(Formerly Break Time on Westside) A young, witty, Kenyan guy's outlook on Love, Sex & Relationships in Nairobi, Kenya and the world at-large. Hosted by Sir Denver B, expect a mini-marathon of comedy, insight and controversial opinions with a dash of charm. New episodes out every Tuesday & Friday.
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#528: More Attractive, Less Options, More Likes? (Even More Unpopular Opinions)
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>Give your feedback here< It's all deep and into the feelings on this one as the episode tries to address deeper conversations regarding feelings. A talk of the lack of financial support among feminine friendships ignites a discussion about why male friendships involve financial support less hesitantly. From there, a look into emotionally unstable …
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#527: Single Fish, Single Parents, Many Problems
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about deep-rooted issues in this episode as things go from nasty to serious and possibly even existential. There's an Indian man who decided to have some exotic fish in the most backward way ever, leading to a hospital visit. From there, a woman's beliefs on not dating people from 'single-parent households' sparks…
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#526: Is It Cheating If You're Not Married Yet? (More Unpopular Opinions)
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>Give your feedback here< It's an episode filled with money and love, and how those two could make or break a commitment. A lady is trying to tell women to go all in on clitocurrency, but Sir Denver B is wondering how we got this far in the first place. A second look at some unpopular opinions reveals another observation on how money doesn't mean s…
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#525: Settling, Money & A Whole Lot of Delulu
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about money and 'delulu' as the idea of settling comes prepackaged as 'downdating'. There's a recent kink that's baffling Sir Denver B in its practices and source of pleasure, and there's no understanding this form of 'sex' work. A lady put up a video on dating down and asked for women's opinions on it as hers wer…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode trying to show the power of love, some opinions may divide some but love shall unite us all. Sir Denver B talks on the power of love showing how far both men and women can go in the pursuit of their loved one's happiness. From there, a look at some of the less spoken about opinions of dating, controversial li…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all on the sides as the side-chick becomes the main topic of discussion in this episode. An old story of Muamar Gaddafi doing side quests while leading Libya piques Denver B's interest as the details baffle anyone who listens to the details. From there, a lady with experience as a side-chick brings forth the idea that…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode questioning the value of actions, a research study is left wanting after Sir Denver B wonders why so much effort was put into something so basic. There are tweets all about dating, yet appreciation and reciprocation are the name of the game. Men seem to be disappearing from their dates, women need to be dated…
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#521: "If They Fall First, I Fall Harder"
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about falling in love in this episode and a retired socialite is recommending summer bunnies... And Sir Denver B agrees with her! There's a twist to it though... A post by a Reddit user exposes a belief system that is held by many at the expense of the opposite sex, all for the sole purpose of guarding them from e…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode full of dating talk, some time is set aside to address bad cheating habits. A woman exposes the lengths of her infidelity to elaborate Christianity at its (alleged) best and we're there to critique it. From there, the question of what unprotected sex is (really) leaves a lot on the table before the question o…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode full of the discussion of men, Sir Denver B gets emotional. There's a rising problem with more and more people getting hooked on changing their look using cosmetic surgery. From there, a combination of stories and talking points raises the question of whether the idea of men being providers is being abused an…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about understanding in this episode and there's women in it, the government's in there and there's a series to break down. The Nairobi county government is running out of "safe" taxing options so it takes a swing at the animal-lovers. From there, there's talk of the cons of pretty privilege, there's a discussion o…
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#517: Are Women Focused on 'Simple' Things?
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode filled with talking about women, men's issues reigned supreme. There's a woman who's been charged for spying in exchange for smaller pleasures and something about the story seems fishy. There's also been a lot of talk about what the statistics say about men's attractiveness online. Some good and some bad, it'…
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#516: Can You Love And Manipulate At The Same Time?
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>Give your feedback here< It's a new episode and we're back in full gear discussing weird relationships and wild ideas on why men have large guts. We've also been nominated for two APVA awards and we've got the links for you to vote for your favourite podcast. There's something in the air about keeping a man and whether food or manipulation, it's d…
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#515: Do Better Friends Reduce Casual Sex?
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>Give your feedback here< It's a return to full episodes as the idea of 'raw-dogging' takes hold in the sneakiest of ways. Interestingly, it's nowhere near what you think it's about. Sir Denver B decides to go back to the previous episode's discussion to extract something since the whole talk about hookers and why men feel the 'need' for sex left s…
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#514: Hooker vs Hook Up: A Different Perspective
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>Give your feedback here< A Reddit post recognizing the value of prostitution is seen as the remarks of an incel before the record is straight on the value of the world's oldest profession. There's definitely value in it but there's more to sex than hookers and hook-ups can provide, or so Sir Denver B believes... The Break Time Podcast Instagram: h…
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>Give your feedback here< After someone makes a joke criticizing a Timbaland hit from 2007, Sir Denver B goes into full attack mode speaking on the dating standards today and how they compare to to the dating standards in the early 2000s as per their hits... The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreaktime_podcast/ My Instag…
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#512: The Future of Hookup Culture Is... Prostitution?
