In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the emotions and struggles that arise after betrayal, even years after confession. They explore the importance of cultivating a safe community for confession and the shame that the betrayed person may carry. They share their own experiences and offer insights on how to cope with intense emotions and …

Christian Watson, founder of 1924.us, shares his personal journey of overcoming pornography addiction and the importance of speaking out about it. Christian discusses the root causes of pornography addiction, including trauma and brokenness, and highlights the need for understanding and support. He also addresses the shame and guilt associated with…

In this last and final epsidoe of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of intercession in the context of spiritual warfare and healing. They emphasize the need for community and the power of prayer in supporting and uplifting one another. They also highlight the role of prayer in bringing comfort, peace, and hope to th…

What does the Sword of the Spirit have to do with pornography? Porn is a destructive trap, but we have been given the power to fight back. In this episode Layton and Chelsea highlight the importance of the spoken word of God and the ability to use Scripture against the lies of the enemy. Every piece of armor before this has been defensive in nature…

Chelsea and Layton unpack the Helmet of Salvation as part of their Armor of God series. They explore the significance of the helmet in protecting the mind and controlling our thoughts, while emphasizing the importance of understanding our identity as children of God and the assurance of salvation. The connection between the breastplate of righteous…

The conversation explores the concept of the Shield of Faith, drawing parallels from historical references and personal experiences. It delves into the nature of faith, its challenges, and the importance of community support. The discussion also addresses the relationship between faith and fear, the significance of God's promises, and the role of f…

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the significance of having 'sandals fitted with the Gospel of peace' as part of the Armor of God. They explore the concept of peace as an active and powerful state, the metaphor of feet for scaling mountains, and the battle against sin and brokenness. They also share personal experiences and reflections o…

In the second episode of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss righteousness and it's relationship with porn and healing. They contrast positional and conditional righteousness and how both are related to our walk with Jesus. The episode concludes with prayer and an encouragement to put on the Breastplate of Righteousness every day.…

In this episode, Layton and Chelsea introduce their new series on The Armor of God. They discuss the importance of truth as the foundation of the armor and how it applies to various aspects of life, including overcoming porn addiction and betrayal. They explore the lies of the world and the flesh, and the power of God's truth to combat them. They e…

Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, shares her personal journey into sex education and the importance of reclaiming the conversation around sex. She discusses the challenges and misconceptions surrounding sex education, while also highlighting the impact of pornography on kids and offering guidance on how to respond when they are exposed to…

This week's conversation explores the possibility of finding freedom and sobriety from pornography without a belief in God. Chelsea and Layton discuss their different perspectives on the topic, while emphasizing the importance of Jesus in true healing. They also address the challenge of waiting for someone to find sobriety and the power of prayer i…

In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of betrayal and how Jesus can empathize with those of us who have experienced it. They explore different examples of betrayal in the Bible, including Judas, Peter, and the Pharisees. The goal of the conversation is for listeners to rely on Jesus and understand that he truly understands th…

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of strongholds, specifically focusing on Psalm 9:9 which states that the Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed in times of trouble. They explore different perspectives on strongholds, including the idea of reclaiming them and making Jesus the ultimate stronghold. They also discuss the importa…

Our friend Scott Kedersha joins us to discuss the challenges and impact of pornography in relationships. Scott is the Marriage Pastor at Harris Creek Baptist Church. He shares his personal journey and how he became passionate about helping couples build strong marriages. Scott provides insights on how to address pornography addiction, the dangers o…

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate fear in relationships, particularly when there has been a history of betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trusting in God's goodness and surrendering control. They also discuss the need to question feelings and challenge irrational thoughts. Applying biblical truth and communicating …

In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the impact of dopamine on addictive behavior, particularly in relation to pornography and sexual addiction. They explore how engaging in addictive behavior can lead to temptation and sin, as well as the dangers of dopamine addiction. They also discuss the influence of big tech and the need to be pres…

Nate Larkin shares his journey of recovery and healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Growing up in a conservative Christian home, Nate experienced trauma and shame that led him to seek solace in pornography. He struggled with guilt and shame, hiding his addiction from his wife and family. Eventually, he reached a breaking point and sought …

In this episode of Liberator, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of fighting fair in the context of pornography and relationships. They draw from their own experiences and share insights on how to navigate conflict without bringing up past hurts. They emphasize the need for humility, forgiveness, and taking thoughts captive. The episode high…

