Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder talk about gaslighting. What is it? How does it show up during infidelity? During affair recovery? What should you do if someone is gaslighting you?* Episode Resouces: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcast503.htmlBy Tim Tedder

Counselors Tim Tedder and Jenn Gingras discuss unique issues to consider when dealing with someone who has had multiple affairs. Is there hope for recovery? What difference does it make to the betrayed partner? What does it mean to the involved partner? * Episode Resouces: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcast502.html…

Tim Tedder talks about what influences the choices and changes we make, with particular focus on decisions made in the aftermath of an affair. In the introduction, Tim and Sharon discuss life shifts resulting from COVID-19.* Episode notes and resources available at https://AffairHealing.com/podcast501…

Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder interview a neuroscientist to learn more about the limerence experience. What's going on in the brain of someone who is caught up in the powerful emotions often experienced in an affair (a condition sometimes called "Affair Fog")?* Episode notes and resources available at https://AffairHealing.com/podcast408 …

Three counselors discuss affair choices as they result in compromises (crossing the line into infidelity), indecision, and recovery.* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast407By Tim Tedder

Three counselors discuss affair responses related to anger, children, and forgiveness as they review their earlier conversations about these topics.* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast406By Tim Tedder

Three counselors respond to a callers question about the veracity of her husband's claims that he doesn't remember any of the details about his recent affair.* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast405By Tim Tedder

Tim Tedder and others discuss the various issues related to why someone has an affair in order to gain insight into the past and define changes necessary for rebuilding trust. The entire "Understanding Why" course is available at AffairHealing.com. * Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast404…

Counselor Tim Tedder respond to the question: "Is it normal to have sex struggles in your marriage after an affair?"* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast403By Tim Tedder

Three counselors respond to the question: "What can I do to help my husband heal after my affair? He's stuck."* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast402By Tim Tedder

Tim Tedder interviews Debi Silber to find out more about the five stages of Post Betrayal Transformation. Debi is the founder of PBT Institute (pbtinstitute.com), focussed on helping women move from betrayal to breakthrough. * Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast401By Tim Tedder

Counselors Tim Tedder & Sharon Tedder address the trauma of betrayal in two podcasts. In Part 2, they focus on "Recovering From Trauma." This episode includes a consideration of the unique challenges of betrayal trauma, therapeutic approaches that help in recovery, and 3 thought exercises.* Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast306 …

Counselors Tim Tedder & Sharon Tedder address the trauma of betrayal in two podcasts. In Part 1, they focus on "Understanding Trauma" especially as it is experienced by those who have been injured by a partner's affair. * Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast305* Music used in this podcast: "Low Horizon" by Kai Engel and "Movie Rhy…

Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder and Jennifer Gingras answer callers' questions regarding healing from infidelity: What can I do to help my husband who is struggling since finding out about my affair? My wife's affair revealed new things about her. How do I love her when I'm not sure I understand her anymore? How do my husband and I support each other whi…

Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, affair recovery counselors, discuss Esther Perel's book, The State of Affairs. In part 2, they talk about whether or not to tell about an affair and what issues need to be explored by couples who want to grow on the other side of infidelity. Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast303…

Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, affair recovery counselors, discuss Esther Perel's book, The State of Affairs. In part 1, they talk about understanding the meaning behind an affair and the role of each partner in the recovery process. * Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast302By Tim Tedder

In this first episode of a new season, counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder give their responses to four questions asked by callers: (1) What should I do to save my marriage when my husband seems minimally involved in the healing from his affair?(2) How do I deal with my husband's lack of details about his affair?(3) How can I know if I've truly…

Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder discuss various issues to consider when healing from an affair means leaving the marriage as they consider the choices of both the injured partner and involved partner.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast214By Tim Tedder

Counselor Tim Tedder considers the line between fidelity and infidelity and examines two affair stories to gain insight into when and how the lines are crossed. Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast213By Tim Tedder

Counselors Tim and Sharon Tedder talk about common affair recovery myths including: affairs are evidence of a bad marriage; the first step in affair recovery should be marriage counseling; hiding painful information is better than causing more hurt; forgiveness requires trusting; an affair is too personal to talk about; the betrayed spouse will fee…

Counselors Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras talk about affair healing issues of worthiness, shame, and grace in their discussion of the book Loveable by Kelly Flanagan. Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast211By Tim Tedder

Three counselors, Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras, discuss eight truths about affair recovery that betrayed partners wish their partners understood. Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast210By Tim Tedder

