Welcome to one of the best marriage and relationship advice podcasts. The Dr. Wyatt Show will provide direct advice on sex, conflict resolution, sharing power, emotional intimacy, staying in love, and much more. Leave a voicemail 24/7 with your marriage questions at 303-578-0618 then Dr. Wyatt will respond to it on the next Tuesday podcast episode. Relationships can be tough work. Partners have different needs, different expectations, and different backgrounds. Therefore, it doesn't take lon ...
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The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in two decades of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add another layer of understanding in how we work as individuals and gives us deeper insight into how we connect and shine together in marriage and relationships across the collective community.
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How to Negotiate Well in Your Marriage w/Dr. Wyatt Fisher
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Making negotiations in marriage is essential yet how we come to these is quite the task to undertake without good tools and training. Today we learn from an expert at negotiating in marriage, Dr. Wyatt Fisher (type 3/5) who has so many great tips for us today! Join in as we walk through them together strategically right here and use the tips today …
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Real Couples Therapy Session: What if we're not compatible?
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😊DOWNLOAD COUPLES APP Keep the Glow (KtG) HERE! This is a special day for my podcast because it's the first time I've offered a FREE couples therapy session. As you probably know, I have a private practice in Boulder, CO where I've been seeing clients live and virtually since 2004. Learn more about my marriage counseling here. However, I've never r…
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All About Type Twos + Twos With Each Type in Relationship
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Twos and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Two, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourself i…
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😊CALL 303-578-0618 WITH YOUR QUESTIONS Have you resolved your resentments and rebuilt your friendship and now you're ready to start flirting but not sure how? Moreover, do you want to start flirting but worried you'll lead your partner on? It's a common concern. Especially for low libido partners. They think, "I don't want to flirt with my high lib…
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The Enneagram for Moms w/Beth McCord, Type 9
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Healthy parenting involves not only the journey of helping to love our kids but also understanding ourselves and the ways we handle stress. This often involves doing some healing around our own developmental stories. When we learn to self-regulate well, we bring a non-anxious connected presence of attunement with our kids so they thrive and we thri…
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All About Type Threes + Threes w/Each Type in Relationship
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Threes and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Three, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourse…
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Call In: How Do I Know If I Can Trust My Partner Again?
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😊DOWNLOAD COUPLES APP Keep the Glow (KtG) HERE! In this call in episode, a listener describes how her husband has broken financial trust and she isn't sure how to start trusting again. If trust has been broken in your relationship, some of the principles covered may apply to you. To submit your question, leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618. Check out…
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All About Type Fours + Fours With Each Type in Relationship
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Fours and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Four, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourself…
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Creating Slow Rhythms in Your Marriage & Family w/Chris and Jenni Graebe, 7-1 Pairing
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Today, we get to chat with Chris and Jenny Graebe (7w8 and 1w9 pairing) about how they slow down to create healthy rhythms for their marriage and for a healthy, intentional life of love and faith with their five kids. They also share from both their first book together, 📖 The Rhythm of Us, and their brand new book, The Rhythm of Home as well. They …
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All About Type Fives + Fives With Each Type in Relationship
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Fives and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Five, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourself…
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Call In: My Husband Isn't Sexually Interested In Me
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CALL 303-578-0618 with your marriage questions and leave a voicemail! 😊DOWNLOAD ( KTG) COUPLES APP HERE! Most people have heard of husbands wanting intimacy more than their wives but it's more rare when it's the other way around. It also can be more difficult because everyone associates men with wanting intimacy all the time. Therefore, when your h…
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Redeeming Your Time & Relationships with Best-Selling Author Jordan Raynor, Type 3
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Do you feel like you have a lot of work goals but can't seem to accomplish anything in the allotted time your day actually gives you? Do you feel frenetic because you're trying to do a good job at work but then your family life, not to mention your marriage or life with God, is majorly lacking? There are so many shifts we can make as humans, and ea…
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😊DOWNLOAD ( KTG) COUPLES APP HERE! Sometimes, the answer is not what we think. Sometimes, we must let go in order to receive. Sometimes, we must stop chasing for our partner to stop running away. I'm talking about sex. Too many low libido partners are under obligation sex. They feel pressured for intimacy. The more pressure they feel, the lower the…
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All About Sixes + Sixes With Each Type in Relationship
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Sixes and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Six, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourself …
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Tips for Traveling for Every Type in Relationship, w/Geographer + Travel Expert, Angela Gilmeister, Type 1
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As Tolkien once said, "Not all who wander are lost," and you will be even less relationally lost as you wander into learning with E + M about the ins and outs of traveling with your spouse and/or family and friends! Take some time today to invest in the tips in this episode from travel expert and geographer Angela Gilmeister, Type 1 (Wild Hair Trav…
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Most marriages are made up of a stuffer and a criticizer. Stuffers stuff their feelings, which creates resentments. Criticizers are blunt and blindside their partner with critiques. Obviously, both are unhealthy. In this new episode of the Dr. Wyatt Show I discuss the solution. You'll want to listen to this one a few times with your partner. 5 Step…
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All About Type Sevens + Sevens With Each Type in Relationship
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Seven and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Seven, learn how to become the healthiest version of yoursel…
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How to Stay Married: The Most Insane Love Story Ever Told with Dr. Harrison Scott Key, Ph.D.