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate friendships of the opposite sex in the context of healing and rebuilding trust after experiencing betrayal. They emphasize the importance of being vulnerable with the right people and being cautious of oversharing. The conversation covers topics such as seeking accountability, setting boun…

Phil and Priscilla Fretwell share their journey of healing and restoration in their marriage after years of secrecy and addiction. They emphasize the importance of transparency, vulnerability, and accountability in overcoming struggles and finding healing. Their story has had a ripple effect, impacting their family and friends, and they now ministe…

In this conversation Jamie Ivey discusses her book 'Why Can't I Get It Together?' and shares her personal struggles with feeling out of control and having unrealistic expectations. She emphasizes the importance of community and vulnerability in overcoming these challenges. Jamie also opens up about her experiences with pornography and the power of …

The healing process after betrayal is long and fraught with unexpected challenges. Even the smallest misunderstanding can spiral into a full-blown fight when trust is fragile or missing. In this episode we break down a common conflict that we've found ourselves in, as well as how we've learned to navigate it over the years.…

Every day seems to bring a new invention or scientific breakthrough. This episode we take a few minutes to parse through the intersection of technology and porn, as well as give our thoughts on where we see some of these trends heading.

Heath Lambert (M.Div, Ph.D.) joins Liberator this week! Dr. Lambert will share insights into pornography and relationships from his book research, as well as years of experience as a pastor. Our conversation delves into marriage, singleness, and Heath’s advice for those suffering the aftermath of betrayal. Heath’s Books: Finally Free and The Great …

Is watching porn really that big of a deal? It seems like it's a lot better than some of the alternatives, and it feels especially harmless if I'm single. Join Chelsea and Layton as they take a closer look at one of the most common questions they receive. Fight The New Drug Truth About Porn

Join us as we take a closer look at one of the key verses that helped Layton on his journey towards healing. We'll explore the themes of freedom and our identity in Christ. "For Freedom Christ has set us free. Stand firm, therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery."

We are joined today by our dear friend, Dave. Dave's work on the missions field takes place in sensitive and dangerous circumstances, so his full name is being withheld to protect his family and ministry partners. In this episode we will discuss the spread and impact of pornography throughout the developing world, as well as the enduring power of d…

It’s time for our Season 3 Q&A! Please join us as we open up the inbox and answer listener’s questions from Instagram and Liberator.com. Thank you for another fantastic season and entrusting us with your time and attention. We look forward to connecting with you soon. Be well and God Bless! Resources Layton & Chelsea mentioned: Defend Young Minds, …

This week we are joined by Kristen A. Jenson. She is the founder of Defend Young Minds® and the #1 best-selling author of the Good Pictures Bad Pictures read-aloud books. Her books have translations in over a dozen languages and are now augmented by a Guidebook for Counseling Kids supporting child therapists and educators. She is also the executive…

Bryan and Bonnie Pue are the founders and leaders of The Union Movement. As a young man, Bryan was into the party scene - depressed, angry and addicted to porn. Meanwhile, Bonnie was the homeschooled Christian teen whose naivety was shattered by the sexual sin of a church leader. Though their backgrounds were vastly different, they were both deeply…

Crystal Renaud Day is a pastoral counselor, certified coach, podcast host, author, and speaker with over 15 years of experience working with women facing pornography and other unwanted sexual behavior. Crystal owns and operates Living on Purpose Coaching & Pastoral Counseling and is the founding director of SheRecovery, an online ministry helping w…

Matt Krieg, MA, LPC is a licensed therapist in the state of Michigan, connecting with many individuals and couples to develop more compassion and curiosity toward themselves and others, specifically around the topics of sexuality and marriage. Along with his wife, Laurie, Matt co-hosts the Hole in my Heart Podcast, and also co-authored the book, An…

We are delighted to host Dr. Juli Slattery this week on Liberator. Dr. Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist, author, speaker and the president/co-founder of Authentic Intimacy. From 2008-2012, Dr. Slattery served at Focus on the Family writing, teaching, and co-hosting the Focus on the Family Broadcast. In 2012, she left Focus on the Family to …

This week we are happy to welcome Jacob Valk and John-Michael Bout, filmmakers of the documentary, Into The Light. Into The Light is a Teaching Documentary on freedom from pornography that walks through the fundamentals of change from bondage in sin to freedom in Christ. This documentary is a hope-filled, Gospel-centered resource for individuals an…