Affair recovery counselor Tim Tedder explains the steps necessary for couples who, after an affair, want to experience intimacy and trust in their marriage again. He interviews Ryan and Jen who talk about their satisfying marriage seven years after Ryan confessed having multiple affairs. Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast209…

Continuing in the Relationship Renewal strategy for couples building a new marriage after infidelity, Tim Tedder explains the fourth stage of Cooperation in which couples form a cooperating partnership to work toward agreed goals. (Relationship Renewal Stage. For earlier stages of Exposure, Reaction, and Clarity, listen to podcasts #118 and #120.)E…

Counseling is often an important part of affair recovery, but not every counseling choice or experience is a good one. Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, counselors who specialize in affair recovery issues, discuss eight important issues to consider when seeking therapy after infidelity.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast205…

After an affair, betrayed spouses often find themselves wanting to ask countless questions about the affair while the unfaithful spouse responds with resistance or anger. Counselors Tim and Sharon Tedder talk about each partner's role in affair recovery when it comes to questions and answers, offering specific strategies for couples to help them th…

Counselors Tim Tedder and SharonTedder discuss the potential benefits of prescription medication in helping in the affair healing process and consider reasons some people are hesitant to consider using them. This episode includes comments from listeners who share their experience with taking meds.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podca…

Counselors Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras talk about forgiveness following an affair. What is forgiveness? What is it not? What gets in the way of forgiving infidelity? What are steps to help you move toward forgiving an unfaithful partner? Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast202 [This episode also includes comments from listener…

Discussion of a recent survey asking people who'd experienced an affair in their marriage to describe the past year and their hope for the next. Counselors Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras give their perspective and talk about how they moved toward hope.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast201…

Counselors Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras discuss the difficulties often experienced when trying to navigate holiday celebrations while recovering from the trauma of an affair. They also share advice from members of our Community forum.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast123 [Music used in intro: Josh Woodward, "U…

Tim Tedder interviews Linda MacDonald, author of the book, How To Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair. They discuss affair counseling and her advice for both partners after an affair.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast122 [The following song, available at ccMixter.org, was used in this recording: “Intuition” by Quarkstar (c)co…

Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder answer a caller's question about how his wife describes her feelings for the affair partner, and recommend a recovery resource for betrayed spouses.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast121By Tim Tedder

Originally written under the pseudonym of Mark, Tim Tedder wrote a detailed account of his affair experience. It became the most popular resource on AffairHealing.com. This story, now presented in audio format, includes these chapters: Unexpected Unfaithfulness (2:00), A Vulnerable Marriage (3:27), The Right Conditions (4:55), The Other Woman (7:26…

Counselor Tim Tedder interviews Robin, whose husband announced one day that he wanted a divorce. As she tells her story, we discuss finding out about an affair, Trickle Truth, snooping, forgiving, trusting, and change.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast112By Tim Tedder

Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder discuss whether an affair reveals a deep brokenness or a temporary crack and recommend an online resource for growth and recovery.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast111By Tim Tedder

Counselor Tim Tedder discusses the evidences to look for in determining whether healthy recovery is happening in a marriage after an affair and talks to a betrayed husband about his part in their marriage healing. [Note: This is a combined re-recording of two earlier podcasts due to the high level of microphone static present in the original record…

Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder discuss one betrayed spouse's desire for her husband to send a final message to the affair partner nine months after the affair ended and consider the pros and cons of doing so. They also recommend a good book on boundaries along with talking about powdered donuts and Sharon's favorite restaurant.Episode Info & Resour…

A conversation between husband-and-wife counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder as they discuss a recent forum post about the euphoric feelings in an affair and recommend a good book to read.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast108By Tim Tedder

A unique conversation between a father and his children in which they about their experience of being in a family torn apart by his affair. A frank discussion about pain, consequences, healing, and forgiveness.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast107By Tim Tedder

Tim Tedder interviews Tim & Lori about their current journey of recovery from Lori's affair. Each shares a unique perspective of marriage on the other side of infidelity.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast105By Tim Tedder

Tim Tedder discusses the pattern of indecision often experienced by a partner who has been unfaithful, swinging back and forth between choosing their spouse or the affair partner.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast104By Tim Tedder

Tim Tedder, counselor and founder of AffairHealing.com, talks about ways destructive anger can be changed to lead toward healing and connection instead.Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast103By Tim Tedder