What is some of the worst advice that you have been given? What kind of consequences have you received as a result of following someone else and their bad advice. In this podcast we explore who we should take advice from. Do you want to be among other top shelf podcasters like myself? Click on the link below to learn more about what it takes to sta…

Have you ever wonder why you do the same thing over and over again and expect different results? In this episode I dive deep into all the reasons why we do this self-defeating behavior. Be encouraged and know that there is a way out of this. Do you want to be among other top shelf podcasters like myself? Click on the link below to learn more about …

In this episode I discuss how we as MEN long for greatness and authority, and how sometimes that can actually be very detrimental to us. Our Heart motivations are paramount when it comes to our actions and behavior. We can do all the right things for all the wrong reasons. The key to success is getting it touch with your WHY! Do you want to be amon…

Special guest Clay Smeltzer is back in the house, and we are talking about the evolutionary growth of man. We have many attributes as a man that might have been beneficial to us in the past, but these built in instincts can become detrimental to us now. It takes awareness and understanding to bust through some of these subconscious behavior pattern…

The only way to change a behavior is to interrupt and change the pattern. We often get stuck into certain behavior cycles because we never noticed them. Changing our cycles and patterns requires us to make a different decision. Do you want to be among other top shelf podcasters like myself? Click on the link below to learn more about what it takes …

"The path to success is to take massive action." Sometimes we can feed ourselves to the point of slumber, and we get addicted to the inspiration instead of getting addicted to action. We have everything we need to live a fulfilled life, but often we fail to put into practice the things that will bring us results. We settle for another book, seminar…

On this episode of Be The King, I'm here once again with our special guest for the week, NFL player turned entrepreneur, Hakeem Valles. We went straight to business as we talked about the meaning of “being a real man”. From Hakeem's perspective, he shared how much he values empathy and how important it is to give more than to take--we all know how …

On this episode of Be The King, I get to talk to NFL player turned entrepreneur Hakeem Valles on his realizations on fatherhood-- yikes! We discuss why he chose to leave a career that had him playing football for big-name teams like Arizona, Detroit, and New York. Even I don’t understand his decision - know what I’m sayin’? Join me on this down-to-…

Hakeem Valles reveals his entrepreneurial mindset as he narrates his past business endeavors. Hakeem recalls that his inclination to having a provider-mindset started back when he was in grade school. From being a grass cutter boy, putting ads on craigslist, selling stuff in middle school to being an established icon in the real estate business. Fr…

Tim is once again with Hakeem Valles in this episode of 'Be The King'. This time Hakeem recollects a significant yet a traumatic experience with bandits in Haiti. However, it was surprising that he turned this stressful experience into something that is empowering. Yes, he was greatly affected, but he did not find this as an excuse, rather, he chos…

Tim wants you to know in this episode of ‘Be The King’ that you have to do what is required to be a real king. With that, he invited Hakeem Valles, a former National Football League (NFL) player turned entrepreneur, to make his point that it really takes the right attitude to reach your dreams. In his interview, Hakeem narrates his journey as an NF…

In this episode of, "Be The King Podcast," I talk about how the critical voice always attacks us when we are weak, tried, and discouraged. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshelfpodcasters.com/ECM

I wish I could do this, I wish I could do that… Have you ever heard that B.S. play over and over in your mind? Well, stop wishing and hoping and start creating. We were born to create, it brings us fulfillment. Do you wish you had a better body, a better marriage, a better bank account? It’s easy to fall in love with the idea, we need to fall in lo…

Do you ever hear that critical voice in your head that tells you that you’re not good enough? It’s time we call B.S. and refuse to believe the lies. That critical voice preys on our insecurities, it doesn’t play fair. Ground yourself in reality, find evidence of the opposite, and call B.S. The only thing between you and greatness is that critical v…

