S1E2: Trusting Aloha: Releasing Expectations and Embracing God's Timing with Tiare Lando

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In this episode of The Aloha Thumbprint, our guest Tiare Lando opens up about their fear of rejecting God's plans and their transformative personal journey. The conversation delves into international pageants, but also goes deeper to discuss anxiety, depression, and the importance of sharing stories to help others facing similar struggles. Tiare embraces the concept of aloha, emphasizing the power of giving love without expecting anything in return. She also shares her own experiences of overcoming anxiety and depression, finding healing through prayer and therapy. The speaker's passion for empowering others is highlighted through their work in real estate and directing the Hawai International Pageants. She encourages inclusivity and the power of testimonies in making a difference. Overall, this episode explores the themes of healing, growth, and leaving a legacy of love.
Here are three key takeaways from the episode:

1. Embrace the Unexpected: The speaker's fear of rejecting God's plans transformed their personal journey, highlighting the power of stepping into the unknown.
2. Share Your Story: Opening up about personal struggles, such as anxiety and depression, creates a space for healing and helps others face their challenges in a world that needs more understanding.

3. Spread Aloha: The concept of aloha goes beyond a mere greeting—it involves putting out positive energy and love into the world. Releasing expectations and choosing to love without condition or reciprocation can heal not just individuals, but also the world itself.

[00:00:56] Spouse was a wedding planner, stayed at home after child's birth, then joined spouse's company to bring in marketing skills and PR.

[00:05:26] The writer discusses how their success led to the birth of the Learning Center which aims to provide opportunities for disadvantaged youth and native Hawaiians. The partnership between Way Unified and Makaja Learning Center is discussed.

[00:07:36] Learning center was where aloha journey started. Introduced to pono shim. Aloha response experience. Explored aloha tenants, huna, and secret meanings. Life-changing experience.

[00:12:18] Aloha and love are important, as some people have never felt loved before. The message of aloha needs to be shared because it is dwindling. Giving aloha comes back, leading to a sense of fulfillment and connection in the community.

[00:16:31] Grandma taught about God's power, integrity from spouse, and father's wisdom on long-term goals.

[00:20:27] A battle of wills to stay strong, emphasizing the importance of kindness and impact through gestures, being thankful for those who shaped us, and expressing gratitude for support in times of change.