Best Zibby Owens And Tracey Cox Podcasts (2024)

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S10 Ep. 8: Shower Sex, Daily Sex, and What to Do When He Gets Stuck 19:02

7h ago19:02

19:02

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Even when I've had plenty of foreplay and I'm certain I'm turned on, when my partner first enters me it's like he's stuck for a moment. It’s like my vagina won't let him in. He’s able to ease in after a few seconds and intercourse is great after that. It doesn't hurt, bu…

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S10 Ep. 7: WFH Has Stolen My Sex Drive, Scheduled Sex, and Should I Accept My Wife’s Free Pass to Have Sex with Other People? 26:56

7d ago26:56

26:56

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My girlfriend and I went through a period of not having sex—we were so busy it got forgotten about. We made a point of having sex every Friday night—and now it’s stuck. We now ONLY have sex on Friday nights. She really likes this arrangement, but I hate having sex on a s…

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S10 Ep. 6: Male Bi-Curiosity, I Hate Long-Term Sex, and Why Doesn't My Husband Desire Me Now that I'm Slim? 24:09

16d ago24:09

24:09

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’ve lost a lot of weight using Ozempic and am delighted with how my body looks. I feel brand new and—at last—sexy and desirable. After years of complaining that I never initiate sex and accusing me of not even liking sex, I thought my husband would be pleased with my ne…

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S10 Ep. 5: Strange Sex Sounds, 'Is It In Yet?' and Dating after Divorce 20:25

21d ago20:25

20:25

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner makes strange noises during sex and it really puts me off. It’s like a whimpering noise—it sounds exactly like the noise my dog makes when I’ve locked her outside. I nearly burst out laughing the first time I heard it, now it’s just a turnoff. We’re four month…

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S10 Ep. 4: Dry Orgasms, Weird Sex Toys, and Same-Sex Skills 22:14

29d ago22:14

22:14

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I think my partner is faking orgasm because when he ejaculates, no semen comes out. The first time it happened, I asked him why there wasn’t much stuff. He said he didn’t know why and walked off. Since then, it happens now and then. I don’t say anything because I don’t w…

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S10 Ep. 3: BDSM Kinks, What to Do if You 'Miss' an Orgasm, and Why Can't I Move On from My Husband's Mid-Life Crisis? 23:11

1M ago23:11

23:11

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I love watching BDSM porn and have a masochistic kink. My wife enjoys sex, but is pretty conservative in what she likes. I’ve told her I’d quite enjoy being tied up or spanked and she looked shocked, so I didn’t pursue it. How do I let her know I’d really like her to ind…

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S10 Ep. 2: He Wants to Open Up Our Relationship, the Link Between Oral Sex and Cancer, and Can Every Woman Orgasm? 25:14

1M ago25:14

25:14

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner of four years has a friend who has opened up their relationship after having been married for nine years. Apparently, it’s working well. They have ‘sex only’ relationships, stick to some rules, and say it’s made them love each other more and enjoy sex more. My…

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S10 Ep. 1: I'm 50 and My Sex Drive Has Gone, Sex in Front of a Mirror, and Tips on Handling Uncircumcised Penises! 28:20

2M ago28:20

28:20

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner’s favorite position is doggy-style in front of a mirror. I hate sex from behind—I like face-to-face positions so we can kiss. I also hate watching myself naked because I focus on all that’s wrong with my body and can’t enjoy myself. My partner knows this, but …

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S9 Ep. 10: My Partner Won't Give Me What I've Asked for in Bed, 'Tension Orgasms', and Why Does My Partner Prefer Porn to Sex with Me 21:44

3M ago21:44

21:44

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) When I first got together with my partner of four years, we had lots of fun tying each other up. That stopped about a year ago and I really miss it, so I asked if we could incorporate it back into our lovemaking. The very same night, I walked into the bedroom ready for b…

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S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed? 23:50

3M ago23:50

23:50

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I feel like your inbox for this podcast is full of questions like mine. I’ve been married for 26 years, and our sex life quietly died about 10 years ago. I’ve been listening to you both and I know this is normal. What I want to find out is if my wife misses our sex, or i…

