Welcome to The TEA & COGNAC Session. I'm your girl O'Brien aka O aka OB- The Jill of MOST Trades. Native to Springfield, MO raised in Kansas City, MO-I fall into the gray Millennial group. AND I GOT SUMTHIN TO SAY! We're going to talk about relationships politics money self-care generational curses and how to balance all of the chaos. Looking forward to getting both men and women's perspectives on experiences and living your best life. Check me out on Facebook and LinkedIn: #OSD #TheJillofMO ...
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HAPPY JUNETEENTH ‼️#JubileeDay #FreedomMonth❤️🖤💚It's been a full month in #SpringfieldMissouriOf celebrating and learning.How did you celebrate???I did my best to be everywhere and do everything -But we have much work to do.Community efforts are still struggling because very few want to work together.My question has become what are you in it for?#S…
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***Disclaimer***@Spotify DID NOT make this takeover from @Anchor a smooth transition AT ALL.No background music AGAIN. And I'm not recording it.June 1st, 2024We acknowledge 103 years ago #BlackWallStreet was bombed due to hatred and racism.So we're STILL HERE - People of Color.How are you making your money?Who do you want to be?As we navigate #Emot…
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#Home The Midwest.The Gateway to the Ozarks.Queen City...Springfield, Missouri.Is a beautiful place...but why is it so beautiful.Because my ancestors were the fertilizer.The deep dark history STILL haunts this region just as the #OklahomaMassacre#TheDevilsPunchBowl or the #PhiladelphiaBombing"If this land could speak, it would cough up blood first.…
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6in, 7in, 8in MARCH!!!LETS TALK ABOUT SEX BABY.Everybody is so scared of this subject.Not me.Alpha vs. Beta#NapoleonComplex Little Man Syndrome- discussions and conversations MUST be had.I've gotten too old and tired to play coy or scared.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support…
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Relationships Part II Millennial Parents: We’re The Grown-ups Now
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Part II. A Melaninated Woman raising a young Melaninated Man in Springfield, Missouri- a not so diverse place is a challenge within its self. Taking care of kids in #2024 IS NOT for the faint of heart with cell phones and the internet ruling as King. Hoodies and Attitude is what teenagers have to offer these days. The Mama/Daughter relationship is …
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Relationships: Roles & What I control Part I
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Part I| I am a Mother, Professional, and individual. I wear many hats in a day hints the name #TheJillofMOSTTrades. Do you know who you are? Acquiring #emotionalintelligence to better understand my value in my relationships is a necessity. I talk about my lessons and losses in my own journey to reparent myself and setting new boundaries, rather it’…
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When did you create your vices? Was it out of trauma? TELL THE TRUTH, SHAME THE DEVIL!!! Mine was created out of burnout which turned into coping. Operating at a higher frequency requires intentional work and #Selfcare: Acceptance Boundaries Communication and Discipline. This is spiritual warfare people! How are you arming yourself?--- Support this…
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How are you filling your cup up in 2024? What does healing and resetting look like for you? For me…I’ve had to focus on my mental health and what I am feeding to it. Are you praying/meditating daily? Exercising? Acquiring knowledge? Being creative? Working in your purpose/calling? As a single parent and Black professional in today’s society, I have…
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Welcome back! Welcome back! WELCOME BACK!!! This is your girl O’Brien aka OB aka O coming to you with Season 5 of The TEA and COGNAC Session. Kansas City raised, born in Springfield Missouri- with Tennessee roots- I AM the Jill of MOST Trades. Over the years I’ve talked a lot about Self-Care, Generational curses, and finding our purpose- and these …
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Sisterhood| Why ALL relationships are failing
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Welcome back to Season 4 of The TEA and COGNAC Session. I am your girl O'Brien aka OB aka O. Today we're talking about the "Blood Covenant"- The Blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb. Bonds of loyalty and choice are stronger than mere genetics. #GangGangGang #Clique #Squad So many quick to claim titles, but do you you even kno…
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A very uncomfortable subject is abuse...and the different types of it. Physical and Psychological have serious effects on ones well being #GasLighting #Projecting #SilentTreatment #Intimidation are all forms of abuse- tools used to control and manipulate ALL AGES. It is said emotional abuse can be the most damaging as it doesnt leave physical proof…
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BLACK WEALTH| Situational vs. Generational Poverty
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Do you know how much energy and efforts have been put into dismantling the Melaninated household?#GenerationalCurses #AmeriKKKasAgenda A whole agenda to break unity in the Black/Brown home. #GloriaSteinem #Journalist #CIAagent #Spook did a great job leading the #FeministMovement and tearing Black men from the family dynamic and ultimately destroyin…
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What's The Parents job?| Growing up Melaninated
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Were you allowed to have a voice as a little boy or girl? Seen but not heard was the standard for many decades. But if we couldn't "Express" yourself- how did that effect your self-image/self-worth? Are you a Tomboy or a boy that liked playing dress up? Did you grow up bullied, confused, or shamed? So many questions, but this is just another rabbit…
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It's summertime [2021] and it's time for shorts, skirts, and sundresses! BUT are you dressing classy or trashy? My good friend "E" hops on today's episode and tells us about a recent incident with a fellow Black man. EVERYBODY has an opinion, but should you really care how you're being viewed? In a time where everything is acceptable and cool- ther…
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Learning to fill my own cup back up!!! My steps to Disciplining MY LIFE...35 hit different. I guess that light bulb finally clicked on- feeling like I wanna act like I've learned a few things. 1. Know Thy Self- What do you believe in? [Faith vs. Morality vs. Religion] Protect your #Aura and #Energy 2. Diet and Exercise- You are what you eat. 3. Cre…
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The People vs. The United States of AmeriKKKa
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TODAYS HISTORY LESSON... so we can really talk about our triggers and traumas OH MY. AmeriKKKas legacy is the pain, destruction, and dysfunction created on this land. Why does AmeriKKKa hate the Melaninated ones? According to Prophecy we are the original people. And centuries of terror and violence against us has sent us to the "Sunken Place" menta…
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The Blue Print to AmeriKKKas Mental Health Trauma- Who do you THINK you are?
