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Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communication, Living Abroad, Build Connection, Intimacy, Christian Marriage

Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists

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Are you feeling distant from your spouse while running a household away from your support system? Do you have a longing desire to feel seen, heard & valued but can’t seem to get through to your spouse? Do you wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments or misunderstandings that drain your energy? If you can relate, you’re not alone. Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a ...
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Hi friend! Guess what! It is our 14th year wedding anniversary week and month and we are so glad for how far God has seen us through on this journey. You see…to be honest, it has not been all rosy. We’ve faced challenges and transitions over the course of the years and we are happy that we are still here together…and together, we’ve grown as a stro…
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Hi friend! Do you love your wife but you’re feeling frustrated about your married sex life? Or perhaps when it comes to sex, it seems to be a major source of conflict in your marriage? You wish to experience more physical connection with your spouse and increase sexual intimacy in your marriage so you can feel closer to your wife but it seems like …
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Hi friend! Summer is here and people are camping, getting away to exotic places, traveling and so on. Maybe you've discovered that going on a couples getaway is not one of your plans this summer but you also want to strengthen the bond and connection in your marriage. Guess what! You don't necessarily need to get away to achieve the deeper connecti…
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Hi friend! As spouses and individuals, we want to feel seen in our marriages. When it seems like our spouses are not paying attention to us the way we desire, or feel like we’re being taken for granted, disconnection and loneliness could begin to build up in marriage. The reality is that you may be doing things together and running a household but …
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Hi friend! When we get married and over the years, we have certain expectations in marriage. However, when these expectations are not met in marriage or our spouses do not meet these expectations, we can feel disappointed. We've come to realize that the way we deal with unmet expectations in our marriages can either draw us farther apart from our p…
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Hi friend! Over the years, we've come to realize that though we love each other, when conflict occurs or when we want to express ourselves to our partners, we may end up creating more distance between us instead of feeling heard in the process. One reason for this could be as a result of how we communicate our concerns or express our frustrations w…
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Hi friend! Are you struggling with your mental health during this season of your life? Are you feeling overwhelmed by mental health challenges at this point in time? Does this sound familiar? You find yourself in a place you really don’t want to be… It feels like a battle is taking place… Not around you… not on the outside… but right on the inside.…
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Hi friend! When we look at the state of the economy, rising interest rates, high cost of living, or when we encounter personal challenges like job loss or health issues...the list can go on and on, discouragement could begin to set in and cause a disconnect in marriages. How we respond to these challenges can either strengthen our marriages or resu…
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Hi friend! Building a strong and thriving marriage takes hard work. Now, adding a child makes it feel even more challenging. For married couples caring for a child or children with disabilities, a thriving marriage can seem impossible. Research has shown that these couples face unique and intense stressors and are at increased risk for divorce. The…
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Hi friend! Disconnection in marriage can occur for various reasons. One of them could be as a result of our other important or close relationships. What if there was one relationship that could be hurting your marriage and affecting your connection with your spouse? What if this involved the relationship with your parents? Want to know more? In thi…
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Hi friend! Are you tired of avoiding conflict or engaging in conflict avoidance in your marriage, an action that further creates distance between you and your spouse? Are you struggling to have that difficult conversation with your spouse? If so, this episode is for you. Get ready to discover 3 hacks to try instead of avoiding conflict in your marr…
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Hi friend! Are you avoiding a difficult conversation with your spouse because you want to avoid conflict? Maybe you don’t like conflicts and would rather zone out or tune off or walk away or avoid that difficult conversation. Facing conflicts may feel uncomfortable, so engaging in conflict avoidance may seem like the safer route to take or is it? W…
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Hi friend! Guess what? You are about to listen to the 100th Episode on the show! It has been a journey, and we can't wait to share about how it all began...starting a marriage podcast, the journey to the 100th episode and one more thing. In celebration of our 100th episode anniversary, you have a chance to win one of 5 giveaways! Curious to know mo…
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Hi friend! We are in a broken world, a world that is filled with challenges and sufferings. We have come to realize that we all need each other and we need to encourage one another. If you feel like you're going through a tough or difficult season in your life and marriage and you feel like almost giving up, we hope this episode encourages you. Sen…
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Hi friend! If you’re a husband who desires to enjoy a deeper connection with his wife while also honouring God in your marriage, then this episode is for you. In this episode, I will be talking about leadership in the home, a debated topic in these modern times. Get ready to discover 3 types of leadership to embrace as a husband to improve the conn…