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S9 Ep. 8: Should You Stay if Your Partner Has No Interest in Making Sex Good, What to Do if He Orgasms Too Quickly, and Why Did my New Trick Backfire? 23:53

3M ago23:53

23:53

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My husband and I are each other’s first loves. We’re now twenty years on, 10 years married with a child and I feel at a loss. Our sex life is robotic and boring, once or twice a month. Same foreplay, same position. I have repeatedly suggested trying new things, but it’s …

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S9 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, How to Suggest a Threesome, and 24-year-old Male Virgins 25:49

4M ago25:49

25:49

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I love sex and I love the feeling of orgasm, but I’ve never been able to have more than one. Are all women capable of multiple orgasms, and how can I increase my chances of having one? 2) I’m a straight guy wanting to suggest a threesome with my wife of four years. She’s…

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S9 Ep. 6: Is Being Intense a Turn-Off on Dates, Antidepressants Have Wrecked my Sex Life, and Tips on Trying New Things in Bed 26:25

4M ago26:25

26:25

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m wondering if I’m a little full on too early on when I go on dates. I love having deep, intense conversations and hate small talk. Some men seem to love it, but one guy recently told me I was a ‘bit heavy’ and to ‘lighten up a bit.’ What’s your view on this? 2) I was …

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S9 Ep. 5: I Want to Use My Vibrator with Him, I Can't Face Sex After My Husband's Affair, and How to Make 69ers More Satisfying 22:58

4M ago22:58

22:58

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I have my best orgasms using my wand vibrator. My old boyfriend didn’t have an issue with using it in bed with us (though he was the first man I’ve ever used it with). Now, I’m with someone new—about two months in—and want to bring it up. Any hints on what to say? My pre…

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S9 Ep. 4: He Refuses to Wear a Condom for Contraception, I Can’t Enjoy Breast Play After Children, and Why Do I Watch Lesbian Porn When I’m Straight? 21:49

4M ago21:49

21:49

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I want to stop taking the Pill because it doesn’t agree with me. I’ve tried taking different types and I’m not suitable for a coil, so the obvious alternative is for my partner to wear condoms. I don’t mind condoms, but he can’t stand them and is making a huge deal of it…

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S9 Ep. 3: Does Hooking Up on a Dating App Mean You Must Have Sex, Why Are My Dreams Making Me Furious with My Husband, and Can You Reset a Sexual Fantasy? 25:10

4M ago25:10

25:10

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m 40 and out here dating men again after an amicable divorce. I’ve been using dating apps and hooked up with two guys using them. I ended up having sex with both men, even though I didn’t really want to. I’m not quite sure how the dating apps work: are you obliged to h…

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S9 Ep. 2: What to Do If Someone Puts You Down About Sex, Can Women Take Viagra, and How Do I Stop Him Being Obsessed with My Orgasms? 23:25

5M ago23:25

23:25

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m a recovering alcoholic and up until 49, had never had sex sober. I’m now in a relationship (been together three years) and overall, we are both happy. The problem is we are very different types when it comes to sex. He is adventurous, I’m not (since I’ve been sober).…

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S9 Ep. 1: My Husband Wants Me to Peg Him, Why Is He Keeping Notes on Our Sex Life, and Noisy Neighbor Sex 25:38

5M ago25:38

25:38

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years. Now that our children aren't babies anymore our sex life is being resurrected from the dead and better than ever. My husband has expressed an interest in me pegging him. I'll try anything once, especially since it's…

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BEST OF SEXTOK: I Hate the Way My Husband Initiates, How Do I Know If It’s Love or Loneliness, and What to Do When It’s Him Saying No to Sex? 22:11

5M ago22:11

22:11

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives. In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Why can’t my husband change the way he approaches me for sex? He gives me this look that makes me want to run away…it’s primal, and it doesn’t feel go…

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BEST OF SEXTOK: Emotional Affairs, How to Handle a Small Penis, and Is It Wrong to Only Want Sex When I’m Tipsy? 22:09

6M ago22:09

22:09

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives. In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I am having an emotional affair with one of my coworkers. I’ve been married for almost 10 years and although I know this isn’t right, it’s making me f…

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BEST OF SEXTOK: I Want Her Husband, Why Won’t She Let Me Give Her Oral Sex, and Please Explain Anal Play 20:00