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When infidelity wounds a couple, in the wise words of our guest today, Dr. Harrison Scott Key, Ph.D, best-selling author and the winner of the Thurber Prize for American Humor, there's a marriage murder mystery to be solved: Who killed this marriage, is it really dead, and can it come back to life? Join us for a riveting and deep-diving episode wit…
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All About Type Eights + Eights w/Each Type in Relationship
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Eight and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're an Eight, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourse…
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Somatic Tips for Every Type in Marriage w/Author and Coach Melissa Kircher, Type 5
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What a necessity it is to have great tools to process our conflict and trauma together in marriage, parenting, and relationships, and yet often in the moments of great felt threat or pain, our very bodies rise up in protective styles, even possibly blocking us from doing this work. Today we get to talk about bodywork or somatics and to learn some h…
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Are You Making These Blended Family Mistakes?
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Being in a blended family creates its own unique set of challenges. Unfortunately, many of us aren't informed on how to do blended families right. Which means many of us do it wrong. I was raised in a blended family so I know firsthand some of the top mistakes to avoid. I've also seen the same mistakes play out with couples I see in my practice. In…
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All About Type Nines + Nines With Each Type in Relationship
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Nine and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Nine, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourself …
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Mental Health & Relationships Across Personality Types w/Danielle Fuller, MS, Type 9
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May is mental health month, a time dedicated to bringing awareness to those struggling or wondering what may be going on with them on days when you feel less healthy. On today’s podcast, we are statistically shedding some light on which mental health struggles each type has significantly reported, including depression, anxiety, ADD, neurodivergence…
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8 Things To Stop Doing Today In Your Marriage
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! It's important to have a list of things to start doing in a relationship. Likewise, it's important to have a list of things to stop doing. In this archive episode of the Dr. Wyatt Show Podcast, I discuss the top behaviors to stop doing now. In fact, if you keep doing these things your marriage will get worse. You ca…
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Special Episode: This is Us Typing Episode w/Dana Lawson, Type 9
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So many times we relate with characters in a song or media outlet and we don’t get to process them further. Today you have a chance to do this with Christa and guest Dana Lawson, Enneagram 9 (9-4 pairing) as they walk through This is Us with you! Join Christa and Dana with a cup of coffee or tea for a meaningful chat as we discuss the Pearson famil…
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How to Stop Striving and Live Purposefully and Abundantly w/Author Becky Kiser, 3w2
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It can be so hard deciphering what your God-given dream is and then trying to get the steps just right, especially when you’re in the throes of motherhood or another busy season of life. Today we are joined by author and Enneagram 3w2 (3-6 pairing), Becky Kiser to talk about how she has learned to stop striving to slow down and listen with discernm…
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How You Can Start Resolving Conflicts Like A Pro
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IF YOU FOUND THIS VALUABLE, PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Learning to work through conflicts is a fact of life. Unfortunately, it's a fact of life most of us are never trained in. Without resolving conflicts, you and your partner can't stay close. Unresolved conflict creates division and walls. Walls break down intimacy. In this archive episode I'll teach…
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What Every Partner of a 4, 6, or 8 Need to Know About Processing Conflict
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We often find ourselves struggling when we have a spouse with a different way of solving conflict than we have. Today we talk about having conflict with our passionate 4s (artists) 6s (loyalists) and 8s (protectors) and what we can each to do find not only common ground but also passionate, enduring love! Don't forget! Mother's Day is coming! Get y…
