It's midnight and love is keeping you awake. Either you have so much of it or less of it. Hmmm... Why not talk about it, stranger? Let's have that awkward conversation about behaviors, thoughts, and ideas about romantic love and romantic relationships. Let's connect on instagram: @lilithstr Share your thoughts with me and I'll listen through email: linotegami@gmail.com
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I can't believe you are still listening here. Hey, I wanted to change the format and topics. Feel free to send me a message or an email about the topics you want to hear.
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We sang it, we wish it, some even prayed for it. Why aren't we getting it? Let's talk about that in this episode.
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Unpopular Opinion: Love Depends on Your Point of View
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The word "Love" can be a noun or a verb and can be an adjective. It isn't limited to just one form. Most of the time, we look at it from a single point of view. That's why it is so easy to say we don't have love in our lives; a very damaging statement. It even inspire worry within our families and friends. Can we take a look at love from a differen…
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Have you ever fallen in love with someone you haven’t met? Or have you ever been confused with what you are feeling for someone you only get to talk online? You’re on the right episode. It is past midnight but hey… let’s talk about this virtual love.
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Unpopular Opinion: You Have to Love Yourself Too
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Have ever felt like you've lost yourself in a relationship? Let's explore that feeling and understand when that starts to happen. It is a key in unlocking one of the many steps that you can take to loving yourself when you are in a relationship.
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As noble as our intentions would be, we can't simply fix a person. Have you been in that kind of relationship? Or were you the one trying to fix someone to make them fit in your life or simply because they were broken? There are people waiting to be saved and there are people waiting to save someone. Most often than not, they aren't the ones paired…
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Hey, It's Getting Serious: Finding the One
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Do you believe that in a sea of billion of people, there is that one person destined for you? What better way to end the season but to leave you in thoughts about The One. At one point or another, we were hopeful and idealistic. The songs we have sang and the poems we've read, most of it centers around the idea that there is that one person. As we …
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Hey, It's Getting Serious: Expectations and Reality
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We say expectation versus reality. Now, I say it is expectation and reality. It isn't bad having but we draw the line at whether it is realistic or not. Before completely committing yourself to a relationship with someone, this is a conversation that might help in making the commitment smoother and better. Yes, you will need some pen and paper. Let…
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Don't you just wish we have a Red Flag detector? Life would so much be easier. Hahaha! But we don't. That's the reason why we should talk about topics like this. You can't prepare for the whole experience with a person but you can prepare for some of it. Having a flashlight is still better when you're about to go in the dark. You can't see everythi…
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They do it for almost anything now, why not do it for this episode? Here are some tips and tricks to help you while you are on a hunt. TIf you don't know where to start, start with these for dating. Join me as we explore more of these tips and tricks on this episode.
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Did someone ghost you? Still trying to understand what went wrong with the last date? Sounds like you've been rejected. For things we don't usually talk about this is one of the most painful. No, I am not going to ask to think about that time when... We don't like to relive the trauma. Join me this week as we decapitate rejection.…
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You’ve heard what I think and I have become. You know what my alternate ideas are about love and romance. For the first year of the podcast, you’d hear one part of the story that hasn’t been shared. This isn’t my story. Thank you, stranger, for this first year. Let’s get to know this story a little better.…
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Are you picky when it comes to dating? Should you lower your standards and settle down? Join in this week's episode and explore these questions.
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How long have you been single now? Do you feel the itch to be with someone else? Is it physically? Or do you want to experience romantic love again? Are you lonely just because you're alone? Let's scrath our heads and help you decipher these things.
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Transitioning to a single life isn't comfortable. It can be easy but not comfortable. At this point, there are so many things to consider like, should you still be friends with your ex? How about the family? Or the group of friends? Do you want to stay friends with someone who just broke your heart? Or someone who's heart got broken by you? It's a …
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So, you're single! Congratulations! Well, it's normal not to be very happy now that you are transitioning to being single. There are still a lot of memories you are trying to go through and reasons that you are still trying to understand. Probably, at this point, still afraid of navigating through it. So, where to start?…
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If you're a in a break up, listen up until the first 10 minutes of the podcast. This isn't it for you yet. Process your feeling and come back. The best time to learn anything is when you are calm. Any risk should just be simulated and not yet the actual experience. If you're in a break up right now, half of our conversations wouldn't make sense yet…
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Is the breakup harder for the person getting left behind or the person breaking up the relationship? Is it easier to move when you are the dumper? When is a break clean or bad? Let's explore these questions as we continue to talk about breakups.
