Honesty is hard to come by now a days. Ask the people who've been "Cat fished". Often times conversation or even confrontation brings about growth and an avenue for reconciliation. Keep it a Bu¢k uses Honesty with a bit of Satire to cover Relationships, Self awareness, Black Men's emotions, Daily life, Culture, God & Black Women's value in the culture all from the perspective of You. Well......Me, but I'm you, I'll say the things you want to or should have said. A couple things are guarantee ...
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There is so much that can be completed by staying consistent. We grow up in an age of instant gratification and rewards, when really the joy is in the process. Anything worked on daily is better than everything that is done just once. Dont be defeated by the work, rejoice in it.By Saani
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Rather your male or female, having healthy outlets to deal with past trauma is not something prevalent in the Black community. Few men even mention their trauma yet alone deal with it, but there seems to be a growing trend in women being comfortable mentioning their flaws but uncomfortable and uninterested in a resolution. Everyone has issues and m…
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The place the Black man unwillingly occupies in this country is not for the weak at heart, in fact it's sole purpose to to rid the Black man of all emotion. The positioning of the Black man turned into a race for the spot, rather that's a spot out the hood, the spot at a job or with your favorite girl in the city. Birthed from this was our "cool' g…
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The 1st question we must ask ourselves is, what is a Destiny and once you've wrapped your mind around that ask yourself where does a destiny come from. Saani unpacks the thought of who does and doesn't have a destiny. Are you in control of yours?By Saani
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If you've ever loved then you know the feeling is a 'one to one'. The question posed is does love expire, what would make you stop loving a person, how could you stop loving someone, is there a process? Saani gives his thoughts on Love, egos and much more in this episode.By Saani
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S2 E15 | How Mu¢h you Sacraficing for your relationship?
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On this Episode: Saani urges the power to the people in our on going crusade against those who oppress in this country(5:26), then starts with the tough questions. Would you let your significant other sleep with their celebrity crush?(13:05). Stressing the importance of chasing your Destiny(21:03). An important and delicate question in a relationsh…
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You're only as Wealthy as you are Healthy! | S2 E14
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In light of the 2020 Riots stemming from the brutal killing George Floyd(Yet another unarmed Black man killed by the police) Saani gives his true takes on race in our country. He encourages Black people to talk openly with people of other cultures about said events(11:40). Dear White People am I equal(16:45). He also acknowledges the FIGHT that is …
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"Reality is what's Real, not what it's supposed to be" From American's salary to their dating there are certain standards of the way things are "Supposed to be", so much so that lying or neglecting ones actual self has become a lifestyle for many. "Your Wife cheated, you gotta leave her" .......right?(26:20). Saani puts this in example form when he…
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Could there be any connection between the lack of Black fathers in the house hold and our lack of heritage? Saani theorizes the posed question, but not before he reminds of what "Walking to the Store" was like(9:28). The basis of his theory centered on the youthfulness of the race itself, the African American Race being just over 400 years old(16:4…
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This week's episode features a list full of questions from Saani. He offers his advice to couples attempting to learn each other more(6:08). THE RAGE, Saani expresses his heightened dislike for fund raisers and the Girl scouts.(7:55) In the Growing up Black segment he challenges the listeners to think about what the craziest thing in their "Junk Dr…
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What is a goal? Do you have one? Did you have one? Sometimes in life we let life itself get in the way of the things that matter most to you. Today Saani urges his listeners to remember and pursue their goals! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/keepitabuckpodcast/supportBy Jasaan Batson
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S2 | Episode 9 | The Mountain Vs The Mole
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In our culture often times we tend to nevermind others problems if it doesn't quite effect us as much. What one problem is to one group may not be a problem to another. Respect the the underlying principle when addressing problems and how people on each end of the spectrum should address and receive them. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm…
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S2 Episode 8 | That's Just My Fraaaaaaaaan(Having friends of the opposite sex)
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Platonic friends is a term that is often misused as well as misunderstood. The societal pressures that have been created by our dishonesty, greed and lack of character ultimately have led us to distrust. Because of this when in a relationship, significant others often have the tendency to take issue with the friend seeing them as a threat. Having f…
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S2 Episode 7 | Relationship Issues-Changing VS Adapting
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Relationships consist of two equal parts merging to improve on their original form. Humans are all made different so this can often be a challenge. Relationships take patience, dedication, understanding and sacrifice. That being said there will be some things you do, say or ways in which you think that may need to be tailored to fit your relationsh…
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Our social status has become the Pinnacle of our goals. Instead of wanting to be something for ourselves we have altered our priority list to be what others want us to be. That being said something that keeps us from that realm in which we seek is considered weak or a sign of inadequacy. Certain symptoms of Depression happen in life, its natural. W…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | S2 Episode V | Be your Own Tattle Tell
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Knowledge of the world has only grown more vast with the ages. Subsequently we have never been further away from ourselves. Searching within is a practice rarely taught and applied even more scarcely. That why it is no wonder we try to keep things from others, mainly ourselves which also leads us to falsely believe we can hide things from God. We’v…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | S2 Episode 4 | Imagine That
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Society has reduced the imagination to be a stage of adolescents. I argue that it’s not a juvenile feature at all. Sure we all discover we have imaginations as kids, but some where along the way we are taught or suggested to leave them with the things of our childhood. Your imagination is limitless, it’s also one of the only things that can’t be re…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | S2 Episode 3 | Commitment
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Do you have what it takes? What a cliche line right……or is it. The things that we feel we’re obligated to do sometimes get in the way of what we want to and should be committed to. That being said I’d be remise if I didn’t mention just because they get in the way doesn’t mean they stop us. The choice not to do something is just that, a choice. When…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | S2 Episode 2 | Playing Your Role
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Relationships comprise of separate entities combing to co-exist if not make each other better. So why do we often times fight our placement in such equations? Is it Pride, misguided tension or something deeper? Saani uses examples of symbiotic relationships to delve deeper into roles in relationships and how important they are. He also briefly chro…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | S2 Episode 1 | The Hoodie
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The disadvantages of being from the an impoverished neighborhood are plenty and well documented. From lack of resources to virtually no real government support. But don’t be fooled there are an ARRY of things to be learned from residing in the hood that can be applied to everyday life. Saani titles these things your ‘Hood Spidey Senses’, abilities …
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | Episode 15 | What About your Friends?