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>Give your feedback here< A Reddit post on hookup culture outlines the sexcapades of men seeking female pleasure and how the pursuit seems to be losing steam. There's fewer men approaching women statistically, and more men (allegedly) are embracing prostitution and/or opting for casual hookups. So what does the future hold for a people that embrace…
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>Give your feedback here< A video from a mature lady on why men can't understand women's choice to not date initiates a discussion on whether there's truth in what she said. Are men single by circumstance or do we have the agency to decide whether we want companionship or not? Let's hear what's what... The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.…
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#510: Revisiting Dating Dynamics from 2000s (A Smallville Breakdown)
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>Give your feedback here< Banter about Smallville between Sir Denver B and a friend uncovers the differences between dating (and people) in the early 2000s and dating (and people) in 2024. The drama, the show of affection and the dating was very different. Wanna know how? Just listen... The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/th…
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>Give your feedback here< In a short but direct episode, we seek to find the answer to a question rarely asked but often alluded to. Someone believes that most masculinity is based off of owning and controlling women... But is that true? The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreaktime_podcast/ My Instagram: https://www.inst…
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>Give your feedback here< It's an episode with roots engrained in money and dating and what that should be like for most people. There's also something about the LGBTQ+ community not being good drivers. Senegal's president happened to show Kenya that unlike our president, taxes can be brought down (#rejectfinancebill) and there's growth to be made …
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode full of harsh treatment, the 'coming out' of X implies that they never knew of the explicit content circulating... As if we believe them. There's a new premium condom released that warrants a look into the rising cost of condoms and why they're nearly double the price they were 7 years ago. From there, the cu…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about family on this episode, whether you want it or not. There's a billionaire trying to kill himself using marine exploration, and we're here for it. There's also an incoming form of male birth control and women (surprisingly) are the most pressed about it. From there, it's all about family as a man is asked to …
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#505: What Happened to the Dating Market?
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>Give your feedback here< It's anything but jokes on this episode as some people prepare to catch flights while others try to shun catching feelings. Dubai tries to turn itself into a gamers' paradise using residential means and it just might work. There's also an artist who's been celibate for close to a decade, which by today's standards is amazi…
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#504: Dear Sidechics, There's Rules To This Sh*t
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>Give your feedback here< It's a look into the many boundaries of our lives and where, how and why we need to respect them. Initially, the Olympics get "Anti-sex" beds and there's noise to be made. There's also a question of what men can say to other men before it becomes sus. From there, there's a breakdown of why situationships aren't equal to re…
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#503: Cuckolding - Would You Do It For The Money?
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>Give your feedback here< It's an episode about the lengths taken for the ones we love and how much understanding some of us can have in the face of audacity-led bullshit because, wueh! But before that, the UK Prime Minister is trying to militarize your kids and Sir Denver B is all for it, but why? A wild story of character development from a lesbi…
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#502: It's 2024. I Can Take Her Name Too!
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about understanding on this episode which features a man's loss of life which is anything but understandable. There's a look into the 'wonderful' world of open arrangements in relationships and its pros and cons. From there, we take a look into whether pretty privilege affects men, why it's so hard for men to be f…
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>Give your feedback here< We're back! After a bit of contemplating and some coaxing, it's time to get back to business. The UK voted on their sexiest man for this year and it's not who you think. There's a woman that (rare event loading) takes accountability and admits that she was the problem during a date. From there, an online post speaking on s…
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>Give your feedback here< It's been 500 good episodes full of content. There's a lot to share, a lot to remember, and a lot to be thankful for. But as we share, the question of what next looms over us. Do we continue or do we close the book here? The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreaktime_podcast/ My Instagram: https:/…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about beliefs and betrayal in this episode as a priest spends over $40k on games, or so we think. There's a lack of understanding regarding soul ties and someone has to critique it before tweets are discussed. From there, we look into whether dating earlier is dating better, whether men can catch their cheating pa…
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#498: All You Need Is Better Sex... Right?
