Best Swoon With Us Podcasts (2024)

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307: What's the difference between feminine storm and feminine rage? (ft. Shana James) 48:57

2h ago48:57

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Have you ever been scared of your wife / woman partner? Ever been harmed by her? If yes, it's likely you never felt like you could talk to anyone about it because you were afraid of what they would say, or whether they would shame you. In polarity work, we often talk about feminine storm. But where's the line between feminine storm, feminine rage, …

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Will Ponsonby of Hobart, Tasmania and Off Court Sports 18:04

3d ago18:04

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Meet Will Ponsonby who is by trade both an electrical engineer and a former badminton champion in Hobart and the state of Tasmania in Australia. He also runs Off Court Sports (221 Liverpool Street, Hobart) where you can find all the gear for your favourite sports, even if it's not pickleball! Historical markers of the week include Adolph Hitler, JJ…

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Say it in Red | Episode 52: Raging Loop (Part 1 of 2) 1:53:14

6d ago1:53:14

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You are traveling alone on a dark highway late at night. Desperate for a place to rest your weary frame, and maybe a distraction from the terrible break-up that set you on this journey, you turn down a narrow mountain road. The pavement abruptly vanishes beneath you and a rock flies up pat your face - that's right, you're on a motorcycle. Really a …

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306: Boner shame! Let's talk about it. (ft. Jason Lange) 49:25

6d ago49:25

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"I’m getting a boner — what’s she going to think??" So begins the conflict for a lot of boys and men have around their cock. From a young age -- basically from the time boners start to be a thing, "It’s like a lot of men are constantly tracking, ‘Am I having an erection and if I do, how do I hide it?’" The thing is, hiding and secrets go hand-in-ha…

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Dr Gerry Smith, how to get along with 'the other' 18:04

11d ago18:04

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Gerry is a lecturer in sociology and in the school of religion at University of Sydney and also at University of Tasmania. She has a lot to say and Bob also shares his views about text-based religion. It's Passover week; the Bible verse is a hit. This episode is actually part 2 of 2, concluding the episode we began last week. Historical markers of …

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305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming 1:40:24

13d ago1:40:24

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Did you grow up with a religious background? Then congrats, you likely experienced sexual shame! Perhaps you still do to this day. The truth is, it's deeply confusing to grow up having completely natural sexual urges, but be told you're bad or wrong for having them. In the words of the panelists: "For a long time I thought, 'What’s wrong with me? W…

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Dr Gerry Smith, lecturer in sociology at University of Sydney on the interfaith movement 18:04

14d ago18:04

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Gerry Smith is originally from Sydney and spends half the year lecturing there and in Hobart, Tasmania on religion, on religious movements, and especially with a bent on the sociology of religion. She has a lot to say about young people and inclusion, about key challenges to those involved in interfaith activity (or non activity), and this is only …

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304: What happens if you or your partner needs space? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:09:18

21d ago1:09:18

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"Needing space within a love relationship is crucial for maintaining my identity ... It’s not merely about taking a break; it’s about preserving a sense of self that can slowly wither in the absence of such space." So says one of our clients, eloquently speaking to the need and also the cost of not getting space when it's required. Here we discuss …

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303: 'Boys have as rich an inner life as girls do.' (ft. Nat Damon of Reach Academy for Young Men)) 1:11:54

28d ago1:11:54

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When you were a boy, did you feel comfortable being your full self? Did you feel at ease around becoming a man -- like you knew what that meant and smoothly moved into that identity? We live in a world where boys and young men often feel like it's not safe to be themselves, and where it can be confusing to grow into manhood. According to Nat Damon,…

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Resurrection... what does that mean? With Bob Mendelsohn 18:01

1M ago18:01

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The concept did not originate in the Christian world, it's Jewish! The prophets of Elijah and Elisha raised people from the dead, and it's recorded in our Holy Scriptures. So it's not a surprise that the Jewish believers in Yeshua also saw that as part of our proper theological view. Certainly the Orthodox Jewish world today still holds to that tho…

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Say it in Red | Episode 51: Steins;Gate 2:36:58

