18+ ONLY!!! Since August 2021, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr have embarked on an exciting venture in The Kinky Tavern Podcast, an educational podcast dedicated to exploring the world of kink, BDSM, and leather while centering the perspective of those with disabilities. Together, we delve into various facets of the BDSM scene, encompassing topics such as kinks, dynamics, relationships, and much more! To enrich the discussion, we frequently welcome guest speakers who generously share their firsthand ...
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Episode 130: Do Something! Exploring the Identity(ies)-Focused Mission of Mx. Van Ethan Levy
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CW: transphobia, homophobia, living in the world as someone in the LGBTQPIA2S+ community Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental he…
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Episode 129: Beyond Dominance and Submission - Power Exchange vs Authority Transfer with Master Devyn Stone
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Episode Summary: In the realms of kink and BDSM, we talk about Power Exchange a lot, but what does that actually mean? Does it realistically cover the transaction happening within your dynamic? This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr are sitting down with our good friend, Master Devyn Stone to talk about their ideas on Power Exchange and how the …
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Episode 128: Elevated Desires - Cannabis, Kink, and the Art of Sensual Exploration
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CW: marijuana and it’s use within kink and sex Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you nee…
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Episode 127: Navigating the Depths - Training in Power Dynamics with Nuance and Intention
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr discuss the idea and practice of Training in the kink and BDSM world. We delve deeper into the complexities of power dynamics, consent negotiations, and skill development within kink and BDSM. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner seeking new insights or a curious enthusiast eager to expan…
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Episode 126: Learning to THRIVE with Master Devyn Stone
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr are sitting down with our good friend, Master Devyn Stone to talk about the exciting educational opportunities coming up! Devyn is the founder of Pragmatically Kinking, an organization which offers virtual classes, panels, and presentations up to 6 times every month covering topics about ki…
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Episode 125: WAM without the H and the ! - Messy Play
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Episode Summary: This week, we’re talking about Messy Play! Sploshing, WAM, Wet and Messy; whatever you call it, getting down and dirty as a kink ccan be lots of fun! Join us this week as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr talk about messy play! What is it? How does it show up in the world? Why are people interested in it? How can one participate? Wha…
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Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is something we enjoyed doing last time and got good feedback on The Kinky Tavern Podcast: Reddit reactions! Join us on the Reddit Rainbow as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr react to stories from subreddits such as r/AITAH, r/sextips, r/bdsm, and r/NSFW_Switch_Community. We’ll read the post an…
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Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is something we enjoyed doing last time and got good feedback on The Kinky Tavern Podcast: Reddit reactions! Join us on the Reddit Rainbow as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr react to stories from subreddits such as r/AITAH, r/sextips, r/bdsm, and r/NSFW_Switch_Community. We’ll read the post an…
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Episode 122: Switchy Shenanigans with Neko and Master Silence
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Episode Summary: Today’s episode is full of Switchy Shenanigans as the two switchy hosts, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr sit down with switchy friend Neko (they/them), and their chaotic and understanding partner, Silence (he/him). With the mission of giving a bit of a deeper perspective on switches, we gathered in this quasi-panel to discuss daily …
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Episode 121: Tradwives- aesthetic, lifestyle, or slippery slope?
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CW: highly gendered language and ideology, conservative politics and the harm it does, racism, misogyny, homophobia, transphobia Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next epis…
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CW: brief mention of abuse/sexual assault and their consensual roleplay counterparts Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health em…
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Episode Summary: Today we are finally covering a hugely popular and even titular topic within BDSM, rope! We’re bringing in our friend Hope Lythi, a rope educator, bottom, and service top! She shares with us a ton of information from the ins and outs of the rope community to correcting misconceptions about the practice of rope! Resources for this e…
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Episode 118: Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr's Dynamic and Contract
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Episode Summary: Have you ever been curious about how dynamics work? Have you ever wondered about our dynamic? This week, we are discussing just that! What exactly is a dynamic? A role? What can a contract look like? How does this work in real life? Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they discuss all of this and more as well as share their own …
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CW: brief mention of abuse/sexual assault and their consensual roleplay counterparts Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health em…
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Episode 116: Disclosing Desires and Identities
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CW: mental health, rejection, brief mention of SI Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you nee…
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Episode 115: Gor Abridged - Reacting to the 1987 Gor film
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CW: slavery, sexual violence, fantasy violence Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need h…
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Episode Summary: This week, we’re getting back to basics and Breaking Down B.D.S.M as a term! What does BDSM mean? What does it stand for? There’s definitely more to it and much more misinformation out there about it than you might think! Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr to cover the abbreviation and its definitions and nuances in this episode o…
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Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is something we’ve never done before on The Kinky Tavern Podcast: Reddit reactions! Join us on the Reddit Rainbow as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr react to stories from subreddits such as r/AITAH, r/sextips, r/bdsm, and r/NSFW_Switch_Community. We’ll read the post and give our perspectives, …
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Episode 112: Between Trust and Surrender - Unveiling the Dynamics of Consensual Non-Consent
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Episode 111: The Kinky Clinic - Unveiling the Secrets of Medical Play!