6M ago20:00

20:00

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives. In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) You talk a lot about how most women have their orgasms through oral sex, but I’ve had more than one girlfriend push me away when I try to go down on h…

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BEST OF SEXTOK: How to Set Up a Relationship so You Talk Openly About Sex, Why am I Over-Sensitive After Orgasm, and Do I Really Have to Wear a Condom? 21:09

6M ago21:09

21:09

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives. In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) After a few relationships in my twenties, I have enjoyed ten years of being (voluntarily) single, but am now looking to meet someone new. I’m keen for…

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S7 Ep. 10: How Do I Initiate Sex, How to Play a Power Game, and Is My Boyfriend Fetishizing My Curves? 27:34

7M ago27:34

27:34

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m 36 and just started a relationship with a man I really like. He’s more experienced than me—he’s had lots of relationships, and I’ve only had two long-term relationships. Because of that, I tend to leave it up to him to initiate sex and take the lead in bed. He mentio…

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S7 Ep. 9: Cervical Orgasms, I Hate Being Touched After Sex, and How Can I Be Wilder in Bed? 27:26

7M ago27:26

27:26

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) How do you have a cervical orgasm? I’ve heard Kelsey talk about it and I’m intrigued. How do you do it? It sounds quite full on and intense and I want to have one! 2) I’m a 36-year-old straight woman and feel like I’m a boring lover. How can I be wilder in bed? I’ve done…

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S7 Ep. 8: Hints on Hand-Jobs, How to Increase Libido, and Tips on Sleeping with Someone New After 25 Years with One Person? 26:37

8M ago26:37

26:37

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I thought I’d never have to stare at a strange ceiling again, but here I am: newly separated and back out there again. I had a healthy amount of sexual experience before my marriage, but I’ve slept with no one but my husband for 25 years (I’m 52). I’m a confident person,…

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S7 Ep. 7: My Son's Friend Wants to Date Me, Is It Good to Take a Break from Sex, and How Can I Recreate the Sexual Chemistry I Had with My Ex? 21:54

8M ago21:54

21:54

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My son is 25 and I’m 44. I split from his father soon after he was born and we are very close. He still lives at home and often has friends around, all of which I know well. Here’s the part I need advice on: one of his friends has a crush on me and it's flattering. I’ve …

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S7 Ep. 6: Jaw-Aching Oral Sex, Do Men Like Genital Piercings, and How to Stop Obsessing About What I Look Like During Sex 26:55

8M ago26:55

26:55

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My jaw gets unbearably sore and tired just minutes into giving my partner a BJ. I’ve tried taking breaks by focusing on the testicles, but it’s never enough to recuperate, and he doesn’t seem to enjoy it much. My partner gives me lots of great oral sex and I want to do t…

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S7 Ep. 5: Why Does He Lose His Erection, Is Sex During a Break Cheating, and Is My Husband a Sex Addict? 22:41

8M ago22:41

22:41

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’ve just broken up with a long-term boyfriend and am dating someone new. All is going well—except in the sex department. He has no problems getting an erection, but the minute he tries to penetrate, he loses it. If we can get him inside of me, he gets hard again and can…

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S7 Ep. 4: How Do I Learn to Relax During Oral Sex, Can You Tell If She's Had a Real Orgasm, and Should I Have a Revenge Affair? 26:24

8M ago26:24

26:24

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) How do I learn to relax and enjoy my partner giving me oral sex? I’ve been seeing a guy and am really enjoying the relationship. At first, I wouldn’t let him go down on me for all the usual self-conscious reasons. But I decided to be open to the experience since he convi…

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S7 Ep. 3: Is It Okay to Ask a Woman to Wear High-Heels in Bed, Where Did My Wife Learn Her New Tricks, and Why is My Partner Avoiding Sex After the Birth of Our Child? 23:48

9M ago23:48

23:48

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I seem to have the opposite problem to my friends. I’ve just had a baby (she’s six months old) and want to resume having sex with my partner. I’m not exactly dying to have sex, but do think it’s important for us to remain sexual. He knocks me back every time I initiate, …

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S7 Ep. 2: Will Opening Up Our Relationship Ruin It, I Hate 'Make-Up Sex,' and Where's Our Libido Gone? 23:47