1M ago2:36:58

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Readers, Friends, Members of the Scientific Community! You, astute as you are, may recall a moment in the distant past in which Sara and Runa adamantly proclaimed that they would never cover Steins;Gate on the podcast - This memory which some of you may hold is LIVING PROOF of the phenomena which we will henceforth discuss in today's episode. You s…

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302: 'I ask for stories about the sex that changed you.' (ft. Carly, creator of Aurore) 1:14:24

1M ago1:14:24

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What if you could read about the sex that affected someone so profoundly they were never the same? What if you wrote about the sex that changed you in that way? If you're turned on by audio porn, ASMR, or sexy stories (either reading them or them being read to you), you're not alone. While we seem to be fixated on men being obsessed with visual por…

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301: What's the difference between therapy and coaching? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:03:20

1M ago1:03:20

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"As men, it often feels like we should just know how to succeed in a relationship, how to be great in bed, how to be successful in life, all under the counterintuitive expectation that we figure it all out on our own and never ask for help." Part of our my intention with this podcast is to help men succeed in sex, dating, and relationships with wom…

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300: What's it like to do MDMA therapy with your wife? (ft. Lucas) 1:24:08

2M ago1:24:08

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A lot of our clients crave more intimacy or closeness with their wife/relationship partner. Often this includes a longing, or a sense of something missing. As Lucas, our guest here, put it, "The feeling I recall most strongly was a sense of loneliness." Have you ever felt lonely in your relationship? If you’ve wished you and your partner were close…

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299: Matchmaking: Is it still relevant? (ft. Anika Rashaun) 1:02:42

2M ago1:02:42

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Would you ever consider using a matchmaker? In a world of dating apps (and let's be real -- those are rough for a LOT of people!), not to mention a whole lotta ghosting, matchmaking is an appealing notion for many. Plus, matchmakers play a unique role in that they speak to both parties, before and after dates. They're able, therefore, to give peopl…

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Swoon theory, Jewish hoax and a resurrection 18:00

2M ago18:00

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Bob speaks in answering two questions, one from a Jewish doctor over coffee and the other from a Christian man about three days and three nights and the apparent contradiction in the Word. How to solve those? Historical marker includes the UN taking over Gaza, Marcus Aurelius and Bloody Sunday. Support the Show. Thanks for listening. Please share t…

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298: Becoming skillful at sexual communication -- let's talk about it. (ft. Kristen Carney of Ask Women) 57:34

2M ago57:34

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This episode is pulled from the podcast Ask Women, where I myself was the guest! We delve into my sex research here, in which I asked over 1,065 women about the men who were best in bed. But this isn't just about finding the clit. It's a deeper conversation about how to talk about difficult subjects. Why is hard to talk about what we actually like …

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Say it in Red | Episode 50: Loopers 1:31:37

2M ago1:31:37

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Good Morning Dear Readers, it's the wonderful day of February 29th, a day that only comes around once every four years! On this rare occasion we wanted to bring you an equally rare creation: Loopers, a kinetic novel developed by Key and written by Ryukisho07 of 07th Expansion! It's all about the wonderful day of August 1st, a day that only comes ar…

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297: The problems with polarity (ft. Jason Lange) 50:50

2M ago50:50

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Polarity can help you have a hot sex & dating life, not to mention a stronger love relationship overall. And like many things in life, it's not a perfect concept; there are issues with it. "In what ways have you found polarity to be useful in your sex and relationship life? In what ways have you found it to be off or problematic?" I posed these que…

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296: What does it actually mean to step into your power? (ft. Jason Lange) 48:31

3M ago48:31

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As a woman, I sometimes feel like saying to all the Nice Guys out there: We need you! We need you on the court, in the game, on the field of Life. We need you not just as romantic partners (though we do desperately want you there), but as fathers, as colleagues, as teammates. And we need you to be in your power. We need you to be able to speak up f…

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Is not remembering a sin? Really? What is the point of recall? 17:26

3M ago17:26

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In this episode, Bob speaks about the purpose of remembering AND some useful aids in gaining a good memory. Zooming in on his father's memory, and his yahrtzeit, Bob looks backwards so that he sees God's mercies. The historical markers of the week are all from the 20th century and include RUR, Margaret Thatcher, Nelson Mandela and the Ayatolla of I…

