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Let’s be honest, therapy is expensive, lacks diversity and not always easy to access. But thankfully, this isn’t therapy. Hosted by Dr. Nic Hardy, Psychotherapist in Houston, Texas - Untherapeutic explores common relationship problems seen behind closed doors in counseling. The topics explored on this podcast are centered around unaddressed issues in relationships. A healthy blend of professional and personal perspective, Untherapeutic tackles common relationship challenges that are overshad ...
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A Passion for More with Author Susan Shapiro Barash
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Send us a text A topic that has been taboo, A Passion for More gives us a first-hand account on the extramarital affairs of women. Author Susan Shapiro Barash has interviewed thousands of women and explored the behind the scenes events that led to affairs, the aftermath, and everything in-between. Listen to this episode and learn some of reasons "w…
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How to Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship with Dr. Angela Jones
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Send us a text How to Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship What does it take to actually rebuild trust in a relationship once it is lost? Is it possible to recapture what existed before? How much time does it take? What should we do when one partner still questions your every move? In this episode of Untherapeutic, Dr. Nic Hardy is joined by Dr. Ange…
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Daddy Issues with author Jonetta Rose Barras
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Send us a text Daddy Issues We have all heard the term, “Daddy Issues”, but how does the relationship with your father really affect you? Is it possible to not be affected by an unhealthy relationship with your father? How do you separate “daddy issues” from a problematic relationship? What should you do, if you find yourself repeating the same pro…
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How to have a Healthy Conversation about a Loved Ones Health with Dr. Ebony Butler
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Send us a text Talking about your spouse’s health can be a sensitive topic. This is an ongoing battle that most of us deal with personally; therefore, understanding the ins and outs, and challenging outdated beliefs is essential. If you want to learn how to address this topic without creating an unsafe environment, tune in to this episode on the Un…
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The Importance of Health & Exercise with Willie Cruz ~ Houston Rockets Director of Athletic Performance
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Send us a text When we are active, not only do we lead healthier lives, but our energy level increases, mood improves, and we are able to grow our self-esteem and confidence. Although, getting the motivation to exercise can be difficult. Work. Busy schedule. Competing priorities. Fear and Embarrassment. Exhaustion. The list goes on…. It’s not alway…
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Dating in the Public Eye with Tessa Barrera
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Send us a text Dating can be difficult. Dating when you have a career that is public facing can be extremely difficult. When our professional lives are also public, how do we maintain privacy? How do you determine if someone is in to you, or who they believe you are? How do you create boundaries, and determine what to share and what not to share? I…
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How Social Media is Influencing your Relationship with Karen De Amat, CEO of Social Behavior
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Send us a text If you are in a relationship or have considered being in a relationship, social media has played a role in some way. With access to “ex’s”, past relationships, and endless exposure to the lives of our peers, it makes sense why social media is the reason a lot of relationship fail. Since social media is a part of our lives, , it’s bes…
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How to Address Discrimination at Work with Zella Life
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Send us a text Discrimination at work is stressful. It’s sometimes subtle, and the signs are not always obvious. Even when discrimination is not the case, if you have experienced it in the past, it’s impossible to exclude that possibility. However, when dealing with problems at work, most of us don’t have someone that can coach us through the proce…
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Is Your Job Destroying Your Sex Life with Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons
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Send us a text Is your job destroying your sex life? Do you give so much to growing professionally, that you overlook the potential consequence on our sex drive? Does your partner get the leftovers? Is it your fault or are you the victim of an oppressive system that forces us to exhaust ourselves? Is it just how things are in a capitalistic society…
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Send us a text How to Wait Well What does it mean to Wait Well? When you have done everything you know to do, and still, nothing has happened – there is a tendency to question. Did I hear God correctly? Am I doing something wrong? Why others and not me? Is this even the Will of God for my life? In the book Wait and See, author Wendy Pope shares tim…
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Send us a text What you believe is important, but what role does faith really have in our relationships. Is it a deal breaker if two people don't share the same faith? What does it actually mean, when someone says, "equally yoked". What should people look for when they say their Faith is important to them? Can it be used to restore relationships an…
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How to make your Marriage Last 20 years with Love and Marriage DC Tasha and Neil Lyons
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Send us a text If you knew this 20 years ago, what would you do different in marriage? For anyone who is married, considering marriage, or interested in a long-term relationship, learning from those who have been in the trenches can sometimes be the best form of counseling. However, what does it really take to be married for over 20 years… Sometime…
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Subtle Signs that you are not Okay with Arron Muller, LCSW
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Send us a text If you have ever wondered whether or not you should go to therapy, or if the problems you are experiencing warrant talking to someone, then this episode is for you. Join Dr. Nic Hardy, and Arron Muller, LCSW as they discuss the subtle signs if you are okay or not. Although we can “push through”, or maintain a “business as usual attit…
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The Secret to Happiness in Relationships with Robert Mack
