14: Communication Is King

The Forever Faithful Podcast With Anthony Ybarra

I Corithians 13

Communication

Connection is King

Vs 1 Though I speak withe tongue

Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.

This is that intimate conversation letting each other know you care about the inner life of your spouse asking each other questions

Face to to face conversation the staring into each others eyes because eye contact is crucial means of conversation

Stop looking at the tv screen phone and start looking at your wife or husband

Eye contact goes a long way this release adrenaline the dopamine in the brain

Be careful who you open up to this is the gateway drug for affairs.

This can produce fears and anxiety which lead to aggressive and accusatory communication. After the honeymoon was over theses things start to creep up on your marriage.

When the love is not there you are consumed with anger and bitterness.

When does this happen when your spuse is away on a business trip

Going to sleep

Waking up

Going to work

Not getting a response or text for three hours

When one is being flirtatious with someone else

When your spouse is angry at you

Your spouse is depressed or sad

Your spouse is turning down your sexual advances

Your spouse is commenting or staring anthers attractiveness

Ignoring your plead for connections

Turning down plans to do something together

Going out with friends without you

Having hobbies without you

Develop an maintain trust in your marriage

Don't be judgmental

Each other comes first for information and secret detalis an d protect it from those who try to harm it

Give to your spouse

giving inspires love

Mystic in marriage

And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.

Beauty is skin deep

Bring your highest self so work on yourself

Be a spiritual leader

Challenge your self to love your spouse more

Practice compassion

Focus on yourself be a student of self and know your short comings and work on them

Get to know your spouse study them and be what they need

Take pride in being a good partner

Be a good listener

Know there friends

Get involved in there hobbies and activities

Connect through the day

have eye contact

Look for opportunity to show support

Show gratitude

Say thank you

Do something for them that make the day easier

Buy gifts