To kick-off Season 3 we have our friend and licensed therapist, Jason VanRuler on the show. Jason began his career in 2011 and has worked with many populations over the years, ranging from persons who are incarcerated to top CEOs, performers and artists, and just about everyone in between. Jason has extensive experience as a clinician, coach, and s…

Dr. Meg Meeker is a pediatrician who is widely recognized as one of the country’s leading authorities on parenting, teens and children’s health. With appearances on numerous nationally syndicated radio and TV programs, her popularity as an expert on key issues confronting families has created a strong following across America. Her work with countle…

Sathiya Sam is an author, coach, and speaker that helps men live with confidence and integrity. A recovered addict himself, Sathiya is the creator of DeepClean – a research-based and Bible-backed system for overcoming porn addiction. This work has helped everyone from college students to medical doctors regain control of their lives and walk in gre…

Mo (Isom) Aiken is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker and blogger. Not only an accomplished writer, Mo was an All-American goalkeeper for the Louisiana State University soccer team, as well as the first female to train with and tryout for an SEC men's football team. Mo speaks nationally and internationally on a variety of faith-based topi…

Steve Etner is a national men's speaker, author of five books, and a Purity Coach. His conferences, seminars and retreats focus on what God has to say about the way we think and the impact it has on our behavior. Teaching men how to live in moral purity by equipping them with Biblical answers, Steve's goal is for men to have a re-ignited passion fo…

Danny Ray and Kimberly Thompson have been married for 26 years and are devoted to doing whatever it takes for their marriage. Danny is one of the world’s premier illusionists and has amazed thousands of audiences worldwide. Yet, he is far more than entertainment — Danny and his team bring the powerful and transforming message of the Gospel to every…

Sam Black is a former journalist and current Director of Recovery Education for Covenant Eyes; he understands the stronghold pornography can have on an individual’s life. His new book The Healing Church actively addresses these issues and provides clear guidance for ministry leaders as they support those who seek to live in freedom. Sam joins us to…

Jessica Harris is the founder of the Beggars Daughter ministry and author of the books Beggars daughter, and Quenched: Quenched: Discovering God’s Abundant Grace for Women Struggling with Pornography and Sexual Shame released in 2023. Sharing her story has grown to encompass much more than just one woman’s struggle with pornography. She writes and …

Bob and Dannah Gresh are bestselling authors and leaders of the Pure Freedom, True Girl, and Born to Be Brave ministries. They join us to talk about Dannah's newest book, Happily Even After, and the incredible redemption story of their marriage. Resources Dannah mentioned: Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken, by Cindy Beall Dannah’s website:…

Richie Henson has over a decade of experience working in youth ministry and currently serves as the Senior High Pastor at New Hope Community Church. Today he joins us to field questions about pornography submitted by students aged from Junior High to College. Questions Covered in This Episode: What constitutes porn and is there porn that is ok? Doe…

Join us as we unpack more of our journey and detail some of the initial steps we took towards healing. Your story might not look exactly like ours, but it can be redeemed like ours has.

Phylicia Masonheimer is a bestselling author, Bible teacher, and host of the Verity podcast. Her blog and shop, Every Woman a Theologian, exists to teach Christians how to know what they believe and live that out boldly. Phylicia walks us through her story of being introduced to erotica at a young age and the importance of finding her true identity…

Jeff Carter, PT, MBA, is the Owner of Apogee Therapy Center (atcforme.com), a Functional Medicine and Integrative Health Therapy Center. Jeff will draw on his years of experience and passion for research to unpack how pornography creates addiction in the brain, as well as steps we can take to break free. Resources Jeff Referenced: The Hacking of th…

Jeremy Bilderback MA, LLPC is a close friend and mentor. He has earned his Masters in Counseling from Grand Rapids Theological Seminary. Jeremy will be talking with us about how pornography acts as a damaging imitation of real relational connection. Books Jeremy referenced: Sex and the Supremacy of Christ by John Piper & Justin Taylor, and Every Yo…

Kimi Moody is a student at Anderson University and has served as a camp counselor and youth leader for over four years in northern Michigan. She is giving voice to the importance of building trust with kids and students. Books Kimi referenced: Live Original by Sadie Robinson and Beth Clark, and Not Yet Married by Marshall Segal. Bible study plan Ch…

Tim Manzer is the Care Pastor at New Hope Community Church in Northern Michigan. Tim has decades of experience in counseling and mentorship. Books Tim referenced: Winning The Battle Within, Pure Desires, *Note: The Betrayed Heart book that Tim mentions is out of print.