Send us a Text Message. Welcome to “The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami, also known as the Equalizer. In this episode, I discuss the controversial notion of whether women can use men solely for sex. Drawing from personal experiences and observations, I argue that it’s not possible for women to genuinely use men in this way due t…

Send us a Text Message. Today, we’re discussing “falling for the okey-doke” in a professional setting. We’ve previously covered avoiding traps with money and relationships, but now we’re tackling workplace pitfalls. From unknowingly training your replacement to being underpaid and covering company expenses, we’ll explore how to recognize and avoid …

Send us a Text Message. Welcome to "The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast" with your host, Lois Lane Miami, "The Equalizer" as I discuss real-life experiences, provide insightful advice, and give you engaging stories as I explore the complexities of relationships, personal growth, and the many "okey-dokes" we encounter in life. In this episode, I focus on wo…

Send us a Text Message. Today, I’m discussing a topic I see many women struggling with after a breakup: the overwhelming concern about what their ex is doing with their new woman. Drawing from experience and the countless conversations I’ve had with men in various settings—from working in male-dominated industries to touring with music professional…

Send us a Text Message. Today, I'm diving into the complex world of cheating. We'll explore the titles women compete for—side chick, wifey, main chick—and the dynamics between these roles. Women often engage in rivalries when dealing with a cheating man, labeling each other as the mistress or homewrecker. These titles create a hierarchy where the "…

Send us a Text Message. In this episode of the Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I explore the deeply emotional and often misunderstood world of cheating. I shed light on common misconceptions, such as the belief that once a cheater, always a cheater. Drawing from personal experience, I share the devastating impact of discovering infidelity and the emotiona…

Send us a Text Message. In this insightful episode of the Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I share valuable tips on how to avoid getting involved with men who are secretly married or have live-in girlfriends. Drawing from my personal experience, I provide insight and practical advice to help you identify the subtle signs that a man might be hiding a signif…

Send us a Text Message. As most men already know, there are all types of women in the world. Some will give you their money, some need your money, and others will try to take your money whether they need it or not. Of course, there are women that fit into none of these categories, but since this podcast is about the “okey doke,” we focus on these s…