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Welcome to Rave Talks! Festival tips & tricks are great, but basic AF. A lot of shit goes down at events so lets talk about it! Here in Rave Talks we share our beautiful, bad, and crazy music experiences while most importantly promoting inclusive safety and well-being at events. Stay up to date on Ravetalks.com
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Listen for a laugh and a boost of confidence! The female version of BDE, Big Lash Energy isn't just a podcast- it's a lifestyle, a mindset, a vibe! Your host, Jayna Marie, has been a makeup artist beautifying brides and celebrities for the past 18 years. It's safe to say, she's mastered the art of girl talk. Listen in as she spills the tequila on what she's learned from her own messy life, crazy dates, a broken heart and whatever may come up in her makeup chair! Here, we’re learning how to l ...
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You'll never believe what Jayna's done for these girls! Is she a stylist? Or a brides personal assistant? Sometimes, its hard to tell the difference. Everyone knows that brides are demanding, but Jayna never imagined she'd be flossing teeth, scrubbing feet or even wiping butts. If you think being a wedding makeup artist is all just lipstick and con…
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If you're a big-hearted over-giver who's been hurt one too many times (by lovers, friends, or family) then this one's for you! It can be scary letting people close again after experiencing heartbreak and disappointment. If you're someone who loves big, then you've got even more to lose. In this episode, Jayna shares 3 questions you should ask befor…
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Have you ever had to divorce a FRIEND? ...it's the worst! In fact, in a recent poll, 90% of Jayna's instagram fam voted that losing a bestie hurt MORE than losing a romantic partner. (Hey, good friends are hard to find!) In this episode, Jayna shares 3 stories of times when her friendships turned from sweet to sour and what she learned from the pai…
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Jayna shares her faves when it comes to skincare, scents, accessories, swimwear and even some high tech gadgets! A carefully curated list of things that will make your summer even sweeter. Move over, Oprah, there's a new list in town! IN THIS EPISODE: -Josie Maran Body Butter in Topless Tangerine -DeLonghi Magnifica Evo -Birkenstocks (Arizona EVA) …
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A big sister tells it like it is based on her life experiences and doesn't sugar coat or shy away from the facts. In this episode, Jayna does just that. She's answering real questions from her BLE besties and she's not holding back! She may not know all the answers, but she'll happily share her opinion with your best interests at heart. Come join t…
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It's the story Jayna's parents LOVE to tell when someone new comes over for dinner. An unbelievable tale of the time an online mystery man went to extremes to win their daughters affection. A story so wild, it's left the family shaking their heads for the past 23 years. No re-telling would be complete without hearing somebody say "I thought Jayna w…
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The houseparty’s still bumping and Jayna can’t WAIT to introduce you to two more of her special guests. Gurpreet (Lash Out Studio) and Sukhi (Princess Studios) are here to talk makeup and they’re not holding back! Listen in as each woman dishes on what it’s like being a makeup artist, their beauty product must haves and which ones they think are ov…
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Its a houseparty full of talented makeup artists, and you're invited! Last week, Jayna said she didn't see any women in her industry as competition- she wants everyone to win! In this episode, she's putting her money where her mouth is. To prove it, she shines the spotlight on some of Vancouvers most talented artists. Listen in as each woman dishes…
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What 4 things do "Girls Girls" do differently? If you're curious, then listen up! This isn't just a hot new catch phrase on tiktok - its a way of living and it's so *VERY* B.L.E. Ever since Betty & Veronica, we've put the spotlight on cat fights. In this episode, Jayna shares some fun and relatable stories about what it looks like when female relat…
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When Jayna invited her girls to join her for a last minute Vegas trip, she had NO IDEA it would end up like this! What in the WORLD would have our usually calm and collected host wanting to throw hands!? ...and on a BOUNCER, no less! This episode is a wild story of a girls trip gone wrong, but in true BLE fashion, it will leave you feeling inspired…
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(Warning: Adult content!) It's BLE'S second birthday and we're celebrating by roaming the streets of Las Vegas and playing "Would you rather...?" with strangers! This episode is all about having a good time...and by the sounds of the rasp in Jayna's voice, she's been having a blast! Wait till you hear the answers when we ask men "Would you rather n…