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Mother's Day Special: Around the Table with Each Enneagram Type Mom w/Alisa Taylor, Type 9
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Happy Mother's Day to you and yours! In this Mother's Day week coffee chat with Christa and her dear friend of over twenty years, artist Alisa Taylor type 9, we both celebrate the gift of mom friends as well as discuss ways we can serve our children the very best nourishment across all levels of their emotional, spiritual, mental, and physical pala…
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Finding Hope in Hard Times w/Author and Pastor Matthew Stephen Brown, Type 3
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Across the personality spectrum, we each offer different giftings, and Type Threes offer us the reminder of holy Hope - the reminder that the race is not over even when it's hard or even if it feels like a marathon. Today we are given hope today afresh as we are joined by author, pastor, and founder of Sandals Church, Matthew Stephen Brown, Enneagr…
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Succeed In Compromising, Succeed In Marriage
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW! Want to improve your marriage? Learn how to compromise. Want your partner to be happier? Learn how to compromise. Want to lower your divorce risk? Learn how to compromise. See the common denominator? This archive episode will walk you through how to start compromising like a pro. FREE Masterclass 5/6: How To Rebuild Your Mar…
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Welcome to another Tuesday call in episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show where I respond to voicemails that have come in from listeners. Today, I respond to a woman who says her husband has ED and blames it on her weight even though she only weighs 5 pounds more than when they first met. Listen to her voicemail and then hea…
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Are You Guilty Of This Conflict Resolution Mistake?
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! In this mini episode I discuss one of the most common mistakes I see couples make in conflict. Listen in to see if you're guilty of doing it too! Send me a DM on Instagram if you are. Leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 24/7 with your questions and I'll respond to them on the next Tuesday podcast episode! Want to star…
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What Every Spouse of a 2, 7, or 9 Partner Needs to Know About Processing Conflict
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Many couples are frustrated by differing conflict styles and miss getting to resolution because of it. In this mini-episode, Christa assesses how to deal with conflict with someone who is positively-wired in the 2 (the Giver), 7 (the Enthusiast), or 9 (the Peacemaker) personality spaces. In this mini-episode Christa gives both general and type-spec…
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Working on Toxic Patterns in Your Relationship w/Psychotherapist Charisse Cooke, Type 2
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How much emotional pain do couples have to endure before making the healthy changes that often feel so scary to initiate? This is a question many need to ask themselves since it's so vulnerable to break deep patterns of trauma together. Today Christa helps you to work through toxic relationship patterns with London-based psychotherapist and influen…
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Unlocking Intimacy: Building Connection Beyond Words!
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Sick of feeling like roommates? Tired of feeling like siblings? Have you resolved your resentments? Have you rebuilt your friendship? If so, start nuddling! Nuddling is the perfect way to slowly start building your safety and security. Nuddling will bond you. Nuddling will make you feel like partners. Nuddling is yo…
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Post-Traumatic Growth Lyrical Lessons from TTPD, Taylor Swift's The Tortured Poet's Department Dark Night of the Soul Album
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On this special surprise mini-episode for Swiftie fans and for inquiring minds otherwise, Christa takes you on a journey of finding ways through pain to post-traumatic growth, analyzing through the lens of The Tortured Poet's Department Album (TTPD) from Taylor Swift. Join us for therapeutic lessons, fun, and a few meaningful takeaways for healthy …
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Bringing Minimalism to Your Marriage w/Diane Boden, The Minimalist Mom, Type 7 (7-5 Pairing)
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How do you go from busy and overloaded to present in marriage and family, especially when we know that "turning towards" behaviors are what make relationships succeed or fail long-term, especially when we differ SO much after a long span of time together in marriage? As we strive to connect in a truly frenetic world when we have so much to do along…
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Are You Guilty Of These Unrealistic Expectations In Your Relationship?