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Hi friend! We want to hear from you (email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com ). If you are a Christian man or woman who is married and has been raising a family abroad for years, or have just relocated to a new country or province with your family, we would love to get on a quick 10-15 mins zoom call over the next few days to learn more about your expe…
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Hi friend! Are you in a tough season in your marriage where it seems like you are struggling to get through to your spouse? Do you desire to reconnect with your spouse? In this episode, you will discover one five-letter word that has benefited our marriage in amazing ways. For example, it has helped prevent conflicts from escalating & unnecessary c…
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Hi friend! Are you in a season in your marriage when you're not feeling appreciated in your relationship? If you are currently thinking: “I feel unappreciated in my marriage” and you’re wondering what to do, you’re not alone. In this episode, I will share some possible reasons why this may be happening and some actions you can take or tips to try t…
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Hi Friend! When I talk to men, most of the time, a common concern in marriage is usually along the lines of “my wife does not give me the respect that I deserve.” If this sounds like you, and you’ve been wondering, "How can I gain respect from my wife?" or silently asking the question “How can I get my wife to respect me?”, in this episode, you wil…
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Hi friend! Let’s talk about communication in marriage! We often hear that communication is important in marriage. How important is it to improve your communication skills in marriage? Well, here is one thing we can tell you: When we got better at communicating with each other as a couple, our bond grew stronger and our marriage improved. So, if you…
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Hi friend! In honor of Family Day, we will be airing this episode that is centered around family life & parenting especially in our modern world filled with so many distractions - How to build connection, communicate with & provide clarity for your child today. During this interesting and insightful interview, our Special Guest will be taking us on…
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Hi friend! *This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerg…
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Hi friend! *This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerg…
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Hi friend! It is no news that we believe that God is the Source of marriage. He created marriage and a relationship with Him will have an effect on the way you do marriage. What does it mean to have an intimate relationship with God? How does building intimacy with God transform a marriage? At times we want to go through marriage with our limited v…
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Hi friend! We have realized that after being married for years and after the honeymoon phase, and the demands of work, life and responsibilities increase, it is easy for us to get into an autopilot mode. The downside of this is that we could begin to take our spouses for granted. The truth is that we cannot invest in our marriages passively or put …
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Hi friend! In this episode, we will be talking about marriage and money matters. During this interesting and insightful interview, our Special Guests will be taking us on a journey by sharing their story and experience about navigating financial challenges and stress in their marriage. Our Special Guests are Casey and Meygan Caston and we are pleas…
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Hi friend! At the start of the new year, you may have set goals for the year including marriage goals. But have you thought of creating a marital vision? In other words, having a vision for your marriage? Even though some may think that creating a vision is just for companies and businesses, however, our marriages are not excluded from this process…
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Hi friend! Happy New Year!!! The New Year for some, marks the beginning of a new season or phase in their lives. For you, this may mean stepping into the next phase of your marriage. If you’ve been married for some time now, you would realize that staying connected as a couple while raising a family goes beyond paying the bills and running a househ…
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Hi friend! Today, we will be talking about a practice that will benefit your marriage. The reason is that engaging in this practice supports your marital growth, resulting in a stronger and happier relationship over the years. What are we referring to? Evaluating or reviewing your marriage. I know this may sound so serious, intense or unexciting bu…
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Hi friend! As we get closer to Christmas and the end of the year, you may have spent some time reflecting on how the year 2023 has been so far. Maybe, you’ve had some wonderful experiences over the past months and maybe you’ve had challenging or even painful experiences. No matter what you discover, there is one thing I find that could help while f…
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Hi friend! It is no longer news that one of the leading causes of conflicts or fights in marriage has to do with money. In this guest episode on the show, we will be talking about money matters and discussing an important topic: Breaking the ”Broke” Cycle: Building Generational Wealth as a Couple Raising a Family Abroad. During this interesting and…
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Hi friend! We know that building a stronger marriage while raising a family in modern times is not necessarily easy as you have other things begging for your attention. We also know your desire is to enjoy your marriage…even as parents. This is why we feel this is an important topic to discuss so you can start taking baby steps to improve your marr…
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Hi friend! Living abroad and raising kids (especially when you live far away from your support system) can be so tough…we get it. But your marriage doesn't have to suffer in the process. There are some habits and hacks/tips that can help you as you navigate this life transition as a couple raising a family...even if you're living far away from fami…