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Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is all about Medical Play! Join us as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr delve into the captivating world of kink known as medical play. From exploring the psychological depths of role-playing medical scenarios to discovering how everyday medical equipment can be repurposed for pleasure, this epi…
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Episode 110: Our Southwest Master slave Conference Experience
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down to talk about their experiences at Southwest Master slave Conference 2023! We discuss the diversity, the accessibility, the general vibe, and so much more! Join us this week to hear about this Colorado con! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recomme…
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Episode 109: Lady Katerina’s Indigenous Perspective of Cigar Service Part Two
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are back with Lady Katerina, to finish up our conversation on Sacred Tobacco and get to know the Lady herself! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. You’ll learn what the Kinky Bibliophile herself suggests as …
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Episode 108: Lady Katerina’s Indigenous Perspective of Cigar Service
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TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in tr…
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Episode 107: The Marvelous Moxie Minion on Mentorship in Leather
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen get the chance to talk with the marelous Moxie Minion, mentor to our very own Lord Allen! Moxie has been a mentee and a mentor, making her doubly qualified to join in on this episode about Mentorship in Leather! Both Lord Allen and Moxie talk about their mentorship experiences…
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Episode 106: Conscious Language with Master Devyn Stone - Part 2
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Episode 105: Conscious Language with Master Devyn Stone Part 1
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TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some possibly triggering language. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggl…
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Episode 104: Boundaries- Finding, Setting, and Handling Negative Responses
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are covering boundaries! Boundaries are so important both in the kink realm and in the rest of the world. In this episode, we’ll talk about what a boundary is and is not, what types of boundaries you can consider, and how to find and set your own personal boundaries. We’ll als…
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Episode 103: What's goin' on with your pod? - updates on The Kinky Tavern Team
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are finally joined once again by the incomparable Lord Allen! First off, we have a correction for our needleplay episode, courtesy of Princess Rara of The Pink Kink Podcast and The Pink Kink Institute! We also discuss our opinions on educators and being open to corrections and learning new things!…
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Episode 102: There's No Safeword when it comes to Chemical Play
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Episode 101: The Fun of Needles in Kink - Appreciating the Art Without Appropriating the Culture
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Episode 100: A View into the Vast Vortex of Vore
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Episode 99: Role Play and the Role it Plays in Kink
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down to talk about Role Play! How do you do it? How do you talk about it? How do you decide who is playing what role? Why would you even want to role play? We’ll discuss these burning questions and more, even giving a TON of examples for your own imaginative pleasure. Link…
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Episode 98: Out of Control Orgasms! - Mx Dizzy and Marquis Rekkr on Orgasm Control
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are sitting down to talk about Orgasm Control! Orgasm control is an umbrella term which covers orgasm torture, denial, delay and the ever popular, edging. We discuss what these kinks are, how they’re practiced, a few methods, the risks you oughta take into account. Join us in this episode to learn…
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Episode 97: Midwest Leather Kink Alliance with Lady Gidget
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down with Lady Gidget, the producer of Midwest Leather Kink Alliance, a contest weekend in November 2023 which will be hosting the Midwest Person of Leather and Midwest Power Exchange titles! Throughout the weekend, there will be opportunities to go back to the basics and …
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Episode 96: Playing and Participating through a Pandemic
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are starting season 3 off with a more serious topic: the Covid-19 Pandemic. For the last 3 years (almost 4, can you believe it?!), the world has been reeling from and reacting to the consequences of the Covid-19 Pandemic. When it hit, the most fun parts of our lives were the first to …
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Episode 95: What's that Sound? (feat. updates from our time at SWMsC!)
