This week Susan and Melissa go over some of the popular gift guides to give last minute ideas for gift giving during the holiday season

Do you want to spend a ridiculous amount of money on something ugly, dump or overpriced? Then this is your gift guide and if that isn't enough there are over 22 different vibrators to choose from. This is our annual laugh at the gift guide episode for those of you who have followed us over the last 3 years.…

After a few minutes of catching up and discussing current events, Melissa and Susan will share with you some silly dad jokes as they thought given the current state of the world we could all use a little humor.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss a NY Times article that explains a LOT about climate change and discuss the topic in depth

Today Susan and Melissa discuss many of the lists on line for 2023 that recommend top brands by category, price point etc.. Listen and hear the latest

This week (with a few technical difficulties) Susan & Melissa discuss some of the new words in the Websters dictionary as well as a sampling of the past/present words of the year

Several listeners were kind enough to send in their pet peeves and this week Susan and Melissa share them and discuss

This week Susan and Melissa read some Dear Abby questions from back in the day and answer them with a modern day twist

This week Melissa asks Susan a variety of questions both fun and serious.

In this episode Melissa and Susan discuss the symptoms of menopause and also one major, undiscussed topic..... painful intercourse. A very common problem which is rarely discussed.

This week Susan poses questions to Melissa on Book Banning, Gun Violence among other topics both light and heavy

This episode Susan and Melissa discuss Damar Hamlin, their views on New Years resolutions and a few other topics along the way

This week Susan and Melissa discuss the Book "The Choice, Embrace the Possible" which discusses Dr. Eger's experience at Auschwitz and here subsequent journey and healing

This week Susan and Melissa discuss Goops very "interesting" selections for holiday gifts. In addition they also go over both Oprah's holiday gift guide as well as the RealSImple gift guide. Both of these offer great suggestions as well as unique ideas for gifts for friends and family.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss the Apple TV show Five Days at Memorial. It's a docudrama based on a hospital in New Orleans during hurricane Katrina. In addition they also talk about another Apple TV show called Bad Sisters, a dark comedy set in Ireland.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss (without trying to give it away) the book The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, which touches on spousal abuse, sexual orientation, betrayal, lies, power etc..

This week we discuss what the "new fall fashions" are being touted as well as some quick yummy recipes

In this episode after catching up on Susan's less than ideal move experience, the ladies discuss the book American Made, What happens to people when work disappears written by Farah Stockman.

Today Melissa and Susan discuss some of the very important and depressing issues facing our country currently.

The ladies answer a variety of random questions AND If you are tiring of these then please email us topic suggestions at youhadmeatmartini@gmail.com or DM us on our youhadmeatmartini instagram

While road tripping from Vegas to Palm Springs, Susan and Melissa discuss their observations regarding the recent mask mandate lift and also share some road trip stories

In this episode Melissa and Susan discuss the benefits of being a pet owner and share readers touching and funny pet stories

Warning this episode may be triggering as this week Susan and Melissa go over warning signs that you or someone you know may be in an abusive relationship. They also share their own stories of friends and family members who have experienced this and how it came about or is unfolding. This is a very sensitive topic so if you find it is triggering yo…

In this episode Melissa and Susan are joined by Riley Carroll and Kelsey Sipple who help to explain the TikTok phenomenon and the off-shoot community of WitchTok

In this episode Susan and Melissa discuss the removal of masks from schools, states that have outlawed mandates, the new variant along with all things covid. They discuss both their feelings about the current situation and research on issues such as long covid etc...

This week Susan (and occasionally her dogs) and Melissa play Would You Rather with some silly and also thought provoking questions.

This week Melissa and Susan took 3 suggestions from listeners to discuss. And as always they are welcome to suggestions at youhadmeatmartini@gmail.com or DM them at their instagram "youhadmeatmartini"

This week Susan and Melissa discuss the ongoing world of covid and how it impacts the winters blues/what to do about them.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss the concept of New Years resolutions and why they might fail/how to keep them.

This week Melissa and Susan discuss a variety of topics from questions that they pulled....

In this week's mini episode Melissa and Susan discuss some of their listener's holiday traditions as well as their own.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss some of the popular holiday gift guides that are out there as well as one of their own.

This week one of our listeners, Trish, wrote in and asked for input on fashion post covid, with a change of lifestyle and from day to night. Susan and Melissa who, as you can imagine, are fashion divas, discuss their thoughts

This week Susan and Melissa discuss manners and discuss articles on line about current day manners as well as manners that have/should stand the test of time. In addition they also go over a LOT of manner input from their listeners.

This week Melissa and Susan discuss the shows they've enjoyed over the last several months.

Today Susan and Melissa are joined by Susan's friend Trish to discuss the emotional issues involved in elder care as well as some practical advise in terms of navigating it.

This week Melissa and Susan each pull several questions to discuss running the gamut from favorite super power to things that terrified you as a child.

This week Susan and Melissa Welcome Riley Carroll who helps them navigate the terminology of the queer community and gives them a better overall understanding of the space.

This week Melissa and Susan go over all of YOUR pet peeves. Enjoy!

This week Melissa and Susan discuss the delta variant and their thoughts on what they have learned so far about this highly contagious new strain.

This week Melissa and Susan welcome Kelsey Sipple as a special guest to discuss life outside of planet earth!

This week Susan and Melissa discuss their views on past lives, future lives and what they believe happens when we die.

This week Melissa and Susan discuss their summer favorites...favorite memories, foods, drinks, outfits... etc...

In this episode Susan and Melissa discuss their thoughts/views on covid as it is now and as things begin to open up. **also you will notice a very obvious edit when Susan discusses numbers of deaths globally as she misread it in the taping and was WAY off :)

Originally this episode was going to be called "is it okay to lie to your kids?" but when the ladies started discussing it, it was clear that they had already decided YES IT IS! and so in this episode they share some of the stories they invented for their children.

This week Susan and Melissa are joined by Wendy Camerik to discuss their thoughts on what they would tell their past and future selves knowing what they know now.

This week in a quick 20 minute episode, Susan and Melissa discuss their top pet peeves. Join us and see is you agree and email us at youhadmeatmartini@gmail.com if you want to add some of your own (or debate us) for us to read on future episodes.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss the book Untamed by Glennon Doyle pulling out some of their favorite quotes for a great discussion.

This week Susan and Melissa welcome Katie to the show and she teaches us all how to make some fun summer cocktails. You'll want to listen so you can come up with your own version on how Katie got her black eye :) #newamsterdampinkwhitney #Theaviationlariosontherockspremiumcocktail #absolutcitron #chambord #pineapplejuice #frenchmartini #tangueray #…

This week Melissa and Susan discuss 4 different reality tv love shows and their thoughts on each ones approach to love. #toohottohandle #loveisblind #marriedatfirstsight #indianmatchmaking