9M ago23:47

23:47

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m a 43-year-old woman, happily married for nearly 20 years, with tween-aged children. My husband and I have always maintained a healthy sex life (even if it is a bit vanilla most of the time) The past few years we have scheduled sex, and usually average once or twice a…

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S7 Ep. 1: Is Great Sex and a Great Relationship Even Possible, I'm a 29-Year-Old Virgin, and How Do I Guide My Daughter Who Might Be Gay? 28:12

9M ago28:12

28:12

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I was in a relationship for 10 years and the sex was never great, but I felt safe and supported and in a lot of ways, I loved my life. We were both each other’s first boyfriend/girlfriend, but we barely had sex and I didn't feel desired. On the rare occasions we did, he’…

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S6 Ep. 10: On-Off Relationships, How Long to Wait Before First Having Sex, and the Downside of ED Drugs 24:26

10M ago24:26

24:26

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) How long should you wait to have sex? I’ve been seeing someone for nearly two months and we still haven't had sex. We've talked about it, but it feels like she’s trying to long kick the conversation. The intimacy is great, but I would have hoped for some oral at least? I…

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S6 Ep. 9: Quickies, What to Do with a Too-Wide Penis, and My Husband's Not Interested in Sex So Why Can't I Flirt with Other Men? 20:30

11M ago20:30

20:30

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m in my 50s and have been with my husband for 20 years. We’ve reached a point where we have a good life together, but he’s not interested in sex anymore. I look after myself and have been getting attention from a couple of guys at my gym—one going as far as sexting mes…

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S6 Ep. 8: Sex After an Affair, Penetrative Orgasms, and Why do I Hate Cuddling After Sex? 25:35

11M ago25:35

25:35

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’ve been with my partner for 13 years and recently found out he’s been having sex with a woman he works with. It’s over now and we’re having therapy, but we haven’t had sex since I found out six months ago. I can’t even think about sex. Every time I do, I imagine the tw…

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S6 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, Sex Dreams, and Should I Encourage Him to Visit a Massage Parlor? 22:33

11M ago22:33

22:33

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend and we have great sex, but I have sex dreams about other men weekly. What could this mean? 2) I am in my early 50's and became perimenopausal in my late 40's. My husband and I have been together for 25 years. Sex was alwa…

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S6 Ep. 6: How Do I Make Myself More Interested in Sex, My Husband's a Cross-Dresser, and Which Things on a Sex Bucket List are Worth the Hassle? 30:02

11M ago30:02

30:02

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My kids are about to fly the nest and it’s just going to be my husband and me. We get on really well, but I know this will mean he will want sex more often. I used to enjoy sex, but now I find I can take it or leave it. It doesn’t really excite me anymore, and I’m not su…

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S6 Ep. 5: How to Masturbate Without Using Porn, Is Once a Week Enough, and Are Separate Beds the Kiss of Death for Your Sex Life? 25:31

11M ago25:31

25:31

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) We’re a married couple—I’m 35 and my wife is 32—and love listening to your podcast. No kids yet. We enjoy sex, but only have it once a week. We try to do it more, but we’re busy and it never happens. We were talking about sex with a group of close friends and they all sa…

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S6 Ep. 4: I Worry About How I Smell, Why Does He Want to Orgasm on my Breasts, and How to be a Decent Husband When You Aren’t Getting Sex 24:33

12M ago24:33

24:33

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’ve listened to every one of your podcasts and all too often identify as the ‘bad guy.’ I like to watch porn, which I do in secret. I have a secret social media account where I follow a few rather exhibitionist (and rather fun) women (but never engage sexually with them…

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S6 Ep. 3: I Want Her Husband, Why Won’t She Let Me Give Her Oral Sex, and Please Explain Anal Play 21:18

12M ago21:18

21:18

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) You talk a lot about how most women have their orgasms through oral sex, but I’ve had more than one girlfriend push me away when I try to go down on her. They say they just aren’t into it. Is this true, or are there other reasons they aren’t telling me? 2) I’m a 48-year-…

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S6. Ep. 2: Talking Dirty, the Dangers of him Taking Viagra Even Though He Doesn't Need It, and What's the Point of an Open Relationship Unless Both of You are Attached? 20:22

