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Unmatch Me Now is a weekly podcast about the horrible and weird sides of online dating, dating ethics and everything around online dating. Hosted by Idan, based in Berlin with international guests! \ IG:@unmatchmenow \ www.swipeleft.me
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"Welcome to '"My Mother: The Person and the Patient," a deeply personal journey into the life of Timiro Mohamed as she bravely faces the challenges of living with Alzheimer's disease. In this intimate and heartfelt podcast, I delve into her story, both before and after the diagnosis, to shed light on the impact of Alzheimer's on individuals and their families.Join me as we explore the rich tapestry of Timiro's life, sharing her experiences, memories, and accomplishments before the disease to ...
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Send us a Text Message. I talked to Laurie Gerber, who's a relationship expert for people over 50 and has worked with some of the biggest companies in the world doing love coaching and currently developing The Handel Method® and focusing on LOVE coaching. we talked about what it's like to date in your 50s and beyond, how dating apps might feel like…
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Send us a Text Message. I talked to Zaahirah, who is the founder of Hati, a new dating app that is trying to reinvent the way we connect online by creating a way for more intentional dating. we talked about why she decided to punish and ban people who ghost on the app after several times, why phone calls are a good way to asses a match, and her sto…
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Send us a Text Message. I talked to Joy Farrow and Laura Frombach about their new book - Street Smart Safety for Women. about their unique backgrounds as a retired Deputy Sheriff and a former army technologist contributed to how they met each other online 15 years ago. we talked about the best safety tips for online dating, how to deal with situati…
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In this episode, I explore the resilience of caregiving, where I share my newfound confidence in navigating life with my mother's Alzheimer's. The second half delves into her inspiring tale of reclaiming home, standing against adversity, and finding strength in unexpected places. It's a story of resilience, empowerment, and the enduring bonds that …
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Dive into a compelling narrative that navigates the intricate interplay between honoring personal passions and fulfilling the responsibilities of caregiving, all while celebrating the unwavering courage of a remarkable woman - my mother. Through a deeply personal lens, I unravel the complexities of maintaining equilibrium amidst the all-consuming j…
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Join me in this thought-provoking episode that examines the complex tapestry of caregiving. Discover the profound art of navigating the challenges of caregiving with resilience, as I explore effective strategies, transformative shifts in perspective, and the often overlooked beauty of finding joy in the smallest of moments. Through heartfelt anecdo…
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In this captivating episode of My Mother: The Person and the Patient, I delve into the delicate art of self-preservation amidst caregiving responsibilities. I Unveil the intricate balance required to uphold personal well-being while tending to a loved one as I recount my journey to prioritize self-care in the face of demanding roles. Moreover, imme…
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In this heartfelt episode of My Mother: The Person and the Patient, join me as I share my poignant journey as a devoted caregiver to my mother living with Alzheimer's while grappling with the devastating loss of my beloved daughter. Through candid reflections and intimate storytelling, I delve into the complexities of navigating grief and finding s…
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In this heartfelt episode, I dive deep into the poignant narrative of my mother's Story now and then.' Join me on this emotional journey as I explore the profound impact of Alzheimer's on my mother's life and my family's experiences. Through personal accounts, we'll navigate the dual timeline of memories from the past and the realities of the prese…
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This enlightening podcast episode explores the inspiring journeys of myself as a caregiver and my mother. Together, we navigate the path to self-discovery, shedding light on the strength required to recognize the meaningful actions that provide solace and fulfillment while caring for a loved one. This captivating narrative mirrors my mother's coura…
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In this episode, I explore the complex world of caregiving through my own experiences and the stories of incredible challenges when my mother faced health crises. As a caregiver, I understand firsthand the challenges when a loved one's health is at stake. In this episode, I'll delve into the emotional and physical toll that caregiving can take, and…
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This profound episode delves into the multifaceted journey of coping with Alzheimer's disease. Join me as I explore caregivers' challenges when seeking essential support for myself and my mother living with Alzheimer's. But the narrative extends further. I'll also share the compelling story of my mother, Timiro Mohamed, as a young mother who grappl…
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In this heartwarming episode, I explore the delicate art of balancing love and responsibility to ensure the highest quality care for a loved one. Join me as I dive into the challenges and triumphs of caregiving while striving to provide the best support for my mother. I share valuable insights, practical tips, and heartwarming stories that will res…
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Send us a Text Message. I talked to Gabi about how his art group (ArtUp Nation and the Beuys Club) view the online dating world (aka - the flesh market) and his experience with it, why most dating apps are actually the same today, and what the difference they try to provide, how does branding for dating apps affect our choice of it if at all, do da…
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Welcome to another informative episode addressing the intricacies of finding caregiving solutions for your loved ones. Caregiving can be a complex journey, and the quest for the right support system often presents challenges. Join us as we delve into common obstacles individuals and families face in search of caregiving assistance. From navigating …