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are talking about Sounding in kink and BDSM. What is it? Can it be done safely? Why would you want to engage in this kink? Tune in to learn and hear our perspectives discussed! We also wrap up the episode with our update from Southwest Master/slave Contest weekend and let you know whe…
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are talking about Solo Play or Self Play in kink and BDSM. This can be as simple as masturbation or go far beyond! Tune in to learn what the solo and self play umbrella covers, the dangers specific to this kind of play, how to mitigate risk as much as possible. We also, as per usual, give you tips…
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Episode 93: The Carrot and the Stick - Rewards and Punishments in Kink and BDSM
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are talking about Rewards and Punishments in kink and BDSM. Have you ever heard the phrase “the carrot or the stick?” The carrot is typically seen as the reward in the phrase and the stick, the punishment. Knowing several littles and masochists who would argue this pretty hard, I have…
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Episode 92: Fear is in the Eye of the Beholder
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TW: fear, abuse Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are talking about Fear Play!! What are you afraid of? Would you benefit from facing any of those fears in a controlled, safe way? Even in the vanilla world, people play with their fear. In this episode, we will talk about what fear play is, why it’s attractive, how to …
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Episode 91: Accessibility in Kink Part 2 - Dungeons and Dynamics
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TW: ableism, abuse Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are, once again, discussing an issue near and dear to their hearts, Accessibility in Kink Spaces! This is part 2 where we talk about disability in dungeons and dynamics. If you are a person with a disability, a leader in the community, someone who loves someone with…
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Episode 90: Accessibility in Kink Spaces - More than ramps and doors
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TW: ableism Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are discussing an issue near and dear to their hearts, Accessibility in Kink Spaces! If you are a leader in the community, as someone who loves someone with a disability, or just as a human wanting to find ways to make interactions with disabled humans more positive, this …
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Episode 89: Retraction of Support from Colorado Leather Fest
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Trigger Warning: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering topics of abuse and sexual assault. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us next week! If you are experiencing a domestic violence emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with domes…
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Episode 88: 1950's Household Kink and Dynamics - Perfection or Problematic?
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Episode 87: Digging into the Alphabet Soup of Consent Theories
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This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss Consent Theories! Ever heard of those acronyms SSC? Maybe the Three C’s? RACK? PRICK? BORK? That alphabet soup makes up some of the consent theories which have been outlined and discussed at large in the BDSM and kink public. We’re going to tear these acronyms and theories apart and give our opinions on th…
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Trigger Warning: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering topics of abuse and sexual assault. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us next week! If you are experiencing a domestic violence emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with domes…
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This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s (until their power went out) talk about Fire Play! You’ve heard the old saying, if you play with fire, you’re going to get burnt. Well, this isn’t entirely untrue! In this episode, our hosts attempt to balance between sharing how to mitigate risk and be safe while avoiding instructing our listeners …
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Episode 84: Doing the Work - Moral Codes and Risk Profiles in Life, Kink, and Dynamics with Sir Luke and His victor
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This week, we are releasing part 2 of Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s conversation with Sir Luke and His victor! Sir Luke and His victor are a Master/slave couple out of the southeast United States who teach about transformative authority and control imbalance relationship dynamics. In this episode, we talk about a number of things, includin…
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Episode 83- The Sacred Act of Intentional Surrender with Sir Luke and His victor
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This week, we are releasing part 2 of Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s conversation with Sir Luke and His victor! Sir Luke and His victor are a Master/slave couple out of the southeast United States who teach about transformative authority and control imbalance relationship dynamics In this episode, we talk about a number of things, including…
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Episode 82- “An uncommon insight into the full spectrum of sensation and desire” a conversation with Lady Veronika Kestrel part 2
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This week, we are releasing part 2 of Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s conversation with Lady Veronika Kestrel aka Auntie V from Episode 80! Lady Veronika Kestrel is a Pro Dominatrix, kink educator, and creator of Kestrel Industries, a really fun community based on a “collaborative art project and fictional universe in which people turn other…
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