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Hi friend! With the world becoming more accessible, people have had reasons to migrate to a different state or country for various reasons, including a better life, and education, to mention a few. As a result of relocation, some spouses have had to be separated for a season, some for weeks, some for months, and some for years. Some of you are in t…
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Hi friend, The holiday season is fast approaching and travel plans are on the way. Is going on a big family vacation one of your plans before the end of the year? Or maybe no plans as of yet? Regardless of where you are, what is more important is to stay connected as a couple and family, especially in these modern times. This is why in this episode…
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Hi friend, In the absence of the “big” marital issues we come across in the media that sometimes result in divorce, we discovered 3 “easily overlooked” barriers to having a strong connection in marriage. We’ve been guilty of at least one of these barriers we are going to share, so if you find that you are guilty of one or more of these, don’t let t…
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Hi friend! “What do you think about vasectomy?” This was a question posted in some WhatsApp groups some months ago and guess what…the responses were very few. Alright, that aside…In case this is your first time hearing about vasectomy or you’ve been wondering what vasectomy is really all about, you may find out that you are not alone. No matter whi…
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Hi friend! One way to connect with your spouse is by being honest with them about how you’re feeling and how you’re really doing. This could begin with answering one question. So, as you tune in to listen to this episode, I want to encourage you to ask your spouse this ONE question today (and actually mean it) because this question may go a very lo…
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Hi friend, Today, we continue our conversation from last week on the following topic: Prioritizing our mental health and offering support to spouses in marriage. Our Special Guest, Dr. Adeola will continue to take us on a journey as she addresses some other areas as it relates to mental health: Some signs and symptoms to look out for, when to seek …
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Hi friend! Today, we will be digging deep into an important topic that affects us all as well as our marriages, families, communities and the whole world - Mental Health. We cannot ignore the importance and role of our mental health and well-being in our daily lives and functioning. In this episode, we will be listening to Part 1 of a two-part inte…
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Hi friend! Some persons get into marriage with certain expectations and because these expectations do not hold true, they bring about frustrations. This can impact a marriage negatively if not addressed. In this episode, you will discover 5 marriage myths that could hurt the relationship between spouses if these beliefs continue to be embraced. Wan…
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Hi friend, We all know too well that when we have done something for so long we can become bored with it that we begin to take it for granted. Interestingly, we treat our marriages and relationships this way. But what happens if your spouse refuses to upgrade? Or when you feel they are not meeting your expectations? Is there another approach you co…
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Hi friend! This episode addresses a question or concern that was raised during a discussion session with other men and women. It has to do with spending some time alone as spouses in marriage, for instance, "When a spouse wants/requests some alone time in a marriage, is this normal?" Ready to find out more? Then, tune in to listen to this enlighten…
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Hi friend! Today we will continue our discussion from last week: What couples need to know about Wills and Estate Planning. Our special guest, Amy Murphy, will enlighten us and tell us more about Wills and Estate Planning as we conclude this series. What is Grant of Probate? When is the best time to make a will? Can I use an online kit for my will …
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Hi friend! In this episode, we discuss an important topic for couples. We know that some couples tend to avoid having this conversation but we are here to let you know the importance and why you need to have the conversation and more importantly, to sign these documents. What am I referring to? Wills & Estate Planning. This is Part 1 of a two-part …
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Hi friend! We cannot tell you that you will never experience conflict in marriage but what we can tell you is that if you know how to manage conflict better, it will benefit your marriage. This will save you more time and energy not just in the present moment but also in the long run. This is why in this episode, I will be sharing 5 important thing…
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Hi friend! When we invest our time & resources in our marriages, our goal is to improve our connection in marriage. We know that it is easy to stop investing in our marriages when life gets busier and busier...especially as parents raising a family abroad. However, when we stop investing in our marriages after having kids, we miss out on some prett…
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Hi friend! We often hear the words “invest in your marriage"…but what does it really mean to invest in our marriages? What does this entail? In this episode, I share 5 ways to invest in your marriage so you can experience significant results in your relationship. Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more! ....................................…
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Hi friend! Have you ever wondered, “How can I have more time and energy to spend with my spouse?” In other words, “What are some things I can do to achieve this? If you’ve ever asked yourself the first question above or you are asking yourself this question right now, then, this is the episode for you. In this episode, we are going to reveal 3 trie…
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Hi friend! What do you do when you have different needs simultaneously in marriage? For example, when your spouse wants to engage in a deeper conversation with you and you want to have sex...both happening around the same time? If that sounds like something you've experienced, you're not alone. We've been there too. In this episode, you will learn …
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