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295: Ever 'fallen into' a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 52:42

3M ago52:42

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Here's a pattern we've noticed in a lot of the men we work with: They've never gone after the women they really wanted. As one man put it, "A lot of times the girls that I’ve attracted have come to me … and haven't been the most stable." For some men, these dating relationships have even turned into marriages -- without the man necessarily wanting …

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294: How do I rebuild trust with a partner? (ft. me!) 31:54

3M ago31:54

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It's a solo episode! I pulled together some questions from clients or listeners, and go into depth on them. Remember that you can always send me your question or questions -- just email me at dearmenpodcast@gmail.com. Everything is on the table, from sex and dating to relationships and repair. I want to hear from you! Here are the questions I answe…

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Say it in Red | Episode 49: Slay The Princess 1:32:13

3M ago1:32:13

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You're on a narrow mountain path at the edge of dusk, on your way to a cabin that holds a captive princess. You might be confused or wary - Don't be. There's only one thing you have to do now: Continue down the narrow path, enter the cabin, pick up the knife, and listen to the voices on your podcast tell you what they think about killing the Prince…

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293: Give it to me whining! (Ft. Jason & Violet Lange) 1:02:16

3M ago1:02:16

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Does it feel exiting for your woman to be fully open with you, feel deeply cherished, and want to f*** your brains out? Then you’re going to want to listen to this one. You’re likely familiar with polarity — that sacred dance between alpha & omega. It’s a potent force that shows up in dating, sex, love relationships, and beyond (and helps explain t…

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292: Sex life with your wife not where you want it to be? This could be the culprit (ft. Violet & Jason Lange) [replay] 1:07:28

4M ago1:07:28

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If you want a thriving sex and relationship life, you'll benefit from knowing about polarity. Polarity, shorthand for the healthy dance between omega energy (aka feminine) and alpha energy (aka masculine), is both life-affirming and hot, whether it's in the context of dating or a long-term relationship. In man/woman relationships, when a man embodi…

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291: Want to get better at dating? Here are 3 ways to practice with women (ft. Violet Lange) 46:29

4M ago46:29

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As a client recently put it, where do you go to "scrimmage" with women? How and where do you practice relating, flirting, and connecting with the feminine? It can feel like the stakes are high once you're on an actual date (not to mention getting to sexy time and beyond). Here we talk all about that! We cover communities where relating (and practic…

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Morgan Lindsay from New Zealand on climate change, Israel and rugby 18:30

4M ago18:30

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Morgan Lindsay lives in New Zealand. She is a trained geologist with a love of sport, music and dance, disaster relief, and her nieces and nephews. A great all-rounder, you will enjoy spending 18 minutes with this lady. We met in Turkey and she and her partner Hayden loved the rocks and all-natural sites we saw throughout. She works as a Climate Ri…

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290: Teaching healthy masculinity in schools! The Inspiring Men Project (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh) 1:18:54

4M ago1:18:54

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When you were growing up, did you have a host of great role models when it came to how to be a good man? No, probably not. The vast majority of men with whom we work lacked solid role models for healthy masculinity, both at home and at school. This damaged their ability to succeed in dating, relationships, and sex, and led to a lot of suffering. Sc…

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Say it in Red | Episode 48: Paranormasight 1:57:56

4M ago1:57:56

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Dear Listeners, have you ever struggled to see something out of the corner of your eye? Has a local legend ever stuck in your mind, not for its content but for its puzzling omissions? Have you looked behind your screen at the figure flitting away from the light? Never fear - many listeners have reported to us that they suffer from a lack of normasi…

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289: Do Nice Guys tend to attract volatile women? (ft. Jason Lange) 56:19

4M ago56:19

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Ever been in a relationship where you felt like it started off GREAT, but over time it became really hard? Ever felt like you had electric sex with someone, especially at the beginning, but then you were often put in the doghouse for doing something "wrong," and that eventually you ended up constantly walking on eggshells to try not to trigger your…

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