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We have avoided talking about Breakups, because who wants to go through it. Conversations about breakup is something I wish had. When you understand something it won't make it less painful but it will make it a little bearable. Let's start our conversation with where it ends, to help us start and begin. Let's talk about why a break up is hard and w…
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We like doing things for others, can we do those things for ourselves? We give and give but up to what extent? Where are we getting what give away? Let's have this conversation about loving yourself a little more. At the end of this, let me know if it sounds selfish. Love is inclusive and not exclusive. That means in loving, you also have to includ…
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Why do we make resolutions we can't keep? How do we keep them? It's a thing that we like doing every year and every year, we break these resolutions. Worse, we decide not to keep them. Let's strip the fancy part of making a resolution and find a way to create one that we can actually keep. Also, that's a resolution in itself. Cheers to the year tha…
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This year I have answered some of the questions that I had been having. Instead of the usual Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, we can share more about what we have learned. I was able to uncover how love feels and since love is inclusive, I want to share that with you. It isn't even a farfetched idea once you learn how love fulfills itself. Also,…
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A summary of types of love from this season. Where is Love anyway? Love becomes more accessible when we remove certain filters we have trained ourselves to have. I would still say that it is in your brain and it happens right. This season was awesome as it allowed me to understand love further and de-mystify in a way that preserves its value. Let's…
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Having a better understanding of the different kinds of love, will also help you realize that you are capable of loving and that you are being loved. The last kind of love though is almost close to Divinity. What is selfless love? Is it something that we can truly achieve? The idea seems utterly romantic and far-fetched but hey, let's find out.…
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So, they say it is the practical love? But is it? What makes people stay in a relationship? Have you also thought about this question? What makes it last long? Is it really all about commitment? These are also my questions. Let's talk about it from a point of view of someone who hasn't experienced it.…
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Type of Love 6: Romantic Love, When It Ends.
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Let's talk about break ups. Something that we all go through but we don't like talking about it. I mean, who wants good things ending? Why would you want to deal with something that is not happening yet? Well, no one can prepare you for it but we can understand it better so, we can deal with it when it happens. A break up is always hard and challen…
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Type of Love 6: Romantic Love, How does it Progress?
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Now that we are way past flirting and we have figured out how we started, how do we go from point A to point B? How do you know you’re there? How do you know where it is going? Let’s talk about the excitement with a tinge of jealousy. Let’s talk about what’s fair and not. Let’s strip romance off romantic love.…
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Type of Love 6: Romantic Love, How it starts?
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How does the fairytale? Or is it a fairytale? Let’s talk about Romantic Love and how it starts. Is it falling in love with love? Getting deeply infatuated? Or falling in love with person? Conversations we rather not have but we’re having it. Let’s talk about romantic love.
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It’s a kind of love, obsession is a kind of love. It starts there until it spirals down. Every one acts crazy at some point but no one dares to talk about why or even understand why. We just like labelling the other person as obsessed. Let’s decapitate obsessive love.
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Enjoy flirting? Guess what, the Greeks said it is a kind of Love. Let's talk about it. Is it really bad? Is something that should be enjoyable? When does it become not enjoyable? We have so much to talk about flirting. I would also like to share one bad pickup line that gets people replying to me on dating apps. Let's decapitate Playful Love.…
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Love can take many forms and it can shift from one to another. Feeling different types of love for one person is also a good experience. Friendship is one that can evolve to an enduring love. Let's talk about our friends and how wonderful friendship is.
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This episode maybe triggering for some listeners. There's a love that we were born into. That is the love between our parent/s and us. It is not always perfect and some of us may still be looking for it. We may have had embraced this love or disassociate ourselves with it, there's always be a bond between us and them. Let's decapitate some ideas su…
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Self love may sound narcissistic. While it is part of self love, it goes beyond the vanity that we know of. It is when we confront shame and recognize the lack of love within us. Let's decapitate the romantic ideas around self love. Have you loved yourself?
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Changing directions to just having interviews this season, let's go back to the basics. Knowing which love you are currently experiencing for a person can help you establish a better relationship. An introduction to the types of love, we'll dedicate an episode for each type of love. Do you want to share your expertise or experience? Send me an emai…
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Unpopular Opinion 12: Love Happens in the Brain
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The Science of Love is the best way go de-mystify this part of ghe relationship. Let’s decapitate it! (Thank you for staying for Season 1! See you in Season 2!)
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I had been comtemplating about it. Have you considered being in an open relationship? Let’s talk about it, in this episode.
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Do you have the “what ifs” in your relationships? Are you giving so much thought on how your relationship will progress in the future? It could be a sign of overthinking. Let’s talk about it and learn when it happens and how it happens.
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Are the crazy jealous girlfriend? Is it even ok to feel jealous in a relationship? Are you really a jealous person? Let’s de-mystify Jealousy.
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Have you been blocked? Have you ever blocked someone? It feels bad for each of the ends. How do yout take? Let’s decapitate that thought.
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Unpopular Opinion 7: It’s Not All About You?
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Are you a victim, a survivor or just blaming yourself because of a break-up? 🤔 You can’t be all three. Let’s decapitate the idea: in a break-up you are neither.
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I don’t why we don’t talk ablut this too ofter. We’re not prude, we are making sure we are send the right message out. Let’s explore sexual fantasie, are they normal of not?
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The first of a 2-part series about fantasies in a relationship. Why are they important in a relationship? When is it not ok? Let’s decapitated romantic fantasies and find out where our thoughts would lead us.
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Unpopular Opinion 4: It Is Ok to be Prude
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Ever wondered why some girls act the way they do? Like almost innocent and scared to talk about sexuality or even see nudity? Let’s decapitate the myth that is being prude.
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Unpopular Opinion 3: Sex is Important in a Relationship
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What makes sex important in a relationship? Physical touch like a hug or a kiss can improve your improve. More than that, why is it important in a relationship? Let’s understand what it can do if you don’t get enough of it.
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Do you feel like you can’t get romantically involved because no one likes you? Ooohhh... let me answer that you.
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Unpopular Opinion 1: It Starts with Physical Attraction
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Is physical attraction really important in a relationship? Being a woman and having this opinion, I get a lot of judging looks. I am marked as shallow. I don’t really care and you shouldn’t too. Why know why? Let’s explore this idea by.
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