Greetings Kings, Queens, and Libertines! I am Certified Sex Coach and Dating Coach, Kincaid McMinn! Listen in as I talk with my friends about our personal dating experience, covering Masturbation, Mating, Marriage, and everything in between! As we dig into our personal histories, we hope to provide you with insight that you can you in your own dating journey.
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Cheat Days and Cheating: Monogamy is HARD with Margaret Brewer
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Join me as Margaret Brewer (MSW student) and I discuss the recent swirl of news about famous married men being unfaithful to their wives, and what implications it has for all of us. We talk about the origins of monogamy, the reasons why we stray, what we can do about it, and a surprising amount of baked goods. Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coac…
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Hyper-Traditional Hypocrites with Lekeisha Jones, CSC
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Listen in as certified Sex Coach LeKeisha Jones and I discuss how society tries to convince us to shove others (and ourselves) into restrictive boxes. We share several stories of people trying to do that to us, talk about why the people who push the hardest for "traditional" relationship roles should be approached with caution (and for different re…
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Pubes, Pits, and Pedo-staches with Katarzyna Zoltak and Jacee Niblett
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Join me in our first-ever panel discussion with my friends Katarzyna (Kasia) Zoltak and Jacee Niblett, where we discuss everything we can think of around body hair: where it comes from, what is it good for, the ways we are told that it "should" look whether we want it to or not, and what you can do about it. Along the way, we talk about our own ins…
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Join me as newly certified sex coach Aubrey Moore and I talk about talking about sex. Specifically, why we often have a hard time talking about our bodies or what we want, some of the roots to why that may be, and what you can do to overcome that! We also share anecdotes from our upbringing, and talk about some of our particular dirty words that we…
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OOOH NO: The Orgasm Gap with Emily Claiborne
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Join my childhood friend Emily Claiborne and me as we discuss our personal experiences with faking orgasms, the societal causes behind why 55% of men but only 4% of women report an orgasm their first time with a new partner, and what you can do to not be just another statistic. Rescources mentioned: Becoming Cliterate Come As You Are Anatomy of Ple…
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Happy Pride Month! Today, I share with you all my personal journey with slowly discovering my own sexual orientation over time. We start with early childhood experiences, through adolescence, into adulthood, and discuss what coming out further means for me in the future. Whoever you are, if you are listening to this, know that you are loved and tha…
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Exorcising Excess Exercise with Amanda Vee, CSC
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Certified Sex Coach, Amanda Vee is back again, this time with more discussion on how to balance the surprisingly tricky mental game of physical activity. We talk about compulsive behaviors, when healthy things become unhealthy, and what you can do to find a happy middle ground. CW: Mental Health, Eating Disorders, Pregnancy, Miscarriage Private Coa…
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Fitness Dick in Your Mouth with Amanda Vee, CSC
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Join me, along with certified sex coach Amanda Vee, as we dive into the world of fitness and how that relates to sex and dating. Amanda tells her incredible history as a fitness coach, we talk about reason's that people get in their own way in fitness and in sex, and we discuss some principles to keep in mind as you begin your own fitness journey. …
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Masturbation Month w/ Kristen Thomas, CSC
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Come join in on the self-love as certified sex coach Kristen Thomas and I discuss the joys of self-pleasure to kick off the first week of National Masturbation Month! We discuss the roots of why we can experience shame when we masturbate, what you can do about it, and what Kristen would do with the power of time travel. This is part two of a double…
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Gender Essentialism vs Dignified Hedonism w/ Sarah Martin, CSC
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In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend and colleague, Certified Sex Coach, Sarah Martin. We talk about personal struggles in our upbringings with not feeling "Enough," I share my first experience in drag and get WAY too blitzed on spiked coffee. You can find Sarah here: Website: Dignified Hedonist – To Your Pleasure "Keep It Casual" Course…
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This week, join me and Sex-Coach-In-Training Aubrey Moore as we discuss the link between Boom-boxes and making your bedroom "boom." We cover what songs are on our own personal sexy playlists, just why a thing like "sexy playlists" exist, and what you can do to use sex, music, and dance to improve your sex life. So Tell Me About the Last Time You Ha…
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Join me and my former roommate, Jazmine Correa, as we discuss the good, the bad, and the UGLIEST dating apps on the market, based on our own personal experience. We break down the facets, features, and flaws of many of the large dating apps, as well as fantasize about the future of the dating app marketplace/community. You can find Jazmine at: Jazm…
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Jesus was a Power-Bottom w/ Francisco Herrera
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Join me for part 2 of my interview with my Uncle Francisco, Ph.D. Student and Pastor, as we talk about the intersection between spirituality and sexuality. Uncle Cisco shares lessons from his own D/S relationships and his own experience as a Dom. We discuss the importance of aftercare, and the appeal to Kink and BDSM for those who are interested, r…
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In this episode, I am joined by my Uncle Francisco Herrera, as we discuss almost everything BUT sex and dating (sorry)! Though we originally intend to talk about religion and Kink/BDSM, we get lost in discussions of morality, mindset, and making the benevolent nature of god (if you believe) real here on earth. You can find Uncle Cisco here: Patron:…
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Authenticity & Animal Masks w/ Angela Locashio, CSC
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"Roll for Initiative!" as Nerd, Intersectional Life Coach, and Certified Sex Coach Angela Locashio and I talk about how most people struggle with being truly authentic in the dating world, and how you can apply lessons from our favorite furry-friendly Netflix shows to your sex life. You can find Angela at the following places: Website: Mama Pistach…
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Good Ole' Fashioned Purity Culture w/ Jordan Vecchio, CSC
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In this episode, Certified Sex Coach Jordan Vecchio and I talk Purity Rings and Southern Things as we discuss our sexual upbringings in the Bible Belt, and what you can do if you find you've drunk the abstinence-only Kool-Aid. You can find Jordan here: Website: Talk about Intimacy Instagram: Jordan (@jordan.vxo) Twitter: Jordan (@jordan_vxo) Privat…
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Come be a fly on the wall as History Teacher and my childhood friend Conor Chandler discuss troubling behavior on dating apps. We discuss some of our stories of ghosting and being ghosted, and talk about how to connect outside of the digital world. Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com) Support the Show: www.patreon.com/roy…
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In this extra lengthy episode, I get nostalgic with Professional Pinup Photographer Sarah Carlisle as we reminisce about the Sex Education we received growing up. We share both the good - and not so good- memories, as well as some laughs, and give direction on how Sex Education could be improved for everyone. You can find Sarah at: Photography: www…
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Angel Rowe of Pain to Pleasure Coaching and I sit down and talk about living with Chronic Pain, how pain affecting one partner affects the relationship, and what you can do about it. He shares his experience with CRPS (Complex Regional Pain Syndrome), and I talk about living with my partner who has Hip Dysplasia. You can find Angel at the following…
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Discovering Self-Pleasure w/ Natalia Rising
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In this episode, Certified Relationship Coach Natalia Rising and I talk about our personal discovery of Masturbation, and how acceptance of a regular Self-Love and Self-Pleasure practice can revolutionize your Dating Life! You can find Natalia at: Natalia Rising - Rise Above. Live well. (natalia-rising.com) Email: natalia@natalia-rising.com Private…
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Breaking Toxic Relationship Cycles w/ Austin Vryhof
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Today, Austin Vryhof of Soul Science Energy Healing Arts sits down with me over a cup of tea and glass of scotch to discuss what to do if you find yourself dating the same type of person over-and-over-and-over again. We talk about how to approach self-reflection, as well as implementing both internal and external changes to break out of a dating ru…
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