1y ago20:22

20:22

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner wants me to talk dirty, and I can see why it’s a turn on—but I don’t have a clue how to do it. What can I say that doesn’t make me sound like an idiot or will make me want to laugh? 2) I heard you on Diary of a CEO and was especially interested in your thought…

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S6 Ep. 1: Should I Gift my Daughter an Online Masturbation Course, How to Deal with Faking at the Start, and What if I Have No Fantasies? 32:23

1y ago32:23

32:23

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) So, guys have a built-in masturbation tool (the foreskin) and they discover it very early. They have some advantage I would say for discovering their body and how it can give them the pleasure of orgasm. I have a 13-year-old daughter and want her to also learn about her …

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S5 Ep. 10: How to Set Up a Relationship So You Talk Openly About Sex, Why Am I Over-Sensitive After Orgasm, and Do I Really Have to Wear a Condom? 21:52

1y ago21:52

21:52

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) After a few relationships in my twenties, I have enjoyed ten years of being (voluntarily) single, but am now looking to meet someone new. I’m keen for my next relationship to have open, honest communication around sex. I know it’s easier to start as you mean to go on, so…

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S5 Ep. 9: Do Straight Men Sleep with Other Men, Tips on Watching Porn Together, and Persuading a Partner to French Kiss 22:29

1y ago22:29

22:29

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I love French kissing but my girlfriend does not. It's my favorite thing to do but she says that’s for teenagers or new relationships. How do I get her to see how fun it can be? Nothing seems to change her mind. 2) My husband and I are in our thirties and have a child. I…

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S5 Ep. 8: Why Won't He Go Down On Me, I Told Friends About my Partner's Sex Kink, and Can You Be Too Wet for Sex? 22:51

1y ago22:51

22:51

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My new boyfriend told me I seem much wetter than other women he’s slept with. I took it as a compliment, but now he’s confessed he finds it difficult to orgasm because he can’t feel anything. Is there such a thing as being too wet for sex? 2) What does it mean if a man d…

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S5 Ep. 7: Orgasm Headaches, What's 'Normal' Porn Use, and Her Weight Worries are Ruining Our Sex Life 24:20

1y ago24:20

24:20

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I want to know if my partner is addicted to porn or whether this is normal for a man. We have sex twice a week but he says that isn’t enough for him, so he also masturbates to porn two or three times a week. We’re in our late 20s and have been together 2 years. I don’t a…

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S5 Ep. 6: My Partner Has a Secret Sexting Account, How to Convince a Lover to Try Sex Toys, and Is a Marriage Better or Worse if You've Only Ever Slept with Each Other? 25:49

1y ago25:49

25:49

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) We are the couple that everyone either envies or pities. We have only ever had one sexual partner—each other. We’ve been very happily married for 15 years so far (we’re in our mid 30s) and sex is great. Well, I think so anyway. I do worry that my partner feels like he ha…

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S5 Ep. 5: Tiresome Threesome Jokes, Why Did a Lost Erection Mean the End of Our Relationship, and What’s with the Thigh Biting? 18:55

1y ago18:55

18:55

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Whenever we go to parties, my husband always makes jokes about having a threesome with one of my best friends. It’s starting to be really weird, and I can tell it’s on his mind all the time. Is that normal? Am I not enough for him anymore? 2) I need help figuring out wha…

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S5 Ep. 4: I Hate the Way My Husband Initiates, How Do I Know If It’s Love or Loneliness, and What to Do When It’s Him Saying No to Sex 23:53

1y ago23:53

23:53

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Why can’t my husband change the way he approaches me for sex? He gives me this look that makes me want to run away…it’s primal, and it doesn’t feel good. I want him to start by just holding me and listening to me, but he says that isn’t what he wants at that time. Please…

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S5 Ep. 3: Emotional Affairs, How to Handle a Small Penis, and Is It Wrong to Only Want Sex When I’m Tipsy 22:52

1y ago22:52

22:52

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I am having an emotional affair with one of my co-workers. I’ve been married for almost 10 years, and although I know this isn’t right, it’s making me feel alive again. Every part of me wants to sleep with this man, but I don’t want to hurt my husband’s feelings and I do…

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