Relationships: Disorganized Attachment

Brain Based Parenting

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Join us today as we talk about Relationships and Disorganized Attachment. We delve into the disorganized attachment style, where predictability is a luxury unknown to the child. Day by day, their caregivers' responses fluctuate from warm and loving to absent or even violent. Imagine the turmoil of never knowing what mood your caregiver will be in, and how that uncertainty shapes a child's understanding of safety and self-worth. Our discussion highlights the challenges faced by both the child and the caregiver in navigating this turbulent relationship. We explore how these dynamics play out not only at home but also in other settings like school, where hyper-vigilance becomes a survival strategy. As we unravel the impact of disorganized attachment, we emphasize the importance of support for caregivers and the need for a compassionate, curious approach when faced with challenging behaviors. Ultimately, we confront the heartbreaking reality that for these children, even the concept of God may be shaped by their experiences of unpredictability and instability. Through our conversation, we aim to foster understanding and empathy for those affected by disorganized attachment, recognizing that every individual's story is shaped by their unique journey.

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Chapters

1. Understanding Disorganized Attachment in Parenting (00:00:00)

2. Impact of Disorganized Attachment in Relationships (00:09:24)

3. Challenges of Disorganized Attachment Style (00:22:15)