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In this gripping episode, I delve deep into the intricacies of life's unexpected twists. Join me as I journey through the poignant narratives of my firsthand experience, where the carefully laid plans for a summer took an unforeseen detour. In a candid and heartfelt first-person account, I open up about the initial worry of how my mother's battle w…
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Join me as I embark on a deeply personal journey with this touching episode, where I share the poignant tale of 'Unwavering Love: Marriage, Caregiving, and Alzheimer's.' Through the lens of my own experiences. I invite you to join me on a remarkable voyage. Witness the resilience of my mother's heart as she discovers newfound joy in her third marri…
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Embarking on an intimate journey through the chapters of a remarkable life, join me for an episode that unveils the power of generational stories. In "Unveiling Generational Stories: Navigating Alzheimer's and a Lifetime of Motherhood," we traverse the heartfelt passages of a woman's existence, entwined with the complexities of Alzheimer's. As my m…
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In this episode, I explore the profound impact of having people who can advocate for us in various aspects of life. Join me as we uncover the significance of finding allies who wholeheartedly champion our causes, beliefs, and dreams. Together, we'll gain valuable insights into the art of advocacy, understanding how it not only empowers us but also …
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In this emotionally charged episode, I take you on a profound journey through the intertwining paths of Alzheimer's and heart-wrenching grief. Drawing from my personal experiences, I open up about the relentless struggle to find resources and support for my mother after her Alzheimer's diagnosis. The challenges seemed insurmountable, yet love and d…
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In this deeply personal and heartfelt episode, I invite you to join me on a poignant journey through the intertwining experiences of caregiving and loss. As a devoted caregiver to my mother, I found unexpected solace and renewal amidst the overwhelming grief of losing my beloved daughter. Through candid reflections and touching anecdotes, I share h…
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In this episode, titled "Invisible Battles, Invisible Care: Unveiling the Healthcare System's Failure," I share my take on the overlooked struggles faced by individuals battling Alzheimer's disease and enduring domestic violence. Join me as I shed light on the healthcare system's failures in addressing these issues. Through personal stories, I exam…
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In this poignant episode into the heart-wrenching journey, my mother made the difficult decision to leave her children behind to escape an abusive relationship. Despite knowing it was the right thing to do for their safety, her departure created a profound struggle she carried with her. The narrative explores the emotional and psychological turmoil…
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In this powerful episode, I share the heart-wrenching story of the interconnectedness of forgotten histories, shattered lives, and the devastating impact of abuse and Alzheimer's disease. Through my own personal experiences, I examine the parallel narratives of my mother's struggle with Alzheimer's and the abusive marriage that forced her to relinq…
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Today, I have a deeply personal story to share—a narrative that intertwines the harrowing experiences of two generations and the unexpected protection that Alzheimer's disease brought to the surface. It's a story that explores the haunting similarities between my daughter's abuse and the past trauma my mother had endured. Join me as we embark on a …
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In this poignant episode, I explore the remarkable life journey of my mother as she navigates the complexities of Alzheimer's disease while simultaneously unveiling her past struggles in overcoming domestic violence. Join me as I uncover the resilience that resides within her, illuminating her unwavering spirit and determination to find meaning and…
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In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the struggles and frustrations that arise from unreliable service providers in the context of Alzheimer's caregiving. Join us as we explore the immense challenges caregivers face navigating an already complex landscape, compounded by the unreliability of service providers. Through personal anecdotes …
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Send us a Text Message. I talked to Lizette about what it's like to start using online dating for the first time ever after being in a relationship for 8 years, how to feel confident in knowing what you want (or what you don't), best dating apps to use currently and what it's like dating in Berlin. We also discussed PowerPoint presentations from ve…
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In this episode, I discuss the intricate art of balancing caregiver responsibilities when caring for a loved one. Caregiving often involves overwhelming tasks, from medical appointments to household chores and emotional support. As caregivers, it's crucial to assess and determine what truly matters most and what tasks can be deferred or delegated w…
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In this heartfelt episode, I delve into the profound struggles faced when deciding to not hospitalize a loved one in the late stages of Alzheimer's due to their expressed wish to avoid such a fate. I explore the emotional journey of reconciling conflicting desires and the heart-wrenching task of honouring their past wishes while ensuring their pres…
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In this episode, I delve into the emotional toll of caregiving and the stress it can cause for those who take on this vital role. I share my personal experience of supporting my mother through illness and the difficulties I faced along the way, including the pressure to be strong and its impact on me. I also examine the stigma surrounding caregiver…
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Becoming a new mom is one of the most transformative experiences a woman can go through. But for some, the journey to motherhood is fraught with challenges that can make the transition to parenthood even more difficult. In this episode, I share the emotional obstacles my mother faced in her inability to connect with her firstborn, her ups and downs…
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In this episode, I delve into the unexpected journey of my mother, who, in her old age, was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. She developed a painful boil on her back to add to her struggles. I shared my mother's story when she discovered she had become pregnant at fourteen with the baby of a man she had previously divorced. I share how we navigated the …