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>Give your feedback here< In a twist of sides, the ladies are defended by one who is used to defending the men. It all starts with a man who took metaphorical chops to a literal level when he cut his wife's ears. Another man explains why your dream girl may be more of someone else's potential nightmare. From there, a Reddit post slamming men for th…
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>Give your feedback here< Equal-opportunity callouts are the order of this episode that kicks off with "fuck you" money being reduced by the worst actors in the money game. There's also a deep dive into why age is more than just a number and why the differences work differently, depending on gender. From there, the men are called out for lacking lo…
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#496: The Un-Secret Lives of Un-Faithful Married Men
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode big on exposition, learning is at its core in more ways than one. Kenyan men were recently ranked the sexiest, but it's not worth much in Kenya. There's an online debate involving women, men and bears, and there are reasons why all the women chose the bear. From there, a post criticizing faithful married men …
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>Give your feedback here< In a more laid-back episode, the approach is to take the serious pants off for a bit and address smaller issues; like why Andrew Tate thinks fun sex is gay. There's a quick look at why some professions make it harder to be seen as dateable before seeing what makes a profession more appealing to the opposite sex. From there…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about drama in the head as a man tries to overturn his Life Sentence by claiming that he died for a short period, thus serving his sentence. Makes sense, right? After a quick discussion on how colourism isn't linked to gender stereotyping, a video on a woman's sexless marriage brings forth questions on the validit…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about the controversial opinion regarding women, sex and dating in this episode as different views go against the grain on topics normally spoken with a particular bias. Free passports are being given though, before 21 year-old's idea of dating is misrepresented. From there, we've got to explain how 'raw' thoughts…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode discussing relationship drama, spectating is the name of the game. A study claims that South African women have the biggest derrieres, and Sweden ranked third... THIRD!? A post on DV influences a talk on generalizing relationship issues before news of an athlete's supposed infidelity ignites conversation on w…
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#491: A Relationship Podcast Full of Clichés
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode trying to stay on-brand, an episode is made to mirror the sentiments of someone who claimed that Kenyan podcasts are all done the same. Except for the fun cheetah fact, because that was unique AF. After including a talk on sending nudes and handling money in relationships, a couple of tweets are discussed reg…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode touching on the more sensitive side of men, we take a look at how money affects relationships. Before that, there's a wild couple that seems to have some of the weirdest kinks known to most. There's also something about the system screwing kids. From there, after a Reddit post questions a man's financial posi…
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#489: Don't Save Her, She Don't Want To Be Saved
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode touching on accountability, prostitution and the place of men in society today, a set of conjoined twins get married. There's a bunch of threesome jokes as a result. A sex worker's unconsented video negotiation gathers steam as people rush to help her, and I have an idea why it's not the exact opposite reacti…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about accountability in this episode except for a start that features a big person with big negativity. It's then becomes about the 'church boys' and their pains as they navigate the streets with devious women. From there, a question which ignites a debate online challenges the realities of multiple men as I seek …
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>Give your feedback here< There's something in the air, and then there's dating in this episode. The men are put to task as America's utility problems push people to make heat not love. There's also someone who claims that it's easier to bag a career woman over other types and that needs to be cross-examined. From there, there's a question of how m…
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#486: Where Are All The Good Men/Women Hiding?
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about dating (or lack thereof) on this episode which kicks things off with more election stories than ever. There's a new young African president and there's way more interesting things than the fact that he's polygamous. All that said, there seems to be a significant shortage of 'good' mates in the dating market.…
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#485: Is It Settling or An Intelligent Decision?
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>Give your feedback here< It's another episode with men taking centre stage in questioning and explaining the male experience. It starts with a 92-year-old's engagement announcement before the concept of settling down is discussed. From there, it's a question of why dating sucks these days, why the red pill may have been telling the truth and wheth…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode that started with unity, the men are getting singled out for their complacency. Japanese men stand out for reasons that would be considered financially retarded in Nairobi, but I'm about to speak for their strategy. On the brands that most Kenyan women love, financial services reign supreme. Does this mean th…
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>Give your feedback here< We're back to the various thoughts shared via tweets as things are kicked off with a sexually frustrated man's breakdown of his conditions should his (conjugal) rights not be respected/satisfied. From there we look at the 'domesticated woman' trend and whether it's a correction before we question whether age should remain …
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>Give your feedback here< In a return to previous form, the full episodes resume with a piece of news that would make a french woman "Réjouissance". An eye-opening set of confessions online remind people why safe sex is great sex, and latex is definitely going to be a must. From there, with a post once discussed, I take a look at the comments to po…
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#481: Why We All Want That 'Kienyeji' Love
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>Give your feedback here< In a bid to go for simple, I stumbled onto a talk about the rural/village relationships and how they're longer lasting and seemingly more fulfilled than our city types. A deep (but simple) dive takes us to a point where kienyeji love is questioned on its purity and durability over time. There are some simple answers which …
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>Give your feedback here< After a man's weekend ordeal finds its way to Reddit, the talk of simps eating dust are blasted across the comments. But in-between the talk of simping and a re-read of the entire situation, I realise that we might be crucifying this man for the wrong crime. If it's not simping though, then what was it? The Break Time Podc…
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>Give your feedback here< After a video of a woman advising women to use contraceptives to deter men from infidelity goes viral, a recent problem re-emerges. There's a wave of women on TikTok giving tactics on bagging and retaining men as well as deterring them from infidelity. The tactics range from weird to downright devious and evil yet most of …
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