In what ways do you refuse to face conflict, and with whom? We’ve all heard that nothing worth having comes easy, you have to be willing to fight for it. We’re not talking about fighting for your ego, we’re talking about the things in life that are worth fighting for. Do you give up when faced with pain of conflict? Tim encourages listeners to be i…

Most of us have a negative connotation when it comes to “facing reality”. We tend to focus on areas we need to improve, on what’s “wrong” with us, and embark on a never-ending quest to “fix” ourselves. Tim reminds us that our passions, strengths, and values are all a part of our reality as well. Focus on your strengths, build those up so that they …

The greatest revelation in regards to building relationships is the importance of making daily deposits. We all know that when we stop making deposits into our bank account that it becomes empty and ultimately overdrawn. This is what leads to dysfunction. Clay shares the tools he has in his belt after 3 marriages and 2 divorces, the biggest being c…

As Michael Jordan would say, “Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.” The difference is action, which one are you? We all know what we need to do, the issue is we want it quick and easy. Tim and Clay are talking about getting your body right, not getting sculpted per se, but feeling healthy. It takes all ki…

Religion has a tendency to divide people, it can be extremely polarizing and has even caused wars. That’s why we’re talking about spirituality, how you can stay connected to a bigger purpose and live a life of gratitude. Guest Clay Smeltzer says we don’t even have to fully understand our own beliefs, just live in gratitude for our daily opportuniti…

It’s all about taking personal responsibility for your life. Tim and guest Clay Smeltzer agree that tough times can be necessary for growth, it’s all about how you choose to respond. Don’t give yourself an option to stay stuck, believe that you make the choices that can change your life. Where in your life are you not pursuing greatness? What do yo…

With the help of special guest Clay Smeltzer, Tim is talking about purpose, passion, and validation from within. How often do we tell ourselves that we just need the right car, the right job, or more money? What we really need is a life of purpose, and only we can decide what that means for us. Consider your passion and develop a personal mission a…

Scar tissue is stronger than regular tissue. Realize the strength, move on. in this episode I go heart to heart and talk about how our pain is really our power. The best education taught through the pain! If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshelfpodcasters…

Today's episode is all about Daddy issues. Inspired by some feedback on social media I share my own Daddy issues with a call to action to rise above the bad examples we have been given. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshelfpodcasters.com/ECM…

The failure to be real with ourselves comes at a great price. Consider for a moment that in area of deficiency in your life there is a lie that you believe to be true. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshelfpodcasters.com/ECM…

Have you ever used the "it's not that bad," excuse? Sometimes as men we minimize the consequences to certain behaviors as a way to justify them. The only question we need to ask ourselves is, does this add value to my life or is this detrimental to me? If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow thi…

Somewhere along the way in childhood, we learn that lying works. We use it to get out of trouble, get attention, get a need fulfilled, or maybe just for entertainment. Yet part of being the KING is recognizing that lying is not going to get you what you really want. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your o…

Have you ever been to a funeral that was severely sugar-coated? This is where nobody is actually saying the truth about the deceased. They tell cute stories but everybody knows that they never really lived life. What kind of legacy do you want to leave? If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow th…

Our lives will never rise above the narrative that we tell ourselves. We as men often replay stories in our minds that are not based upon facts. In fact they are flat out lies, but we repeat them and believe them. If we want to be the KING, we must release the stories. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of you…

Alignment is when what we believe, say and do all line up. The only way to accomplish that is to stop trying to live up to the standards of other people. Standards are much easier to keep when they are your own, and you have conscientiously decided to keep them. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, …

We have have expectations for employees, children, relationships but do we have personal expectations? We have things that we will tolerate from others but do we have things that we refuse to tolerate from ourselves? If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshe…

What exactly does it mean to be the KING? This is not a ego thing or a macho man mentality. This is all about ruling your own life well. To be the KING you must have a kingdom mindset, stand in power, be noble, and walk in gratitude. A Man that can master this can truly be the KING. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a …