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Are you feeling stressed? Overworked? Overwhelmed? ....You're not alone! Unfortunately, running away to a deserted island with man butlers in speedos isn't always an option. That's why Jayna is sharing 4 of the things she does to keep her sh*t together amidst an overpacked schedule and minimal free time. If you find yourself struggling to find peac…
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Having a crush on one of your teachers is pretty common...but what about when your teacher has a crush on YOU? In this episode, Jayna gets asked out on a date by none other than Mr. Simpson- her highschool drama teacher! Never one to shy away from doing anything that could make a good story, she says yes and the rest is ...well...fabulous content f…
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Get ready to feel all the warm and fuzzies! If you listened to episodes 103 + 104 then this one is a MUST! A heartwarming finale to the story that’s had everyone talking (and bawling!). Press play to hear how Arzo likes her new bedroom, what awkward things happen when Jayna’s parents come to visit (Did Jayna catch Arzo in the shower with a BOY?) an…
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This week, our host finally sits down to talk with the woman one of our BLE besties called a "National Treasure". Never one to shy away from a chance to speak her piece, Jayna's mom, Wendy, sits down to the mic with her notebook FULL of thoughts. (It's almost like she'd been waiting for her chance to vent for the past 41 years!) Together, the mothe…
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Was Jayna able to give Arzo the surprise of a lifetime or did she have to come up with another plan? This is the second half of an inspiring, heart warming story that you DO NOT want to miss! It's all about dreaming big, trusting Gods plan and the beauty that can come from choosing your own family. Jayna and Arzo have a very unique story...At 41, J…
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It's not often you meet a 16 year old who's never slept in a bed. Arzo has lived a very difficult life. 8 months ago, she needed a place to stay, so Jayna invited her into her home. As a temporary option, she offered her pull out couch, then learned that that's how Arzo had been sleeping her whole life. On a couch, in the living room. Now, Jayna's …
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Welcome to episode 2!!! Tune in as BDE talks with an artist, sheds some light on friend codes, talk about the evolution of PLUR, and talk about some big festivals happening very soon. Special thank you to Wobbleland Music Festival! Announcements: Sign up for our creator program!! https://ravetalks.com/creator-program/ To hear more of Nealson's musi…
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“I’d love to, but first I need to lose 10 pounds.” We hear it all the time! If you’ve ever caught yourself putting your best life on hold for a mythical number on a scale then you’ll find this episode super relatable. This week, you’re coming along as Jayna does a super steamy boudoir photoshoot with the wonderful Jennifer Williams, despite feeling…
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WARNING: Adult Content! Has your partner ever told you they wanted a threesome? Maybe you want one but are afraid to ask? In this weeks episode, Jayna continues on her quest to find a #3 for the man who told her the secret to keeping him loyal was one menage a trois a year. Who would have thought finding someone to join in on their sexy time would …
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Pop the Champagne!! In this episode, we’re celebrating 100 episodes of BLE and Jayna’s invited some of her besties to share what their favorite moments have been so far. She’s joined by Rikki, Tim and Arzo, as well as Sarah from the “For Better or For Worse Almost Killed Her” trilogy. It’s a star studded 43 minutes! If you’re an OG bestie, this wil…
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Come with Jayna to Los Angeles for her first ever “vlog style” episode…it’s a rollercoaster of emotions! Woohoo!! Big Lash Energy was nominated for an Ambie for "Best Relationship or Wellness Podcast" ...its a major honour! In fact, it's such a big deal, Jayna just had to bring you with her! For the first time ever, our host steps away from her scr…
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Have you been a victim of breadcrumbing? If you’re not sure what it is, listen up! This form of manipulation is a serious time suck and can make dating super confusing. In this episode, we talk about how to tell if the guys DMing you are in it for the long haul or just an ego boost. Jayna shares the story of her very first crush (hey, Mehalee!), an…
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Welcome to the first episode of season 5!!! National Women’s Month means all things HER. Tune in as BDE talks with multiple artists, sheds some light on inclusive safety, talk about empowering women who’ve helped shape EDM, and talk about some big festivals happening very soon. Special thank you to Insomniac’s Countdown Invasion and Wobbleland Musi…