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! We all have expectations of what marriage will be like. And what it won't be like. What our partner will be like. And what they won't be like. These expectations come from our family of origin and our culture. Most of us aren't aware of our expectations. But they are there. Influencing our reactions to our partner a…
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Learning to Reveal the Truth in Your Marriage w/Laurie Gerber, Enneagram 6
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So many couples hold secrets from one another, but it's not healthy for either of you and you're not likely to tell one another the truth if you don't feel safe. Today we're joined by Laurie Gerber, Type 6 (6-2 pairing) who tells us how she worked from struggle to truth and freedom in her own marriage and gives you tangible tips to thrive from a pl…
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Unfortunately, many people fall asleep in marriage. They stop trying. They stop putting in effort. They fall asleep. Hopelessness sets in quickly when you're on the other side of complacency. In this new call in episode, I share some steps to consider if you find yourself in a similar situation. Leave a voicemail at…
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Bringing Joy & Clarity to Your Work w/Marty Munger, CEO, Work Coach Co, Type 7
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Whether at home or the office, your work life is an enormous part of the day and deserves rich contemplation and optimization. Today Christa invites you to a conversation to greatly benefit you by bringing joy into your work rhythms by discovering your own Enneagram intelligence, emotional, and instinctual work strengths and areas for growth. With …
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How To Build Your Relationship In Only 6 Hours A Week
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Want a better relationship? Yes, please. Have six hours to spare per week? Probably. Then I have the perfect solution for you. In this new episode of the Dr. Wyatt Show I break down 6 hours of activities you need to build your relationship each week. These six hours are intentional and transformational. Your relatio…
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What Every Spouse of a 1, 3, or 5 (Logically Wired Partner) Needs to Know About Resolving Conflict
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Each of us needs to understand the other in conflict and yet our personalities get in the way. This listener-requested episode helps you to walk through conflict with those people with temperaments who do not show as much emotion and/or prefer to solve problems logically or linearly. You'll learn ways you can develop a healthier internal narrative …
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Finding Your Body's Monthly Rhythms for Relationship & Productivity, w/Occupational Therapist Renae Fieck, Enneagram 9w8
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Troubleshooting your life and intimacy stresses also includes understanding the rhythms of your own unique sensory up and down regulating at work and in your marriage dance as well! If you want to truly ignite your love and work in the best ways possible, you’ll pay attention to these rhythms and honor each precious week across the month for what i…
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What If I'm Not Attracted To My Partner Anymore?
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Leave a voicemail 24/7 with your marriage questions at 303-578-0618 then I'll respond to it on the next Tuesday podcast episode! Not feeling attracted to your partner? Not sure what to do? You want to bring it up but when you do your partner gets their feelings hurt. So you keep it inside. But keeping it inside make…
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Understanding the Sexual Response Cycle in Marriage: Igniting the Sexual Instinct Series
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Often, couples are too uncomfortable to ask their pastor or marriage counselor about how to build their love life in marriage in the areas of not just building attraction and desire and also how to successfully approach sexual arousal and resolution, especially since statistically women experience about half the full sexual arousal as compared to m…
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Sacred Rest for You & Your Relationship w/Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, MD, Type 3
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Rest is the most underused, safe, and chemical-free alternative to relieve stress, and it's about way more than just sleep. Today we cover seven different kinds of rest you need with our esteemed guest author, researcher, and physician, Dr. Sandra Dalton-Smith, MD, Enneagram 3 (as featured on TedX, CNN, Fox, MSNBC), to tell us how we can and must g…
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How To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom In 8 Steps
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RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW For More! Are you feeling bored in the bedroom? Are you tired of no intimacy or boring intimacy? You're not alone. Many couples struggle keeping the fire alive in the bedroom. That's why I explore 8 steps to spice things up in the bedroom in this new podcast episode. Listen to it with your partner to decide which steps would …
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Building Sexual Attraction Together in Marriage: Igniting the SX Instinct Together in Marriage
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As you aim for a healthy and loving sexual intimacy life in your marriage, in this second installment of the Igniting Your SX Instinct Series of the Enneagram and Marriage podcast, we're not only discussing what attracts us to one another and what builds our love and chemistry up, but also about what builds desire biologically, psychologically, and…
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