The first step towards any positive change is honesty. We have to get real with ourselves before transformation takes place. After we start the journey towards honesty we to begin to clarify what we really want. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshelfpod…

A lot of men expect the have a powerful intimate relationship with their wife while consuming pornography. When we allow ingredients into our life that don't belong there we suffer the effects of those choices. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshelfpodc…

The only difference between a strong a weak life is the ingredients. There are certain ingredients that produce amazing results in our life, and the lack of these ingredients cause us a lot of frustration. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshelfpodcaster…

Like the famous Metallica song goes, " this thorn in my side is from the tree I've planted". To be the KING we must understand cause and effect. Your life is your garden filled with seeds you have planted. If you don't like the fruit you are going to have to do something different. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a p…

To be able to get where you want to go, you must identify where you are currently located. Being honest about where you are at in life is the key to moving forward. To be the KING we must be willing to face the facts. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topsh…

Are you sitting around complaining about your life or are you proactively changing it. Complaining puts us into the role of victim hood and does not produce the positive change we desire. Are you going to complain about your lack of IMPACT or are you going to begin to create and build your IMPACT? The choice is yours! If you are interested in learn…

Are you okay with three hots and cot or do you want something more? The way to get the life you want is to first see it inside your mind. Many men have lost hope and have given up on their dreams. Real hope is the expectation of good in your future. Always expectation bad things to happen to you, steals the good things that could take place in your…

In this episode I challenge men to step outside of their current comfort zone. Life is safe inside of our little bubbles but victory is achieved when we step outside of it. The easy path is safe and predictable but it leads to a mediocre life. Which path are you on? If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your o…

In this episode I discuss how a lot of men are acting like a Disney princess. Why are you choosing to sleep your life away? Men, you are the one responsible for creating a life of passion. Understand this, that purpose will not fall into your lap, you must create it. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your …

In this episode I encourage MEN to step up and stop being a pansy. Do you go out in public and people mistake you for a hobo? Do you look like you have been hit in the face with a shovel? Remember that they you present yourself is a reflection on the way you do life. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your …

Have you ever heard that money is the root of all evil? Attached to every dysfunctional area of our life is a belief system that cause it to be that way. In this episode I talk about the almighty dollar and the importance of not pursuing at the expense of your IMPACT. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your…

If I'm Not Your Cup Of Tea, please find somewhere else to drink. In Today 's episode I talk about spirituality being one of the most important ingredients for manhood. Often times religion is used to emasculate us, but real spirituality empowers us. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this l…

In this episode I discuss how to be a 6 denominational man. We have most likely grown up with a man that did not have it all together. Many of the men in our lives have often forsaken one area of their life at the expense of the other. We have seen their example and now we want something better. If you are interested in learning about what it takes…

Where in your life are you ignoring the warning signs? Hardly nothing happens in a instant. Things usually take time to deteriorate. Often times we don't pay attention to things that are eroding. If we start paying attention to the warning signs we can live a holistic life. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast o…

Have You Caused or Allowed Your Dysfunction To Happen? This really a bitter pill but after we digest it, it will bring us health. Many of the frustrations and dissatisfaction's we experience in life are because we have either cause them or allowed them to happen. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own,…

Welcome to the BE THE MAN podcast. Thee place for MEN who desire to create an IMPACT in this world. In this episode a discuss the "WHY," behind the Be The Man podcast. If you are interested in learning about what it takes to create a podcast of your own, follow this link to learn more. https://topshelfpodcasters.com/ECM…

Welcome to the BE THE MAN podcast. Thee place for MEN who desire to create an IMPACT in this world. Join host Tim Holloway as he leads the call to action. In a time where our families and communities are suffering due to MEN failing to BE THE MAN, this podcast explores what it really means to BE THE MAN. Do you want to be among other top shelf podc…

You can’t build anything great without a plan. In this episode of 90 Days 2 90k I give a recap to what we have accomplished in last 7 days. We have clearly defined where we are and where we want to be.