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Season 3 Episode 1 WELCOME BACK to a new season of The TEA and COGNAC Session. This is your girl O'Brien aka OB aka O. The Jill of MOST Trades. As we continue the journey of healing, I am still pulling back layers for my own growth. My Family and/or healthy social supports, My brands and/or financial security, and last, but not least my Self-Care a…
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This is your girl O'Brien aka OB aka O. Returning for Season 2! the love is so fake and the Hate is so REAL! YET I HERE I STAND. My mouth is COLD BLOODED and most don'tlike it. COVID-19 Pandemic, 2020 Politics, Personal Growths & Struggles, Healthy Social Supports, BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY Know they self. Build you up and FOCUS ON YOUR BRAND.--- Suppor…
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We've been discussing Self-Care A LOT. What did we learn??? Last year was rough. Lots of L's [Lessons & Losses] How are we moving forward this year? "I REFUSE TO BE UNHAPPY!" #All2020--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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Self-worth =value= Self-esteem. 80/20 Rules. Do you have confidence in your own abilities and worth? Have you created boundries and standards for yourself? Do you know that's it's ok to love yourself too? Choose you over the BS. You are worthy.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support…
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Tradition: passed down customs and beliefs. What if your legacy is a lie though? What are we really passing down??? Generational Curses.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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Trauma: deeply distressing or disturbing experience. PSTD is NOT a mental illness, but a psychological injury. Identify your triggers and where they originate from. Fight/Flight/Freeze is real!--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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Taking back your POWER. What does it mean? Power=control=influence. Don't dim your light so someone else doesn't feel threatened or insecure. FIND YOUR VOICE! Own your truth and claim no fear. "NO SACRIFICE, NO VICTORY" If it's worth it, then you'll fight for it. That's who I know I am.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh…
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Burn-out: a state of emotional & physical exhaustion caused by prolonged periods of stress and/or frustration= Depression=mood disorder. Is this normal? What are the side effects? Are you taking care of your mind, body, and soul? Its all about Self-Care.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support…
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Girl Code, Bro Code, Moral Code, Hoe Code- where's the honor amongst thieves??? Dating your ex's friend?😮 Its a new day, but we need old school rules back!--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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The "Single Parent" has become normal in the USA, but is it healthy? Statistics show a high divorce rate and broken system. How does it effect your family's power structure? Can you identify the impact it had in your upbringing? It definitely has significant roles in one's perspective. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh…
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We're supposed to struggle throughout our journey; relationships, self, and/or financial- but have you recognised when its become suffering? Recognize the difference and when to LET IT GO!--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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Dating in 2019 is serious business- not for the faint of heart. So what does a successful relationship look like to you? Are you living the "Love & Hip Hop" Life or you trying to have that "Love & Basketball" romance?--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support…
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255 mass shootings in the USA this year (2019). A Desensitized society and poor Leadership are to blame- my opinion only. To understand the current, we must acknowledge the past- inorder to move forward. We must relearn our history inorder to heal from it.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support…
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Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, and Disgust...all emotions...are you controlling them OR are they controlling you? What are your triggers? How are you managing yourself?--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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ANYBODY being Poisonous, Destructive, and/or Harmful to you and your well-being. What is lowering or raising your aura/vibration?--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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EPISODE 10 which topic we covering cause all sh#t has hit the fan. From Ayesha's disrespect to Red Sox organization disloyalty. Politics have lost their entire mind. Aint nobody else wigging out witnessing this tomfoolery?! My opinion only but nothing is coincidence.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/su…
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Reciting passage from Marianne Williamson 1992 "A Return To Love" {Commonly misattributed to Mandela's 1994 Inaugural Address} We Soldiers...NO FEAR!--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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My side-their side-and the TRUTH. Good, Bad, and the Ugly... Honesty with Self and LOVING YOU FIRST must be priority.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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Ep 7 Confidence vs. Arrogance vs. Insecurities...do you know the difference??? Which energy are you operating under?--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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Do you know the difference between reacting and responding? What are you giving your energy to? Talking to the homie Tashina (Nik) and she gave me her thoughts.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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It's that time of year...are you making smart money moves or just throwing away opportunity? Let make better choices and stop operating from negative spaces.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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Nichelle (MySizeLove) dropping some knowledge on Faith--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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Today's episode is talking about mental illness-symptons of it, how it's interfering with effective communication in both professional and intimate relationships. Are you a Taker or a Giver? How are you managing your crazy?--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support…
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It's Hump Day and making sure we keep the mental in shape, just as well as the physical is the topic. Have you prepared for your day before stepping out into the world? How are you balancing your day to day responsibilities? Listen....and ask yourself...Did I declare todays intent? Tune in...--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/…
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Intro to O'Brien St James Daniels--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/obrien-daniels/support
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