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Have you ever been disgusted by the reflection looking back at you? Are there days when you feel unworthy of love because you no longer feel cute? Are you giving yourself the “ick”? ...Us too! This week, Jayna gets real about what happened on a day when she couldn’t stand to look herself in the mirror. The episode features a heartfelt conversation,…
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You’re invited to come join Jayna and her two best friends, Rikki and Elsa, on an exciting trip to Atlanta! The ladies are on their way to The Makeup Show, to spread that “bad ass, big lash energy everywhere they go” and boy do they ever! Tune in to hear the great lengths they go through to gain new listeners, and make new friends. Jayna finally ge…
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Jayna risked her LIFE for a bride and this was how she repaid her! Have you ever seen a bridezilla out in the wild? Almost every day, someone asks our host ”Tell me a crazy bride story!”. After nearly 2 decades of working in weddings, it’s safe to say she’s got a good handful to choose from. Today, Jayna's FINALLY telling the one that takes the (we…
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If you’ve ever considered being a bridal makeup artist, you might change your mind after hearing this! Our host has done hair and makeup almost exclusively for weddings for the past 2 decades and it’s safe to say, she’s seen it all! In this episode, Jayna's bypassing the typical complaints about her chosen career….like the long hours, lack of sleep…
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Wouldn’t it be tragic if you went your entire life finding beauty in everyone else but you? In this very special episode, Jayna’s snuggled in bed with Jennifer Williams, one of North Americas top Boudoir Photographers. She’s spent over a decade helping women of all sizes feel comfortable in their own skin. Both ladies bare it all as they discuss th…
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Ever had someone you really cared about not love you back the way you hoped they would? That kind of rejection can shake you to your core and leave you wondering "what's wrong with me?". This week is Jayna's birthday so she's reflecting on the past year, the love she gained and a very surprising heartbreak. Listen as she offers a new perspective on…
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Unsure of if you should plan a vacation or destination wedding in Mexico? Why not get some advice from someone who’s traveled extensively all over the country? Jayna has been going to Mexico since she was 13 and has visited dozens of times on her own as well. In this episode, our host spills the margarita from her hotel room in cabo san lucas…and i…
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An inspiring conversation between Jayna and the celebrity makeup artist who’s had the biggest impact on her career. Join in as the ladies discuss their shared passion for lifting women up, finding joy in the small things and the power that comes from embracing your uniqueness. Danessa went from being an unemployed single mama to the founder and CEO…
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In this episode, Jayna takes her team of MUA's to visit The Makeup Show in Los Angeles and it ends up being life changing! After taking classes from influential celebrity stylists, she has stars in her eyes...she imagined herself teaching on stage too. So, in the name of dreaming big, she takes a big leap aaaand... falls right on her face! Listen i…
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Here's How to Deal With The...Nice Lady. We’re discussing MIL's that have come completely unhinged…and there’s lots of them! In this episode, Jayna shares nightmare stories from some of her brides and of course, it wouldnt be BLE if she didnt give a little advice. You'll gain a new perspective as to why your relationship might be strained, as well …
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How many times have you failed to keep a promise that you made to yourself? We're all guilty! Whether it relates to getting in better shape, saving money, eating healthy...oftentimes its easier to keep our word when it comes to things we've promised other people. So what's the deal? In this episode, we're talking about the 3 mistakes we make when s…
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Feeling stressed? Imagine losing your sister/business partner and gaining a daughter all in the span of 6 months. Life can throw challenges our way that leave us feeling like we're drowning in a sea of responsibilities. From work pressures to personal challenges, it's easy to feel like we're being pulled in multiple directions. In this episode, Jay…
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“Behind Every Successful woman is a tribe of other successful women who have her back”. This isn't your typical business talk—it's a fun and heart warming journey through the highs and lows of building a business with your friends by your side. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or just love a good laugh, these chats will leave you inspired, e…