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Your friends are one of, if not the biggest influence in your formative years. In Fact I believe that your friends help you become who you are with far greater frequency than your parents, your school, your pastor or your cousins. Friends should help you grow, that's what they are for and that's why it is imperative that we have them. Saani's jokes…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | Episode 14 | The Buoyancy of Life
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Unfortunately or Fortunately, depending on how you look at it, we are not able to pick the hand of the cards that are dealt to us. We know in life that there will be ups there will be downs, the key component is how we react to these. Things that are buoyant refuse to stay beneath where their physical make up tells them they should be. In life we s…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | Episode 13 | Can Cheating be an Addiction?
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Cheating is so common it’s UNCOMMON if it’s never happened to you. With an act so disrespectful being so popular, could there be something more to it? Is it more than just a series of bad decisions? Is it a disease in fact. If not, are you of the belief that Loyalty means Loyalty, Friendship means Friendship, and Honor is to be upheld? So someone w…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | Episode 12 | Striving for 2nd
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What are you good at? Better yet what do you give effort in? We often times lose the fact that we were all built to be great. When we don’t land where we want when we want we tend to give up on being the best. The best you is hidden, waiting on you to discover it behind all you hard work. Music: Artist: King Los Song: God Money War Album: God Money…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | Episode 11 | Relationships NEED Confrontation
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Is your relationship perfect?…..Of course not, and neither is anyone else’s. For that reason it is key that we voice or opinions’s concerns, vulnerabilities and fears in our most intimate of relationships. To only know the good side of a person is to not know them at all. Our uniqueness is what makes us so special, and to suppress something that im…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | Episode 10 | Consumer Responsibility
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Previously voicing his opinion regarding the cultures purchasing power(Episode 5 He not really Black), Saani sounds off on what we’re spending our linear capital on. The movies and shows that are popularized and rewarded handsomely as well as the pieces made popular by cultures who may not respect the art form as much. He equates the poor quality c…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | Episode 9 | Dating Vs Dating
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The Original concept of dating is outdated and ineffective to say the least. Saani details why the expectations among other things, that come along with dating is far fetched and ultimately furthest away from our true self. He also takes us back down memory lane to one of the most vibrant and thriving times for the African-American community ‘The H…
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Keep it a Bu¢k Podcast | Episode 8 | Keys to a Healthy Relationship-Vision
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Saani gives his 3 keys to maintaining any healthy relationship/Vision. He first questions the listenership about their imagination and what it means to them, he connects the imagination of our youth to our dreams of tomorrow. Using a multitude of different relationships test his theory over and over again. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.f…
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Episode 7 | Do Black Women have attitudes?
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Saani addresses the stigma that Black women have an attitudes. He gives his viewpoint followed by facts in the Wage disparity, Workplace harassment and the treatment of Black women within their communities. He thoroughly explains to why he feels such a way, issuing a challenge even. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/keepitabuckpodcast/sup…
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What does it mean to be a "Hoe"? The term itself is misunderstood but highly essential. Saani gives his definition + the growth pattern it creates when you begin the process. He also address the "Hunter" in men and why that portion of men must be excavated. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/keepitabuckpodcast/support…
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Saani addresses division in the race attributing the root cause to subconscious common terms such as “Acting Light Skin” and “he not from the hood”. He also delivers facts about the purchasing power of African-American’s in the country including close 50% of all Soap and Beauty sales. In the Love Yourself/Love somebody else segment he challenges th…
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Saani uses real life experiences and relevant parables to explain the coverage the God gave us. Using King’s Davi’s life in its entirety, he encourages those who question how holy they really are. Taking the audience from David’s childhood battle with Goliath to his biggest sin he committed against God. He reminds us just how Vital and generous Jes…
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Saani uses scientific studies to present his case into why expressing our emotions is good for us. He also questions why people cover their neck when dodging rain. After which he doubles back to labeling emotions and further examines that connection with Black men and being afraid to express themselves from such phrases as ‘Get out yo Feelings.’ He…
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Saani address the age old question regarding Flirting. But first he must decode what cheating actually is. Taking the human emotions into account his views are brash and concise. Using the New York Times best selling book[ 'Contagious'-Jonah Berger] , he speaks of a 'self sharing 'theory and compares social media to "a kid showing off his new proje…
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If you we're in a relationship seeking advice, would you rather it come from: A person whom is HAPPILY single and wants to remain that way or from someone who is UNHAPPILY in a relationship? Saani gives his thoughts on this relationship query. In the "Why you do that?" segment he also tackles a growing 'Hand-shake' problem in America. Of course he …
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