hyphenation or found ways to recenter them self and reevaluate their creativity. Our guests, Louis the Child and PineappleCITI, talk through how they took on quarantine and what challenges they faced musically with it. How they stayed motivated and even redisco…

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THE PRODIGAL YEAR 57:32

2+ y ago57:32

57:32

In this episode I talk about struggling with life, faith, existence and everything in between my struggle. I expose questioning my why for abstinence, God and the path that led me down to wandering off into my prodigal year. Enjoy

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8: Jon Rose 1:34:00

2+ y ago1:34:00

1:34:00

What makes you a Kook? Jon Rose takes us on a global adventure of how he fell into global relief effort and created Waves for Water. Selema also brings his past and why Jon chose adventrue as escape, enjoying your aging and the wisdom it brings, and finding your passion.

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7: Atiba Jefferson 1:01:49

2+ y ago1:01:49

1:01:49

Selema is opening up his Covid Files to show you an interview he did with legendary photographer Atiba Jefferson. Selema goes into their history of when they first met at Atiba’s skate shop. Atiba moving out to California to follow his dream of being a photographer for skaters. And advice for those coming out of Covid what they can do to get out of…

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BEING HOMELESS 48:56

2+ y ago48:56

48:56

On this episode, Ada and I talk about living together. We hope you have a few laughs. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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6: Radha Blank 1:29:10

2+ y ago1:29:10

1:29:10

On this episode of the What Shapes Us Podcast Selema welcomes writer, actor, producer, director and close friend Radha Blank. Radha talks about how the pandemic gave her a new perspective on life. They talk about her movie "The Forty-Year-Old Version" and both Selema and Radha share family memories that shaped them into the creatives they are today…

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5: Marc Rebillet 1:01:14

3y ago1:01:14

1:01:14

The loop Daddy himself Marc Rebillet joins Selema to talk about how he became an incredible force that took the internet by storm. They talk about what shaped his musical style, how Marc found what was important in his life during the lockdown, and how he got the queen herself Erykah Badu to do a livestream performance. All this and so much more on…

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WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 1) 54:15

3y ago54:15

54:15

This is going to be a series with a few episodes in it. In this episode we talk to Enkay Umeh who is a lawyer about marriage, deal breakers, experience and why she chose who she chose.

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HAPPY 2ND ANNIVERSARY 26:14

3y ago26:14

26:14

We begin the new Season with contributions from a few of you about what you like about the podcast, why you listen and how it’s helped you.

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SINGLENESS: JOURNEYING 1:49:45

3+ y ago1:49:45

1:49:45

In this episode Eketti, Amarachi and I discuss the highs, lessons, lows and everything in between about being a single Christian that is abstaining.

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LOVETH AND POETRY 48:47

3+ y ago48:47

48:47

In this episode I sit down with an amazing poet Loveth and talk about her art, she performs a bit of her work and tells us about her journey so far.

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27, CELIBATE AND LEARNING (Part 2) 1:33:42

3+ y ago1:33:42

1:33:42

In this episode Eketti and I talk about celibacy, learning as you grow and everything in between.

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I USED TO BE MUSLIM 1:28:02

3+ y ago1:28:02

1:28:02

In this episode Musty and I talk about conversion. His journey to Christ, being and growing up Muslim, telling his family about his new faith and how difficult but rewarding it’s been to be Christian.

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DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 3 9:07

3+ y ago9:07

9:07

In this episode I write another letter to My Future Husband about what turning 27 and healing.

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4: Joy Bryant 2:11:39

3+ y ago2:11:39

2:11:39

This week Selema Talks to Joy Bryant After a 6 month hiatus, What Shapes Us returns! In this episode, Selema gets candid about why the podcast took such a long layoff and how the net effect of Covid, American race relations and the election took a definitive toll on his mental health. This week features a conversation between Selema and one of his …

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27, Celibate and Growing. (Part 1) 1:21:27

3+ y ago1:21:27

1:21:27

In this episode Adanna and I talk about getting older, being celibate and things we’ve learnt. There’s a Q&A in this podcast about me being celibate. Enjoy!

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DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 2 23:26

4y ago23:26

23:26

These letters follow my journey of confronting myself, healing, loss and the final admittance of how I really feel. Enjoy!

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RAGE 1:15:02

4y ago1:15:02

1:15:02

In this episode Ada and I talk about Rage, loss and the rage that comes with loss. We are completely broken open in this episode about different points in our lives. We have another special guest answer a few questions about Rage and her journey out of it.

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3: Matty Matheson 1:31:54

4+ y ago1:31:54

1:31:54

In this episode Selema reflects on the high stakes, polarizing dance that is the social media landscape whilst musing on the stamina necessary to last in the podcast game. Selema proudly welcomes chef Matty Matheson for a raw and open conversation about pivoting, race, family, honesty and the importance of remaining true to who you are over everyth…

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THE CONVERSATION 1:26:12

4+ y ago1:26:12

1:26:12

In this episode I get a couple of people to contribute on a conversation that I think is long overdue.

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2: Dr. Ayana Elizabeth Johnson 1:57:42

4+ y ago1:57:42

1:57:42

The ocean has a deep meaning to me and in this episode I get into why surfing and the ocean is so imbedded in who I am as a human being. That is why on this episode I’m beyond ecstatic about our guest, Dr. Ayana Elizabeth Johnson. She is a marine biologist, policy expert, writer, and Brooklyn native. She is founder and CEO of Ocean Collectiv, Urban…

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DATING 101 1:28:41

4+ y ago1:28:41

1:28:41

In this episode I get different submissions from a couple of awesome people on what dating is, share real time conversation with a friend and drop some gist of my past dating career lol.

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Trailer 4:20

4+ y ago4:20

4:20

Welcome to the What Shapes Us Podcast. Here is a taste of whats to come this season. Subscribe now where ever you get your podcast.

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FAITH, STYLE AND ‘WHAT’S TYPICAL’. 43:50

4+ y ago43:50

43:50

This episode is sponsored by BLESSED AFRIQUE. We talk about having style and being a Christian. What a ‘typical’ Christian needs to look like and if there is even something like a ‘typical’ Christian. Three awesome guests; June, Chibem and Fisayo share their take on the topic. A big thank you to our sponsor @blessedafriqueboutique…

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DO YOU LIKE YOUR PARTNER? 42:20

4+ y ago42:20

42:20

In this episode I talk about liking a person for their individuality and not for how they make you feel. My aim is to help you go on a path of introspection and step out of the bubble of selfishness that we as humans too often like to exist in when it comes to love and relationships in our lives.

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DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 10:04

4+ y ago10:04

10:04

In this episode I bring season 2 to an end and I share some of the letters in my Dear future husband collection.

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THE LONE WOLF 28:05

4+ y ago28:05

28:05

In this episode I talk about the importance of community and how the faith walk was never meant to be done alone.

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EFFORT IS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE 33:55

4+ y ago33:55

33:55

In this episode I talk about simple ways you can make an effort the partners you’re with or intending to be with. A lot of times it’s not about the amount of money you spend, it’s about the gesture and the thought behind what you do.

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JO DEEP’s SALVATION STORY 46:36

4+ y ago46:36

46:36

In this episode I got Jo deep to tell josh and I his salvation story from beginning. When I first heard parts of it I thought it was really interesting and I wanted you guys to hear it too.

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SUBMISSION 48:43

4+ y ago48:43

48:43

In this episode I talk to Jo deep and Joshua about Submission as described in the Bible. We go further to explain the text in detail and throw more light on why it is important to understand the text, understand why and what it is saying, and to possess proper knowledge. It is our hope that men and women listen and not only break free from situatio…