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“Sit me at the table where they’re talking about self-growth, money and goals…” This week, we saved you a seat! Listen in as Jayna discusses REAL business advice from the boss ladies who’ve lived it! In this very special episode, she introduces you to her closest friends. Why? They’re all smart, sexy, successful entrepreneurs killing it in their gi…
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Have all the dates you’ve been on lately been duds? If so, you might be doing it all wrong! In this episode, Jayna shares the 5 things she wishes someone told her before entering the dating world…the last piece of advice is is solid gold! Share this episode with your single friends who don’t have time for bad dates anymore. They’ll thank you for su…
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Who’s the best at being the worst? You decide! Audacity is at an all time high so we’re telling stories of some of the most audacious guys! Listen as Jayna hosts an Oscar-like awards show full of jaw dropping “did he really just say that?” moments. It’s the awards show you never knew you needed. Press play and you’ll be transported to a hilariously…
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"Date someone with money" they said...."Find someone who's on your level or better" they said...Jayna took their advice and just wait till you hear how THAT went! Recent studies found that 61% of people say they would lie on the first date - you know, about the usual things like height, finances, sexual history or whether or not the dog in their pr…
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The Rock, JLo and Jennifer Lawrence all disappointed their parents on the road to success and Jayna did too! After making the move from a promising psychologist to wannabe makeup artist, her mom cried for three days! In this episode, she shares how her mom went from her #1 sceptic to her #1 fan. Listen to her makeup artist origin story as well as t…
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This is the crucial information every menstruating woman needs to know. A new way of living that has transformed Jayna's life so she's sharing the road map with you! We've been sold a lie- Our menstrual cycle is about so much more than bleeding- with the right knowledge, it can be a powerful compass that can guide your physical, emotional, and ment…
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Is there anything more terrifying than having a blood stain on your butt? How did something as normal as a monthly flow became so taboo? The answer is sure to surprise you! (Here's a hint: It was GENIUS marketing - We've been sold a lie!) Buckle up for the period talk you should have got in highschool…the big sister chat we all needed. Listen in to…
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Did you know your childhood affects how you show up in all relationships in your life - romantic or otherwise? This week, Jayna is talking with Jason Green, a popular attachment styles Coach. Listen in as she learns the 4 styles of attachment, how to recognise them in the wild and what to look for in a potential partner once you identify which one …
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Did he seriously just say that? Some guys really need to get a clue! Laugh along as Jayna makes it through her list of “8 Annoying Things Men Do”. Let’s be honest, the list could have been much longer but we’re trying to keep it to under 30 min…Have any of these ever happened to you? IN THIS EPISODE -Annoying things men do -What not to say in the b…
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Tune in as BDE wraps up season 4! From interviews live from Imagine Music Festival, highlighting important techniques on how to get out of uncomfortable situations, chatting with the special guest, Leah Culver, and so much more! For more information check out our website here Follow us on Instagram @ravetalks_ Like us on Facebook Rave Talks Make su…
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Have you felt the pain of losing someone you thought was a good friend? If you’ve ever been blocked /unfriended and unfollowed by the person you considered your soul sister then you know exactly how badly it stings. This week, we’re exploring why losing girlfriends can hurt more than a romantic breakup. Jayna shares a story of a time when she was s…
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Hold onto your ruler, my guy!! In this fun and informative episode, we're pulling back the curtains (with consent, of course) on the age-old debate: does penis size matter? Join Jayna as she measures up the myths, sizes up the science, and probes into personal perspectives. This episode is full of surprises, including some unexpected stats that mig…
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Have constant disappointments led you to feeling like the only one you can count on is you? The struggle to find love as a proudly independent and self-sufficient woman is REAL! Listen to the hard story of how Jayna became obsessed with success and what led to her feeling the need to constantly whip her invisible dick around on dates. Now she’s sha…
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