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In this episode, I explore the powerful story of my mother's journey through illness and cultural tradition, shedding light on the challenges faced by individuals living with Alzheimer's disease. The first half of the episode centers on my mother, who was admitted to the hospital due to high blood sugar levels related to Alzheimer's. I discuss the …
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In this emotionally charged episode, we hear the touching story of my mother's journey living with Alzheimer's. From forgetting to wake up, to the pain of not recognizing her loved ones, I explore the challenges and heartbreak of this debilitating illness. As we learn about my mother's life, we are struck by her resilience and determination through…
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In this episode, I share the story of the day my mother forgot to walk. In contrast to that time, she decided to take back her freedom by leaving her husband for six weeks. In 2021, I realized that Alzheimer's is unpredictable and a great thief, just like how my mother's circumstances as a girl robbed her of her freedom. Support the show #IAMSAHRAB…
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Send us a Text Message. I talked to Guy Blaise (from Episode 101) about his new book “Love like a man” and what led him to write a new book specifically for men. we also talked about body positivity, marriage & divorce in the states, dating people with grown-up kids and the challenges that bring, why men should mind how they pee, wild dating advent…
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Making decisions in keeping my mother safe is like making all my decisions wearing a blind fold. Often I reach the final destination after several stumbles. Similarly my mother makes her decision to leave her first husband without having a plan of all the steps that followed the first step of walking out. Like me she had to figure it out one step a…
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Soon I realized Alzheimer meant many losses, some came gradually others fast and startling. Similarly Timiro found out that the decision to marry a man older than her father came with too much pain. In this episode, I explore the losses that came with my mother living with Alzheimer. The same she tries to accept the consequences of her marrying Nee…
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In this episode, the young Timiro does not know what she got herself into when she agreed to marry a man older than her father when she was thirteen years old. Just like I had no idea what I was getting myself into when I hired a handyman. Support the show #IAMSAHRABULLE #AlzheimersAwareness #CulturalTraditions #HealthAndCulture #DifficultChoices #…
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In the first half of this episode, I share how I changed my approach in dealing with my mother. Once I decided to see things with my mother's eyes, everything became clear to me. My decision to join my mother in her world, didn't eliminated the challenge, but it made it manageable. In the second half, my mother as a girl faces a similar situation. …
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The first half of this episode, I share my epiphany moment when I realized my attempt to correct my mother was causing more problems and and it was solving nothing. I discuss what I learned after reading articles about Alzheimers. The second half of the episode, I share a chapter about my mother and her family go back to the village. Just like I ga…
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Trigger: This episode contains a death penalty against the mother and son accused of killing my mother's baby brother. The first part of the episode I share my experience in getting equipment to assist my mother in her day-to-day functions. I explore how not knowing what I needed and where is the best place to get it was difficult. In the second ha…
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First part of this episode I share, how important it is to have a power of attorney for my mother's both finances. This comes up as my mother makes a risk financial decision. In order to protect her, I needed to have a power of attorney signed by her before her cognitive ability diminished. In the second part of the story, I share my mother's story…
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Send us a Text Message. I Talked to Greg (again) all the way from down under about how he hunt down tinder scammers and also - which app is the hookup app nowadays? Does that actually exist? dating with people who than disappear, how I got stood up by a date twice, when dates are just without any chemistry, dates that refused to have sex with a con…
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The fist half of the episode, I share my struggles in getting a tax break for the cost of my mother's care. I talk about how things made no sense. Still I had to take specific steps I took to get what I was eligible for as a caregiver to my mother. The second half of the episode tells my mother's story as her father tries to see to it that the peop…
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Trigger Warning: There is sudden death/implied suicide in this episode. In the first half of the episode, I share the story of my first contact with the long term arm of the health care system. What are the process of getting the intake and what are some things you should be aware of in going through the process. Getting documents like Power of att…
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Trigger Warning: This episode contains the loss of a child and the grief that followed. In the first half of this episode, I share the challenges I face in trying to find a caregiver for my mother during the day while I went to work. My attempt to find someone that spoke her language in a city where there is not a large Somali community was very di…
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Trigger Warning: This episode includes child kidnapping In the first half of this episode, I share how my solution to keep my mother from leaving the house while we slept created a whole host of other problems. The alarm system I set up was great at first, but soon my mother opened the door every hour for the entire night tripping the alarm system.…
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The first half of this episode, I share the scary situations Alzheimer can deliver through the story of the morning my mother wasn't at home when woke up. In the second half, I tell the story of that time her baby brother, Isaaq, was not in her father's arms when they woke up. What happened to him? Her mother's question, "Where is my baby?" matches…
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