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Send us a text The secret to happiness in our relationships is not always what we think. More money, less arguments, more time together, better vacations, the list goes on of what we think will make us happy. However, all too often, we focus on the wrong things and find ourselves consistently dissatisfied, both in life and in our relationships. We …
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Send us a text If you haven’t already, now is the time to binge on Season 1 and review the many great episodes from the Untherapeutic Podcast. The first season is filled with timeless insights to help you relationally and in life. In the meantime, don’t forget to subscribe to our new Youtube channel @drnichardy and follow us on social media. Instag…
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Send us a text Despite how much you love someone, it takes discipline to make a relationship successful. One of the most important disciplines, is the discipline to establish healthy boundaries with those outside of your relationship. In this episode, I am joined by Anthony Flynn, CEO and Founder of Amazing CEO and execution expert. In addition to …
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Black Girls Must Die Exhausted with author Jayne Allen
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Send us a text In this episode of Untherapeutic, Dr. Nic Hardy is joined by best selling author, Jayne Allen. In her bestselling book, "Black Girls Must Die Exhausted", this novel takes readers on a true journey of what it means to live life, experience set backs and overcome obstacles along the way. This book is a true must read. This podcast epis…
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How to be Happy for Others, When you are still Single
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Send us a text The older we get, the harder it is to remain optimistic about our relationship future, especially if we have experienced our fair share of failed attempts. However, despite what’s occurring relationally, the importance of self-care, and maintaining a healthy perspective is vitally important. In this episode, I am joined by Bre Mitche…
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When your Spouse hasn't Done Anything Wrong - But you are Still Unsatisfied?
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Send us a text Has your spouse ever done everything right, but you still found yourself unsatisfied? Believe it or not, being unsatisfied in a relationship is not always because our spouse did something wrong. Is it them, or is it me? This dilemma can lead us to misplace blame, or go in circles from one relationship to the next. In this episode of …
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Why Imposter Syndrome is Affecting Your Relationship
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Send us a text What does self-doubt look like in a relationship? How does you questioning yourself, affect the person you are with? Can you really be supportive when you are questioning your own abilities? When we think about imposter syndrome, we frequently overlook how it impacts us relationally. However, the truth is, questioning yourself does m…
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How to Change Your Relationship when Your Spouse Won't Do a Thing with Dr. Abby Medcalf
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Send us a text When there are problems in a relationship, who doesn't want their partner to change? In an ideal world, they would just "get it" and everything would be okay. However, this is rarely the case, especially when two people believe the other person is at fault (which almost all the time). In her Amazon #1 Bestselling book, Dr. Abby Medca…
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What to Do When You Don't Feel Heard in Your Relationship
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Send us a text When you don't feel heard, it's hard to explain. In fact, it can seem confusing and ambigous for those who are trying to understand and make sense of this problem. The truth is, this is one of the most common problems when it comes to communication in relationships. But what does it really mean to "not feel heard". In this episode, D…
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The Balance of Spending Time and Making Money in Relationships
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Send us a text The idea of work-life balance sounds great, but is it really attainable? Balance is good in theory, but in reality, we are sometimes asked to choose between two equally important things. When the expectations of providing financially, collide with being present, what do you do? When are lifestyle has created comfort, but the quality …
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The Myths of Infidelity with Eliza Bouqin, Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist
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Send us a text Infidelity is one of the hardest relationship challenges some couples experience. The betrayal of trust and the loss of confidence that stems from one partner stepping outside their relationship, can cause the most committed couples to question the future of their relationship. However, in counseling countless couples over the years,…
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Learning to Reconnect with Your Spouse: The 4 Intimacy Styles w/ Dr. Viviana Coles
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Send us a text Do you know the keys to lasting physical intimacy? Have you struggled to reconnect with your spouse? If so, join millions of others who have silently struggled with physical intimacy in their relationships. In this episode, Dr. Nic Hardy is joined by Dr. Viviana Coles, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and former Married at Fir…
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Fatal Attraction: We all Like a Little Crazy, Until...
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Send us a text Relationships that begin with a lot of intensity and passion, sometimes evolve into relationships that are both dangerous and unhealthy. In this episode, Kortney Simmons, Attorney and Legal Analyst for TV One’s hit show “Fatal Attraction”, discusses her experience helping couples identify warning signs and exit unsafe relationships. …
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Can Women Find Someone with Online Dating
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Send us a text Finding a spouse online may feel like the new normal in today’s dating culture. However, the challenges and problems that come with online dating can be exhausting and discouraging all at the same time - especially for black women, who often have fewer options in the online dating world. Dr. Nic Hardy is joined by Dating and Relation…
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How to Stop Going Back to a Relationship You know is Toxic
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Send us a text Even when we know a relationship is toxic, it’s not always easy to stop ourselves from going back. In this episode, host Dr. Nic Hardy is joined by Mindfulness Expert and Practitioner Kierra McShine-Gregory. Kierra is a mental health counselor and mindfulness practitioner who works with adolescents, adults and families using the prac…
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